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Poll: Choose

A 28% (85 votes)
B 3% (11 votes)
None Of The Above 61% (183 votes)
I'm Not Ever Getting Married 6% (19 votes)
This poll has ended

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Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Omoawoke(m): 8:25pm On May 21
aaa07jk:
Both of them, their women still good sha.
If God wan deal with u as a man, e go give u wife like Nedu wife.

She said
“I never for once told him I am pregnant for him or the baby belongs to him. He assumed this on his own because we are married.”
Fear woman!
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by PulaPower: 8:27pm On May 21
LabStores:
Learn to read between the lines


It's only okay if you won't mind your daughter doing it.
I did read bro. Women have no written agreement with anybody as par either they wanna be a wife or just have babies. They’re open to anything.

Ronaldo’s partner is a baby mama till date. John Obi Mikel’s partner is a baby mama till date… This is even a daughter of a billionaire, she get money pass Obi well well..
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Emeskhalifa(m): 8:28pm On May 21
Kingpele:
None of them ,I want to be my self...but I like Frank style except the fact he held on to malice too much...but quietly leaving unfaithful spouse instead of crying on TV is what a man should be...I can't continue with a cheating wife except I didn't discover it....yes I will forgive a cheating spouse but she will not remain in my house ever again period
Dem never do you this thing na why you think he went out of the way holding malice.

I don see cctv footage of oyibo man came back home and saw another man piping his wife ontop their bed, omor he stabbed the woman over 100 times. She was dead but he kept stabbing. Baba pray make dem no break your heart o, if she breaks your heart, pray for grace to handle it without hurting anyone or yourself o
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by ARISHEM: 8:31pm On May 21
Like who do you wish to marry a codedruns girl or a church worker girl
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by goslowgoslow(m): 8:37pm On May 21
Marriage is rubbish it doesn't worth it.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by plessis: 8:40pm On May 21
Thank God say since I encounter Morocco women, My preek no dey rise for naija women again.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by plessis: 8:41pm On May 21
PulaPower:
I did read bro. Women have no written agreement with anybody as par either they wanna be a wife or just have babies. They’re open to anything.

Ronaldo’s partner is a baby mama till date. John Obi Mikel’s partner is a baby mama till date… This is even a daughter of a billionaire, she get money pass Obi well well..
Marriage give women the license and audacity to misbehave. If you never marry her and she born for you, she go sit up.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Famous606(m): 8:45pm On May 21
AlabiKILLER2023:
Oil dey your head


I prefer been sugar daddy to teenage girls 😉☺️😉
you are a paedophile but you don't know yet , honestly change such mentality
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by SatoshiVentures: 8:46pm On May 21
Nothing come out na 😀
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by alobright17(m): 8:47pm On May 21
kingthreat:
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?
A of course.

see as B was disgracing himself online . He think a woman that cheated on you cares about your tears ? Never . Women don’t care about your emotions Infact crying for them makes them hate you more.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by osuofia2(m): 8:50pm On May 21
omoredia:
Frank pay me. Malice is effective
Till she call Chike
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by thesolutions(m): 8:55pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
None of the above — baby mama or surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
I have told them that marriage should be for the perfect genes but they will not hear. Even if you marry a cheating wife that has the genes you covet so badly, ensure the children are your. Family planning works. It is not a crime to be poor. If you are poor, marry ooo. But having the wrong gene in your bloodline can end your generation quickly.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:59pm On May 21
Frank Edoho 24/7
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by femi4: 9:01pm On May 21
kingthreat:
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?
Both are shameless ...especially B
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by enemyofprogress: 9:08pm On May 21
I give it to A the king of malice. Girls don't respect people like Mr B, the cry cry baby. So I was made to understand by Mynd44.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by enemyofprogress: 9:10pm On May 21
plessis:
Thank God say since I encounter Morocco women, My preek no dey rise for naija women again.
yinmu
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by UnknownQueen(f): 9:13pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
None of the above — baby mama or surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
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Have a this, have a that, either ways u go still pay cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin, just that in this case, u have full right to the child..

How many of you broke men , can afford a surrogate mother, nanny pay all the child's bill, and your own bills...
Plus you go still pay Olosho or side chicks to seldomly service you..... cheesy cheesy
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Nobody: 9:25pm On May 21
SmartPolician:
Neither of the above

Either and Neither are specifically meant for 2 items or entities, whereas none is used for more than 2 items or entities.
Nice.. thanks for the correction.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 21
UnknownQueen:
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Have a this, have a that, either ways u go still pay cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin, just that in this case, u have full right to the child..

How many of you broke men , can afford a surrogate mother, nanny pay all the child's bill, and your own bills...
Plus you go still pay Olosho or side chicks to seldomly service you..... cheesy cheesy
Getting a surrogate mother is not hard in this country at all. Just have a nice ride and some ladies will literally beg you to get them pregnant. The reality is that all those issues you listed can be easily solved with money. That is why I always urge guys to hustle hard. A bit of funding here and there will eliminate all those traditional headaches.

​Even when it comes to companionship, hookup babes cost way less than maintaining a regular girlfriend. So when you have financial leverage, those problems don't even matter.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by GenFunction: 9:33pm On May 21
TimiofAbuja:
You be simp...... teenage girlshuh
Him mates and aunties have humbled him,hence he relegated to teenage girls,next go be Teenage mutant Ninja Turtles
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by CJStarz: 9:37pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
Neither of the above — baby mama or surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
Na so dem take born you?
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by InvertedHammer: 9:47pm On May 21
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They are both sissies.

The one that cried in public and the one that cried in private for being cheated on. A real man would observe, do the needful and nobody will hear about it. It will stay as unsolved mystery.

/
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Keepamsafe: 9:52pm On May 21
Famous606:
you are a paedophile but you don't know yet , honestly change such mentality
You people like throwing words around.

As long as hes with ladies within the age of consent as stipulated by the law.

He is no pedophile. In Nigeria , the legal consent age is 18.

A 30 or 40 years old man being with an 18 or 19 years old lady is no pedophile.

Stop throwing words around you know nothing about.

The game might be brutal but its fair still.

Enough of this dumbness

Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Keepamsafe: 9:54pm On May 21
TimiofAbuja:
You be simp...... teenage girlshuh
What makes him a simp?? Do you guys even know the words you throw around.

If you are concerned about the old cargoes, hes leaving them for you and your likes.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by gigabyte13: 9:57pm On May 21
These two mumu....
You dey limit men to these two mugus
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by topazad567: 10:06pm On May 21
mr.frank bleeped up. how will you beg a man to leave your wife.you should have made him an offer he cant refuce(Godfather style).That why i like men from Sicily ,italy them no they do cho cho cho .they will rather send you a message . if you dont understand go watch GODFATHER
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Harry830: 10:07pm On May 21
kingthreat:
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?
Iffa slap you, tomorrow ona nai go insult single mothers, you are the type that put most in those situation they are in, double standard
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by SixSeven: 10:08pm On May 21
Frank in this case. Cry me a river won't help you. Eeya is all the people will say. At least as Frank, I didn't lose my means of livelihood which is what they are after. For the cry guy, he allowed love to let him lose his mind and standing as a man.

Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 21
CJStarz:
Na so dem take born you?
Na every decision your papa take naim you go take for life abi you be your papa or na where your papa end for life naim you go end? undecided
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by SixSeven: 10:10pm On May 21
InvertedHammer:
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They are both sissies.

The one that cried in public and the one that cried in private for being cheated on. A real man would observe, do the needful and nobody will hear about it. It will stay as unsolved mystery.

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Not entirely. Nobody will hear about it only if she doesn't speak about it. If she's a DJ, everyone will hear your lyrics outside.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Sirianese: 10:33pm On May 21
kingthreat:
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?
I'd rather be Frank (pun intended) cheesy

Studs up, cucks down
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