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As seen on X (Twitter). Dear Single mothers, why did you leave your baby daddy?


Let’s have it…

They didnt leave...he left

Lemme cross my legs to read comments

Una wey want marry single mum una dey try o.

As a man nothing suppose concern you with single mothers. But you no go hear.

Them no go talk true
Them single mothers dey mad

You will never see them here

Impatience, family interference, big eye,too many advisers, bad company and now is a deep regret 😭😭😭

Okay na, over to them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...we are waiting.

Society justifying.... The unjustifiable clothed in colored truth.

Men should be blocked from this thread and allows us to read comments

Hmmm let's hear it.







Six more characters!

I'm here to read both truth and lies.

All single mothers the floor is wide open

If na u, u go talk ? Male dem cast abi make there new maga disappear?

He wan use infections kpai me. So I left.


Now change the he to she... And thank me later

Baby daddies left them because of their toxic behaviours

Stop setting single mum up for drags. They also have a benefit to the society

They don’t have respect. Any woman who is not ready to respect his husband and submit to his man will end up been a single mother

So you can start insulting and shaming them?
You tell us why you abandon your partners and kids first.

Very confused people out there ..

They left their baby daddy because of cheating, but still went back to sleep around with married men..

80% of women who left their men are regretting it..

If there is no domestic violence, and you still left your man, then you need your head to be properly examined..

Outside is very lonely.. Men are not yet done with single ladies, is it you single mother they will settle with ?

Hold your man tightly, respect him and build a future with him..

The question should have been “why did your baby daddy leave you”

peculiar2233:
The question should have been “why did your baby daddy leave you”

Better yet, why don't you ask baby daddies why they left??

Let me guess:

He was violent.

He was a narcissist.

He was a womaniser.

this type of topic wnt fly in nairaland....Women dont engage here

Feel pity for.single mothers at your own peril.. If you are a man without children and you come across a single mother who says she loves you.. abeg jettison her immediately, and run for your life. An unmarried man without children starts his own family. He does not continue a family started by another man

The rise in single motherhood in Nigeria is a complex issue with many contributing factors.

Relationship breakdowns and divorce – More couples separate than in the past, leading some mothers to raise children alone

Unmarried pregnancies – Some pregnancies occur before marriage, and not all couples go on to marry.

Economic challenges – Financial stress can put pressure on relationships and families.

Migration and absentee fathers – Some fathers move away for work or become less involved in their children’s lives.

Family interference
Especially if the family don’t want the union.

Death of a spouse – Some single mothers are widows who are raising children alone.

It’s important to remember that “single mother” includes women who are divorced, separated, widowed, or never married. Their situations can be very different.

Many single mothers face significant challenges, but many also successfully raise healthy, well-adjusted children with support from family, friends, communities, and faith groups.

But most single mothers don’t want a man to control them and most single mothers are good but they are not just lucky with the choice of their man. The fault may be from the man also

They will all avoid this thread, lack of respect, too many friendships, wrong advice from family... I love seeing them crying... It's gives me joy.

The question is already biased. Have you ever taken the time to ask about the circumstances that lead women to become single mothers?