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| I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by wentroublecomes(op): 1:43pm On May 24 |
Yesterday honestly humbled me deeply. I recently informed my students (SS2) that I’ll be stepping away from my role as their Physics teacher to focus more on pursuing my career in Civil Engineering since I recently gain employment in an engineering field. Even though I’ll still create time to teach them online once in a while, I never expected the kind of emotional reaction I received from them when I announced it to them yesterday and even today. Some of them cried. Some became unusually quiet. Some kept asking me not to leave completely. To make sure our connection and learning continue, I created a WhatsApp tutorial group for them where I’ll still teach and guide them from time to time. Since then, the messages pouring in from these students have honestly left me speechless. Reading their messages made me realize something: Sometimes, as teachers, we don’t truly know the impact we are making while doing the job every day. You enter the classroom thinking you are just teaching Physics, solving calculations, explaining motion, electricity, and formulas… Not knowing some students are watching you as a mentor, role model, motivator, or even a source of hope. I even received a handwritten letter from one of them yesterday during our weekend lesson. A handwritten letter. I’ll post it later because it honestly touched me deeply. For now, let me share some of the WhatsApp messages from the group that nearly got me emotional myself. Teaching is truly one of the few professions where you can unknowingly leave permanent footprints in people’s lives. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by wentroublecomes(op): 1:43pm On May 24*. Modified: 2:12pm On May 24 |
The screenshot will start coming in
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| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by wentroublecomes(op): 2:02pm On May 24 |
More pictures will be loaded Numbers of my student is about 70+ while 58 are in attendance yesterday, 38 of them have joined the group created last night (less than 20hrs ago)
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| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by ayoncox: 3:42pm On May 24 |
I think you should create a Telegram group to mentor them on life and build a community around that |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Quenncee: 3:46pm On May 24 |
Nothing special.after 2 days you will seize to exist in their memory. Is just your action causing them that reaction Nothing special. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by wentroublecomes(op): 3:55pm On May 24 |
Quenncee:You're right. That reaction is still a special one. People that was loved by others will surely appreciate that |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Bluna: 4:25pm On May 24 |
ayoncox:A very good suggestion. 🫡 I had a similar experience in 2014 when I quit teaching. The reaction of my students was very touching and emotional. But few months later, none of them get in touch again because everybody has moved on. Creating an online group would've helped to maintain the good relationships I used to have with them, ..and avenue to keep mentoring them too |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Quenncee: 5:14pm On May 24 |
wentroublecomes:sure bro. At least, you left a print. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by SixSeven: 5:18pm On May 24 |
Take a student evaluation survey of your work. Use Google forms or something similar, it will help you. Don't rely on screenshots which is informal. A survey result will help you for future gigs than screenshot for privacy reasons. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by SixSeven: 5:20pm On May 24 |
ayoncox:Not necessarily. Life is a journey and everyone has their own bus stop. Do not give unsolicited help, it's not usually appreciated. Although I just did here - unsolicited advice but those who will pick the message will read, those who won't, it will fly over their heads (show them the moon they will be looking at your fingers instead) ![]() https://www.tiktok.com/video/7352436421178756398 |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by wentroublecomes(op): 5:27pm On May 24 |
SixSeven:Does this actually correspond to the topic here |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by SixSeven: 5:33pm On May 24*. Modified: 7:37pm On May 24 |
wentroublecomes:You are a teacher, let me help you put a question mark to it. Answer the question or apply your relevant work experience to it. Look at the moon, not my fingers. Thank you. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Sucolee(m): 7:09pm On May 24 |
And some are happy thay thank God the werey finally leave |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Wotowotoman: 7:15pm On May 24 |
Quenncee:Ogbeni, you don pass WAEC English? 🤔 |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by SmartPolician: 7:16pm On May 24*. Modified: 8:26pm On May 24 |
I experienced the same thing when I taught during my youth service. There was a man whose children I taught primary school subjects. One who was very stubborn, Daniel, cried so hard when I broke the news that I was leaving because I had passed out of NYSC, and his two sisters kept consoling him. Surprisingly, this boy was very stubborn and I flogged him almost every day. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Nobody: 7:16pm On May 24 |
All for traffic on education ads Nairaland is gone 🥺💔 |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by AirBere: 7:17pm On May 24 |
Quenncee:Yep. Only a few of them will actually continue to remember he existed. Lol This is very normal especially those teachers or corpers who showed commitment. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Wotowotoman: 7:17pm On May 24 |
wentroublecomes:Ogbeni, na this kind English you dey teach those poor students? Na wa o ![]() |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Wotowotoman: 7:19pm On May 24 |
wentroublecomes:Ogbeni, are you sure you are a teacher? Wetin be this? Please go and buy Brighter Grammar immediately. I pity those poor students ![]() |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Authoreety: 7:24pm On May 24 |
For real.. studies show that children tend to explore.. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Authoreety: 7:24pm On May 24 |
For real.. studies show that children tend to |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by PigTormentor: 7:25pm On May 24 |
Cherish every moment. You.must have left a lasting impression. Kudos 👏 |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Ebenezer2021(m): 7:26pm On May 24 |
Love wey no fit change your life.. Teaching work is useless today. Those students won't remember you again give them 10 years from now Quenncee:God bless you for this post sincerely. Honestly no matter how good you are to these students, Next year after they have gotten admission into the University they will move on and forget you quickly |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by AirBere: 7:28pm On May 24 |
Wotowotoman: ![]() Una too like wahala for this forum lol... |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by DeltaBachelor(m): 7:29pm On May 24 |
Nice one . Best of luck in your future endeavours ! |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Gbadugbakun(m): 7:31pm On May 24 |
Teaching is good, just that it can't pay your bills in this administration. So it's more like slavery. Most especially if you're teaching in a private school. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Lamasta(m): 7:36pm On May 24 |
Most of the students I taught Chemistry during my service year in Jigawa still message me today to appreciate me for making them love the subject back then.... Even me myself was shocked when they started connecting me on Facebook to appreciate my time in their state, those girls really made me proud ![]() You have done well OP give it time to know if you have truly impact them positively but kudos all the same ![]() |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by SixSeven: 7:39pm On May 24 |
Ebenezer2021:You are yet to discover your purpose in life. Coincidentally, if you weren't taught, you wouldn't write this comment. |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by ChngedChnges(m): 7:40pm On May 24 |
Lol you de carry Gen z children play. The other one say "Sincerely crying. To be honest" so they cry without honesty before ![]() |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Lamanii22(f): 7:40pm On May 24 |
wentroublecomes:Awwww too beautiful 😍😍😍 got me teary ❤️❤️❤️ |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by Drsnives(m): 7:40pm On May 24 |
Na so E dea be.. even your haters will cry.. I remember vividly in my primary 5, when our so called wicked form teacher was leaving, we all cried even doh some of use were secretly happy 😁 |
| Re: I Never Knew My Students Loved Me This Much by DollarSigns(m): 7:41pm On May 24 |
SixSeven:Best advice, we learned ours the hard way |
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