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Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Hmmmmm , consistency and not giving up , no matter how unending it seems ,....the curse of been a responsible family man

Na who get extra extra extra, dey fit see money buy okrika put for body... Na why i no dey pity who born more than 1 pikin, come dey complain, when you know you are not earning enough.

Believe or not I'm doing okay even though I'm not using my certificate to work.
School no be scam.
Those saying school is scam have short memory and forgot what school did for them.

God will continuously keep Us All

It's not easy but being a man of modest income, I've always learn how to live within and most times below my means.

What I earn on a monthly basis isn't enough to last me for three weeks so I augment it with the little agribusiness and bricklaying hustle I do on the side, not married and I don't even dig most female company, I don't frequent the pub, smoke or go clubbing, I don't have the money to toss around on such frivolities. I believe with time my finance will take shape I just have to be intentional with the way I live and manage expenses.

It has not be easy. But with God.

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Make sure you marry woman that is not only working, but also responsible, and don't do more than your capacity.

Stop copy copy!

Keep showing up.

Focus on your family and don't take up other people's responsibilities.

Mind your business.

Tinubu's government is working relentlessly to reduce hardship in this country. Only time it iwill take. BAT 2027 is a goal

Marry a wife that would share the bills with you..70/30 is okay.
Both partners should be responsible

The thieves leaders we have are telling us to Go hard impossible or go home

Omo na killer with 70k salary with 2kids plus wife omo he no easy,but we give God d glory at least we dey manage...

AS E BE SO NA WHOCUP WE DEY DO SO OOOO

This month I've both school fees and house rent to pay. Its not easy at all. May God continue to sustain us to live up to our responsibilities as both husband and father🙏.

Anything that gives you daily income, 2k,3k 5k aside salary or not is life saving ,.learn to live within your means and born responsibility , some will survive with 100k while some will struggle with 700k. Investment when opportunity arise because that's where the financial freedom comes with

Things use to be Easy until Tinubu entered the government and killed the Economy, now everyone is struggling including the Rich

Na God hand all of us dey now o

obcpascal:
Things use to be Easy until Tinubu entered the government and killed the Economy, now everyone is struggling including the Rich

Tinubu isn't new to bringing hardship to the economy, he sold all the fields we use to play ball then to Catholic Church and private schools when he was in governor while in Lagos , Wetin that man do for Maryland field, that field wey get 6 different places to play ball,the field has 11 aside, and about 5 different 5 asides in all locations within the field, Tinubu sell ham ...

God is the source of my provisions. Because each year I spend far more than what I envisage. I don't womanize or club or spend frivolously. Sometimes when I doubt my expenditure I have to cross check my expenses and it's always on point. It's just God.

Testimony. I went from a 1.5 flat to a 3.5m flat last year. It wasn't planned at the start of the year. But it happened. Then a baby also came. Omo. Na God.

It's not been easy cos if easy nah setup o.

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Get multiple streams of income n you ll be fine

b0rn2fuck:
Anything that gives you daily income, 2k,3k 5k aside salary or not is life saving ,.learn to live beyond your means and born responsibility , some will survive with 100k while some will struggle with 700k. Investment when opportunity arise because that's where the financial freedom comes

Na wetin you dey talk sef?!

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Smh.
Ridiculous question you ask after living above your means.

You do not cope in marriage, no be by force to marry when you can not provide for your family in a sustainable and frugal way at all times.

During GEJ, you complained. Buhari came, you complained. Asiwaju is there in office now, you are still complaining and struggling. Smh.

When is your pursuit going to ever produce results? You need Jesus. As for you, no government can make your lot better.

We are doing fine. How are you doing our dear Irresponsible men?

femi4:
Get multiple streams of income n you ll be fine

Awon motivational speakers don talk

This d best advice but how practicable....u post on whatsapp billing....u are on ur own impromptu billing comes... just to add your advice i minimize being liquid....u cant give what u dont have

StormpyBee:
Keep showing up.

Focus on your family and don't take up other people's responsibilities.

Mind your business.

Kobicove:
Na wetin you dey talk sef?!

na within your means ja re...

Tinubu has taken us to the deepest dimensions of poverty.

We must destroy Emilokan b4 he destroys us all

MarkNsukkaBread:
Awon motivational speakers don talk

ki lomode e mo...afi ko sere lori nl

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Face live as it is. No comparison, no rat race.

There are only two ways to a successful life:

1. Get all you want.

2. Get satisfied with what you have.