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SouthSouth1914:
How does this relate to the topic? I am just confused, any clarification?

My education is helping me to cope.
I must have talked about you, ndi school is scam.

Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, I won’t waste my time engaging you. Me and you clearly no dey the same level in anything. I seriously bow for the kind people wey man pikin dey jam for here. They need to start teaching critical reasoning and logic in our schools!

Your salary can never make you rich. Take that home. It's an indisputable fact

Mitsurugi:
God is the source of my provisions. Because each year I spend far more than what I envisage. I don't womanize or club or spend frivolously. Sometimes when I doubt my expenditure I have to cross check my expenses and it's always on point. It's just God.

Testimony. I went from a 1.5 flat to a 3.5m flat last year. It wasn't planned at the start of the year. But it happened. Then a baby also came. Omo. Na God.

God does wonders, but if your expenses outweighs your income consistently. Then there's a serious cause for concern from financial POV. I'll recommend you watch a Netflix documentary on " How to get Rich." Targetted at family modern day oriented wealth building...

Fekumzi123:
Believe or not I'm doing okay even though I'm not using my certificate to work.
School no be scam.
Those saying school is scam have short memory and forgot what school did for them.

Omo o.
But no be wetin dem ask you be this o.
Truly, you sure say you no be scam so?

not easy at all, fuel takes a lot of my income these days, school runs and going to work with car is not funny again

God all the way. We will never give up. Things will surely get better

No be only. Some Women will not and I am speaking from experience.


But some will help out and then see finish go come if you don't get extra income flowing after a while

juwoonn:
Marry a wife that would share the bills with you..70/30 is okay.
Both partners should be responsible

Invest with what exactly? Na with mouth dem deh invest? A family man earning even 200k a month no fit invest in any reasonable thing talk less of a 70k earner.

b0rn2fuck:
Anything that gives you daily income, 2k,3k 5k aside salary or not is life saving ,.learn to live within your means and born responsibility , some will survive with 100k while some will struggle with 700k. Investment when opportunity arise because that's where the financial freedom comes with

Nation buildig takes time bro

shedy03:
Person wey campaign with "we'll reduce the purchasing power of the citizens and widen tax net", na that one go reduce hardship in the country? Hahaha....

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

Things are tough, yes, but if your wife tells you she and her kid (note kid, singular, as you wrote) alone need a monthly upkeep between a quarter million and half a million naira, then you need a new wife.

PattersonHR:
Invest with what exactly? Na with mouth dem deh invest? A family man earning even 200k a month no fit invest in any reasonable thing talk less of a 70k earner.

bro, you build a business with saving plans or invest from saving plans, investment start from 5k. I have invested 32k but stock and resale for 120k ,I bought different of stocks, lost in few. but first bank and fidelity bank then were golds for me. I bought first bank in less than 20k then bought the way they are doubling shares bonus earns me a lot , e be like say the money no wan finish, I have business and i try to invest as little as I can. You can build money portfolio with just 20k or 5 k with bamboo app or cowries saving oga

Betterthanwalki:
Advice to the legit working singles
You better buy enough clothes for yourself, before jumping. That ur account balance go flatt..

like as in, a responsible decent family man, you, wife a kid cost BTW 250k - 500k monthly up keep alone, with strict management. Haaaba how do you want a young man to get marry now. This fuel prices anomalies has reduced me to nothing in the house.

Pls share your experience

My rent currently in oshodi is 950k 😭😭😭😭

It has not been easy but God is just showing up for me at every last minute. I just dey take responsibility of my immediate family and also monthly stipend to my mama

Jabar2017:
Omo na killer with 70k salary with 2kids plus wife omo he no easy,but we give God d glory at least we dey manage...

which State are you don't mention South west

Godfullsam:
Fi you know what is good for you ;

1. Don't birth too much children

2. Make sure you marry a lady that is doing something (working)
3. Make sure your wife is ready and willing to support.
4. No carry family matter for ya head. Those your siblings will find a way to sort things out for themselves with or without you. Just do your best for them and leave the rest.
5. Take good care of your parents if they are still alive. Their prayers go a long way more than your pastor's prayers in your life.
6. Don't try to impress any body, especially your wife family.

Number 6 most Men are guilty 😭😭

Gerundphrase:
Thank god I have paid my house rent. Half of people living in my apartment haven't payed their rent. Landlord Don give quit notice tire. Thank Gos for mmesomachukwu that girl has been a blessing to me. Find a partner that has hand work and sense too. E get why

Link me with her sister

engrchykae:
Irresponsible men are not aware of what God did for them.

lol

Lumig:
I don't know why whenever I hear the tag "responsible men" it always sounds like "mugu" and "easily manipulated" men. A puppet or tool in the hand of another lazy and cunning grown-up, to achieve her personal goals.

That’s the meaning na. It’s a way of praising the person so as to keep using him without getting to know he is being used.

This right here,is the CODE I live by... Mind your Damn Binness(Business). Always show up for your Fam,Top Priority.

StormpyBee:
Keep showing up.

Focus on your family and don't take up other people's responsibilities.

Mind your business.

Hassanmaye:
My rent currently in oshodi is 950k 😭😭😭😭

How much do you earn monthly? Outrageous

Neoteny:
Things are tough, yes, but if your wife tells you she and her kid (note kid, singular, as you wrote) alone need a monthly upkeep between a quarter million and half a million naira, then you need a new wife.

I quoted BTW 250k to 500k, if you are spending less than that, you need to explain to us

About to stop being responsible.

E deh choke

Betterthanwalki:
How much do you earn monthly? Outrageous

My girlfriend family is rich o, na she they give me money, I earn 400 from a corporate financial firm in VI

tgmservice:
Tinubu has taken us to the deepest dimensions of poverty.

We must destroy Emilokan b4 he destroys us all

When Jonathan was in power people complained even buhari so nothing is new with Tinubu plz

Just double ur source of income and smile

lordm:
No be only. Women will not and I am speaking from experience.

I'm married bro..12 years in the business now.
All women are not the same.

Emeka71:
Likewise me.

May life go easy on us, man.

I am currently jobless, lost my job when Kuda downsized over 40% of its staff.

Currently l paid all 3rd term schools fees for my 3 kids
Bought bag of rice and carton of spag
Paid my rent till Feb 2027

Once I see like 5k to 20k I use it to buy anytin not available or about to finish

I just dey house dey look up n dwn, I am currently so afraid and don't know what to do.

Hhh4444:
lol

dey there na.
It will be a great relief to irresponsible men.

My woman left and we got seperated,I’m trying to fend for my daughter this period ,not been easy though ,I hope I overcome this challenge and achieve that billion dollar dreams of being financially free and healthy..

Don't rely on one stream of income

FlamingBulb:
I am currently jobless, lost my job when Kuda downsized over 40% of its staff.

Currently l paid all 3rd term schools fees for my 3 kids
Bought bag of rice and carton of spag
Paid my rent till Feb 2027

Once I see like 5k to 20k I use it to buy anytin not available or about to finish

I just dey house dey look up n dwn, I am currently so afraid and don't know what to do.

Things like these happens for a reason.
You'd go through trials and tribulations only to come out stronger, wiser and more financially stable.
Some or most friends and family will dessert you, don't let that bother you. Just keep selling your capabilities to those who'd wish to hear, just maybe something good may pop up and if nothing happens you'd need to cut down your expenses( find a cheaper house and school for the kids)
Your wife may start to disrespect you, try to overlook it, that's woman nature.
I pray God comes through sooner than you imagine.