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Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

Don't marry singly or mainlyon what he/she exhibits within the context of religion.

Marry a grateful person.

oz4real83:
All the money you weren't making while you were single, you will suddenly start making them but you won't see them because they have all gone into family expenses 😁😁🤣🤣. You will only know you made big money by calculating your expenses within a particular period🤣🤣🤣. You will keep telling yourself that if you had made such money when you were still single, when your expenses weren't as they are now, maybe you would have even owned a private jet by now🤣🤣🤣. May God bless our marriages

I have said this several. 😂😂😂

Hmmm... But which do you prioritise between the 2? Just to comfirm if you really do understand Pastors' advice.

SpencerForbes:
We’ve seen this format before. It’s exactly what the typical Nigerian pastor tells his followers right before he goes off to marry a beauty queen. Sometimes beauty and brains can be found in one but the percentage is very low.

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Don't marry at all it's not worth it at all

The joy of marriage comes from share goals and not from the other room, money or social approval.

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

First and foremost, the person you are dating currently that meets all your expectations won't be the same person when you finally get married .. if you don't get it leave me be.

Flexyup:
A I description of marriage will be so sweet to read

However, from what I've heard over the years, the sweetness or bitterness of a marriage lies heavily on the shoulder of the type of person you marry.

pook:
How do I get cocoanut head?

Start by eating coconut together with its husk🤣🤣

Marriage will reduce your life span

WiseBizInvestor:
Hmmm... But which do you prioritise between the 2? Just to comfirm if you really do understand Pastors' advice.

Character over everything. Too much "brain" in a woman these days just leads to feminism—covert or overt. They start forming "equal rights" and giving you unnecessary rules. The very beautiful ones are another headache; they feel they are too Behind for stress because they know options plenty.

Give me a woman with average looks and 100% respect/loyalty. That’s the real peace of mind.

Avoid friends.

Bye

Marry the person both of you have the same sex drive or libidos because it will affect you and at a point it can issues in the marriage. Also know that being married doesn't guarantee u won't be sex starved, a lot of singles have sex in a month more than marriage ones. you can go for 3 months without sex especially if ur partner doesn't like sex like you do or during childbirth.

Shalom

Dem no dey chop love for marriage
Marry who wan marry you
No enticed anybody to marry you

Don't marry a slay queen. Beauty and appearance can be so deceptive. Marry someone who has something tangible doing not a liability, hence you will shoulder all responsibilities at home. Such can be draining and so frustrating

Don't ever give up your dreams because of marriage. Always put yourself first. Your wife and children may abandon you, but you can't abandon yourself. Do everything you can do build yourself up. Seek continues growth in all aspect of your life. Don't tolerate toxic relationships or home. It will drain and distract you from your purpose and dreams.
Talking from experience.

geoworldedu:
My penis has always been hard for her sha. Maybe this thing is not general.

How many years have you been together?

tunjijones:
How many years have you been together?

More than 5 years

JooEeL:
See this one deceiving himself. Set awon "my wife is different".

No worry, u go cry

just because the entire men in your generation have a long history of being LOCKED to horrible and horrific wives and women doesn't make it applicable to every other man in the world. Not everyone shares from your bitter pot of misfortune and misery. Let that cry continue to echo through your generation.

You grew up to witness how horrible, nasty and devilish your mother was to your father and this has made your brain to automatically accept that any man who says HIS WIFE IS GOOD TO HIM is DECEIVING himself. Your reality can never accept such good testimony that some men have good women but how is that my problem? Our realities must not be the same so shed your tears forever with your brothers, cousins and uncles.

Afolue:
God has a way of doing his things when it comes to that. He is correct. It works. The moment you have more mouth to feed, you expand economically/financially. It’s a divine rule

Na this kind mindset dey make Average Nigerians overbreed without considering finances. I have a lot to say but make I leave am here.

Without sacrifice, there will never be results.

Leave your egos at the door.

Do not tell anyone else about what you don't like about your partner.

Violence is a no-no. The moment someone hits someone, they see that person as lower than them.

Gotocourt:
Am not married but billing billing go finish, it gets worse with a lazy partner. Wives have run down several businesses opened by their husbands.

When you take up additional responsibilities, a wife, a child or children you no go spend?
What are you capping.....?

In my next life, I won't marry you already know my reasons...

AllBlack:
just because the entire men in your generation have a long history of being LOCKED to horrible and horrific wives and women doesn't make it applicable to every other man in the world. Not everyone shares from your bitter pot of misfortune and misery. Let that cry continue to echo through your generation.

You grew up to witness how horrible, nasty and devilish your mother was to your father and this has made your brain to automatically accept that any man who says HIS WIFE IS GOOD TO HIM is DECEIVING himself. Your reality can never accept such good testimony that some men have good women but how is that my problem? Our realities must not be the same so shed your tears forever with your brothers, cousins and uncles.

U go explain tire.

KayaMaghan:
Wow!
I think you are the first person to make me really feel like marrying right can be a blessing. "God I thank you oh" definitely means you feel lucky to marry your partner.
I will love to listen to your advice, if you won't mind.
I am 35 now, and I am already feeling like, I do not want to get married ever. But I will love to listen to you.

you ever heard that phrase, MISERY LOVES COMPANY? You will see loads of bashful comments but when you read between the lines, see through them, you will start to see SIMILAR PATTERNS about the guys posting such. be very careful.

How many of the people whose comment are in contrast to mine are even married? Most of them are actual kids who reflect their childish relationships into comments. Are we not in a society where you see grown up men saying SCHOOL NA SCAM? Such men turn around to give opinion about marriage and you wouldn't even know? Many of them are only sleeping in the beds they laid for themselves. Yes! It is true that there are bad women here and there but I happen to be so fortunate but a large part of this fortune (or misfortune) depends on YOU, the man.

Make I no talk too much. A phone call would have been better but I am a busy person.

JooEeL:
U go explain tire.

You are a child and I this is exactly what I expected from you. You didn't disappoint me at all.

I would have been shocked if you said anything intelligent but YOU CAN NEVER EVER GIVE WHAT YOU DO NOT HAVE.

PAQ:
Marriage is a self imposed prison. Ur wife is your prison warder, wedding rings ae the shackles binding you to the prison, your home becomes your cell. The days you want to escape to go hang out with the guys becomes prison break, you become Micheal Scofield cos you are gonna be breaking out of prison alot often... Then when you get back you receive your punishment.... Your offence for all this, falling in LOVE

Hardened criminals of LOVE stay in longer, some, for life, the casual ones get to bail out quicker but not without a large fine.

I am a prisoner of LOVE!

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Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

After a few years of Marriage, you will start getting less sex , the moment a child comes , you will start begging for it and once the second child comes it stop totally.
That's why many married men are promiscuous, not because they don't love their wives but because they are no longer getting sex as they should
If you are up to it , don't restrict yourself to one woman, marry multiple women if you can

Make plenty of money, and master the art of apologizing even when you’re right. One day, you’ll thank me.

biaframaster200:
Marriage is a scam... it is meant to exploit your weak partner... as soon as the relationship starts... both are going to test each other's strengths and weaknesses in order to know the stronger and the weaker... and once the weaker one has been determined during courtship or the relationship, then follows the exploitation... and the weaker or prey in the marriage is not about the gender... it is about capacity, and this is why some ladies or guys also add juju to make their partner weaker, and when this has been established... exploitation begins till the death of the weaker partner's part...

So marriage is a scam...preferably get a baby mama and pay her for childcare. It's safer, cheaper, and wiser... You will not witness all the excesses that some of these married couples are going through but refuse to voice out.

In your developed world, right?