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Rights Of Children In Islam! by AbuTwins(op): 10:36am On Apr 10
Hadith (Narrated by ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Umar):
"Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The ruler who is in charge of people is a shepherd and is responsible for them. The man is the shepherd of his household and is responsible for them. The woman is the shepherd of her husband’s house and child and is responsible for them. The slave is the shepherd of his master’s wealth and is responsible for it. Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock." — Narrated by al-Bukhari, 2416; Muslim, 1829


Islam recognizes that children have significant rights over their parents, just as parents have rights over their children. This mutual responsibility is emphasized in both the Qur’an and authentic Prophetic traditions (hadith).

1. Foundational Principle: Mutual Rights Between Parents and Children
*Qur’anic Basis: Allah calls the righteous (abrar) those who honor their parents and children.
*Prophetic Teaching: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) explicitly stated that children have rights over their parents, highlighting the importance of fulfilling these rights.

2. Rights of Children Before Birth
Choosing a Righteous Mother

Parents, especially fathers, have the responsibility to choose a righteous and religiously committed wife to ensure a good upbringing for the child.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised marrying for religious commitment over wealth, lineage, or beauty.
Compatibility and good lineage are recommended to promote harmony and avoid negative traits being passed on.
3. Rights of Children After Birth
a) Tahnik (Softening the Child’s Mouth)

It is Sunnah (recommended) to perform tahnik by placing softened dates in the newborn’s mouth.
This practice was done by the Prophet (peace be upon him) himself and is considered a blessing.
b) Naming the Child

Giving a good and meaningful name is important.
Names like ‘Abd-Allah and ‘Abd al-Rahman are beloved to Allah.
Naming on the seventh day is Sunnah, but naming on the day of birth is also permissible.
Naming after Prophets is encouraged.
c) Shaving the Head and Charity

On the seventh day, it is Sunnah to shave the child’s head.
The weight of the hair in silver should be given as charity.
This act symbolizes purification and gratitude.
d) ‘Aqiqah (Sacrificial Offering)

The father is encouraged to perform ‘aqiqah by sacrificing animals.
Two sheep for a boy, one for a girl.
This is a form of gratitude and celebration of the child’s birth.
e) Circumcision

Circumcision is part of the natural fitrah (innate disposition) and is recommended for cleanliness and religious reasons.
It is one of the five practices that fit within the natural state of a Muslim.
4. Rights Regarding Education and Upbringing
a) Teaching Islam and Good Morals

Parents are shepherds responsible for their children’s guidance.
They must teach children Islamic creed (aqidah), acts of worship (especially prayer), and good manners.
Education should be gradual, starting with the most important religious duties.
b) Teaching Prayer and Discipline

Children should be taught to pray by age seven.
Light discipline (smacking) is permitted if they neglect prayer by age ten.
This emphasizes the importance of early religious education.
c) Fasting and Other Religious Practices

Children are gradually introduced to fasting, as exemplified by the Prophet’s community.
Toys or distractions were used to help children fast without distress.
d) Training in Good Manners and Characteristics

Parents must instill good behavior towards Allah, the Prophet, the Quran, the Muslim community, neighbors, and friends.
Proper social conduct and respect for others’ rights are essential parts of upbringing.
Islam places great emphasis on the rights of children, starting even before birth and continuing through their upbringing. These rights encompass physical care, spiritual education, moral training, and social development. Parents are entrusted with the sacred responsibility to nurture their children in a balanced way that fulfills both their worldly and spiritual needs, ensuring they grow into righteous and responsible individuals. May Allah bless our children and make them a source of solace for us in this world and in the next! Aamin.


https://islamqa.info/en/answers/20064/rights-of-children-in-islam
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DMCA: 12:15pm On Apr 10
So una dey talk say almajiri get rights?
I think say dem must do wetin mallam tell dem cool
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by yommen: 12:16pm On Apr 10
Hmmmmm!!! By their fruits, you shall really know!!!
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by gloryman91(m): 12:22pm On Apr 10
Mon Shaa Allah.
Barakallahu fih Kum.

Well understood for the pure hearts.

Islam the Best.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by Watcharena: 12:38pm On Apr 10
DMCA:
So una dey talk say almajiri get rights?
I think say dem must do wetin mallam tell dem cool
if the northerns are to follow the teaching of islam correctly,the problems they have currently they won't have them
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by Gabrielshow26: 12:45pm On Apr 10
Watcharena:
if the northerns are to follow the teaching of islam correctly,the problems they have currently they won't have them
"correctly"? huh Are we missing something? So these are not your brothers-in-Lah? 🤨

Pls, tell us another lie.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by timibare(m): 12:49pm On Apr 10
If dem bring out some points from that same hadiths now..... y'all won't agree oh smh
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by Mraaz88: 12:53pm On Apr 10
Kettle calling the pot black
Watcharena:
if the northerns are to follow the teaching of islam correctly,the problems they have currently they won't have them
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by TenQ: 12:54pm On Apr 10
AbuTwins:
[size=12pt][font=Lucida Sans Unicode]Hadith (Narrated by ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Umar):
"Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. .....
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[color=#000099]c) Shaving the Head and Charity


On the seventh day, it is Sunnah to shave the child’s head.
The weight of the hair in silver should be given as charity.
This act symbolizes purification and gratitude.
d) ‘Aqiqah (Sacrificial Offering)

The father is encouraged to perform ‘aqiqah by sacrificing animals.
Two sheep for a boy, one for a girl.

This is a form of gratitude and celebration of the child’s birth.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/20064/rights-of-children-in-islam
I will like to know
1. What does Sacrifice mean in Islam?
2. Who do you sacrifice to?
3. What is the sacrifice for?
4. Why do you sacrifice Life in Islam?

Four questions: What, Who, Purpose, Why

In contrast:
Sacrifice in Christianity is giving up to God something that belongs to you
“In the Torah, God commanded sacrifices such as burnt offerings for worship, sin offerings for atonement, and peace offerings for fellowship showing that sin requires the shedding of blood. However, these sacrifices were temporary and had to be repeated. Christianity teaches that this system was fulfilled in Jesus Christ, who is the perfect and final sacrifice. Instead of humans continually offering animals, God provided the sacrifice Himself, once and for all, so that forgiveness is given to those who place their faith in Him.”


So, will the knowledgeable Muslims answer these four questions. Support with Hadiths and Qur'an verses will be appreciated.

Thanks
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by mamawin(f): 1:03pm On Apr 10
AbuTwins:
Hadith (Narrated by ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Umar):
"Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The ruler who is in charge of people is a shepherd and is responsible for them. The man is the shepherd of his household and is responsible for them. The woman is the shepherd of her husband’s house and child and is responsible for them. The slave is the shepherd of his master’s wealth and is responsible for it. Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock." — Narrated by al-Bukhari, 2416; Muslim, 1829


Islam recognizes that children have significant rights over their parents, just as parents have rights over their children. This mutual responsibility is emphasized in both the Qur’an and authentic Prophetic traditions (hadith).

1. Foundational Principle: Mutual Rights Between Parents and Children
*Qur’anic Basis: Allah calls the righteous (abrar) those who honor their parents and children.
*Prophetic Teaching: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) explicitly stated that children have rights over their parents, highlighting the importance of fulfilling these rights.

2. Rights of Children Before Birth
Choosing a Righteous Mother

Parents, especially fathers, have the responsibility to choose a righteous and religiously committed wife to ensure a good upbringing for the child.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised marrying for religious commitment over wealth, lineage, or beauty.
Compatibility and good lineage are recommended to promote harmony and avoid negative traits being passed on.
3. Rights of Children After Birth
a) Tahnik (Softening the Child’s Mouth)

It is Sunnah (recommended) to perform tahnik by placing softened dates in the newborn’s mouth.
This practice was done by the Prophet (peace be upon him) himself and is considered a blessing.
b) Naming the Child

Giving a good and meaningful name is important.
Names like ‘Abd-Allah and ‘Abd al-Rahman are beloved to Allah.
Naming on the seventh day is Sunnah, but naming on the day of birth is also permissible.
Naming after Prophets is encouraged.
c) Shaving the Head and Charity

On the seventh day, it is Sunnah to shave the child’s head.
The weight of the hair in silver should be given as charity.
This act symbolizes purification and gratitude.
d) ‘Aqiqah (Sacrificial Offering)

The father is encouraged to perform ‘aqiqah by sacrificing animals.
Two sheep for a boy, one for a girl.
This is a form of gratitude and celebration of the child’s birth.
e) Circumcision

Circumcision is part of the natural fitrah (innate disposition) and is recommended for cleanliness and religious reasons.
It is one of the five practices that fit within the natural state of a Muslim.
4. Rights Regarding Education and Upbringing
a) Teaching Islam and Good Morals

Parents are shepherds responsible for their children’s guidance.
They must teach children Islamic creed (aqidah), acts of worship (especially prayer), and good manners.
Education should be gradual, starting with the most important religious duties.
b) Teaching Prayer and Discipline

Children should be taught to pray by age seven.
Light discipline (smacking) is permitted if they neglect prayer by age ten.
This emphasizes the importance of early religious education.
c) Fasting and Other Religious Practices

Children are gradually introduced to fasting, as exemplified by the Prophet’s community.
Toys or distractions were used to help children fast without distress.
d) Training in Good Manners and Characteristics

Parents must instill good behavior towards Allah, the Prophet, the Quran, the Muslim community, neighbors, and friends.
Proper social conduct and respect for others’ rights are essential parts of upbringing.
Islam places great emphasis on the rights of children, starting even before birth and continuing through their upbringing. These rights encompass physical care, spiritual education, moral training, and social development. Parents are entrusted with the sacred responsibility to nurture their children in a balanced way that fulfills both their worldly and spiritual needs, ensuring they grow into righteous and responsible individuals. May Allah bless our children and make them a source of solace for us in this world and in the next! Aamin.


https://islamqa.info/en/answers/20064/rights-of-children-in-islam
JazakhaLlahu khairan, May Allaah increase you in wisdom
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:05pm On Apr 10
AbuTwins:
Hadith (Narrated by ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Umar):
"Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The ruler who is in charge of people is a shepherd and is responsible for them. The man is the shepherd of his household and is responsible for them. The woman is the shepherd of her husband’s house and child and is responsible for them. The slave is the shepherd of his master’s wealth and is responsible for it. Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock." — Narrated by al-Bukhari, 2416; Muslim, 1829


Islam recognizes that children have significant rights over their parents, just as parents have rights over their children. This mutual responsibility is emphasized in both the Qur’an and authentic Prophetic traditions (hadith).

1. Foundational Principle: Mutual Rights Between Parents and Children
*Qur’anic Basis: Allah calls the righteous (abrar) those who honor their parents and children.
*Prophetic Teaching: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) explicitly stated that children have rights over their parents, highlighting the importance of fulfilling these rights.

2. Rights of Children Before Birth
Choosing a Righteous Mother

Parents, especially fathers, have the responsibility to choose a righteous and religiously committed wife to ensure a good upbringing for the child.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised marrying for religious commitment over wealth, lineage, or beauty.
Compatibility and good lineage are recommended to promote harmony and avoid negative traits being passed on.
3. Rights of Children After Birth
a) Tahnik (Softening the Child’s Mouth)

It is Sunnah (recommended) to perform tahnik by placing softened dates in the newborn’s mouth.
This practice was done by the Prophet (peace be upon him) himself and is considered a blessing.
b) Naming the Child

Giving a good and meaningful name is important.
Names like ‘Abd-Allah and ‘Abd al-Rahman are beloved to Allah.
Naming on the seventh day is Sunnah, but naming on the day of birth is also permissible.
Naming after Prophets is encouraged.
c) Shaving the Head and Charity

On the seventh day, it is Sunnah to shave the child’s head.
The weight of the hair in silver should be given as charity.
This act symbolizes purification and gratitude.
d) ‘Aqiqah (Sacrificial Offering)

The father is encouraged to perform ‘aqiqah by sacrificing animals.
Two sheep for a boy, one for a girl.
This is a form of gratitude and celebration of the child’s birth.
e) Circumcision

Circumcision is part of the natural fitrah (innate disposition) and is recommended for cleanliness and religious reasons.
It is one of the five practices that fit within the natural state of a Muslim.
4. Rights Regarding Education and Upbringing
a) Teaching Islam and Good Morals

Parents are shepherds responsible for their children’s guidance.
They must teach children Islamic creed (aqidah), acts of worship (especially prayer), and good manners.
Education should be gradual, starting with the most important religious duties.
b) Teaching Prayer and Discipline

Children should be taught to pray by age seven.
Light discipline (smacking) is permitted if they neglect prayer by age ten.
This emphasizes the importance of early religious education.
c) Fasting and Other Religious Practices

Children are gradually introduced to fasting, as exemplified by the Prophet’s community.
Toys or distractions were used to help children fast without distress.
d) Training in Good Manners and Characteristics

Parents must instill good behavior towards Allah, the Prophet, the Quran, the Muslim community, neighbors, and friends.
Proper social conduct and respect for others’ rights are essential parts of upbringing.
Islam places great emphasis on the rights of children, starting even before birth and continuing through their upbringing. These rights encompass physical care, spiritual education, moral training, and social development. Parents are entrusted with the sacred responsibility to nurture their children in a balanced way that fulfills both their worldly and spiritual needs, ensuring they grow into righteous and responsible individuals. May Allah bless our children and make them a source of solace for us in this world and in the next! Aamin.


https://islamqa.info/en/answers/20064/rights-of-children-in-islam
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What about the rights of little girls not to be forced into child marriage with aged men?
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:06pm On Apr 10
TenQ:
I will like to know
1. What does Sacrifice mean in Islam?
2. Who do you sacrifice to?
3. What is the sacrifice for?
4. Why do you sacrifice Life in Islam?

Four questions: What, Who, Purpose, Why

In contrast:
Sacrifice in Christianity is giving up to God something that belongs to you
“In the Torah, God commanded sacrifices such as burnt offerings for worship, sin offerings for atonement, and peace offerings for fellowship showing that sin requires the shedding of blood. However, these sacrifices were temporary and had to be repeated. Christianity teaches that this system was fulfilled in Jesus Christ, who is the perfect and final sacrifice. Instead of humans continually offering animals, God provided the sacrifice Himself, once and for all, so that forgiveness is given to those who place their faith in Him.”


So, will the knowledgeable Muslims answer these four questions. Support with Hadiths and Qur'an verses will be appreciated.

Thanks
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Your Yahweh also commanded Abram to kill his son as a sacrifice to him. What sort of barbaric and demonic command is that.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by TenQ: 1:11pm On Apr 10
DeepSight:
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Your Yahweh also commanded Abram to kill his son as a sacrifice to him. What sort of barbaric and demonic command is that.
What is death to you?

To my God, Death is homecoming back to the Source of Life.
If the owner of life recalls you back to Himself, is it barbaric?

Do you think you are also barbaric because you have in your life killed millions?
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by BlackfireX: 1:12pm On Apr 10
Think on this ....picture this in your mind


1.A child of 6 years married to a 52 years old man,at 9 years old this old grand pa f****k her silly
Does that child has a right from the start

2. You went to your own son house by commission or omission you saw your daughter in law nak****dress... you collected your son's wife and disowned your Son

3.You invaded a community that did not attack you ...and kill all the adults they young girls that are pre pubescent 3 years to 14 years ...you raped them and marry them


4.You can marry a pre pubescent girl and divorce her.



Let me stop here

I dare any top Muslim debaters to ask me for the evidence in the Quran and hadiths.... I dare you
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by ibtommy(m): 1:15pm On Apr 10
Good! That is good! That is good! E mura si
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by BlackfireX: 1:16pm On Apr 10
TenQ:
What is death to you?

To my God, Death is homecoming back to the Source of Life.
If the owner of life recalls you back to Himself, is it barbaric?

Do you think you are also barbaric because you have in your life killed millions?
You should have asked him ....which of the sons?

Allah mixed up alot of things
grin
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by daddio(m): 1:19pm On Apr 10
DeepSight:
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Your Yahweh also commanded Abram to kill his son as a sacrifice to him. What sort of barbaric and demonic command is that.
He used that to test Abraham's faith after which he provided a ram for him for the sacrifice.
Did Rasol missed that part while copying bible's contents?.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:21pm On Apr 10
daddio:
He used that to test Abraham's faith after which he provided a ram for him for the sacrifice.
Did Rasol missed that part while copying bible's contents?.
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That is recorded in the Bible and it still remains a barbaric, pagan and demonic request.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:23pm On Apr 10
BlackfireX:
Think on this ....picture this in your mind


1.A child of 6 years married to a 52 years old man,at 9 years old this old grand pa f****k her silly
Does that child has a right from the start

2. You went to your own son house by commission or omission you saw your daughter in law nak****dress... you collected your son's wife and disowned your Son

3.You invaded a community that did not attack you ...and kill all the adults they young girls that are pre pubescent 3 years to 14 years ...you raped them and marry them


4.You can marry a pre pubescent girl and divorce her.



Let me stop here

I dare any top Muslim debaters to ask me for the evidence in the Quran and hadiths.... I dare you
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All of these are confirmed Islamic facts and teaching.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by BlackfireX: 1:23pm On Apr 10
TenQ:
I will like to know
1. What does Sacrifice mean in Islam?
2. Who do you sacrifice to?
3. What is the sacrifice for?
4. Why do you sacrifice Life in Islam?

Four questions: What, Who, Purpose, Why

In contrast:
Sacrifice in Christianity is giving up to God something that belongs to you
“In the Torah, God commanded sacrifices such as burnt offerings for worship, sin offerings for atonement, and peace offerings for fellowship showing that sin requires the shedding of blood. However, these sacrifices were temporary and had to be repeated. Christianity teaches that this system was fulfilled in Jesus Christ, who is the perfect and final sacrifice. Instead of humans continually offering animals, God provided the sacrifice Himself, once and for all, so that forgiveness is given to those who place their faith in Him.”


So, will the knowledgeable Muslims answer these four questions. Support with Hadiths and Qur'an verses will be appreciated.

Thanks
You dey look for trouble...who go answer you...

Ordinary who wrote the Quran ? No answer
Who pays for your sins? No response
Allah has a colour? No answer
Allah has an Allah? No answer
Who is Allah? No response
Allah committed the 1st shirk? No response
Where is shahada in the quran ? Problem
Quranic miracle? No evidence
Proof that Jesus is a Muslim? Insults
Jesus bow down , to whom his father , is Allah a father? No

Ok let's wait for response
All those who are reporting me and hacking my line... continue



Back to the topic .....
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:23pm On Apr 10
TenQ:
What is death to you?

To my God, Death is homecoming back to the Source of Life.
If the owner of life recalls you back to Himself, is it barbaric?

Do you think you are also barbaric because you have in your life killed millions?
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So you think it's alright to ask a parent to kill his child?
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by daddio(m): 1:24pm On Apr 10
DeepSight:
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That is recorded in the Bible and it still remains a barbaric, pagan and demonic request.
But the evils in the Kuran and hadiths are not barbaric, pagan and demonic requests.

Thank you.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by BlackfireX: 1:25pm On Apr 10
DeepSight:
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All of these are confirmed Islamic facts and teaching.
Please focus

What are you trying to say?
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by BlackfireX: 1:28pm On Apr 10
mamawin:
JazakhaLlahu khairan, May Allaah increase you in wisdom
Can you tell me 1 good thing about Islam that is so spectacular and wonderful?


Please just 1 not 2 or 3

Just 1
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:33pm On Apr 10
BlackfireX:
Please focus

What are you trying to say?
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That such teachings are barbaric.
Re: Rights Of Children In Islam! by DeepSight(m): 1:33pm On Apr 10
daddio:
But the evils in the Kuran and hadiths are not barbaric, pagan and demonic requests.

Thank you.
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They are.

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