₦airaland Forum

gracias124:
sirchiboy you are 55 broke and unmarried if you had married 20 years ago maybe you wouldn't have been broke now, children are motivation

Children are a motivation ?

Then most large families in Nigeria would not be broke.

Rich young ballers without kids wouldn't agree.

Wait until you marry and born pikin nw. Because small change don dey your hand nw, you dey misyarn. Your parents tried their best. Let's see how far you can go.

TheLordofHost:
Me as a man, Rich or Poor I must continue my lineage.
There is this joy I get when I see my daughter that I created…something I can truly call my own

By the gods, I love the way you phrased that bolded...

Society conditioned people to think marriage and having kids is an achievement and if you don’t get married or have kids no one will be with you in your old age

I may break this rule if I don’t make it, no kids and dying alone is far better than generational suffering

Look Nigeria for example, high poverty rate, high population, no employment, life has no value, and it keeps getting worse

Lol 🤣

Cum4me:
Hunger done wire this one dey begin blame him father. This Tinubu regime no be small pycho full town.

Fortune118005:
It is well! God will help everybody!

By the way, why is the price of cooking gas increasing everyday?

It’s now N2,500 per kg!

Why

which location are they selling 2.5k? Please tell me you are joking.

franchasng:
Questions like this ought to dominate our national discussions, especially Radio stations and other grassroot media platforms, to enlighten Nigerians more about the dangers of reproducing children why in poverty.



Nigeria even need a strict birth control measure which can be achieved through various methods.



Couples should not give birth to more than 2 kids in Nigeria of today. I wonder why federal government is not looking into this.



One of the ways Nigeria can get out of national poverty is through strict birth control

bros, you want still blame government for this kind thing. Na government go dey tell full grown adult how many children to born?I will never blame the government for this.

obinna58:
Society conditioned people to think marriage and having kids is an achievement and if you don’t get married or have kids no one will be with you in your old age

I may break this rule if I don’t make it, no kids and dying alone is far better than generational suffering

Look Nigeria for example, high poverty rate, high population, no employment, life has no value, and it keeps getting worse

Brilliant Insight

If we really wanna reason logically,op did not beg anyone to give birth to him.There are many people that would prefer not to be here,but they are here because two adults decided to conform to societal expectation. Nature is really not fair cos people are brought here without their consent.

Sirchiboy:
Why should a struggling man marry a woman with no handwork or education and give birth to us to suffer .
They blame it on God and the country

They will born 13 children under one room and be causing Tinubu up and down

Cum4me:
Hunger done wire this one dey begin blame him father. This Tinubu regime no be small pycho full town.

Apart from that, it's really crazy. I see a woman leading a child, carrying one, and still pregnant... Ontop all these they came to buy rice on credit where I was shopping
What kind of training can they afford for the kids?

Sirchiboy:
Why should a struggling man marry a woman with no handwork or education and give birth to us to suffer .
They blame it on God and the country

Oh boy…at some point you’ll need to stop whining like a 5 year child on nairaland and make your own life what you want it to be instead of always blaming your parents. Some people grew up without both biological parents being alive and still took life by its horns…you’re not the only one who has had a tough life….if you come from a poor family, make sure one does not come from you. You’ve been doing this for like three years now or even more are you not tired?

Hhh4444:
If we really wanna reason logically,op did not beg anyone to give birth to him.There are many people that would prefer not to be here,but they are here because two adults decided to conform to societal expectation. Nature is really not fair cos people are brought here without their consent.

Understood but the million dollar question is now that you’re already here, how long are you going to keep complaining about your situation? Is there anyone that chose to be born? You’re already here…what you can now do is to make legit efforts no matter how small and there’s nobody that makes effort that God doesn’t help and increase….sitting down and crying about the family you constantly come from is victim mentality and its cringe.

TheLordofHost:
Me as a man, Rich or Poor I must continue my lineage.
There is this joy I get when I see my daughter that I created…something I can truly call my own

The problem is, your daughter may not see it like this, if you’re poor.
The percentage of children from poor homes making it in life is getting smaller and it will continue to dwindle in the foreseeable future.
Children was never meant for our amusement or entertainment. If you don’t have the capability to raise them properly, stay away from having them. You will not be committing any crime.

They were doing follow follow because their friends got married or got kids, they too wanted to. But most are deceived into having kids and were told God will take care of the baby, u just don’t worry. Most men front a lot and latter think of the consequences

TheLordofHost:
Me as a man, Rich or Poor I must continue my lineage.
There is this joy I get when I see my daughter that I created…something I can truly call my own

Becareful before you start supplying boys os in the name of having daughters.

Anyways last last na somebody pikin go be runs girl

Marriage is not poverty aliviation program. What of people without marriage but with children. Children are gift from God and not everyone will have them. This is what surprises me, I know some rich families without children and they are in their 70s and I know many poor people with many children from poor parent. I think this situation is an act of God. God created us all for his own purpose

Sirchiboy:
Why should a struggling man marry a woman with no handwork or education and give birth to us to suffer .
They blame it on God and the country

Thank GOD!!! Young Nigerians don begin to get sense.

This scenario is responsible for nearly 90% of the economic and social problems besetting this country. Nigeria made 8.5 babies in 2025 (quoting Dangote, Rwanda) whilst the entire continent of Europe made a total of 6.4 babies (a big portion are children of immigrants).

Totally unsustainable and seriously irresponsible. We don’t have any factories and we are no longer farming. We have mass unemployment and mass poverty mixed together. Everybody blaming “government”.

I pity any foolish man who puts himself into this situation. And most of these men die before they hit 60-65 due to stresses and hard life.

chiboycue:
You cannot blame your father for marrying your mother. You would not have been born if they did not meet. You are still alive, hale and healthy courtesy of God because you have a destiny to fulfill here on earth. You need to remind God regularly about in your prayers and liberate your self from a faulty foundation

Absolutely disgusting nonsense. Are you living in the real world? When will you wake up from the “God” syndrome?

gracias124:
sirchiboy a broke man of today can be a rich man of tomorrow, just because you are broke doesnt mean you cant get married.
I am 31 I am broke but I assure you nothing will stop me from getting married next year

no let this guy catch you, una go fight o

[Truly, some children suffer majorly as a result of the financial irresponsibility of their father.]
Hunger done wire this one dey begin blame him father. This Tinubu regime no be small pycho full town. [/quote]

[Continue your lineage in poverty and penury? And expose those children to the mockery of their peers?]


Me as a man, Rich or Poor I must continue my lineage.
There is this joy I get when I see my daughter that I created…something I can truly call my own[/quote]

Sirchiboy:
Why should a struggling man marry a woman with no handwork or education and give birth to us to suffer .
They blame it on God and the country

Why do other animals don't have struggling poor parents, only humans?

Start reasoning like animals and you start seeing the abundance of life and earth. Forget how the zoo and pulpit bandits makes you to believe you are poor.

pocohantas:
Nawa. Abeg forgive your parents.
I understand your pain, but you have been complaining since 2018. Let it go, bro.

Mama it is not easy.
Imagine in yiur family. .
You are the only child that didn't attend a private school and all of your siblings attended.
How will u feel?

Fortune118005:
It is well! God will help everybody!

By the way, why is the price of cooking gas increasing everyday?

It’s now N2,500 per kg!

Why

Shege banza is not touching some people, the oga at the top wants it to touch down

Go back thousands or millions of years that humans have existed, and you’ll see that most people are poor and they all gave birth.

Not giving birth because you’re poor is playing against nature, and your natural predisposition.

Infact the poorer a person is, the likelihood they will have many children, and the richer a person is, the fewer children they have. It’s a paradox.

cr7lomo:
Avoid poor broke girls....they are nothing but leaches...they have nothing to offer but cheap unnecessary sex

You don't know the value of cheap sex until you come Europe. You know why UK guys no dey give Nigerians shishi, apart from strict income, konji don finish them and they know say if them give you there money, you go carry cheap sex.

That's why they turn he goat any time they enter 9ja.

Honestly, it all comes down to personal responsibility and setting yourself up to provide for others before you even think about starting a family. While life is unpredictable, bringing kids into a situation where you're already struggling without a solid plan just creates a cycle of hardship that’s incredibly tough to break.

Sirchiboy:
Why should a struggling man marry a woman with no handwork or education and give birth to us to suffer .
They blame it on God and the country

They born you to help them to make it so don't fail their plans or the poverty continues

TheLordofHost:
Me as a man, Rich or Poor I must continue my lineage.
There is this joy I get when I see my daughter that I created…something I can truly call my own

That's how poor and broke console themselves since they have no tangible achievements to boast of

Cum4me:
Hunger done wire this one dey begin blame him father. This Tinubu regime no be small pycho full town.

Jagaban regime will last till 2031, you can do whatever you like with yourself if you are aggrieved.

No shaking!

pocohantas:
Nawa. Abeg forgive your parents.
I understand your pain, but you have been complaining since 2018. Let it go, bro.

Since 2018, lol, this is serious.