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DissTroy:
You know what? It's like you are stubborn so we will add Vic O to the trade so you guys give us Banky W fully in exchange. Last offer.
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When I post about simping and not letting a woman dictate terms for you as a man, it's labeled overdosing on redpill. These are the issues.

My bro, u have my full permission to overdose on any color of pill going forward . This Roby don too shame men in general abeg!

His simping cannot be explained away no matter how one tries .As at last year he was still holding on to a marriage that should have ended 2017.

I imagine the ex-wife during COVID-19 was in full lockdown with a full grown asss man without going anywhere in the cold American weather. Chai! . The number of time dem don knack his "wife" while he was holding on to the "promises of better life " lasan !

iamoyindamola:
Watching this full video, i am losing it this guy is a proud simp
He deserve all he got and will continue getting

The more you watch the video, the more pissed you will get .

The guy just didn't know when to count his losses and move on. He waited till she used her full mouth to tell him he was useless to her

iamoyindamola:
Watching this full video, i am losing it this guy is a proud simp
He deserve all he got and will continue getting

Like Kimberly and his sorority here always pandering to women. This is how they end up – walked all over.

A woman's default nature is being loyal to her feelings at any particular moment, not your sacrifices for her. She meant the "I love you" she told you, and the "I can't do this again" she tells you the next minute. She doesn't even know how she'll feel about you this weekend.

So you have to make sure the woman you eventually choose has learnt to suppress some of her innate nature, and has invested very significantly in what you both share – finance, emotions, time, resources and so much more; finance too because women hàte to lose money, and anything they help nurture.

Will Funke have ditched JJC Skills if she had invested significantly in him? Would TBillz have been so hurt if Tiwa had invested in him as much has he had dedicated his life to her growth?

She doesn't contribute to the upkeep of the home you both share yet she works. You can't point to five significant things she's bought in the house. She still asks you for money for snacks but she earns a salary. You can't point to one expensive cloth she got you, or one or two fancy pair(s) of shoes she paid a celebrated shoemaker to make for you.

Not like you need her money but the act of being fully committed and invested with her resources – knowing how women feel about spending their resources – is a pointer to a lot of things.

But this nèwt did everything for her so she had nothing to lose.

Regina Daniel had nothing to lose leaving Ned Nwoko but he had invested time, billions, and his ego bashed.

Avoid women who have nothing to lose being with you. Women who haven't actively invested way more than just words of affection in you.

Akinlot:
And another man still thought a woman who has been divorced twice and has never been pregnant is the best he can get.

Sometimes I wonder what goes on in the head of these men.

I think she has a daughter from her first marriage

Shegzdave:
I think she has a daughter from her first marriage

If indeed she has a child from a previous marriage then maybe Roby is not fertile but yet to come to terms with the sad reality.

BlueRayDick:
If indeed she has a child from a previous marriage then maybe Roby is not fertile but yet to come to terms with the sad reality.

But he said he’s taken three fertility test, does that mean he’s lying or the tests results delivered to him were not genuine

BlueRayDick:
Initially I thought he had a rightful claim to mess her life up by reporting her to ICE as per the arrangee marriage; until the weyrey say na traditional marriage they did before she travaled abroad.

From my own personal opinion he may not be able to 4ck her life up since they didn't do a civil/registry wedding that has document backing the marriage up. They had a traditional marriage which may be binding in Nigeria but not necessarily binding in the US.

The girl really used his head.

All that being said, I want to believe if Roby is vengeful enough and wants to take advantage of the anti-immigrant stand of Donald Trump's government, he may stir a serious controversy by sending his traditional wedding picture to US Embassy/ICE and petitioning them to rescind Mayowa's green card because she used fraudulent means to get it.

But that Roby wey I see no get that kind bad mind like that. If Roby is given an option to either spoil Mayowa's life as it is now or reconcile with her; Roby will definitely go with reconciling with Mayowa

He said she did arrangee marriage, with the way trump and ICE are moving they will verify

BlueRayDick:
If indeed she has a child from a previous marriage then maybe Roby is not fertile but yet to come to terms with the sad reality.

Man, you don't understand the nature of women? A grown woman who gets pregnant for you does it consciously. There are hookup girls hopping from bed to bed without getting pregnant. You underestimate how much women know about their bodies and the number of times they talk about the lastest contraceptive measures.

Remember the case of Adam Nuru, the FCMB boss, 5 years ago who fathered kids with his secretary while pushing the kids on to her husband? She knew! She timed her cycle to match with her boss and likely took contraceptives when with her husband. The husband tôok his life when he found out.

Have you forgotten those days when you bed a girl at the beginning and she goes, "I hope you didn't cum?" She goes home to do something about it.
When she's melted into you and has chosen you as hers, she stops asking those questions after you orgasm in her. All of a sudden, she forgets how to calculate her safe periods, outsourcing it to you. She doesn't mind getting pregnant for you.

The ones who became single mothers are partly the ones who gambled, thinking they could hook their men with pregnancies and the men became irresponsible towards the pregnancies.

When your girl stops calculating her safe period, that's her way of proprosing. She chose you as her husband long before you bought the ring. You were playing catch-up, man.

Women know what they are doing but we infantilize them as naive. Very cunning.

Shegzdave:
But he said he’s taken three fertility test, does that mean he’s lying or the tests results delivered to him were not genuine

Hmmmm....Just pray not to have to be going for Fertility test as a man after marriage. Some of those tests are not conclusive o.

I've had close family friends who have had to do tests upon tests before confirming the husband was the issue and had to start treatment to boost his sperm count.

Roby sounded too non challant on podcast about issues of child bearing. He was refrencing his pastor that had to wait for years in marraige in marriage to have a child.

That guy is a educated and even claimed he studied Radiography. If he is fertile as he claimed and with his medical background nothing stops him from doing IVF with his wife within that 4 years they were married before she travelled abroad. Instead he was talking about adoption.

If u ask me, something doesn't add up about his fertility matter.

cc: Disstroy

DissTroy:
Man, you don't understand the nature of women? A grown woman who gets pregnant for you does it consciously. There are hookup girls hopping from bed to bed without getting pregnant. You underestimate how much women know about their bodies and the number of times they talk about the lastest contraceptive measures.

Remember the case of Adam Nuru, the FCMB boss, 5 years ago who fathered kids with his secretary while pushing the kids on to her husband? She knew! She timed her cycle to match with her boss and likely took contraceptives when with her husband. The husband tôok his life when he found out.

Have you forgotten those days when you bed a girl at the beginning and she goes, "I hope you didn't cum?" She goes home to do something about it.
When she's melted into you and has chosen you as hers, she stops asking those questions after you orgasm in her. All of a sudden, she forgets how to calculate her safe periods, outsourcing it to you. She doesn't mind getting pregnant for you.

The ones who became single mothers are partly the ones who gambled, thinking they could hook their men with pregnancies and the men became irresponsible towards the pregnancies.

When your girl stops calculating her safe period, that's her way of proprosing. She chose you as her husband long before you bought the ring. You were playing catch-up, man.

Women know what they are doing but we infantilize them as naive. Very cunning.

I get that women are cunning and that Mayowa used Roby's head over and over again. But I really don't think she set out initially not to have a child with him.

Methinks Roby has some underlining medical issues he's not yet ready to wake up to its reality. She was actively suggesting concoction and different boosters for him until she fell out of love with him.

The guy's mistake of relocating to Lagos without having a job waiting for him put him in a bad place financially and that made it easy for the women easily fall out of love with him.

izzou:
Abeg, with Roby saying that his wife did "Arrangee marriage" to get green card, will that not land her in trouble?

They didn't do a civil wedding, so she can argue her way out of it.

Either way, I am convinced Roby knows his manhood is not working. There is no way a woman will constantly quarrel a Nigerian man over his poor stroke game, add it no child in their years ofbmarriege and the man didn't impregnate another woman the second she left or right inside the marriage. He was too evasive of specific questions and he knows more than he is putting out. If Mayowa speaks, the revelation would be more embarrassing than it is. Mayowa only beat him to the game. They are both dangerous people and know specifics we do not know.

That mean women depend on men manhood

Just lol 😂

pocohantas:
They didn't do a civil wedding, so she can argue her way out of it.

Either way, I am convinced Roby knows his manhood is not working. There is no way a woman will constantly quarrel a Nigerian man over his poor stroke game, add it no child in their years ofbmarriege and the man didn't impregnate another woman the second she left or right inside the marriage. He was too evasive of specific questions and he knows more than he is putting out. If Mayowa speaks, the revelation would be more embarrassing than it is. Mayowa only beat him to the game. They are both dangerous people and know specifics we do not know.

Oluhgbengaa:
That mean women depend on men manhood

Just lol 😂

Sex keeps a marriage.
People who do not knack their spouses and convince themselves they have a "happy marriage" are either lying or delusional.

Roby was most likely not a simp before, but the realisation of his non-functional manhood is what left him at her mercy. If he were fine, 5yrs is a longtime, he would have moved on like Tuface and Yul.

That mean sex keep you in your marriage

Without sex you could have divorce your husband

You might even be cheating on your husband who knows

pocohantas:
Sex keeps a marriage.
People who do not knack their spouses and convince themselves they have a "happy marriage" are either lying or delusional.

Roby was most likely not a simp before, but the realisation of his non-functional manhood is what left him at her mercy. If he were fine, 5yrs is a longtime, he would have moved on like Tuface and Yul.

Amigoos1:
Even from their pre wedding pictures you could tell he was a mumu man.

The whole thing manifested in real life.

That woman probably came up with the weird idea and he agreed.

pocohantas:
Either way, I am convinced Roby knows his manhood is not working. There is no way a woman will constantly quarrel a Nigerian man over his poor stroke game, add it no child in their years ofbmarriege and the man didn't impregnate another woman the second she left or right inside the marriage. He was too evasive of specific questions and he knows more than he is putting out. If Mayowa speaks, the revelation would be more embarrassing than it is. Mayowa only beat him to the game. They are both dangerous people and know specifics we do not know.

This is exactly my thought. The guy dey get erection and he dey cum normally like most men but baba definitely has infertility issues he is not willing to accept. He was even boasting no woman can come out to claim he impregnated her.

He can't tell us with bold face that for almost 6 years she was away he was celibate or was withdrawing from all the women he slept with during that period.

Methinks their marriage was faulty right from time and that he has fertility issues. That fertility issue would've been sorted if he was married to his soul mate whom they would've sought medical help together. If they were having a good marriage, they may have opted for IVF within the initial 4 years and nobody would've known anything about him taking concoction or sperm booster,

Blueraydick he is back

Seun why are scammers finding it easy to open multiple monikers to troll and defraud people

iamoyindamola:
Blueraydick he is back

Na wa o. Can't something be done about those scammers ni ?

This site makes it so easy for people to open multiple accounts.

In Nigeria, making false accusations without evidence is both a criminal offense and a civil wrong (tort). Under the Nigerian legal system, the burden of proof lies on the accuser; if an allegation cannot be proven, the accused person has several legal remedies to protect their reputation and seek justice.

BlueRayDick:
Na wa o. Can't something be done about those scammers ni ?

This site makes it so easy for people to open multiple accounts.

I'll advise you to stay out of this

BlueRayDick:
This is exactly my thought. The guy dey get erection and he dey cum normally like most men but baba definitely has infertility issues he is not willing to accept. He was even boasting no woman can come out to claim he impregnated her.

He can't tell us with bold face that for almost 6 years she was away he was celibate or was withdrawing from all the women he slept with during that period.

Methinks their marriage was faulty right from time and that he has fertility issues. That fertility issue would've been sorted if he was married to his soul mate whom they would've sought medical help together. If they were having a good marriage, they may have opted for IVF within the initial 4 years and nobody would've known anything about him taking concoction or sperm booster,

No, he wasn't celibate. Neither was she.
There are a lot of revelations on TT of their extra marital affairs. A woman posted how Mayowa was party to her divorce and had a longstanding relationship with her exhusband. Babes have also come out to say Roby is far from weak or a simp based on his record with women, before, during, and after Mayowa. So like you said, the guy dey fire, but e no dey score goal.

His fertility issue is what turned him into a simp. That thing fit put man for tight corner if the woman doesn't love you.

Ibime:
I no even know who Roland17 and co dey yarn about since

So na this ugly babe dey make that nigga shed premium tears all over my timeline?

Very ugly. I dont even see where the attraction is.

lacruz12:
The lady must have initiated this violent concept, I mean look at her masculinity

pocohantas:
Sex keeps a marriage.
People who do not knack their spouses and convince themselves they have a "happy marriage" are either lying or delusional.

Roby was most likely not a simp before, but the realisation of his non-functional manhood is what left him at her mercy. If he were fine, 5yrs is a longtime, he would have moved on like Tuface and Yul.

This simple fact can't be overstated.

pocohantas:
No, he wasn't celibate. Neither was she.
There are a lot of revelations on TT of their extra marital affairs. A woman posted how Mayowa was party to her divorce and had a longstanding relationship with her exhusband. Babes have also come out to say Roby is far from weak or a simp based on his record with women, before, during, and after Mayowa. So like you said, the guy dey fire, but e no dey score goal.

His fertility issue is what turned him into a simp. That thing fit put man for tight corner if the woman doesn't love you.

The part he cried on the podcast about not having a child to show for his struggles in the marriage and even outside wedlock already tells a discerning mind that he was probably firing blanks and it made him simp for her.

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Akinlot:
And another man still thought a woman who has been divorced twice and has never been pregnant is the best he can get.

Sometimes I wonder what goes on in the head of these men.

Even being the second husband is what I dont understand. Is it low self esteem or what can make a full fledged man settle for a woman that have been married before?

Unless he is broke and going into it for her money..smh

BlueRayDick:
So I just watched a video that says the new husband of the lady ; David Ayuba is a drummer in his church. He was once married to Tolu who is in Nigeria and their union is blessed with two kids. The David guy had a kid in 2019 and another kid in 2021 with Tolu before he moved abroad.

After stewpid Robert Don hang on to a false hope for so long, she sent him a WhatsApp message literally telling him she doesn't have any emotions for him. She gave him enough signs but guyman no gree read the room.

So the new guy David left his wife and 2 kids to be with Mayowa. Telmabout wetin mayowa wash put for her Congo meat 🤷‍♂️

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Mr ekpo should connect with David wife..and be humping her. He needed to cause somebody pains too.

Emaprince:
Mr ekpo should connect with David wife..and be humping her. He needed to cause somebody pains too.

Is he ready to take full responsibility of David's 2 kids?

The guy should go and treat himself and take his time to get another woman jare. Afterall, Nnamdi Azikwe was 69 years old when he married his young wife (Aged 26) after the death of his first wife.

Guess what? The younger wife gave him children that were graduates before he died in 1996!

Once Roby sort his fertility issues he should be fine. At least he claims he makes money now unlike the early days of their marriage.

Akinlot:
Now that I think of it, I agree with you and blueray.

What kind of man marries such a woman? Then sits behind a screen like the rest of us to watch another man describe how he used to knack his wife.

Either the woman is very lucky with simps or guy man is hustling for his own green card. It just has to be the latter.

The interesting thing is, if this video somehow gets to US Twitter and it blows up, she may lose that green card. The current administration is ruthless with immigration fraud.

Maybe that guy need to make this move and get her in trouble. He need to ditch all that nice man nonsense and get his own lick back

BlueRayDick:
Initially I thought he had a rightful claim to mess her life up by reporting her to ICE as per the arrangee marriage; until the weyrey say na traditional marriage they did before she travaled abroad.

From my own personal opinion he may not be able to 4ck her life up since they didn't do a civil/registry wedding that has document backing the marriage up. They had a traditional marriage which may be binding in Nigeria but not necessarily binding in the US.

The girl really used his head.

All that being said, I want to believe if Roby is vengeful enough and wants to take advantage of the anti-immigrant stand of Donald Trump's government, he may stir a serious controversy by sending his traditional wedding picture to US Embassy/ICE and petitioning them to rescind Mayowa's green card because she used fraudulent means to get it.

But that Roby wey I see no get that kind bad mind like that. If Roby is given an option to either spoil Mayowa's life as it is now or reconcile with her; Roby will definitely go with reconciling with Mayowa

I thought so too.

The girl is proudly doing what she is doing, cos she know the guy in and out. She is very certain that the guy cannot even entertain the thoughts of doing anything that will hurt her or jeopardize her stay in US.