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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Sheuns(m): 1:08pm On Jun 18

That lady's tweet saying she conducted a research project examining the quality of life of people living with HIV is trying to be clever by half. You did not mention the total number of people your research sampled, the geographical area etc. You just slammed us with "90% of them" gave the exact heartbreaking answer.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by erad(m): 1:17pm On Jun 18

Woman wey concubine give HIV go tell you say nah concubine give am?

Let all of us be playing.

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Juoflife1(f): 1:24pm On Jun 18

True

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by cr7lomo: 1:25pm On Jun 18

bigpicture001:
DNA is for paternity determinant ND not HIV test

Now what does that tell u??...that these women are all going Nigar raw ... if u can get pregnant from outside ur marriage ..u can also contract HIV from outside ur marriage

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by BigYash: 1:27pm On Jun 18

These generation of women cheat more than their husbands. Some will cheat and blame the man for this choice of choosing to cheat.

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by phemmyflexxy(m): 1:36pm On Jun 18

Dpsychologist:
A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate

Source:
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2026/6/once-you-see-a-married-woman-with-hiv-chances-are-she-got-it-from-her-husband-nigerian-doctor-says.html

This applies majorly to northern ladies... You can't say the same for southern folks...
I was part of a survey in 2018 about HIV patients living with tuberculosis... There was this particular woman that had been living with HIV for 4 years and the husband is unaware... I did everything to persuade she and her sister to let the husband know... They refused...
My question is for how long will she keep the secret and will she continue to deprive the husband of seggs. huh

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by nedekid: 1:40pm On Jun 18

These days it's as if married women even cheat more than their husbands, from those that do it for economic reasons to those that will nack any young guys nackable at their place of work.
I entered a supermarket just as they were opening few days ago, apparently they thought they locked the door not knowing it was not properly locked, normally that is when cleaning prior to opening should be taking place, Omo one young boy staff was hammering the married with kids manager doggie, no be small thing, I just do like say nothing happen, as if say I no see anything, lol.

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by ogascomax: 1:48pm On Jun 18

If we want to do a ratio of who can spread the most it will definitely be the man. Even if women cheats it can't be compared to men. A woman in marriage may cheats with one or two guys. But for men, they can continue changing the ladies. So logically men will spread the most.

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by seanery: 1:58pm On Jun 18

WEITING WAN CARRY ME GO NACK OUTSIDE WHEN MY WIFE AT HOME IS CLEAN OF ANY INFECTION.

NA PERSONE WEY A SHAWO DEY HIN EYES DEY FOLLOW WOMEN UP AND DOWN.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by CLETDON(m): 2:01pm On Jun 18

Dr. Who gave the men the Virus?

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by demolagilbert: 2:03pm On Jun 18

bigpicture001:
DNA is for paternity determinant ND not HIV test

he successfully drew a parallel, but you failed to see it. The logic is that cases of paternity fraud are quite high, this means hypothetically a wife who could get pregnant for someone else and pin it on you, means she was knacking raw and could have also gotten some viruses eg HIV in addition to the baby. Do you get it now?

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by aybabz101: 2:07pm On Jun 18

drshrewd:
The risk of HIV transmission depends greatly on the type of exposure, whether the source person has HIV, whether they are on treatment, whether there was blood contact, and whether post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) is started quickly.

Approximate HIV Transmission Risk Per Exposure Event
Exposure Type Estimated Risk
Blood transfusion with HIV-infected blood ~90% (9,000 per 10,000 exposures)
Sharing contaminated injection needles ~0.63% (63 per 10,000)
Receptive anal sex (bottom partner) ~1.38% (138 per 10,000)
Insertive anal sex (top partner) ~0.11% (11 per 10,000)
Receptive vaginal sex (female receiving) ~0.08% (8 per 10,000)
Insertive vaginal sex (male penetrating) ~0.04% (4 per 10,000)
Needle-stick injury in healthcare setting ~0.23% (23 per 10,000)
MouthAction Very low; difficult to quantify, generally <0.01%
Deep bite with blood exposure Extremely low
Kissing, hugging, sharing utensils No risk
Mosquitoes/insects No risk

from the above stats the probality of contracting HIV from random unprotected sex in Nigeria is 0.01*0.04=0.0004% This means even the unprotected sex we dread about does not really expose us as much as we thougth. I have seen women who are HIV positive and their Husband HIV Negative. meaning, the wife may have contracted through sharing of sharp objects and from the stats their husband need to sleep with them over a thousand times to be exposed to the virus

moderators should please strikeout this comment for misinformation......

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by ObaOfYorubaLand: 2:16pm On Jun 18

That doctor is useless
...

He must be a woman under a man's name.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Mountbatten: 2:39pm On Jun 18

When we ask for DNA test to be conducted, all of them would go mute.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Leepeak(m): 3:06pm On Jun 18

Which ever way
There is love in sharing ☺️, from the holy scriptures it is written in the volume of the book

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by IbileIfe: 3:25pm On Jun 18

Dpsychologist:
A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate

Source:
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2026/6/once-you-see-a-married-woman-with-hiv-chances-are-she-got-it-from-her-husband-nigerian-doctor-says.html

The RCCG church woman who died from AIDS got it from her husband.
This provoked the Church to demand medical tests before the wedding.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by franvincoop: 3:28pm On Jun 18

Mr. Labtech did you do a DNA test on the baby after childbirth to confirm if it belongs to the husband?
If you did not, he-goat go bite you on Sunday 3pm for dis your false statement.

bigpicture001:
It I very true...I run a medical lab...and I can say the doctor said correct..

U see couple comer pre marital test all testing negative...then just 8-months to 18 months after childbirth...wife is HIV positive

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by livebullet(m): 5:08pm On Jun 18

Maybe in the north.. in the south here, the number of wife to husband transmission is increasing... Our southern women are tasting "freedom" as they call it.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by LordLicifer(m): 5:59pm On Jun 18

I agree with the Doctor

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by UrVillageChief: 6:54pm On Jun 18

Alhaji Dr Nuhu Dantoto, the toto hunter, well done sir

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by DarkJeddi(m): 7:21pm On Jun 18

Helinuss:
Well it is true. I know women cheat. But men no dey try at all....some married men dey set target for one year sef

The average woman sleeps with more men before 30 than the average man would manage in 5 lifetimes.

All these men cheat is a fallacious thing.

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Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by joseph1832(m): 7:48pm On Jun 18

Dpsychologist:
A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate

Source:
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2026/6/once-you-see-a-married-woman-with-hiv-chances-are-she-got-it-from-her-husband-nigerian-doctor-says.html

So, the women all happen to speak one common dialect? I see.

I wonder why he didn't interview the men, so they can tell him who infected them.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Psoul(m): 9:53pm On Jun 18

Very silly assumption.
The doctor is not psychologically balanced.
Women don't take responsibility of any action.

Even when they know that they are the problem, they will still form victim. That is the shaky premise this doctor boy drew his inference from.
Mtchwwww.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Helinuss: 9:56pm On Jun 18

DarkJeddi:
The average woman sleeps with more men before 30 than the average man would manage in 5 lifetimes.

All these men cheat is a fallacious thing.

I am not arguing with you. We are talking of married couples

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by meemee(m): 8:38am On Jun 19

Women actually grabs infection faster than men due to thier pussy structure so that statement is an uninformed generalisation.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by jokaka89: 10:53am On Jun 19

So why is the number of clients on treatment rated 70/30.
70% for women and 30% for men.
Go and do your stats well Dr. that doesnt know anything about HIV.
Meet with any ART coordinator of any facility, you will get your answerand stop misleading people.
APIN, ECEWS, HYGIA are where you can get infos from.

Mind you, it is easier to get HIV from women than men because of the way the private parts are designed by God.
TDF-3TC-DTG is an example of the ART medications given to them and this is a first line medication, that is if the the viral load of the client is less than than 1000cp/ml.
I worked with the NGO before.

Dpsychologist:
A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate

Source:
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2026/6/once-you-see-a-married-woman-with-hiv-chances-are-she-got-it-from-her-husband-nigerian-doctor-says.html

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by drshrewd: 5:38pm On Jun 19

aybabz101:
moderators should please strikeout this comment for misinformation......

please what is the misinformation?

is it the fact that the probability of getting HIV through sex is very low

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by aybabz101: 6:30pm On Jun 19

drshrewd:
please what is the misinformation?

is it the fact that the probability of getting HIV through sex is very low

How can one open his or her mouth in this 21st century and claim that probability of getting HIV via unprotected sex with an infected person is low?!.....

we are in serious trouble oooo

the probability is only low if the infected person has a very low viral load.....and this is in very rare cases...moreover, why would one endangers his or her self by having unprotected sex with an infected person!...

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by Anaya4life: 7:20pm On Jun 19

gracias124:
that doctor dont know about the victim mentality of women

Kindly carry out and publish your own research to support your position....Even as dar back as when I was a teenager, my medical pactitioner parents always had stories of husbands who were asymptomatic and infected their wives. Some also knew and disnt tell their wives. Some wkmen only found out because they were sickly amd couldn't explain why. Truth be told, many men are careless. A cheating woman is more likely to protect herself than a cheating man.

Re: A Doctor's HIV Comment Sparks Debate by adecares(f): 10:09pm On Jun 19

I read some comments and I conclude disgustingly that marriage has lost its purity and respect.

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