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izzou:
Now put this your reasoning inside Daddy GO's statement.

Can you see that it doesn't make sense?

There are far more better virtues to look out for in marriage, than making Cooking your priority

Let's think logically here. Knowing the importance of food and the fact that it is literally a medicine. What is the likelihood a woman that cannot cook for her husband and children will possess those better virtues you are speaking about

Roland17:
Wetin Mekwe don cost men ehn!

E go shock say even the Elumelu and Otedola encourage their daughters to learn how to cook.

God abeg oh!

Patriots coach, Michigan coach. The Patriots coach already said his wife has rendered his private parts useless, which is understandable they have kids in their 20s.

Btw I see una starting lineup. Laugh wan kill me. 0 minutes together this season

A40:
Patriots coach, Michigan coach. The Patriots coach already said his wife has rendered his private parts useless, which is understandable they have kids in their 20s.

Btw I see una starting lineup. Laugh wan kill me. 0 minutes together this season

Omo they are pressing the Patriots to discharge Vrabel like I predicted. He has been away from the team for a while now.

I don’t know how my Celtics will respond tonight. Sometimes, playing at home in consequential games have not gone great for us.

Theflint1:
Saying God knows who will win the elections and the winner of the elections will be decided by God are two different things.

One thing I found concerning about Pastor Adeboye that he needs to address, is that when false claims are made about him or his words are twisted, he often doesn’t publicly come out to counter them.

I have seen the news since morning, and I know the writer is just after ragebait. There are many misleading points in the article, it just wants to give the public what they want to hear.

The writer mentioned Omoyele Sowore, but Pastor Adeboye did not even mention Sowore in his address. Again, the writer claimed, and I quote: “I have protested before during the Goodluck Jonathan administration,” he said.

I wonder when he ever said that. Would Pastor Adeboye lie against himself? He never for once protested against Jonathan or his administration.
May God forgive our generation for spreading false information.

Even Alakija dey cook. Come be Nkiru or Bisi with wig and vibes no go sabi cook. Say na if she resourceful and loyal. Wetin I wan take loyalty of woman wey no sabi cook do? The same way women no rate loyalty of poor man. If you like no loyal. If I catch you e don bizzle regardless.

Besides what are the odds that a resourceful woman doesn't know how to cook at all. You people should be realistic abeg. She go dey "resourceful" meanwhile na you still dey pay for every

A40:
Let's think logically here. Knowing the importance of food and the fact that it is literally a medicine. What is the likelihood a woman that cannot cook for her husband and children will possess those better virtues you are speaking about

I don't know. Infact, I don't think I have met a lady that cannot cook. The worst I have seen is "I don't like cooking", not tht they cannot cook.

But if any man's primary criterion for marriage is cooking, then he should save the contact of Divorce attorneys for future use.

The ones divorcing here and there, did you hear them say food was the problem?

How does a man of God say Cooking is the primary requirement for a wife?

I don't need to go further. That's his opinion, and if you see it as good, that's okay. I just cannot see how someone will base a serious commitment as marriage on Cooking

User09:
I'm sorry I'm getting lost here.

Is it a woman that cannot cook i.e a bad/terrible cook or

A woman that doesnt believe in cooking - i.e she believes it isnt a woman's sole responsibility to cook in a family or marriage.

Think I'm seeing both being mixed up

A woman that cannot cook...ie bad/terrible cook

Roland17:
Omo they are pressing the Patriots to discharge Vrabel like I predicted. He has been away from the team for a while now.

I don’t know how my Celtics will respond tonight. Sometimes, playing at home in consequential games have not gone great for us.

I did see season ticket holders giving him a standing ovation. I doubt the Patriots will sack him. He is Patriots royalty. I think the issue is his madame and if she will give him ultimatum.

I really hope he don't go out like Udoka, cheating is wrong but I don't believe anyone should lose their means of livelihood for cheating. Russini is not a Patriots employee last I checked

No Tatum no Queta, I am seeing Luka Garza and Ron Harper Jr. What is that your werey coach cooking. Only one way to find out

izzou:
I don't know. Infact, I don't think I have met a lady that cannot cook. The worst I have seen is "I don't like cooking", not tht they cannot cook.

But if any man's primary criterion for marriage is cooking, then he should save the contact of Divorce attorneys for future use.

The ones divorcing here and there, did you hear them say food was the problem?

How does a man of God say Cooking is the primary requirement for a wife?

I don't need to go further. That's his opinion, and if you see it as good, that's okay. I just cannot see how someone will base a serious commitment as marriage on Cooking

Cooking is one of the criterion. A woman's inability to cook does not guarantee a successful marriage either so bragging and making it a personality flex that your wife cannot cook is not what we should normalize

For one food just like sex is engine oil that makes romantic relationship run smoothly. There is a reason families of old used to sit together on the dining table for dinner

Meals prepared inhouse with love hits different than ordering Chowdeck every day.

Cooking is a love language (Acts of service) What I'm telling you is that a woman that will not cook is most likely lacking in the other aspects that make a good wife

A40:
Cooking is one of the criterion. A woman's inability to cook does not guarantee a successful marriage either so bragging and making it a personality flex that your wife cannot cook is not what we should normalize

For one food just like sex is engine oil that makes romantic relationship run smoothly. There is a reason families of old used to sit together on the dining table for dinner

Meals prepared inhouse with love hits different than ordering Chowdeck every day.

Cooking is a love language (Acts of service) What I'm telling you is that a woman that will not cook is most likely lacking in the other aspects that make a good wife

He did not say "Not Cook".

He said " Cannot cook"

These are two different things. Someone can prepare Egusi and it's not delicious....That's a "Cannot cook" right there

So after looking at her life and she fits my profile, I should leave her because of Daddy GO's recommendation?

@afrodoc

So BBL is this bad and ladies save up to still undergo the surgery?

I never heard of fat cells dying till now.

WHAT THEY DON’T TELL YOU ABOUT BBL’S pic.twitter.com/KJRWuOqwng

— #90sBabyShow (@90sBabyShow) December 17, 2023

izzou:
He did not say "Not Cook".

He said " Cannot cook"

These are two different things. Someone can prepare Egusi and it's not delicious....That's a "Cannot cook" right there

So after looking at her life and she fits my profile, I should leave her because of Daddy GO's recommendation?

It's humanly impossible to not be able to cook any food after a certain amount of repetition. I asked what she was doing from puberty to adulthood that she cannot cook at all. It's either she is a Nepo baby (a lot of them can actually cook) or a wannabe baddie. If she's the latter no problem let's break her pockets, if she's a struggle baddie. What's her use?

A woman that does not care about her nutrition and that of her partner and potentially offspring is a red flag to me.

Your profile is your profile e no really bother me, I'm just telling you that a woman that cannot cook the chances of her meeting that your profile just based on probability is very low

izzou:
A woman that cannot cook...ie bad/terrible cook

I see.

Then I'm on your side. It's a skill issue not a recalcitrant one

Based on our discussion yesterday, can it be said that Pooja is sexualizing this "meat seller"?

So many meats in this video. 💪 pic.twitter.com/k9WdLXPwMg

— POOJA!!! (@PoojaMedia) May 2, 2026

[quote author=BlueRayDick post=139285680]Based on our discussion yesterday, can it be said that Pooja is sexualizing this "meat seller"?

So many meats in this video. 💪 pic.twitter.com/k9WdLXPwMg

— POOJA!!! (@PoojaMedia) May 2, 2026

!!
Baby got back
Yummy

A40:
It's humanly impossible to not be able to cook any food after a certain amount of repetition. I asked what she was doing from puberty to adulthood that she cannot cook at all. It's either she is a Nepo baby (a lot of them can actually cook) or a wannabe baddie. If she's the latter no problem let's break her pockets, if she's a struggle baddie. What's her use?

A woman that does not care about her nutrition and that of her partner and potentially offspring is a red flag to me.

Your profile is your profile e no really bother me, I'm just telling you that a woman that cannot cook the chances of her meeting that your profile just based on probability is very low

One more question please, before I rest my case

Say...

You meet a beautiful Canadian girl. She loves you, and she's everything you have always looked out for, but she cannot cook, especially your Nigerian meals.

Do you?
1) Automatically end the relationship
2) Find a way to see it work?

User09:
I see.

Then I'm on your side. It's a skill issue not a recalcitrant one

That's my point, Chief

This thing is a skill issue.

izzou:
One more question please, before I rest my case

Say...

You meet a beautiful Canadian girl. She loves you, and she's everything you have always looked out for, but she cannot cook, especially your Nigerian meals.

Do you?
1) Automatically end the relationship
2) Find a way to see it work?

I'm not a difficult person to cook for. Give me protein (Chicken,Lamb,Goat,Steak and season it. E no pass like that) Put pepper for my food. E no pass like that cos for starters I don't even like most traditional Nigerian meals. SS/SE soup always has to have some seafood and I don't like seafood. Name the seafood I don't eat it. Most of the soups I eat na Egusi, efo riro wey no too need am.

How can a woman love you and not be interested in cooking food you like? A woman that wants to be with you everyday but she no wan cook and is not ready to try? Which kin akpuruka love be that one? Wetin even be una criteria for love

I have met a Serbian woman and Nigerian man who cooks food from both countries for her man. Iranian woman and Naija man, same thing. There is a popular babe on twitter Nwanyi Ocha. Swiss woman and cooks for her husband

I go come choose person wey no fit cook?? Please oh I have a praying mother

A40:
I'm not a difficult person to cook for. Give me protein (Chicken,Lamb,Goat,Steak and season it. E no pass like that) Put pepper for my food. E no pass like that cos for starters I don't even like most traditional Nigerian meals. SS/SE soup always has to have some seafood and I don't like seafood. Name the seafood I don't eat it. Most of the soups I eat na Egusi, efo riro wey no too need am.

How can a woman love you and not be interested in cooking food you like? A woman that wants to be with you everyday but she no wan cook and is not ready to try? Which kin akpuruka love be that one? Wetin even be una criteria for love

I have met a Serbian woman and Nigerian man who cooks food from both countries for her man. Iranian woman and Naija man, same thing. There is a popular babe on twitter Nwanyi Ocha. Swiss woman and cooks for her husband

I go come choose person wey no fit cook?? Please oh I have a praying mother

You're still mixing it up.

I cannot cook
I don't want to cook

Na two different scenarios be that.

I have a praying mother was funny sha

izzou:
You're still mixing it up.

I cannot cook
I don't want to cook

Na two different scenarios be that.

I have a praying mother was funny sha

It is strange to me that someone cannot cook at all. You don't even have a go-to meal you can whip up for anybody? That tells me people consistently cook for you. And to me that one is a red flag. I keep telling you cooking is not just food it's also an act of service and hints at a level of unselfishness and also health consciousness

If they cannot do that I'm not willing to stick around to find out their other negative traits

Imagine being married to someone and you're at work like a slave and you can't even look forward to their cooking. You are already calculating where you go buy takeaway, mind you na you dey pay all the bills. God forbid bad thing

i don't think a video has ever pissed me off more pic.twitter.com/F2IfNokADv

— ηicole .ᐟ.ᐟ 🐼 (@poptart_fartz) May 1, 2026

Questionable outfit and behavior aside you can see the OT they are giving her. The question is why would you deal with anyone who either didn't receive this OT or rejected it that made them grow to an adult that can't cook

Either way it's no bueno

[quote author=BlueRayDick post=139285680]Based on our discussion yesterday, can it be said that Pooja is sexualizing this "meat seller"?

So many meats in this video. 💪 pic.twitter.com/k9WdLXPwMg

— POOJA!!! (@PoojaMedia) May 2, 2026

that exactly what she was looking for? I mean the meat could be cut facing the camera..

A girl child has started cooking for the family in most Nigerian homes before she leaves secondary school.

How long does it even take someone to know how to prepare our local food sef? A woman that cannot cook knows what to do to know how to cook.

[quote author=BlueRayDick post=139285669]@afrodoc

So BBL is this bad and ladies save up to still undergo the surgery?

I never heard of fat cells dying till now.

WHAT THEY DON’T TELL YOU ABOUT BBL’S pic.twitter.com/KJRWuOqwng

— #90sBabyShow (@90sBabyShow) December 17, 2023

, she is talking about 2 potential complications that should have been discussed before carrying out the procedure.

The first one whereby the fat dies is called fat necrosis. The fat is actually fat cells i.e living tissue. It can die after from poor surgical technique (surgeon not taking care to transfer small amounts each time but transferring in large lumps, being too rough and potentially triggering a major inflammatory reaction, transferring too much of it and causing a pressure effect) OR from post-op infection, trauma, or poor post-operative care by the patient (smoking, sitting on the butt too early, not eating right).

The cells die and it can lead to bumps, scarring and hardening, uneven contour of the buttocks. I had a woman who came to me for a check for something which required lying on her tummy, but she could not do it because of her recent breast implant and had to do it sitting up. All these procedures have post-op care instructions that many patients ignore.

The other complication she mentioned (fat entering the blood vessels) is the life-threatening complication of fat embolism. She made a mistake though as it is the vein not the artery that is the initial culprit in BBL surgery. If a vein is nicked by a careless surgeon or if the patient's veins are anomalous (not in the normal place) and nicked, some of the fat could enter the vein and travel back to the heart and then the artery supplying the lungs where it causes the blockage that can kill in minutes to hours.

Roland17:
Isn’t that exactly what she was looking for? I mean the meat could be cut facing the camera..

Exactly what I was saying that day.

This person knows what she is doing. Somebody like her or any of those ladies always talking about being sexualized will see the efforts she put into this video to achieve this type of reactions and then claim she is being sexualized.

As how now? 🤷‍♂️

afrodoc2:
Yes, she is talking about 2 potential complications that should have been discussed before carrying out the procedure.

The first one whereby the fat dies is called fat necrosis. The fat is actually fat cells i.e living tissue. It can die after from poor surgical technique (surgeon not taking care to transfer small amounts each time but transferring in large lumps, being too rough and potentially triggering a major inflammatory reaction, transferring too much of it and causing a pressure effect) OR from post-op infection, trauma, or poor post-operative care by the patient (smoking, sitting on the butt too early, not eating right).

The cells die and it can lead to bumps, scarring and hardening, uneven contour of the buttocks. I had a woman who came to me for a check for something which required lying on her tummy, but she could not do it because of her recent breast implant and had to do it sitting up. All these procedures have post-op care instructions that many patients ignore.

The other complication she mentioned (fat entering the blood vessels) is the life-threatening complication of fat embolism. She made a mistake though as it is the vein not the artery that is the initial culprit in BBL surgery. If a vein is nicked by a careless surgeon or if the patient's veins are anomalous (not in the normal place) and nicked, some of the fat could enter the vein and travel back to the heart and then the artery supplying the lungs where it causes the blockage that can kill in minutes to hours.

So people are made to understand all.of these possible health complications and they still go ahead to signed the dotted lies to go under the knife?

Àbí these things are not explained to them in depth like you just did. Methinks a normal rational person would be scared and would get discouraged if he does cost-benefit analysis of BBL with this info. Or are most BBL patients irrational?

BlueRayDick:
So people are made to understand all.of these possible health complications and they still go ahead to signed the dotted lies to go under the knife?

Àbí these things are not explained to them in depth like you just did. Methinks a normal rational person would be scared and would get discouraged if he does cost-benefit analysis of BBL with this info. Or are most BBL patients irrational?

It would be explained to them that though it could happen it is not likely to happen. The surgeon reassures them that he knows what he is doing and if done right the probability of complications is low.

All true but the issue is the surgeon in some cases does not know what he is doing (which is why people need to research the qualifications of their surgeon). The patient might also not diligently follow instructions (one of my skin cancer surgery patients after surgery went to play golf, another was calling the clinic daily asking when he could go and play tennis). Finally, low probability is not zero probability. Some people might just be unlucky.

This video might be the difference between a person spending decades in jail for manslaughter/murder and spending couple of years on awaiting trial before being finally let go when police are unable to prove you caused the deceased's death.

The best thing to do when a visitor d!es in your home according to Nigerian law and practice

Retweet as this might save a life https://t.co/DNwyFxRgFF pic.twitter.com/ootowMuA0q

— U.C.H.E 🦅 (@iamFmajor) May 2, 2026

raumdeuter:
Is this the first time you are hearing of predestination as a doctrine in religious settings?

Or for example what exactly is strange about saying God already knows who will win between PSG and Bayern?

Saying God knows who'd win between PSG and Bayern is different from saying the winner between Bayern and PSG will be decided by God...the latter contradicts the doctrine of freewill.

izzou:
I wonder!

I would have asked him if we should vote or not.

Or what's the point of preaching a doctrine of salvation when God has already determined who'd go to hell or not.

izzou:
Sorry I cannot quote everyone who mentioned me.

My point is that Cooking can not and should not be a primary reason to choose a wife.

It's a skill that can be learnt.

So if I find a woman that loves me, is resourceful, loyal and willing to be with me forever, but cannot cook, make I leave am abi?

Cooking is a skill that can be learnt. If a woman cannot cook, but fits your profile, why not see how to make it work?

The ones wey dey divorce up and down, na cooking be the complain?

His advice is rubbish, and well it is his opinion.

The thing about a woman not knowing how to cook is often less about her not knowing how to cook, but more about whatever else it signals about her as a person/ her upbringing.

Theflint1:
The thing about a woman not knowing how to cook is often less about her not knowing how to cook, but more about whatever else it signals about her as a person/ her upbringing.

I am not saying we should investigate why a grown up woman can't cook.

I am simply saying that it cannot be the first and primary criterion for marriage.

There are many pointers to look out for before committing your entire life and loyalty to someone. That's what I find wrong with that statement

Theflint1:
Or what's the point of preaching a doctrine of salvation when God has already determined who'd go to hell or not.

A very funny statement.

At a time when you should be advocating for people to participate in elections, you are telling them that God has already decided the winner.

Make we no kuku vote then