₦airaland Forum

Amigoos1:
Whenever I see news like this my mind immediately goes to the families involved. I just keep wondering the kind of pain and condition they must be in.
God am honestly tired of this country And to think there’s one Godforsaken man out here saying these people should be rehabilitated.

Which begs the question, on what basis is Asiwaju seeking reelection for the office of the president?

izzou:
A teacher was just beheaded over nothing!

God abeg!

APC na one chance party. The worst political party in the history of Africa

pocohantas:
If he put this much effort into his first marriage, maybe he would have been celebrating 15-20yrs anniversary. I no know the juju this iyawos dey use hold una, but make them share update for iyales. The thing that will send iyale back to her father's house, iyawo would do x20 and the man go dey quiet.

Gbamsolutely, Oil dey your head

These are the undoing of many men and women today. There is no perfect man or perfect woman out there. Aside from infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities, or maybe one party is involvement in criminal activities, I see no reason why a marriage should fall apart. Many marriages would last if couples learned understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect.

You may divorce one person because of a bad habit, only to discover that the next one you maeried has worse flaws. A happy home is built by two imperfect people willing to grow together, not by looking a perfect partner which doesn't exist anywhere.

Even you and I reading this were not perfect when you first got married. We learned, adjusted, and grew with time.

Omo forget, Nigerians get bad mouth die!

I don laff die..

Chike na real businessman too. No better time to wax song than now..

Baba enjoy, na your time

Ibime:
The kain hammer Desmond go hammer between now and election day no be here

not sure he has avenues open to him like that

everyone is reading the writing on the wall and the same people withdrawing his security will be stalling signing off on document or using process

also if them mean am - they can set efcc on him - the guy should be careful as he is the whipping boy for the failed obasa coup
obasa may even go after sanwo olu as well

we went through a transition to new owners at work and i watched a powerful contractor's influence shrink in real time. someone who if his invoice enters on Friday it is processed all the way to the top that same day - they were sitting on his invoice for weeks

MorataFC:
Gbamsolutely, Oil dey your head

These are the undoing of many men and women today. There is no perfect man or perfect woman out there. Aside from infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities, or maybe one party is involvement in criminal activities, I see no reason why a marriage should fall apart. Many marriages would last if couples learned understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect.

You may divorce one person because of a bad habit, only to discover that the next one you maeried has worse flaws. A happy home is built by two imperfect people willing to grow together, not by looking a perfect partner which doesn't exist anywhere.

Even you and I reading this were not perfect when you first got married. We learned, adjusted, and grew with time.

Well said, Morata.

We are all here on the internet watching these things play out, yet people gamble their spouses. One time I was rooting for Tonto to pick herself back up. What happened? She landed into the arms of Kpokpogarri. What of Tiwa? Ended up with a sextape. Tuface moved to Natasha that wanted to burst his head in public. FE? Married his sidechick that refused to stop fcking around after being caught, forgiven and given a second chance.

What did he say his first wife did wrong? Only thing I remember is he married her because of pregnancy and the whole marriage was a mismatch. Is this one matching now?

Mine's boss at work has been married and divorced twice. He said it actually gets worse for the majority as you begin to remarry. I disagreed then, but I am beginning to agree looking at the data on ground. Except any form of abuse, I fail to see why couples cannot behave themselves and sort out issues. At least FE's ex-wives have the kids to use hold body. What does he have at 53? I don't blame him for crashing out. It is really painful.

User09:
Hammer as in how?

I dont understand. Do you mean they'll settle him to step down.

It looks like they are actually doing the opposite by withdrawing all his current benefits

He will steal public funds

[quote author=iamoyindamola post=139446079]The man of the hour
Nackademus himself, see as ladies they rush am

Chike at the film house cinema this evening and ladies going crazi, all of them wanted to take pictures with him👀🌚 pic.twitter.com/ZIv7byx9IT

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) May 17, 2026

don become naija chris brown

google chris brown meet

mr steal you trophy wife

Amigoos1:
Women are shameless. See the way dey were rushing to take pictures with chike at the movie premiere. One thing about women, they want what other women already have. VDM saying everything was over for Chike was laughable.

How na
Be proud brother
As for VDM and his frequent rubbish, he is always jumping on scandal to hijack attention

GloriousGbola:
chike don become naija chris brown

google chris brown meet

mr steal you trophy wife

Make we free the guy jare, we blamed roby.

GloriousGbola:
chike don become naija chris brown

google chris brown meet

mr steal you trophy wife

Lubbish
These ladies are something else

Roland17:
Which begs the question, on what basis is Asiwaju seeking reelection for the office of the president?

If Nigeria was a serious country, Tinubu wouldn't have the balls to even seek re-election.

Jamiuokolaa:
If the buck stops at the president's table, is he not responsible and accountable?

Security is a shared responsibility, That is why we have state governors who are well funded and empowered to secure their domains, The president in Abuja cannot know the intricacies of every state

That is why governors need to step up

iamoyindamola:
Very stupid guy, instead of you to stay where you stand a chance
Now he's in no man's land

Obi sef no stay one place, In the last 1yr Obi has been in 3 different parties

GloriousGbola:
chike don become naija chris brown

google chris brown meet

mr steal you trophy wife

You know say women dey pa Chris Brown for those pictures

raumdeuter:
You know say women dey pa Chris Brown for those pictures

yes i know

which is even worse

imagine say your chick borrow money from you to pay chris brown to grind her

izzou:
These people think they discovered APC, so they will just stroll in, and get the ticket. You know many people dey line for the past 12 years dey wait?

Dem give baba 11am, do primaries by 8am
Sope O ti lor

Betrayal.
But abeg who is the real betrayal here, is it this man that betrayed LP or Apc party that betrayedthis man?

GloriousGbola:
not sure he has avenues open to him like that

everyone is reading the writing on the wall and the same people withdrawing his security will be stalling signing off on document or using process

also if them mean am - they can set efcc on him - the guy should be careful as he is the whipping boy for the failed obasa coup
obasa may even go after sanwo olu as well

we went through a transition to new owners at work and i watched a powerful contractor's influence shrink in real time. someone who if his invoice enters on Friday it is processed all the way to the top that same day - they were sitting on his invoice for weeks

Obasa is done with Lagos politics for now, he is going to house reps in Abuja by 2027. He no get anything he Wan use Sanwoolu do again since he won't be the speaker by then. It's only if he was speaker he can call for investigation of Sanwoolu's administration and stink retirement up for Sanwoolu.

Something tells me Desmond is eying that Lagos state house of assembly speakership seat, that's why he's refusing to step down. He has a chance as a 4th term house of assembly member. So He dey Para why his "people" Want him to miss out on that once in a lifetime opportunity

BlueRayDick:
Obasa is done with Lagos politics for now, he is going to house reps in Abuja by 2027. He no get anything he Wan use Sanwoolu do again since he won't be the speaker by then. It's only if he was speaker he can call for investigation of Sanwoolu's administration and stink retirement up for Sanwoolu.

Something tells me Desmond is eying that Lagos state house of assembly speakership seat, that's why he's refusing to step down. He has a chance as a 4th term house of assembly member. So He dey Para why his "people" Want him to miss out on that once in a lifetime opportunity

hmmm

maybe if they had succeeded in the coup

oh well - he missed

semid4lyfe:
How consistently do you think he gets those event hosting gigs?

There's a lot of competition in the industry with seasoned professionals and young cats in the game.

Also, many actors, comedians, TV anchors/Radio OAPs don crossover and dey do this event hosting and MC thing now. Off hand, there's

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu.
Ik Osakioduwa
Gbenga Adeyinka
Bovi
Basket Mouth
Nancy Isime
Kie Kie
Ali Baba
Gordons
AY
Dotun
Roby Ekpo
Seyi Law.
Koffi
Rufai Oseni
Ruben Abati.
Toke Makinwa

etc

I have no doubt he'll be getting gigs here and there but I dont think it'd be enough to meet domestic/family responsibilities and maintain his lifestyle.

He should go back to radio and TV so he can draw a monthly income while doing the event hosting thing on the side.

I don't get dis.
Rufai Oseni and Ruben Abati dey do what? 😂

I can't laugh alone. Politics hard gan

What they are doing to Ned Nwoko is bad ooh pic.twitter.com/DAU9iT1VUi

— Emma ik Umeh (Tcee )🇳🇬 (@emmaikumeh) May 18, 2026

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Akinlot:
I can't laugh alone. Politics hard gan

What they are doing to Ned Nwoko is bad ooh pic.twitter.com/DAU9iT1VUi

— Emma ik Umeh (Tcee )🇳🇬 (@emmaikumeh) May 18, 2026

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Ned and Okowa dey the same party?

MorataFC:
Betrayal.
But abeg who is the real betrayal here, is it this man that betrayed LP or Apc party that betrayedthis man?

Nobody betrayed him.

Just like a good player in a Coker Secondary School, who now relocated to Ihiala Secondary School, and wants to automatically become Captain.

Not like, he cannot be Captain, but there's nothing he has done to earn it.

Ibime:
Any sensible LP winner except those in Abia under Ottis structure should know they are there for one term only and make sure they don't return to poverty after their one term. Anyone fooling themselves otherwise will most likely return to poverty sooner or later cos dem no get sense

They are all going to return to poverty

APC primaries dey always get more votes than the real election

Na so Chris abi Andy Uba get 240,000 votes for primaries. On election day, e no get 20,000

How can a ward in Delta be producing 12,000 votes?

MorataFC:
Aside from infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities, or maybe one party is involvement in criminal activities, I see no reason why a marriage should fall apart. Many marriages would last if couples learned understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect.

You may divorce one person because of a bad habit, only to discover that the next one you maeried has worse flaws.

The points you listed in the bolded are actually more loaded than they seem.

For example, let's look at failure to fulfil responsibilities : It can be financial in nature, sexual and even psychological in nature.

A man may suddenly go broke and becomes unable to fulfil his financial responsibilities to his family. He may try his best but things end up not working out. There is no amount of communication he may apply, once the bills are not getting paid the woman may start looking for way out of the marriage.

All those talks about patience, mutual respect, forgiveness etc will fly out of the window.

Methinks all those "infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities" you listed as valid grounds for divorce are intertwined with "understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect." which you expected partners should exhibit to have a long lasting union. They are not independent of each other.

I don't know if I make sense sha.

Roland17:
Omo forget, Nigerians get bad mouth die!

I don laff die..

Chike na real businessman too. No better time to wax song than now..

Baba enjoy, na your time

Exactly, no better time to lean into the art than now...fit even drop one or two diss songs for Frank Edoho so he has the last say.

Theflint1:
Exactly, no better time to lean into the art than now...fit even drop one or two diss songs for Frank Edoho so he has the last say.

THIS IS HOW WE CUCK IT

many husbands many many many husbands wish death on me
your wife cream on my prick but i cant see
i'm trying to be what i'm destined to be
you better not leave your wife around me
cause i'll come and shift her knicker away

new rap genre unlocked

Dem no clear Ben Bruce too?

pocohantas:
Well said, Morata.

We are all here on the internet watching these things play out, yet people gamble their spouses. One time I was rooting for Tonto to pick herself back up. What happened? She landed into the arms of Kpokpogarri. What of Tiwa? Ended up with a sextape. Tuface moved to Natasha that wanted to burst his head in public. FE? Married his sidechick that refused to stop fcking around after being caught, forgiven and given a second chance.

What did he say his first wife did wrong? Only thing I remember is he married her because of pregnancy and the whole marriage was a mismatch. Is this one matching now?

Mine's boss at work has been married and divorced twice. He said it actually gets worse for the majority as you begin to remarry. I disagreed then, but I am beginning to agree looking at the data on ground. Except any form of abuse, I fail to see why couples cannot behave themselves and sort out issues. At least FE's ex-wives have the kids to use hold body. What does he have at 53? I don't blame him for crashing out. It is really painful.

True this. After the loss of that first marriage, a person has fewer options, and compromises they normally won't have made they start making, not to mention persons willing to marry someone coming from a divorce would be coming with their own baggages.

Would always advice holding on hard to that first marriage.

There might be happily ever after stories dey abroad, but the ones I've seen here in Nigeria hardly end well...my uncle wey e first marriage pack up is currently on his third

Theflint1:
True this. After the loss of that first marriage, a person has fewer options, and compromises they normally won't have made they start making, not to mention persons willing to marry someone coming from a divorce would be coming with their own baggages.

Would always advice holding on hard to that first marriage.

There might be happily ever after stories dey abroad, but the ones I've seen here in Nigeria hardly end well...my uncle wey e first marriage pack up is currently on his third

Yesterday after listening to the full VN from FE. I come pity am. He really tried to patch things up. Went to Chike. Called his wife's church mother to talk to her, yet she continued. Would FE of 15yrs ago take such nonsense? In his words, he told Chike she is his wife and they have kids. That he wants to raise the kids together with her. Don't be surprised he didn't do as much as she alleged, but she knows he is the one with a failed marriage already. Now he should explain 2 failed marriages. 😂😂😂

pocohantas:
Yesterday after listening to the full VN from FE. I come pity am. He really tried to patch things up. Went to Chike. Called his wife's church mother to talk to her, yet she continued. Would FE of 15yrs ago take such nonsense? In his words, he told Chike she is his wife and they have kids. That he wants to raise the kids together with her. Don't be surprised he didn't do as much as she alleged, but she knows he is the one with a failed marriage already. Now he should explain 2 failed marriages. 😂😂😂

I will never understand men who claim to love their wives soo much yet they cheat constantly in their marriages. Like what exactly is the thought process of hurting the person you claim to love repeatedly. For her to say Bleep the marriage she must have endured a lot from Frank to even make that decision.