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A Nigerian man has painfully cancelled his wedding due to the difference between his genotype and that of his partner. I just imagine the type of pain they must have passed through while discussing how to cancel the marriage and end the affair.

This is why it is good to conduct a test before any talk of marriage. You cannot cheat nature. When e reach your turn, you go know say nothing concern vulture with clipper.

WarriParrot

Dear friends and loved ones,

We sincerely apologise for the disappointment, inconvenience, and emotional pain this message may cause you.

In our excitement and deep affection for each other, we moved very quickly with our marriage plans and overlooked one of the most important steps. During our marriage counselling sessions, the clergy asked for our medical reports and compatibility clearance. It was at that moment we realised we had not done the necessary medical checks.

We immediately went for the required tests, genotype, blood group, and other essential examinations. The doctor’s report confirmed that we are not medically compatible for marriage, particularly regarding the risk to potential children.

After deep reflection, honest conversations, and much pain, we have made the difficult decision to call off the wedding. We cannot, in good conscience, bring children into the world who might face a lifetime of health struggles and medical dependency.

This was not an easy choice, but we believe it is the responsible and loving one for everyone involved, especially for the future generation we hoped to raise.

To our dear family, friends, and well-wishers who have already contributed time, resources, money, and emotional support, we are deeply sorry. Thank you for standing by us. We are truly grateful and ask for your understanding during this time.

To everyone preparing for marriage: please do not make the same mistake we made. Take time to do all necessary medical checks (especially genotype and blood group compatibility) early in the process, alongside prayer and counselling.

We trust that God has better plans ahead for both of us, and we ask for your prayers and continued love as we move forward.
Thank you for your understanding.
Much love.

~A man had cancelled his wedding after discovering that him and his to be wife are not medically compatible for marriage 💔

Me: this is avoidable, we have grown pass this stage of life. Major tests should have been the first step, before any marriage plan at all. But it's better at this stage than landing in regrets

In 2026, two unserious people, medical compatibility is one of the first things to check before anything.

So una no do am before ...it wish well

Very important.
Our mother's made that mistake because of love, but now that the world is advanced (minus African countries), neglect genotype are you own disadvantage.

But how una go date, fuc and suck each other, know this one papa and that one mama, do photoshoot and other couples doing, even fix date for wedding and yet Una no know each other genotype

Like faithfull18 talk, very unserious people.

Okay thanks goodness for a wise decision so your children will not become sickler

It's precaution decision to make

So that the family will not tag their children sickness to village people work.

God will provide better partner for both party.

Wise decision

This is one of the most disappointing things in relationships

It is well with both of you in Jesus Name AMEN.

Why una no ask before the relationship go deep

They were not selfish thinking only about themselves and love and ignoring the fate of their potential kids.

Wetin una use the dating phase dey discuss all these while?
Abi una just dey do 'baby i love you" and "I love you too" or "have you eaten"?
No deep convo at all, just sex and sex.

People need to understand the purpose of dating. They need orientation

Nobody should date either of those guys anytime soon.

Cos they'll be knavking themselves low key

faithfull18:
In 2026, two unserious people, medical compatibility is one of the first things to check before anything.

Tbh
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They'll remain friends for life
Whoever their partners will be should be ready to share

This is very sad,they delayed the test ,too bad.
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I no trust this guy na Man u fan

dem sabi run things

Marriage is not something you rush into. Besides, these ones are not mature enough. Genotype is something anyone should know even before you start searching who you want to get married to.
That's how they would have used their unseriousness to bring children into the world that will start suffering.

But you still used AI to draft your emotional message, it shows you are not truly sorry.

Is it Jennyclay who is in that picture? I know she needs a man in her life right now?

It happen to a friend of mine

Who go now pay for the piping?

Lol…na one of the first things wey my wife ask me in the first month of our relationship be this.,.with proof sef…na dem do themselves ooo…dem for risk am and give birth they might be lucky and their first and only child won’t be SS

I did my premarriage medicals last week and the results turned out perfect. Both of us are of AA genotype and O positive blood group. Though I knew my genotype and blood group before now but it was required that we present the results in my church before wedding. My girl also didn't know hers prior. The results showed we are a perfect match for marriage.

faithfull18:
In 2026, two unserious people, medical compatibility is one of the first things to check before anything.

Exactly my thoughts!
Genotype test should be the first thing.
I guess shawarma and Malta Guinness took over the episodes.

Shit happens at times sha.

Wouldn't cancel marriage or end a relationship because genotype.

There's IVF, once I get a child or possibly twin option... I do a permanent vasectomy and I'm done.


I'll understand if you can't afford that... I can't IVF, I'm still going Vasectomy.

I'll choose my woman over kids... I can always adopt.

By the ways, the two of them should cut contact and move to different state where they can never see themselves again or see after 20 years.... Else the protected knacking will continue even if both get married to separate partners.

God bless him...but it should have been from day 1 of meeting her.

Better late than never to avoid stories that touch the heart

hope u guys no do d do before seperation?

After the heavy knacking and everything
It’s necessary but it will be hard for the lady to move on to another man

Careless people expanding and investing energy, emotions ,love and commitment without doing the baseline basic assessment.
Thank God they took responsibility at last.