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| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 7:56pm On May 05 |
Orinechi:Thank you, I don't know why they are sticking to her objection |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 8:01pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:Some get off and landed in what is even worst than where they ran from. It is better you have a second thought before get off. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 8:04pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:Not being rape, it is accepting to married the brother of the late husband. The headline is there. And the video is there when she was narrating the whole incident |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 8:04pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:Yet reality shows, time and time again, that women are better off divorced than stuck in shithole marriages? 😒 I am more and more convinced that this endurance wife phenomenon is fueled by mental illness. 😒😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 8:06pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:If you say no to a man, and he refuses to take your answer, even going as far as to double down, threatening and manipulating you into saying yes to him, you are literally being raped by that man. 😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 8:09pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:If marriage is a burden try being single and come tell me the testimony of your singlehood. We have seen video of single lady sharing tears for being single and somebody is here magnifying singlehood |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 8:10pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:What about if the tradition give the man the right to the woman will you also call that rape? |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:In 2026, your traditions have no power over you unless you give it power over yourself. It is that simple! 😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 8:19pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:. I know so many single people whose lives are much happier than the vast majority of married folks out there. 😒 Marriage has never been a guarantee of happiness or fulfilment in life. Reality is right in front of your eyes. Why you refuse to accept it for what it is, is a you problem.😒 If in 2026, you still believe that single folks are miserable, then this is a mental issue on your part. 😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 10:19pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:I have post more than four single ladies on nairaland who are very wealthy but begging for men to come and marry them. Have you come across this word WOMEN ARE NOTHING WITHOUT MEN. You are pointing to 2026, tell me the beneficial difference with other past years |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Lovelink1991(op): 10:21pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:What is the difference between this 2026 and 1990 because a lot of you seems to be brag about 2026 and there is nothing to show for it |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Orinechi: 10:21pm On May 05 |
Kobojunkie:There is no pretence there. The burden should be on her shoulder as someone married into that family if he truly loved her husband. Besides, her husband's brother may even lover her more than those her exes she wants to return her kpekus to for further browsing. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by femi4: 10:23pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:Young lady, respect the culture n tradition |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by 01binary: 10:25pm On May 05 |
If you mind no dey, no bring am for public. Simply reject abeg. These gender sef.... Confused by the second |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Mariangeles(f): 10:27pm On May 05 |
01binary:Yes! Make she bring am for public make everybody hear, just in case... When people hear "widow", they imagine a helpless woman without a family to protect her...like she came from nowhere. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Checkwell: 10:27pm On May 05 |
Everything now na content. Some things should not be brought into public space. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Jamie248: 10:28pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:What's the guarantee... if he's been childless this long he's probably infertile... considering the fact Nigerian men cheat like there's no tomorrow ![]() Chances are close to 100% he's been shooting blanks all this while, changing of towtow can't do the trick for him |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by DomPerignon: 10:29pm On May 05 |
Its in their culture to inherit the wife of a dead sibling nah. This is not news . |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by feedthenation(m): 10:29pm On May 05 |
---Some cultures and people should stop all these ridiculous traditions--- |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:1. Those 4 women do not represent all single women or men out there. You are old enough to know this. 😒 In every generation, approximately 25% of all men and women never get married or procreate, and many of them live happy, more fulfilled lives at that. A good portion of them do so by choice. Do we ignore their reality all because you met 4 single ladies who would rather be married and have babies? 😒 2. Women are nothing without men, in the same way men are nothing without women. Society, as we know it, is built on the backs of the labor of both men and women. However, that has nothing to do with what is a personal choice to either remain single or get married. Individual men and women have the freedom to choose either marriage or singleness; society, built by both men and women, guarantees that freedom. 😒 3. More people now have access to better information to make better-informed and beneficial decisions in life. That is a good thing. 😒 The woman in your OP has access to enough information to help her better maneuver the situation to her benefit. She also has the freedom to shackle herself to traditions of the past to the benefit of the man bothering her. That too is a choice she has. 😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Kobojunkie: 10:32pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:Most Nigerians were grossly ignorant of their freedoms, and lived believing that tradition had some sort of magical hold over them back in 1990. In 2026, only voluntarily ignorant beings pretend that remains the case. 😒 |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by meobizy(m): 10:32pm On May 05*. Modified: 10:52pm On May 05 |
Lies. I would understand if they lived deep in a village. These days, villages are becoming towns and doing away with many traditions. She seems to be in a city. She’s catching cruise. If she’s arrested now for fake news, her mother will come out crying, “She’s a good girl. She didn’t do anything. She just wrote JAMB. She turned eighteen two days ago. She has children and younger ones to feed.” Also, people have different tastes in women. I cannot imagine wanting my sibling’s wife or girlfriend in any way other than mutual existence. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Romanus123: 10:34pm On May 05 |
Another planned/fake story to get views/followers |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Prosperchiji: 10:34pm On May 05 |
Abegi wetin kill ur husband |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Mariangeles(f): 10:36pm On May 05 |
Prosperchiji:Go ask her brother in-law. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Ahmeduana(m): 10:45pm On May 05 |
decatalyst:As if they are already forking together |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by RHCM: 10:54pm On May 05 |
What a useless culture that doesn't protect the woman Why threaten her with exit from the family Afterwards she is not legally bound to the family again as what joined her to their family has died Sincerely that MIL will not accept this if it were her own very daughter in this precarious situation cos I know she would rather use everything in her as a woman and mother to protect her daughter from such cultural nonsense The lady is free to remarry if she so chooses n take her kids with her cos if this is what they are doing by threatening her to cforce to accepting such nonsense She better leave that family fast nnstsy away from them all |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Oluwaseunomo: 10:54pm On May 05 |
So why are you telling us we should help you beat him or what, face your problem like a sensible human and get out of our screen. Head full na money we dey reason |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by dewiseacre(m): 10:55pm On May 05 |
All shades of wrong! Just using the "have a child for me because I've been childless for 17 years" excuse to sleep with that poor widow. If it's truly a child he wants, then he should opt for artificial insemination with her without sleeping with her. Talking as if the woman na automatic baby manufacturer. What's the guarantee she will get pregnant after you have had your way with her? Just so so wrong by any standards. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Oluwaseunomo: 10:58pm On May 05 |
Mariangeles:Who get time for that in this present days everybody get e own for body wey e dey face. Because you be widow she think say she go buy sympathy keep wasting your time |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by AAADE(m): 10:59pm On May 05 |
There is no big deal there. this is pure African culture. It's because UK, US and all these western world turned things upside down that out women are frowning about it. Even holy bible supported it and it's biblical. Though in those days too they don't force them. The family head will call the meeting, mention all the husband brothers that are entitled to her and they will give her option to chose whom she want. But in the case she reject everyone then she may attract many enemy in that family. |
| Re: My Late Husband's Younger Brother Wants Me To Have A Baby For Him - Widow by Oluwaseunomo: 11:02pm On May 05 |
Lovelink1991:You get time dey reply that person person wey be say all her comments for nairaland na offkey just ignore her she's not worth your time |
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