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A 25-year-old woman has committed suicide in Anambra State over a breakup with her boyfriend after allegedly aborting three pregnancies with him.

The police spokesperson in Anambra State, Tochukwu Ikenga, said in a statement on Saturday that the incident occurred on Thursday in Onitsha, the state’s commercial hub.

Mr Ikenga, a superintendent of police, said the unnamed woman was found dead on Thursday under unknown circumstances.

“A note suspected to be a suicide message was also recovered at the scene with a disturbing narrative of relationship break up after having three abortions for an unidentified man named Chigozie,” he said.

He said the Commissioner of Police in Anambra State, Ikioye Orutugu, has ordered the immediate transfer of the case to the State Criminal Investigation Department in Awka for “a thorough and discreet investigation.”

Mr Orutugu said the development underscores the need for stronger parental guidance, moral upbringing, and emotional support systems for young people.

The commissioner emphasised that parents and guardians must take a more active role in the lives of their children and wards by paying closer attention to their emotional well-being, social interactions, and behavioural changes.

“The Anambra State Police Command remains committed to protecting lives and property while working with relevant stakeholders to address emerging social concerns affecting public safety and societal well-being,” he said.

The police chief urged community leaders, educational institutions, faith-based organisations, and civil society groups to intensify advocacy and mentorship programmes to promote positive values, resilience, and responsible living among youth.

He expressed deep concern over the increasing level of decadence and other disturbing incidents being recorded in society, describing the trend as “worrisome.”

dre11:
“A note suspected to be a suicide message was also recovered at the scene with a disturbing narrative of relationship break up after having three abortions for an unidentified man named Chigozie,” the police said.



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spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.

Fekumzi123:
You're absolutely right.
As a man, if a girl is denying me sx I will not be happy with her but I don't want to have a daughter that opens her leg to any man anyhow or before marriage.
In fact I don't even want my son to have sex until he has his own business and house.
There's little fun and enjoyment in it but in reality it is slowing you down. Your energy and resources you could have channel towards a more productive life.
And I strongly support those girls who says no sx for broke men because they're actually trying to help them.

spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.