₦airaland Forum

Rutherinspace:
This is the mindset that has held back progress for far too long in African communities. .

But this is fallacy and I believe you know it.
Why attribute Africa's lack of progress to this.
You mean Africa is not held back because of bad leaders, we are not held back because we lack the instructions. but according to you, we are held back and not progressing because we feel that the chastity of a married woman is stronger in keeping the family than that of her husband.

I really don't understand how you see Africa's problems.

Hullcity:
Out of all the thousands of single young and beautiful ladies available , u went for a maried woman. Now u have succeeded in breaking the home of your fellow man. And you think you can have peace of mind, never! .
Ur career is over before it started becos if your Foolishness .

The truth is you are just being emotional. Many married men and women don't respect their marriage vows. Don't tell me you're not aware of that. There is no relationship between a boy who sleeps with a married woman and his career. I know a lot of men who do such and they are very successful in their careers. We should learn to separate logic from emotions.

jaxxy:
What is funny is that cheating married men are upset with chike for cheating.

We need more people like you to say the truth. It's funny how unfaithful men are angry with Chike. 🤣

Rutherinspace:
So what does the Bible say about an adulterous man.

None is better.

jaxxy:
What is funny is that cheating married men are upset with chike for cheating.

Hehehehe.
Double standards and hypocrite everywhere.

tctrills:
But this is fallacy and I believe you know it.
Why attribute Africa's lack of progress to this.
You mean Africa is not held back because of bad leaders, we are not held back because we lack the instructions. but according to you, we are held back and not progressing because we feel that the chastity of a married woman is stronger in keeping the family than that of her husband.

I really don't understand how you see Africa's problems.

Comrade, you are missing the point. Nobody is denying that Africa suffers from bad leadership, corruption, weak institutions, poor policies, and lack of development. Those are major problems. But cultural attitudes also play a major role in shaping society, and African patriarchy is one of them.

A society cannot fully progress when half of its population is constantly expected to be silent, submissive, or limited in opportunities. When women are denied equal participation in leadership, education, decision-making, and economic growth, the entire society loses talent, innovation, and balance. No Nigerian woman have been a Governor or president since 1999, hundreds of men have ruled and yet the country continue to go downhill.

Also, this discussion is not about “the chastity of a married woman.” That is exactly the problem reducing women’s value mainly to morality standards while men are often excused from the same expectations. Equality means holding both men and women to the same standards while giving both the same respect and opportunities.

Africa’s problems are complex, but culture influences leadership, family structure, education, and national development. I hope you now have a better understanding comrade.

cr7lomo:
Nigerian women are the worst type of women in the world today

Not every Nigerian woman is like the women of your family!

He is phoolish to tweet this.
He should show remorse and admit his action.
Then apologize the right way.
You damaged something and your came out to ask people to pity you. You're mad.
If we pity you, what are we to do the people your damaged their marriage.

Chike, you are a phool.

Hezmatosky210:
Men nackin people's wives will never see light in their lives. You're using the failure of her husband to achieve your evil act. Leave her for her husband, whether good or bad. Also those nackin the women whose husbands dey abroad, may God punish all of you. You'll never see well

Why are you taking the thing personally, abi person don nack your wife?

A lot of married women throw themselves at men.

Sijo01:
If you have a soul, you will not be sleeping with a married woman whose worthless enough to throw herself at you. Stuupid boy.

SpencerForbes:
I just love how men aren't supporting him. That means there's hope for the average Nigerian.

Why should men support him? If na you another man just came from nowhere to break your home will you like it

So many married and single women where praising this idiot. What I know is his career is gone.

tonididdy:
At this point...even his parents are disappointed in him.


... He's lucky the victim man is a gentle one, others will ruin his life spiritually and physically

Gentle one that is not so innocent himself

MarkNsukkaBread:
Why are you taking the thing personally, abi person don nack your wife?

No bro. I dey line naw, I be business man, I know wetin we dey see inside market.

This case is nonsensical. Edoho cheated. His wife cheated. Chike cheated. Did Chike's wife cheat?

This is just a bloody waste of time. Cue the usual Nigerian women are bad. Nigerian men are bad. Yawnnn.

You trampled upon your fellow man's ego and you think is okay because you dey sing adaugo lol!

That's why I keep saying women are not worth it. Especially all these one that dress to get noticed, run away from them.

And those that wear too much make-up.

Galactics:
No pity or peace for the wicked. If not that Frank Edoho is a meak man, you wouldn't be in a stable condition to have access to social media and be posting rubbish. That your shrinked prick won't rise again in this life and in the life after.

You spoke like a tout. What would you have him do? Kill him?

MrSly:
You spoke like a tout. What would you have him do? Kill him?

You don't need any answer from a supposedly 'tout'.

𝓪𝓵𝓸𝔂𝓲𝓷𝓵𝓮𝓹𝓮𝓮.

I don’t know understand the reasons men are crucifying Chike.
Why are they crying and wailing as if they are innocent, as if they aren’t knacking other people’s wife.
They know how to knack other people’s wife but they don’t want their wives to be knacked.
Oga sorry o, dem go knack your wife wetin no good becos it’s obvious women nowadays don’t care anymore.

It’s Karma, you reap what you sow
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
BTW, I still believe 2 wrongs doesn’t make a right.

PrimadonnaO:
Well.

Everyone in this triangle is CAPS wrong! From Frank, to sister Sandra to Chike!

But men are just being biased, actually. Why are they not calling out their comrade- Frank? They're only attacking Sandra & Chike. Because for many men, a man can cheat but a woman dare not.

The same story as in the days of old. Stone the adulterous woman. But what about the man she slept with?

Anomalies should be condemned on ALL fronts. No sacred cows.

Did the lady pay the bride price?

chimex38:
I believe frank is mature.
He married his wife not Chike.
The bulk of his major retaliation stops on his wife.
Not Chike. He didn't marry Chike did he? It's the wife that gave consent. She should receive the hammer not the man.

It's just difficult to prove, but I believe for every successful marriage one looks up to, there are countless approaches made by other men on the married woman (about 90-95%).

But her discipline and firm NO, or INTERACTION AVOIDANCE by the wife has consistently saved the marriage.
The bulk stops on the wife's table.

When Frank told Chike " Leave my wife alone ", Chike could simply have blocked the woman and moved on. Every man has that power but he enjoyed bringing pain to another man.

That is what he can never recover from and his life is in real danger not just career. Some husbands will ensure that he can never ever do that again.

This thing also happened in Europe to Grigori Rasputin. The men of the city conspired to assasinate him and then castrate because their wives flocked to him to sleep with them

You didn't think about pitying your own soul when you were sleeping with a married woman, smh. At the end of the day, it's the married person who should be held responsible for this chaos. They were the one who chose to step outside their marriage and disrespect their spouse.

otipoju:
When Frank told Chike " Leave my wife alone ", Chike could simply have blocked the woman and moved on. Every man has that power but he enjoyed bringing pain to another man.

That is what he can never recover from and his life is in real danger not just career. Some husbands will ensure that he can never ever do that again.

This thing also happened in Europe to Grigori Rasputin. The men of the city conspired to assasinate him and then castrate because their wives flocked to him to sleep with them

You don't have to lie to prove a point. Gregory Rasputin was assassinated because several Russian nobles and political figures believed he had gained dangerous influence over the Russian royal family, especially Tsarina Alexandra, during a time of national crisis. That was the major cause of his assassination. Ironically, Rasputin’s death did not save the monarchy. Just a few months later, the Russian Revolution of 1917 led to the fall of Tsar Nicholas II and the end of the Romanov Empire.

I don't know if you cheat or not but I tell every man and women, if you cannot get married and stay faithful then get out and live the way you want. I don't understand the meaning of side-chick and side-guy that our society celebrates. Frank is notorious for being unfaithful and he deserves every bit of agony that comes his way. You men should emacipate yourself from your backward thinking.

We dey wait for you to marry foolish idiot. Na yam we go insert for ya wife sontin

otipoju:
What man will support a man who revels in destroying the family that a fellow man like him has built.

When a man like you begs you to leave his wife alone and you no listen, anything wey your eyes see, you go accept am like that.

The way things are that Chike is gone. He is no longer safe to walk among men.

No be all men go calm.like Frank and some will be out to teach him a lesson.

That Equatorial Guinea guy that was sleeping with other men's wives was eventually sent to life imprisonment or so.

The Russian Grigori Rasputin who had a reputation for having sex orgies with other men's wives was killed and castrated by the men of that city.

Most people are thieves, but the thief that steals, is caught red handed and is unremorseful and even boastful about his actions is simply asking to be killed.

That is the harsh possibility staring that boy in the face and he does not seem to understand....no be everybody dey calm and mature like Frank.

Frank knows that the whoring woman doesn't deserve big rancour.
If his wife was raped, chike has 99% chance of being dead but to fight dirty over a woman that betrayed you is not worth it at all.
Frank also contributed by keeping malice for too long.

otipoju:
When Frank told Chike " Leave my wife alone ", Chike could simply have blocked the woman and moved on. Every man has that power but he enjoyed bringing pain to another man.

That is what he can never recover from and his life is in real danger not just career. Some husbands will ensure that he can never ever do that again.

This thing also happened in Europe to Grigori Rasputin. The men of the city conspired to assasinate him and then castrate because their wives flocked to him to sleep with them

I get your angle.
@bolded you seem to blindly and obviously absorb the wife.
Why can't Frank's wife who Frank has authority over do the blocking?
Why does it have to start from the external 3rd party?

when the power to stay clear still lies within the marriage partners?

What you seem to portray is:
The wives as well as Franks wife are free to have feelings for anyman and run to their side-guys arms whenever they like despite being married!!
It is the duty of the side-guys, in this case Chike and Grigori Rasputin to run away and abstain or block the wife(wives) when the wife(wives) approaches them and not the wife(wives) running away or doing the BLOCKING ?

Your option is valid and justifiable to me if it can be proven that Frank's wife as well as the wives of the Men in Europe have done everything possible to stay away from Chike or Grigori Rasputin to no avail but he keeps coming and luring them even against their consent.

Then it's best for Frank and co to take Chike to court rather than jungle justice.

But the first step to BLOCK begins from the wife not Chike,thats if she even values her marriage.

It doesn't mean I am supporting Chike. Cuz there will always be Chikesss in most if not every marriage at some point but the most successful marriages are the ones the MARRIED WIFE initiated the BLOCKED-BUTTON and other access to them not the 3rd party side-guy or Chikesses.

Galactics:
No pity or peace for the wicked. If not that Frank Edoho is a meak man, you wouldn't be in a stable condition to have access to social media and be posting rubbish. That your shrinked prick won't rise again in this life and in the life after.

Ogbeni, before you curse person again, go buy Brighter Grammar and read am well well. E sure me say you never pass WAEC English

Na sole this one kuku get, no be man you be

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Rutherinspace:
Comrade, you are missing the point. Nobody is denying that Africa suffers from bad leadership, corruption, weak institutions, poor policies, and lack of development. Those are major problems. But cultural attitudes also play a major role in shaping society, and African patriarchy is one of them.

A society cannot fully progress when half of its population is constantly expected to be silent, submissive, or limited in opportunities. When women are denied equal participation in leadership, education, decision-making, and economic growth, the entire society loses talent, innovation, and balance. No Nigerian woman have been a Governor or president since 1999, hundreds of men have ruled and yet the country continue to go downhill.

Also, this discussion is not about “the chastity of a married woman.” That is exactly the problem reducing women’s value mainly to morality standards while men are often excused from the same expectations. Equality means holding both men and women to the same standards while giving both the same respect and opportunities.

Africa’s problems are complex, but culture influences leadership, family structure, education, and national development. I hope you now have a better understanding comrade.

You are mixing upup to things
A virtuous woman is a plus to any society.
Japanese women are submissive to their husbands yet Japan is an advanced society.

Again asking your women not to sleep with other men is not the same as silencing them.

You seem to be equating bad behaviour with development.

If I get you, you seem to believe that for Africa to develop, we need more women like Frank's wife. I completely disagree, we need more women who value their marriage and their children.

We need more mothers who can instill virtue and discipline into their kids.

Africa is not underdeveloped because we have high expectations for our mothers. In fact, there is no evidence of that.

Hullcity:
Out of all the thousands of single young and beautiful ladies available , u went for a maried woman. Now u have succeeded in breaking the home of your fellow man. And you think you can have peace of mind, never! .
Ur career is over before it started becos if your Foolishness .

Your fellow man Frank broke his home first by cheating on different women, then his wife took his step. Call out Frank for breaking his home not Chike.

SpencerForbes:
I just love how men aren't supporting him. That means there's hope for the average Nigerian.

…there’s hope for the average Nigerian MAN.


Fixed!!!