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Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Sirchiboy(op): 12:47pm On Jun 17
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Samantha125(f): 4:08pm On Jun 17
Was he helping them to succeed in life or to keep them forever indebted to him? I'm sure he organised that trip out of his own free will without anyone coercing him.

This is the issue with most us Africans, we never help out of sincerity, everything is always transactional.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by gerizzim: 5:42pm On Jun 17
Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
You this man!!! you like coming up with topics laced with pain and victimisation.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Pootle: 7:32pm On Jun 17
help is a privilege if you lucky enjoy it but if not look away and hustle your way to breakthrough
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by yemmit90: 7:58pm On Jun 17
Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
It all depends on individual involves, and in case of siblings not helping one another, it could be the way they were brought up by their parents. If the parents always preach love, humility and kindness to one another in the family from inception, things like this hardly happened.

As for friends, you need to chose the people you called friends wisely, if you are the generous type, please don't make a selfish stingy person as friend. A smart person should be able to know a friend who can stand by him in times of need withing six months of being friends. Also check yourself well, do you also lend a helping hands to others from the little you have,if the answer is no, then you don't deserves help from others too.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Sheuns(m): 8:45pm On Jun 17
If person help you, fine. If he no help you, face your way and be diligent in your efforts.

Everyone cannot help you, only God and yourself can.

Only your parents want to see you grow higher than them. Others do not.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Gotocourt: 8:45pm On Jun 17
God helps through men. Not financially all the time.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by donleo92(m): 8:46pm On Jun 17
Them epp oooh, them no epp ooooh,

Nothing still come out grin grin

No be them born you.

So I no dey judge people like that
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by SixSeven: 8:46pm On Jun 17

Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by 1Alex: 8:48pm On Jun 17
My eldest brother is in the US. But you know what? To hell with him, I am not handicapped.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by free2ryhme: 8:48pm On Jun 17
Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
Go work, remove eye from your mate money [b][/b]


Go work, remove eye from your mate money
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by jojothaiv(m): 8:49pm On Jun 17
Samantha125:
Was he helping them to succeed in life or to keep them forever indebted to him? I'm sure he organised that trip out of his own free will without anyone coercing him.

This is the issue with most us Africans, we never help out of sincerity, everything is always transactional.
Well, that's his decision we don't know his reason but for a Nigerian to truly do that, he has tried his best.

Even Mikel Obi once complained of black tax recently and that's even family matter and not friendships.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by boxypane: 8:49pm On Jun 17
Really, na me and my God. Don't help people expecting anything back. You might just end up been disappointed.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by boxypane: 8:51pm On Jun 17
1Alex:
My eldest brother is in the US. But you know what? To hell with him, I am not handicapped.
I have one in Canada, to pick call or reply messages be like WW3. But thank God he's doing fine.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by FlamingBulb: 8:53pm On Jun 17
Dose saying help only comes from God or dey help oo dey no help oo are the ones actually guilty and stingy.

If you have and refused to help u will suffer for it now or future.

You buy brand new cars, have house, have businesses but your blood brother is suffering..Ur own is to dash dem 10k 20k after begging..continue

Surely time for regret will come.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by GloriousGbola: 8:53pm On Jun 17
Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
And if your friend na lazy guy wey dey squander opportunity then what?
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by 1Alex: 8:53pm On Jun 17
boxypane:
I have one in Canada, to pick call or reply messages be like WW3. But thank God he's doing fine.
me I no dey even call or send messages anymore. I no send am.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by israelmao(m):
So all the rich people should start pumping money to their friends?

The rich people create their lives while the poor people believe life happens to them.One man's success is not the reason for another man's failure.Make a decision to succeed and take practical steps daily towards it unrelentingly.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by LavishINC: 8:54pm On Jun 17
Omo my friend is so rich he sends our other guys living abroad money from naija here, ranging from thousands of dollars to pounds, he no stingy very generous tho
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by haybee2018(m): 8:59pm On Jun 17
Baba... No one dey help anybody for this life. Na only pesin wey God send to you nahin go help you.

#nor-too-think-am
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Klington: 9:00pm On Jun 17
If i talk wetin eye see for my rich aunt hand eeeh.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by EBEk101(m): 9:00pm On Jun 17
Op what kind of mentality do you even have?
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by FlamingBulb: 9:02pm On Jun 17
LavishINC:
Omo my friend is so rich he sends our other guys living abroad money from naija here, ranging from thousands of dollars to pounds, he no stingy very generous tho
God will continue to uplift him Wer ever he is
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Jmichael1(m): 9:03pm On Jun 17
I once had a cousin brother who is a rich Yahoo boy,that guy will lavish money on u wen it cums to clubbing and girls.

Bt he will never gv u physical cash to do anything with ur life,if u ask him why can't him help anybody,he will just be smiling and singing No Vex by burna boy.
I had to cut him off....
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by NassBoy(m): 9:03pm On Jun 17
How many people have u helped?
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Inspirer1: 9:03pm On Jun 17
Sheuns:
If person help you, fine. If he no help you, face your way and be diligent in your efforts.


Only your parents want to see you grow higher than them. Others do not.
Truth.

The best thing is not to be in a condition to need such help from close friends, their NO can be so painful..but sometimes you can't tell what they could be going through too,,it's just complicated.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Mathewrichard99: 9:03pm On Jun 17
Transactional and later develop into entitlement
Samantha125:
Was he helping them to succeed in life or to keep them forever indebted to him? I'm sure he organised that trip out of his own free will without anyone coercing him.

This is the issue with most us Africans, we never help out of sincerity, everything is always transactional.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by annayawchee: 9:08pm On Jun 17
Nobody owes you anything.
If you're privileged to have helpful family and friends, be grateful.

Expect nothing and you won't hate anybody for not helping you..
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by Mathewrichard99: 9:09pm On Jun 17
I heard that some people that makes money through all those dubious means often make an agreement with the devil not to give the money for any tangible thing like setting you up or something profitable. If they dare do anything against this oath, it's going to have a terrible consequences on them....can only squander the money to make devil happy and give him more......
Jmichael1:
I was had a cousin brother who is a rich Yahoo boy,that guy will lavish money on u wen it cums to clubbing and girls.

Bt he will never gv u physical cash to do anything with ur life,if u ask him why can't him help anybody,he will just be smiling and singing No Vex by burna boy.
I had to cut him off....
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by BOOKWORMLUX(m): 9:15pm On Jun 17
Black tax will kee you if u want to carry everyone along
Better to build a strong system for yourself first before trying to help family members who may become entitled to your wins
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by ireke(m): 9:15pm On Jun 17
FlamingBulb:
Dose saying help only comes from God or dey help oo dey no help oo are the ones actually guilty and stingy.

If you have and refused to help u will suffer for it now or future.

You buy brand new cars, have house, have businesses but your blood brother is suffering..Ur own is to dash dem 10k 20k after begging..continue

Surely time for regret will come.
My opinion to things like this is that regret should come if it wants to come. If I have been warning someone with tears since I was barely 20 and they refused to yield to common sense, I can not kill myself over them if they have not made sense of their life after 30 years. I have helped a lot, I may and would still help, but I've really grown beyond people trying to use their poverty to blackmail me. Not even death scares me. All of us have to die at some point.
Re: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by BarrElChapo(m): 9:16pm On Jun 17
Sirchiboy:
Victor Osimhen reveals that when he made money , HE TOOK ALL HIS DAY ONE FRIENDS to Turkey 🇹🇷. He sponsored everything and got them accommodation and jobs there , today they are doing extremely well too .

Victor didn’t tell them to keep hustling and praying , he simply showed them the way .

Many of you have made it but you can’t even help family . Shame on you

Moral lesson : Stop telling your friends to work harder , just help them
If you can
If they refuse to help you, try hustle make help others. You are not entitled to anybody’s money.
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