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raumdeuter:
One man called me and said can you help this boy, His mom reached out to the Pastor that the boy has spiritual problems from village. He has a Bachelors and PhD from one of the University of California systems, he has interned at Apple and Intel. He cant get a job in 2yrs. He is a US citizen as well

I didnt know how to advise him cos me sef I no get PhD, I no even know what to tell him. Last I heard he went for a Post doctoral Fellowship

Oracle laid off 30,000 people 3 weeks ago, Meta and Amazon are preparing for their own mass layoff. Maybe last last na content creator all of us go become

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That boy should consider the academia. He can start out as an instructor in one of the community colleges around him or a small college/ university.

His issue may be a lack of soft skills. Corporate America isn't for everyone. I have always encouraged people to utilize their degrees in the profession they studied for a few years before going for another, except you are in the academia.

Jumping from Bachelors to Masters to Ph.D. without the requisite work experience in each phase of the degree is not getting you anywhere. Such academic qualification without hands on work experience is a huge turnoff for employers.

Can you imagine the amount of student loan he has incurred? That one na lifetime payment.

Roland17:
That boy should consider the academia. He can start out as an instructor in one of the community colleges around him or a small college/ university.

His issue may be a lack of soft skills. Corporate America isn't for everyone. I have always encouraged people to utilize their degrees in the profession they studied for a few years before going for another, except you are in the academia.

Jumping from Bachelors to Masters to Ph.D. without the requisite work experience in each phase of the degree is not getting you anywhere. Such academic qualification without hands on work experience is a huge turnoff for employers.

Can you imagine the amount of student loan he has incurred? That one na lifetime payment.

He sounded exhausted and tired of the whole applying sef, And I can imagine what he is going through and what his parents are going
through

Academia might be an option for him though but that wont give him the amount of money he thought he might be getting in his career

raumdeuter:
He sounded exhausted and tired of the whole applying sef, And I can imagine what he is going through and what his parents are going
through

Academia might be an option for him though but that wont give him the amount of money he thought he might be getting in his career

The boy and his parents made grave mistakes in their approach to his career. He is going to need all the luck to secure a 6 digit annual salary without experience.

Even in his field, he'd have to start at the entry level. Worse still, AI automation don take over, particularly for his field.

If you are not already in tech and ahead, the future is bleak for entry level. But he should continue applying and not give up.

BlueRayDick:
The African in me will never allow me do Vasectomy.

Withdrawal is not as easy as people make it seem Sha. If you don't impregnate your spouse mistakenly through precum, you will most likely release wilfully into the zanga hoping it will be her safe period.

And condom just doesn't feel as enjoyable as skin to skin. Any married person already used to doing skin to skin will not find condom sexxx enjoyable

Vasectomy remains the best option if you look at it critically.
There's no way a lady will do family planning and it won't affect her body structure, most times for the worse.

I rather do vasectomy than allow my lady turn a shapeless slop and lose attraction for her. Once you're done with kids, vasectomy is the way. It's a little price to pay for the betterment of your family.

TemporaryHansel:
Vasectomy remains the best option if you look at it critically.
There's no way a lady will do family planning and it won't affect her body structure, most times for the worse.

I rather do vasectomy than allow my lady turn a shapeless slop and lose attraction for her. Once you're done with kids, vasectomy is the way. It's a little price to pay for the betterment of your family.

Goodluck to anybody opting for it, but as for me I can't rid myself of the ability to reproduce willingly. Lai lai!

BlueRayDick:
Goodluck to anybody opting for it, but as for me I can't rid myself of the ability to reproduce willingly. Lai lai!

I heard a fable years ago of a man loosing his 4 kids in a motor accident. They were en route to congratulate him for a successful vasectomy. Now it's obviously a lie, but these are the issues.

Roland17:
Na for here I go sabi if Roby don learn any lesson...Make e fold fess!

Make she come with proof to deny any of the things he said.

Does she realize Roby can ruin her legal status in the US if he really wants to? Especially under this Trump immigration?

She better pipe low before people take up the case and have her deported for immigration fraud.

But the lady wicked Sha.

Now wey Roby just dey see gigs wey dey help am stand back on his feet she wan slam am 100m lawsuit wey go return him to square one.

If Roby actually has bad mind for her, he can decide to call her bluff and ask her to meet him in court. While ghe defamation suit is going on, he can get his lawyers to write the US authorities and use social media to call the attention of ICE to the arrangee marriage matter with evidences. She would end up blaming herself.

But that Roby I'm seeing looks like one who would protect her instead of doing her bad.

akwesenana:
I heard a fable years ago of a man loosing his 4 kids in a motor accident. They were en route to congratulate him for a successful vasectomy. Now it's obviously a lie, but these are the issues.

Lol unnecessary fear. This is like being scared of buying stocks because they might crash. The stuff is even reversible if something like that actually happens and it's necessary for you to have another kid in the future.

Una sure say this Roby no be gay Sha? How can a man tell his wife sex is nit really his thing?

Attached is an alleged conversation between Mayowa and Roby.

PS: I don't know if this chat screenshot is authentic or not.

^^ If both of them continue going down that route, they will damage themselves irreparably

Both should take a break and focus on what is next in their life

Ibime:
@ A40

Have you heard J Cole fall off album?

That's the best rap album in over 2 decades

2 decades??

No I haven't. You mean you sat down and listened to all 24 tracks?? That already looks daunting to me

I will listen to it with open mind though and get back to you. Track 2 sounds tuff though

TemporaryHansel:
Lol unnecessary fear. This is like being scared of buying stocks because they might crash. The stuff is even reversible if something like that actually happens and it's necessary for you to have another kid in the future.

Are you a urologist or healthcare specialist? I hear a lot of non medical personnel utter this line and my Dr friends typically rebuff this claim

MorataFC:
Honestly, I don’t have time to follow the gist or watch the clip that was posted about this man’s marriage issues.
But if everything you posted here about him is true, then he belongs to the group of people who believe "LOVE IS BLIND"😂 😂 😂

I dey tell you...

Ibime:
@ A40

Have you heard J Cole fall off album?

That's the best rap album in over 2 decades

Ok you might be on to something. Listened to the first 7 tracks, no filler thus far and Legacy is definitely one of the best stuff I've heard in that timeframe above.

I see my girl Tems on there, I'm so happy she never went the pangolo route like the Ayra Starr, Yemi Alade dem dem wey just waste their fine voice with Awilo megedefegede pattern instead of balancing and dropping hooks that go nuclear like Tems did on Essence

Roland17:
Another important life lesson from the Roby & Mayowa story.:

Men, try get correct friend like Timi Dakolo!

Throughout the interview Roby talked about the role Timi played during his darkest moments.

Timi stood by his guy, supported his guy, traveled with him, borrow am car, ensured he was always good, never judged him..

And nobody hear pim..

Timi u b correct guy

One thing I go always advice niggas, no too put mind for LDR even woman under your nose na 50/50 talkless of woman wey you no fit fly go see anytime and also have some standards and hard boundaries. This will save you from the crashout I've been saying lately by men. The Virginia Lt Governor wey kpai himself kpai the wife or that animal for Louisiana that killed 8 kids.

I looked up the woman he dey cry about and I just dey shake my head. Crying publicly over a strong 3 is definitely a choice. He's probably searched himself and seen that he has given that babe wetin she no deserve. That epiphany of him fooling na him dey lead to that cry

This is why Simps and Simpin really annoy me. All that money e dey funnel to that woman is money e for use dey tidy himself. And what many men do not realize is that as a man nobody go sorry for you when you rundown, only you go wet for inside rain. E get why Widower's ministry no dey for church

Btw did you see the Patriots coach Mike Vrabel and Diana Russini . These guys have been cutting up since at least 2020. She had a son in 2021. Guess the son's name. Just take a wild guess

A40:
One thing I go always advice niggas, no too put mind for LDR even woman under your nose na 50/50 talkless of woman wey you no fit fly go see anytime and also have some standards and hard boundaries. This will save you from the crashout I've been saying lately by men. The Virginia Lt Governor wey kpai himself kpai the wife or that animal for Louisiana that killed 8 kids.

I looked up the woman he dey cry about and I just dey shake my head. Crying publicly over a strong 3 is definitely a choice. He's probably searched himself and seen that he has given that babe wetin she no deserve. That epiphany of him fooling na him dey lead to that cry

This is why Simps and Simpin really annoy me. All that money e dey funnel to that woman is money e for use dey tidy himself. And what many men do not realize is that as a man nobody go sorry for you when you rundown, only you go wet for inside rain. E get why Widower's ministry no dey for church

Btw did you see the Patriots coach Mike Vrabel and Diana Russini . These guys have been cutting up since at least 2020. She had a son in 2021. Guess the son's name. Just take a wild guess

I just check…Michael!!!!!! Naaa bro! That is some deep shiiiit, nothing wen she wan tell me. Are you kidding me bro? Hahahahaaaaa. I hope her husband gets a DNA done asap because that breakfast dey cook!

When the story broke out and she was trying hard to explain, I knew something was off. Her previous comments about her marriage did not help either.

Omo make dem two just forget about their careers. Mike is definitely losing that coaching job, the pressure and distraction will be too much for R. Kraft and the Patriots.

Una sure say Gbenga Daniel and Dapo Abiodun no go later burst each other's mouth as things dey go for Ogun State particularly that their Ìjẹ̀bú senatorial constituency?

The thing is Gbenga Daniel a former governor of Ogun state and close friend of Tinubu is currently the senator representing Ogun east senatorial district at the house of assembly.

Dapo Abiodun the incumbent governor who hails from the same senatorial district aims at clinching same ticket under same party to replace Daniel in the senate. He wants to retire from his governorship seat to the senate like most governors always nurse same ambition.

It seems none of them is prepared to back down for each other..... Earlier this week Dapo Abiodun's faction called a congress where they proposed to adopt him as the consensus candidate of APC for the senate ticket. Gbenga Daniel and his loyalists were denied entry into the venue even though they arrived very early.

Gbenga Daniel has now come out to say any attempt to impose Dapo Abiodun as the consensus candidate of the party will be resisted with full force. The two factions now seem to be set for a full showdown.

One is curious to ask who Tinubu might likely anoint to clinch the ticket eventually. Is it Gbenga Daniel his good friend or Dapo whom he christened "Eleyi" in 2022?

A40:
One thing I go always advice niggas, no too put mind for LDR even woman under your nose na 50/50 talkless of woman wey you no fit fly go see anytime and also have some standards and hard boundaries. This will save you from the crashout I've been saying lately by men. The Virginia Lt Governor wey kpai himself kpai the wife or that animal for Louisiana that killed 8 kids.

I looked up the woman he dey cry about and I just dey shake my head. Crying publicly over a strong 3 is definitely a choice. He's probably searched himself and seen that he has given that babe wetin she no deserve. That epiphany of him fooling na him dey lead to that cry

This is why Simps and Simpin really annoy me. All that money e dey funnel to that woman is money e for use dey tidy himself. And what many men do not realize is that as a man nobody go sorry for you when you rundown, only you go wet for inside rain. E get why Widower's ministry no dey for church

Btw did you see the Patriots coach Mike Vrabel and Diana Russini . These guys have been cutting up since at least 2020. She had a son in 2021. Guess the son's name. Just take a wild guess

I just check…Michael! Naaa bro! That is deep, nothing wen she wan tell me. Are you kidding me bro? Hahahahaaaaa. I hope her husband gets a DNA done asap because that breakfast dey cook!

When the story broke out and she was trying hard to explain, I knew something was off. Her previous comments about her marriage did not help either.

Omo make dem two just forget about their careers. Mike is definitely losing that job, the pressure and distraction will be too much for R. Kraft and the Patriots.

A40:
Ok you might be on to something. Listened to the first 7 tracks, no filler thus far and Legacy is definitely one of the best stuff I've heard in that timeframe above.

I see my girl Tems on there, I'm so happy she never went the pangolo route like the Ayra Starr, Yemi Alade dem dem wey just waste their fine voice with Awilo megedefegede pattern instead of balancing and dropping hooks that go nuclear like Tems did on Essence

It gets even better from the 2nd half of the first disk. From WHO TF IZ U to the end of disk 2, it's straight 🔥

The road emilokan commissioned in lagos since last 2 weeks is not opened for use yet.
Abi they commissioned uncompleted project

There should be a law prohibiting ex governors from contesting for Senate.

The only electoral position they can qualify to contest is the presidency.

No be only you God create for the state.

Roland17:
Another important life lesson from the Roby & Mayowa story.:

Men, try get correct friend like Timi Dakolo!

Throughout the interview Roby talked about the role Timi played during his darkest moments.

Timi stood by his guy, supported his guy, traveled with him, borrow am car, ensured he was always good, never judged him..

And nobody hear pim..

Timi u b correct guy

Timi who we knew as Donald in our old neighbourhood in Elelenwo PH is a solid ninja. I can count easily 5 ninjas from the neighbourhood that Timi helped move to Lagos, housed them while they found their feet and even helped with job connections. Weddings. Funerals, Health challenges, he has also contributed and sang in many of our ninjas weddings for free.

A40:
I looked up the woman he dey cry about and I just dey shake my head. Crying publicly over a strong 3 is definitely a choice.

E shock you like e shock me too abi

So true true, Ambode wan contest again?

Hmmmmm...The loss this time in the primaries might be louder

izzou:
So true true, Ambode wan contest again?

Hmmmmm...The loss this time in the primaries might be louder

If Seyi or Obasa contest against him in the primaries he will collect L flawlessly
Mc will beat him too

iamoyindamola:
If Seyi or Obasa contest against him in the primaries he will collect L flawlessly
Mc will beat him too

Seyi and Obasa are not contesting

Na Between Ambode, Hazmat (current Deputy), and one Samuel from Badagry.

izzou:
Seyi and Obasa are not contesting

Na Between Ambode, Hazmat (current Deputy), and one Samuel from Badagry.

Just saying

Raumdeuter

Do you believe this?

izzou:
So true true, Ambode wan contest again?

Hmmmmm...The loss this time in the primaries might be louder

If he contests against Hamzat, he will lose scandalously.

He should just have a gentleman agreement with Tinubu to make him head of a government parastatal board or any political appointment he can get. I don't think he can get a second term ticket under the current circumstances.

BlueRayDick:
If he contests against Hamzat, he will lose scandalously.

He should just have a gentleman agreement with Tinubu to make him head of a government parastatal board or any political appointment he can get. I don't think he can get a second term ticket under the current circumstances.

I don't even know what he's coming back for.

Unless Tinubu raises his hand like Sanwo-Olu, he should go and rest

izzou:
I don't even know what he's coming back for.

Unless Tinubu raises his hand like Sanwo-Olu, he should go and rest

It's not easy testing political power in naija and letting it go. That position of executive governor is a very powerful one that commands a whole lot of respect and pedigree. I believe that's the reason he's trying to come back.

raumdeuter:
If you have been with a woman for 1-2yrs living together doing raw steady, depending only on withdrawal method and you never give am belle once

Either of you might have fertility issues

This might not be true sir. Some of us have been in this business for over ten years now while practicing that method and are blessed with two kids already.