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Roland17:
The entire union was built on deceit. How he did not act on his suspicions is beyond me.

He is either hiding a few other details or he is straight up gullible and easy to manipulate.

Women can sniff a gullible man from 10 miles, e no dey hard them and they would prey on them without remorse.

The stewpid guy while still married allowed his wife travel to the US, do arrangee marriage for green card, allowed his wife have a male house mate in the US and ignored all the numerous signs that she had zoned out of the marriage a long time ago.

He even saw a message on her WhatsApp that reads she doesn't love him and she's not satisfied with their sex life.

Omo! Bloggers go use his sob story feed well for at least a month

BlueRayDick:
The stewpid guy while still married allowed his wife travel to the US, do arrangee marriage for green card, allowed his wife have a male house mate in the US and ignored all the numerous signs that she had zoned out of the marriage a long time ago.

He even saw a message on her WhatsApp that reads she doesn't love him and she's not satisfied with their sex life.

Omo! Bloggers go use his sob story feed well for at least a month

Just like I thought. I always advise men, no matter how much you love your wife/ girl, avoid "see finish"! Na wetin "see finish" for marriage or any relationship dey cause be dis.

Any partner that doesn't show any fear of losing the marriage or relationship isn't worth investing emotions on because na the you go suffer. There has to be a rational fear of losing the relationship between both, sadly, it was for only him..Once she begin show unhealthy indifference to the union, baba begin plan...

To be honest, I don't think the wife thought she needed his approval to do any of these things. She would have still done it even if he said no. I believe she had seen enough from when they were together in Naija to know he is gullible and can be easily manipulated.

The marriage should have ended before she traveled to the US. I only salute his courage for speaking publicly about it because that has to be a lot. He should be kept on a suicide watch.

How bad can the beef be between twins, to the extent that one doesn't want his birth date again?

izzou:
How bad can the beef be between twins, to the extent that one doesn't want his birth date again?

That one don pass beef, e don turn mental problem, How o you change your DOB, Will he go to Passport office and invalidate all the previou documents or na just attention seeking?

Initially I thought it was attention seeking but every 3months they release something

Maybe make both of them enter ring and beat themselves. All these Peter do this, paul do this, Jude do this for SM

They should have some shame, they are around 50yrs oh

raumdeuter:
That one don pass beef, e don turn mental problem, How o you change your DOB, Will he go to Passport office and invalidate all the previou documents or na just attention seeking?

Initially I thought it was attention seeking but every 3months they release something

Maybe make both of them enter ring and beat themselves. All these Peter do this, paul do this, Jude do this for SM

They should have some shame, they are around 50yrs oh

I no understand this kind hatred.

Na wa

Maybe if they were just average earners, and didn't have this fame, they would be a big happy family

izzou:
How bad can the beef be between twins, to the extent that one doesn't want his birth date again?

The entire family is in disarray. So much distrust between siblings. Families usually have issues, siblings quarrel, especially as we get older because we change but this is quite extreme, unfortunate and disappointing.

It is one thing to change last name, it is another to want to change DOB (quite immature, petty and illogical if you ask me), so you have nothing to share with your twin.

Usually, most families have that rallying point, that sibling that keeps everyone together, that keeps it tight, that is respected but e no be like say dem these ones send anybody.

Sadly, the new generation of the family are now drawn into this fight and that is how generational fights continue.

Roland17:
Just like I thought. I always advise men, no matter how much you love your wife/ girl, avoid "see finish"! Na wetin "see finish" for marriage or any relationship dey cause be dis.

Any partner that doesn't show any fear of losing the marriage or relationship isn't worth investing emotions on because na the pesin go suffer. There has to be a rational fear of losing the relationship between both, sadly, it was for only him..Once she begin show unhealthy indifference to the union, baba begin plan...

To be honest, I don't think the wife thought she needed his approval to do any of these things. She would have still done it even if he said no. I believe she had seen enough from when they were together in Naija to know he is gullible and can be easily manipulated.

The marriage should have ended before she traveled to the US. I only salute his courage for speaking publicly about it because that has to be a lot. He should be kept on a suicide watch.

Oil full your head bro!

His problem started from the foundation of their marriage. He met her in May, proposed in September and got married in September of same year. The lady told him in passing that she was once married and this guy didn't for once ask further questions about the failed marriage. He never asked whom she was married to, what was the cause of the marriage crash and other pertinent question. He went ahead to marry her because she's his spec. 🤦‍♂️

They were married for about 4 years till she travelled abroad. Within that 4 years were having marital issues o yet he went ahead to give approval to her travel to the US via arrangee marriage. While in the arrangee marriage she made him delete all their naija marriage pictures off his social media.

His wife bought a house in the US after getting her green card, took in a male house mate and was always limiting the number of times they had conversation like couple in log distance relationship.

This guy still kept sending money to her and was holding on to the so called marriage. He was making naira and sending to her even when she works as a financial analyst in the US.

The guy said he did all of that because of love 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯.

izzou:
I no understand this kind hatred.

Na wa

Maybe if they were just average earners, and didn't have this fame, they would be a big happy family

Nwannem, na wetin useless pride dey cause and I have seen it even amongst poor people.

Everyone involved in this issue is too proud to be vulnerable. I must be right syndrome!

Hunger dey country

Una dey here dey complain Wetin no concern una right

No go protest for ojota nau

BlueRayDick:
Oil full your head bro!

His problem started from the foundation of their marriage. He met her in May, proposed in September and got married in September of same year. The lady told him in passing that she was once married and this guy didn't for once ask further questions about the failed marriage. He never asked whom she was married to, what was the cause of the marriage crash and other pertinent question. He went ahead to marry her because she's his spec. 🤦‍♂️

They were married for about 4 years till she travelled abroad. Within that 4 years were having marital issues o yet he went ahead to give approval to her travel to the US via arrangee marriage. While in the arrangee marriage she made him delete all their naija marriage pictures off his social media.

His wife bought a house in the US after getting her green card, took in a male house mate and was always limiting the number of times they had conversation like couple in log distance relationship.

This guy still kept sending money to her and was holding on to the so called marriage. He was making naira and sending to her even when she works as a financial analyst in the US.

The guy said he did all of that because of love 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯.

Baba, this guy reeks of a man that is lacking in self-worth. It is such a sad story but I have no sympathy to give this man.

The signs were ominous and I can bet you, he has friends and family members who warned him but e no gree. He was thinking with his stick versus his head.

Make e no shock you say 2-3 years from now, this same werey fit reconcile with the woman.

He desperately needs to see a therapist to address his lack of self-worth and confidence. Otherwise, another woman will still manipulate him in the name of love.

Roland17:
Baba, this guy reeks of a man that is lacking in self-worth. It is such a sad story but I have no sympathy to give this man.

The signs were ominous and I can bet you, he has friends and family members who warned him but e no gree. He was thinking with his stick versus his head.

Make e no shock you say 2-3 years from now, this same werey fit reconcile with the woman.

He desperately needs to see a therapist to address his lack of self-worth and confidence. Otherwise, another woman will still manipulate him in the name of love.

He actually lacks self-worth for real, yet he gives himself nonsense accolades. He kept saying "I be calabar boy o.... We dey knack o " while trying to prove he was sexually potent and refute claims he may not be satisfying her sexually.

It's unfortunate he married at 37 yet married wrongly. He was sounding like someone who is weak mentally and can't take a firm decision that concerns his own life.

Someone in the comment section of the podcast said " This guy is weak, men supposed bam am " 😂

The full podcast.

Disstroy this Margaret Ekpo grandson really fall Una hand for Akwa-Cross o.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lG8HffYOWt4?si=AFHDO0Qwh27fRzHf

BlueRayDick:
Oil full your head bro!

His problem started from the foundation of their marriage. He met her in May, proposed in September and got married in September of same year. The lady told him in passing that she was once married and this guy didn't for once ask further questions about the failed marriage. He never asked whom she was married to, what was the cause of the marriage crash and other pertinent question. He went ahead to marry her because she's his spec. 🤦‍♂️

They were married for about 4 years till she travelled abroad. Within that 4 years were having marital issues o yet he went ahead to give approval to her travel to the US via arrangee marriage. While in the arrangee marriage she made him delete all their naija marriage pictures off his social media.

His wife bought a house in the US after getting her green card, took in a male house mate and was always limiting the number of times they had conversation like couple in log distance relationship.

This guy still kept sending money to her and was holding on to the so called marriage. He was making naira and sending to her even when she works as a financial analyst in the US.

The guy said he did all of that because of love 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯.

kai....this one pass juju.

And the woman go dey collect the money and add to the superior dollas she was making in US, while getting humped by another male. That husband is the lowest of the lows...as long as weak men are concerned. I never see this type o.

Money wey he suppose use to dey enjoy life here. A lot of women out here but he held on to a lepa, whom he havent set eyes on for 6 good years.

BlueRayDick:
The full podcast.

Disstroy this Margaret Ekpo grandson really fall Una hand for Akwa-Cross o.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lG8HffYOWt4?si=AFHDO0Qwh27fRzHf

omo....I watch the video reach 30mins.. Chai.

This guy really fall him own hand o. After seeing that msg in 2017...thats when he should have walked away.

Me in that situation will not sleep under the same roof with her from the day I read that chat. I will even be scared of losing my life. Cos that was a desperate mind set and undiluted hatred from the wife

BlueRayDick:
The full podcast.

Disstroy this Margaret Ekpo grandson really fall Una hand for Akwa-Cross o.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lG8HffYOWt4?si=AFHDO0Qwh27fRzHf

We had a meeting last week. We resolved to dash him out to you guys in exchange for Banky W. Thanks for your attention to this matter.

Emaprince:
omo....I watch the video reach 30mins.. Chai.

This guy really fall him own hand o. After seeing that msg in 2017...thats when he should have walked away.

Me in that situation will not sleep under the same roof with her from the day I read that chat. I will even be scared of losing my life. Cos that was a desperate mind set and undiluted hatred from the wife

I think he was hoping she would bring him to America after getting that green card. That was the only logical reason he could've agreed to the arrangee marriage in the first place.

Unfortunately for him, she had already fallen out of love with him and she didn't even hid it from him. But he was as blind as a bat and didn't read the room at all.

DissTroy:
We had a meeting last week. We resolved to dash him out to you guys in exchange for Banky W. Thanks for your attention to this matter.

😂😂😂

We no want.

Una supposed bring all those scary masquerade out make dem flog sense into his head first before anything

Emaprince:
omo....I watch the video reach 30mins.. Chai.

This guy really fall him own hand o. After seeing that msg in 2017...thats when he should have walked away.

Me in that situation will not sleep under the same roof with her from the day I read that chat. I will even be scared of losing my life. Cos that was a desperate mind set and undiluted hatred from the wife

That was where he messed up.

Instead of moving on with his life that very moment, he continued in the marriage that was already toxic, consented to her doing arrangee margiage to relocate and even consented to her cohabiting with a male house mate.

The guy head no correct at all.

In the voice of Kenny Rogers

You gat to know when to hold
Know when to fold
Know when to walk away
Know when to run

Life gave him enough time to walk away, he refused.

Roland17:
The entire family is in disarray. So much distrust between siblings. Families usually have issues, siblings quarrel, especially as we get older because we change but this is quite extreme, unfortunate and disappointing.

It is one thing to change last name, it is another to want to change DOB (quite immature, petty and illogical if you ask me), so you have nothing to share with your twin.

Usually, most families have that rallying point, that sibling that keeps everyone together, that keeps it tight, that is respected but e no be like say dem these ones send anybody.

Sadly, the new generation of the family are now drawn into this fight and that is how generational fights continue.

It's pathetic.

For over a decade, these guys have been dragging themselves.

If these ones were poor, dem for don kill themselves

raumdeuter:
That one don pass beef, e don turn mental problem, How o you change your DOB, Will he go to Passport office and invalidate all the previou documents or na just attention seeking?

Initially I thought it was attention seeking but every 3months they release something

Maybe make both of them enter ring and beat themselves. All these Peter do this, paul do this, Jude do this for SM

They should have some shame, they are around 50yrs oh

It's not really a big deal. You can decide to celebrate your birthday anytime you want and that's what he's doing.

Amigoos1:
It's not really a big deal. You can decide to celebrate your birthday anytime you want and that's what he's doing.

You dont even have to celebrate birthdays, but changing your DOB is weird and probably illegal

raumdeuter:
You dont even have to celebrate birthdays, but changing your DOB is weird and probably illegal

He didn't change his DOB. He just said he will be celebrating it on a date he picked personally for himself. That's just it.

Even from their pre wedding pictures you could tell he was a mumu man.

Amigoos1:
Even from their pre wedding pictures you could tell he was a mumu man.

The guy was 37 years old here o 😂

BlueRayDick:
Oil full your head bro!

His problem started from the foundation of their marriage. He met her in May, proposed in September and got married in September of same year. The lady told him in passing that she was once married and this guy didn't for once ask further questions about the failed marriage. He never asked whom she was married to, what was the cause of the marriage crash and other pertinent question. He went ahead to marry her because she's his spec. 🤦‍♂️

They were married for about 4 years till she travelled abroad. Within that 4 years were having marital issues o yet he went ahead to give approval to her travel to the US via arrangee marriage. While in the arrangee marriage she made him delete all their naija marriage pictures off his social media.

His wife bought a house in the US after getting her green card, took in a male house mate and was always limiting the number of times they had conversation like couple in log distance relationship.

This guy still kept sending money to her and was holding on to the so called marriage. He was making naira and sending to her even when she works as a financial analyst in the US.

The guy said he did all of that because of love 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯.

That guy's stup!d!ty_ ehn needs to be studied.
The lady sent a message to a friend about how she hated him and had checked out of the marriage in 2017... He snapped the messages and never confronted her about it and her complaints about sexual unsatisfaction. He never brought it up or told anyone until late last year he was showing a friend. The guy matter too funny I swear.
We dey 2026 and Baba still dey hold on to the marriage like his dear life needed with all that bile and hatred she spilled out in that message.
A sane and normal human being for don give up after that brutal revelation.
He never even brought it up to her and kept it all in all those years and was thinking probably if he leveled up and made more money, be more responsible, she'd come back to the fold.

The guy handicapped himself and I don't really have no remorse for him cos he was damn stoop!d all through the way.

2021, she came back from the US and he made plans and preparations to welcome her at the airport even with friends and camera man, she didn't even hugged or kiss him for a person she hasn't seen for years. Her own husband.
Baba even talk say dem no even knack or rub body sef when they eventually got home.
No spark. Nothing.

The guy na bollo I swear. All these years and these things were happening and Baba still dey sponsor her dey send money. Lol.

Amigoos1:
Even from their pre wedding pictures you could tell he was a mumu man.

Na editing be this abi na whining. , 😭😭😔

abduleez1:
Na editing be this abi na whining. , 😭😭😔

Editing ke. People were even warning him from the pre wedding pictures.


https://www.nairaland.com/4558608/roby-ekpo-mayowa-lambe-ekpo-pre-wedding

megamank:
Somebody is already planning to kill u and u are smiling like Christmas goat.....don't worry you go hear am....these women are not smiling o....they really want and mean to turn the table around......they are currently leading the chat in adultery and domestic violence.....

BlueRayDick:
He actually lacks self-worth for real, yet he gives himself nonsense accolades. He kept saying "I be calabar boy o.... We dey knack o " while trying to prove he was sexually potent and refute claims he may not be satisfying her sexually.

It's unfortunate he married at 37 yet married wrongly. He was sounding like someone who is weak mentally and can't take a firm decision that concerns his own life.

Someone in the comment section of the podcast said " This guy is weak, men supposed bam am " 😂

Werey "dey knack o" but na ONLY two rounds him fit give him nymph0 wife and na twice weekly strength him get.

Him trust him shooting capacity as per Calabar boy, still dey take concoction wey him wife bring give am to aid him shooting potency. 😂😂😂

Premium weak man.

BlueRayDick:
The guy was 37 years old here o 😂

See your guy. Never take all these lovey dovey social media marriage seriously.

Amigoos1:
Editing ke


https://www.nairaland.com/4558608/roby-ekpo-mayowa-lambe-ekpo-pre-wedding

Lmao.... This guy na prime Dundee right from time sha. 😭😭😭

The woman even use Baba money go do BBL and Baba still dey send more money. Send am 1mn at different occasions. 😭😭😩😩🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

abduleez1:
That guy's stup!d!ty_ ehn needs to be studied.
The lady sent a message to a friend about how she hated him and had checked out of the marriage in 2017... He snapped the messages and never confronted her about it and her complaints about sexual unsatisfaction. He never brought it up or told anyone until late last year he was showing a friend. The guy matter too funny I swear.
We dey 2026 and Baba still dey hold on to the marriage like his dear life needed with all that bile and hatred she spilled out in that message.
A sane and normal human being for don give up after that brutal revelation.
He never even brought it up to her and kept it all in all those years and was thinking probably if he leveled up and made more money, be more responsible, she'd come back to the fold.

The guy handicapped himself and I don't really have no remorse for him cos he was damn stoop!d all through the way.

2021, she came back from the US and he made plans and preparations to welcome her at the airport even with friends and camera man, she didn't even hugged or kiss him for a person she hasn't seen for years. Her own husband.
Baba even talk say dem no even knack or rub body sef when they eventually got home.
No spark. Nothing.

The guy na bollo I swear. All these years and these things were happening and Baba still dey sponsor her dey send money. Lol.

The guy's head no correct at all. He went into the marriage at the age of 37 which means he was a full grown matured man at that time. Not like he was some 23 year old drunken on love who got married to his first love.

The lady showed him severally how she wanted out long before she even left naija but he was hanging on.

I think the fact that his parents died early contributed to how long his mumu lasted. I want to believe if he had at least a parent alive they would've at least speak sense into his head and make him see things with clear eyes. I mean which parent would watch their 41 year old son agree to send his wife abroad and agree to an arrangee marriage?

Apparently his two brothers don't have any influence on him Sha.

Like I said earlier he ignored the signs for over 10 years , and now he has seen wonders.