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brain54:
I thought pasukal agreed to paternity test at a time or actually did the test...?



But seriously, is this woman the first woman to ever take care of a child? Can't she move on and find a job if pasukal isn't ready to take care of his responsibilities if really he is the father?


Why is she so fixated on calling out pasukal? Move on and care for your child woman.


You equally share the responsibility as much as pasukal for bringing the child into the world if really he birthed the child.

I have come to conclusion that she is simply a weapon fashioned against pasukal

You equally are responsible or irresponsible for birthing a child with someone who is irresponsible enough not to accept responsibility for his biological child from a one night stand sexual excapade.


You have made your mistake. Accept the consequences of it and move on and stop acting like a nuisance around the social media space.


Focus on taking care of your child if the father refuses to do so. No be pasukal be the first man to deny pikin.


Haba!

We4all:
A woman who doesn't insist on using protection and gets pregnant either by choice or stupidity should take responsibility for her actions.

SamuraiXXX:
Paschal will be regretting the day he crossed path with this crude woman

HacheNoire:
…and a man who fails to use condom should not take responsibility for his actions?

You can’t make it make sense!

We4all:
A woman owns her body, solely bears the shame of unwanted pregnancy, and can choose not to get pregnant if she doesn't want to.

So if she insists on no condom, no sex, where will the pregnancy come from? This is why Nigerian women should be taught discipline and how to say NO to a man.

HacheNoire:
But a married man can forget his wife and skin five with a prostitute. He should not say No to such temptation.

Let’s use root cause analysis in project management to analyze issue. If the man did not dip his peniss into the lady, there will be nothing to discuss about here.

The man called the shot!

We4all:
My message is clear: Men don't get pregnant, only women do. So women should learn to respect their bodies and never give in to a man if they don't want to have unwanted pregnancies. How else do you want me to explain it to you?

LordIsaac:
She has vowed to taste that man's money...and she's prepared to take that ambition with her till the end of time!

Genesiszero:
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Genesiszero:
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grandstar:
Let him come out and clear his name.

He his a public figure and should clear his name. This is tarnishing his image (Read 1 Tim 5:8.)

No amount of "big boy" will clear his name.

If he is the father $500 a month for upkeep for his child is shiit money to him.

If a DNA is done and his name cleared, then he is free!

ZUBY77:
He has the money alright, but from what I heard, his wife might k.ill him if he ever admit the partenity.
Some women are nasty behind the scene.

HacheNoire:
You don’t want to put responsibility of the man and that’s my problem with you.

So if your son impregnates 3 girls, those girls should be blamed for not taking cared of the situation?

You have no blame for the son who impregnated the lady?

I hope that’s what you mean? We have to discuss like professionals. What was the root cause of the pregnancy?

Who had the sperm?
What was the first point of protection? The cap?

Make sense with me!

grandstar:
If this child is really his, what he is doing is ungodly and a great sin (Read 1 Timothy 5:8.)
No amount of "good deeds" will eraze it (Read Proverbs 28:13)

We4all:
If my son impregnates three girls, I would chastise him for being irresponsible, of course. But as long as the girls were not raped, then their parents should blame them for being stupid enough to open their legs for an irresponsible man.

I am not trying to hold brief for irresponsible men. But the truth is, nature is biased toward women, and one of the sole reasons why men are sexually irresponsible is because they can never get pregnant. A man can go on a sex spree without consequences. But can you say the same about a woman?

For that reason, if a woman doesn't maintain sexual discipline and allows a man to mess with her, then she should be ready to face the consequences. I didn't create this situation, nature did.

jojo1415:
But Wait ooooohhh,did Cubana chief priest really taste this woman?

LordIsaac:
Are those the qualities of virtuous women? Force a child upon a man?

grandstar:
Then he should do a DNA so that everyone can rest. Thats wĥat Davido did to silent a golddigger.

If that is his child, then that is his child! It changes nothing.

Thats why the Bible admonishes us to keep our zips up and only have sex to a woman you are married to. An illegitimate and an unwanted child is a consequence of the immoral affair.

Note: The Bible does not demand you marry because of the child. Most shotgun marraiges do not work, despite the best intentions (Read Proverbs 14:12)

However, if that child is yours, you have to accept it.

He needs to do a DNA to clear his name. It would be

sandra2025:
You are talking the way you want, right?
Do you think it's easy these days?
She may not be a golddigger as you're purporting.
Cubana may have tasted her forbidden fruit and pregnancy came in.
Why is it so hard for a DNA test to be done, so that both parties can rest?

Seyi, can you boast of eating three square meals?
Do you have kids?

tnerro1:
Why this guy no resolve this matter once and for all, you chop Abi you no chop, if you chop, do DNA to confirm and move on. If you no chop, sue her to court and settle this matter nah

Kobicove:
What makes you so sure it was not CP that insisted on going raw?

brain54:
She has never claimed she was raped...



Both of them share responsibility equally whether he insisted or not!

HacheNoire:
Not her fault!

You have to blame the man who did not wear condom!

Even at that, he has the money to shut the lady up and take care of his kids.

He should learn from Davido. Fvck it and own it!

cr7lomo:
U can't force a child on a man , just like u can't force a child on a woman ... if a woman dont want that child , she will quickly abort .. even if the man wants it... if the man dont want it, the woman will still birth it and start to disturb the man like he ever asked for a child

cr7lomo:
If a woman don't want to get pregnant, she wudnt.... if she does, she planned it ...thats pure fact

Kobicove:
This is not true

tnerro1:
You don’t know what you are talking about, the man should have kept his thing in one place if he doesn’t want to be disturbed by a child. These are the kind of things men do that put their wives and children in dispute after they have gone to the great beyond. If anything should happen to CP tomorrow and that child in not in his will, if that child can prove with DNA or other evidence that he is his true son, the guy will contest his will in court, and if they are not careful, for the next 5 years, dem go dey court they drag that will and CP no go dey around to settle the matter then.

spiSeyi:
Why would a reasonable mother be tired of taking care of her own child this speaks volumes of how irresponsible this lady is. Anyways gold digger must learn the hard way. Awon I can't date broke guys in the mod , go get a job and start taking your responsibility woman