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dominique:
You cheated on Jordin Sparks, a lady that loved you with all her heart, body and soul. You claimed she was pressuring you for marriage. She has gone on to marry someone else and put her career on the backseat to dedicate her time to her family. That could have been you Jason. That true love you're looking for will continue to elude you.

Both they say women don't love without a condition. You are not in Jordin Sparks heart to know what her mind is made up of. To assumed she loves him unconditional is something you are not the person to know. Abi you be mind reader ?

He has a child. He’ll start any relationship at 1 - 0. Now, he’ll see how brutal women are. Sha, he’s attractive. Ugly men receive the brunt of women’s ruthlessness.

SarcasticWords:
A sad but truthful nature of women perfectly explained.

To the married man reading this, yes, your fear and worry isnt just paranoia.

That lovely wife of yours will cheat the moment the perfect opportunity presents itself. (That is if she hasnt already cheated 😉)

And for those of you whose wives own toys, she has cheated on you mentally, because whenever she makes use of those toys, she imagines someone (Definitely not you) going into her. Very soon the cheating will manifest itself physically.

Kpele!

projection.

Jason Derulo has issues of his own. More than the women in question. What do you expect from someone that glorifies cheating in his songs?

Girl, tell me whatcha say, I
I don't want you to leave me
Though you caught me cheatin'
Tell me, tell me whatcha say, I
I really need you in my life
'Cause things ain't right, girl

A cheat assumes everyone else cheats. Faithful partners are betrayed with this very thought pattern (projection). They are deliberately cheated upon because the insecure partner fears being the one to be first cheated upon.

Cheat in song. Cheat in real life. Or vice versa.

Leave Jason Derulo abeg. E dey in body!

I'm 38 and one of the neatest and most handsome human beings to ever walk this earth but guess what? I'm still single with no kids.

I'll definitely worship any woman I marry but i keep meeting coded hoes and leeches(Money hungry and money minded women)

You see,in this messed up generation,we still have decent men and women but they keep missing each other.

We have decent and well behaved women who are multi millionaires in dollars in nigeria waiting for their God destined husband and we got decent and well behaved men who are multi millionaires in dollars waiting for their God destined wives but they keep meeting nonsense.

SarcasticWords:
A sad but truthful nature of women perfectly explained.

To the married man reading this, yes, your fear and worry isnt just paranoia.

That lovely wife of yours will cheat the moment the perfect opportunity presents itself. (That is if she hasnt already cheated 😉)

And for those of you whose wives own toys, she has cheated on you mentally, because whenever she makes use of those toys, she imagines someone (Definitely not you) going into her. Very soon the cheating will manifest itself physically.

Kpele!

Women bla bla bla. Don't men also cheat?

folake4u:
Get him! 😂😂😂

I lie? Instead of him to humble himself and allow a woman be his wife, he is busy sampling different women. Now that he is expired goods with his wrinkled and saggy balls, he is now lamenting about bachelorhood.

Ishilove:
I lie? Instead of him to humble himself and allow a woman be his wife, he is busy sampling different women. Now that he is expired goods with his wrinkled and saggy balls, he is now lamenting about bachelorhood.

You didn't lie at all.

Na correct evening newspaper. 😂😂

dominique:
You cheated on Jordin Sparks, a lady that loved you with all her heart, body and soul. You claimed she was pressuring you for marriage. She has gone on to marry someone else and put her career on the backseat to dedicate her time to her family. That could have been you Jason. That true love you're looking for will continue to elude you.

You be God to know she loved him with ALL HER HEART, BODY AND SOUL??

MTCHEW!!!

dominique:
You cheated on Jordin Sparks, a lady that loved you with all her heart, body and soul. You claimed she was pressuring you for marriage. She has gone on to marry someone else and put her career on the backseat to dedicate her time to her family. That could have been you Jason. That true love you're looking for will continue to elude you.

Thank you for this.
I say ahnahn, no be Jason be this?
E never even start. See him see 45yrs. 😈

GloriousGbola:

😌😌😌

FitCorper:
This is proof that as a man you need to work on yourself, else no woman go reason u for marriage material.

Who gains more in marriage?


Continue trying to impress women oooh. I wish you good luck.

Hhh4444:
no worry,life Go teach you...all these pastors when their marriage don crash no embrace God abi? Continue playing.

We are marking 17th anniversary of our marriage this April, and is still getting better by God's grace.

SarcasticWords:
Source : https://dailypost.ng/2026/03/28/i-never-thought-id-be-single-at-37-jason-derulo/

I will be 30 in a months time and I am still single with no hope of when to even marry.
I remembered those days in the university, I planned my life so well
I did NYSC at 23
Dreamt of getting a job at 24, work for like 3yrs. Acquire a car and landed properties and then get married by 28
As job nor come by 24, everything scatter
Now almost 30, car I nor get
Landed properties zero
Marry I never marry

The best thing I will do for my kids is never to bring them up in this Godforsaken country. I better remain single than bear children here. It's pure wickedness to watch you kids go through what you went through

pman06:
Let's just hope they haven't chattered his heave while at it

😂 😂 😂

You are looking for a stable marriage from someone you met in a club How is that even possible.

Ishilove:
Evening newspaper

There's nothing evening about him. I know if he becomes 80 years old, he can still impregnate any willing woman or girl.

All I see, is Jason letting his insecurities get the best of him. All what he stated is him, allowing the failure of other people's marriage get to him, thus making him make decision that put him where he is now. So, is he lamenting, nope, he's just stating it, the way it is.

Na only puna I need

Fearyourcreator:
On top person matter you dey para like this... The niggar is doing very fine ooo , dropping hits Everytime. I love Jordin a lot too ... I don't really know what happened between them truly but everybody will be alright laslas

Oh? Haven't heard a hit from him in 2 years to be honest and I've been waiting, guy is a crypto podcast bro these days 🤔

Fuk up rightspend all Ur time on highlife life is Too short

enemyofprogress:
Just like me. Women broke my earth especially married women. I'm now on nairaland searching for true love.

Women broke your heart or earth?
How did they break your earth when you are on earth?

FitCorper:
This is proof that as a man you need to work on yourself, else no woman go reason u for marriage material.

What did you mean by workonyoursef

elyonchee:
Women broke your heart or earth?
How did they break your earth when you are on earth?

my sister, they really broke my earth o. If I tell you wetin my eyes don see for women's hand because of love, you go pity me. My earth has been broken so many times by women especially married women.

MissOpe:
How can you find true love when you are an enemy of progress

lmao 😂, that's harsh

dahmie2013:
Serves him right. Jordin Sparks loved him very much, but he chose to cheat on her. I'm glad she moved on. But no woman will love you like she did.
Chris Brown wannabe...

Hope Jordin is married and got children now

Absolutely! Used to be one of my favorite from him. I'm glad you enjoyed it though.

TechBaron:
I just listened to it.

Great song too!

pcagbaji:
What did you mean by workonyoursef

Good question. I mean upgrade yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and materially.

untoldtruth:
Oh? Haven't heard a hit from him in 2 years to be honest and I've been waiting, guy is a crypto podcast bro these days 🤔

I guess you are just being bitter now

Oh that's surprising though... Congratulations on your final decision to resort to Nairaland in search of your true love and I hope you find as many.

enemyofprogress:
Just like me. Women broke my earth especially married women. I'm now on nairaland searching for true love.

PissInside:
I'm 38 and one of the neatest and most handsome human beings to ever walk this earth but guess what? I'm still single with no kids.

I'll definitely worship any woman I marry but i keep meeting coded hoes and leeches(Money hungry and money minded women)

You see,in this messed up generation,we still have decent men and women but they keep missing each other.

We have decent and well behaved women who are multi millionaires in dollars in nigeria waiting for their God destined husband and we got decent and well behaved men who are multi millionaires in dollars waiting for their God destined wives but they keep meeting nonsense.

God will settle you very soon and give you,your own wife keep believing in him ,what God cannot do does not exist,connect to NSPPD every morning by 7am ,thank you and God bless you

chidifrank:
Both they say women don't love without a condition. You are not in Jordin Sparks heart to know what her mind is made up of. To assumed she loves him unconditional is something you are not the person to know. Abi you be mind reader ?

She really loved him, the break-up pained her and he moved on pretty quickly. They were one of the "it" couples of the he 2010s when I was very much into pop culture and I was hoping they would tie the knot.

pocohantas:
Thank you for this.
I say ahnahn, no be Jason be this?
E never even start. See him see 45yrs. 😈

He never seen anything. Na you cheat, na you break up, na you run your mouth that she wanted to force you to marry her as if healthy relationships are not supposed to lead to marriage now he's looking for true love. That true love will jump and pass him for the next 700 years

untoldtruth:
Oh? Haven't heard a hit from him in 2 years to be honest and I've been waiting, guy is a crypto podcast bro these days 🤔

Na you Sabi hit wey you dey find oooo. Niggar dropping nice songs people vibing too,

lailo:
There is nothing wrong with marriage. It is people who are trying to modify it. Especially the feminists who pretend to like it only to deceive the man into it and after having kids, they walk away and also demand for the man's wealth they never work for.
If two people who cherish the idea of marriage go into it, it will last.
Most partners in marriage dont like the idea, especially women, they want to eat their cake and have it.
Let me be Frank with u. Women dont like the idea of marriage. They know it is only in marriage they can see someone who will take over their responsibilities from their parents, they are lazy and love free stuffs. Only men love the idea of marriage.

Just say your wife doesn't like the idea of marriage, instead of generalising about women, btw stop putting that woman in bondage, go to court and file for a divorce and be free,marriage is not by force like you claimed...