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Heartbroken Ex Husband Cries Over Ex Wife Who Ghosted Him After Years of Financial Support Abroad

Roby Ekpo tearfully describes on The Honest Bunch podcast how he financially supported his wife Mayowa Lambe for years after she relocated abroad, only for contact to cease since 2021 with no children from the marriage.

Mayowa Lambe got married to her 3rd husband last week.

Nigerian media personality, Roby Ekpo, has opened up about his 11-year marriage to his ex-wife, Mayowa Lambe Ekpo, which ended without children.

Ekpo spoke during a recent episode of The Honest Bunch podcast, where he shared details about the relationship and what led to its collapse.

Ekpo also alleged that he discovered she had been using contraceptives during their marriage.

“I am 48 years old, I don’t have a kid. I started going for sperm test despite being a Calabar man. I now got to find out that she was taking contraceptives,” he said.

According to him, he only recently became aware of a message his wife allegedly sent to someone, where she expressed dissatisfaction in the marriage.

In the message, she reportedly said that love had not benefited her, adding that her husband was not taking care of her as expected, not satisfying her sexually, and not supportive of her spiritual growth or general well-being.

He further spoke about a trip she made to Miami while they were still married.

“She traveled to Miami to do BBL after telling me she was going for surgery for something that would be able to make her conceive.”

❝If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have been justified. Mayowa travelled abroad 6 years and for the small money I had, I was sending money to Mayowa everytime. Since 2021, I didn't see Mayowa again..❞

Roby Ekpo cries out about his previous marriage to Mayowa Lambe. pic.twitter.com/RY70rrk8Gn

— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) April 20, 2026

Recall that their Pre-Wedding photo where the woman was trying to strangle the man went viral in 2018.

Previous threads

https://www.nairaland.com/8653885/roby-ekpo-reacts-ex-wife-mayowa

https://www.nairaland.com/2537766/popular-oap-roby-proposes-oap

https://www.nairaland.com/4558608/roby-ekpo-mayowa-lambe-ekpo-pre-wedding

Shebi men don't benefit from marriage?

If contact ceased since 2021 (5 years ago), he cannot claim not to know the marriage has hit the rocks. While she should have been upfront with him, it is evident they had a lot of back and forth and had both grown tired.

The exwife has remarried. He at 48yrs is still in his prime. So nothing spoil. He should find one 18yo girl to start a new family with.

Men are the prize.🏆🏆🏆

Sorry ooo.
Next time you'll know how to handle your privacy better

Na mayowa jack u up so this mayowa must be a wonderful woman
But how old is she too? If she's already 35 above and no kids, then she's the biggest dum dum on earth.

Man go and marry again and have children, it's not yet late.

Fear women.

Just settle down,take your time and read the first comment on this thread. You'd realize that some People are terribly heartless..

See comment wey dey come out from a supposed matured woman instead of condemning the betrayal of the woman,she successfully found a way to twist the whole story , just to heap blames on the innocent man whose heart got shattered simply because he gave his heart to the wrong woman.

Women supporting women indeed,even in their own foolery.

Na the sex dey pain am
( The thing about this kain women with roundbreast, skinny and nice curvature ass is how sweet dey are in bedcation)

He never had a wife ...he should detach himself from her physically spiritually traditionally mentally legally

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Simps can never learn. Earning in Naira to take care of a woman in dollars is an unfortunate thing to do.

Any man who cries publicly or privately over a woman is an OJ Simpson

Women can be like sharks... They smell a drop of blood (any sign of weakness) and game over!

The moment this guy emphasized her new marriage being the THIRD, I knew he was a goner.

The girl has forgotten him, probably never even saw him as a husband and he's still hanging on

Cut ties from someone who doesn't appreciate you and NEVER look back.

bestman09:
Simps can never learn. Ear

This is a bloody simp

Lord help us

If you want to live long as a man , copy this trait from women - Be heartless and merciless like them.

Sorry

Leave Yoruba women alone

pocohantas:
Shebi men don't benefit from marriage?

If contact ceased since 2021 (5 years ago), he cannot claim not to know the marriage has hit the rocks. While she should have been upfront with him, it is evident they had a lot of back and forth and had both grown tired.

The exwife has remarried. He at 48yrs is still in his prime. So nothing spoil. He should find one 18yo girl to start a new family with.

Men are the prize.🏆🏆🏆

He is a weak man, he is spineless and a SIMP. I have no pity for him. Men who worship women will always be heartbroken. Nonsense!

Some women Sha...

She told him she was going for surgery to help her conceive meanwhile it was BBL!

See how innocent she looks!

SSpeter:
He is a weak man, he is spineless and a SIMP. I have no pity for him. Men who worship women will have their head chopped of. Nonsense!

Exactly. He should remarry and start a new family. He is still in his prime.

Hmmm. Marriage is not for the faint-hearted o

My no 1 reason for marriage is to have children . I don't like long distance relationship. And it's very difficult for me to trust ladies. E no dey hard them to use the next available guy.

Your photograph with her say it allllllllll

Men are the prize , Men are the prize , now you dey cry

You self see pre-wedding pics

Nor be juju be that...

How the marriage wan take straight?

Why crying because of unhealed sour, be a man and move on with your life. That is how GOD created them.
After all, you're still 48.

My prayer always is that God should shield us all from these Jezebels called women . That should be the prayer of every man.

ur wife was on contraceptives for 11 years and u didn't know? are u as naive and clueless as Nigerian leaders.

Definitely not the man in the house. u were decieved by a woman for 11 years and didn't know or suspect anything until she had to make it obvious and run away from u to marry another man??

Sonnobax15:

Fear women.

Just settle down,take your time and read the first comment on this thread. You'd realize that some People are terribly heartless..

See comment wey dey come out from a supposed matured woman instead of condemning the betrayal of the woman,she successfully found a way to twist the whole story , just to heap blames on the innocent man whose heart got shattered simply because he gave his heart to the wrong woman.

Women supporting women indeed,even in their own foolery.

God bless you sir...



They are birds of the same feathers!

I mocks no man. May God comfort and heal him.

pocohantas:
Shebi men don't benefit from marriage?

If contact ceased since 2021 (5 years ago), he cannot claim not to know the marriage has hit the rocks. While she should have been upfront with him, it is evident they had a lot of back and forth and had both grown tired.

The exwife has remarried. He at 48yrs is still in his prime. So nothing spoil. He should find one 18yo girl to start a new family with.

Men are the prize.🏆🏆🏆

Another devil 👿 in woman skin spotted...




I will never forgive Eunice!

Who be this Mayowa sef abi shey na another person? Lmao. The girl no fine at all to be causing all this chaos. Abi something else de? The girl reach abroad see say love no go make am. She gats find paper. Maybe na the hustle she de hustle all these years.

No be this man been dey wish her happy married life?

It baffles me that some men still think that blowing money on a woman can actually keep her around.

Dey play!

Remember, men are known to be the ones in love, while women are mostly in business.

She’s in her third marriage.
At least it’s clear who the red flag 🚩 is.

A girl I know once told me this. "A woman gets pregnant when she wants to get pregnant".
Fear women. Especially those who have been on the street.
The next generation of men are going to be very ruthless. Women eye go see pepper and unfortunately, innocent good women will not be spared.

Some men are so stupid and dumb that, even when they meet a good woman, the level of dumbness can turn a good woman into a overnight evil. Just take a look at the last pic, which normal alpha man will allow his woman take such pic with him? Confirm mumu man

Passionate888:
No be this man been dey wish her happy married life?

He was only masking his pain and depression.