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Stop fornication now

This our today young generation don't see fornication as a sin anymore this is just one of the consequences of disobeying God's divine commandments the other day in delta a young girl of less than 18yrs was caught after she buried her two weeks old baby alive.

APOPTOSIS:
She went too far. No one is justifying whatever.
The court of law will never hold the Guy accountable since no evidence suggests he instigated or sued for an abortion. The Police will only investigate to be sure she wasn't murdered.
If no substantial evidence of murder exists, they would investigate further to check if she was threatened into doing such...but now she's no more.
She just wasted her life for nothing.
Someone else would have still married her.
She could relocate to another city and still get a better life. Her umbilical cord is not tied to the young man

Now it's the Guy's words versus same Guy's words.
She is gone and no one would speak for her.
Court won't go out to start counting imaginary abortions when the person that is supposed to speak is gone. They know humans are manipulative & can Lie
People must learn to understand people they spend their time with. Judgment is not passed out of pity.
Facts and evidence must be laid down 4 such.

good evening sir. Nigeria is hard

bukatyne:
Foolish girl!

Instead of her to be a single mom and move on, she is tying herself to a man who doesn't want her.

The one that treated his woman like diamond dey do choko after marriage, how much more the one that never wanted you from the start?

Any man that encourages you to abort doesn't like you. Let's leave love aside.

You aborted for a man the first time and out of fear/concern for you didn't hold body, insist on condoms, or hustle harder to close the marriage.

Anyways, she will soon start 'Dear Joro'.

I think the guy's problem was more of developing cold feet for marriage.Not like he didn't like her but he wasn't ready to settle yet.

This is really mind boggling. Committing suicide because of a man at that age? Damnnn.

My condolences to her parents. This will be a traumatic experience for them.

spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.

wisdom!!
I like your reasoning...Are you single and ready to mingle with the right man?
socoharley@gmail.com

A man that will marry you will never ask you to do abortion. You did 1, 2 and even 3 abortions. What were you thinking?

Mumu girl,who lose the hell fire you have been hearing since when you are little you will now see it with your two naked eyes….

socoharley:
wisdom!!
I like your reasoning...Are you single and ready to mingle with the right man?
socoharley@gmail.com

I'm sorry.. I'm married with 3 children

bluefilm:
So unless I marry the girl, I cannot have sexx?

That's total bullcrap

Why not? You can.
There are a lot of wayward ladies around

Samking987:
Even with their sexual compability testing how many of their marriage last long?

Don't mind them.
They hide behind sexual compatibility to satisfy their lust.
Few weeks to months into the marriage, they will realise that there is so much more that keeps a marriage than sex.
Besides, as long as the couple involved aree biologically healthy, sexual compatibility is a gradual process and not by premarital sex.

Fekumzi123:
You have a point there, but I now see sx from another angle as something that once you taste it, I slows down your productivity.

Maybe for you, but for many men out there, it actually boosts productivity. Americans have a lot of sex as there are so many avenues to ejaculate in peace, yet possess higher productivity than we do.

spiceadole:
I'm sorry.. I'm married with 3 children

Oh great! God bless your home and family.

spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.

Typical women 😂
"Men will mess you up"... Last time I checked relationship is consenting agreements/actions between two GROWN UP ADULTS. Whether good or bad came out of it you both ruined your lives. Don't push no blame to one person, no action was taken at a gunpoint.

Stop sleeping with people you aren't married to, entanglement of any kind are easy to break if sex isn't involved. God still remains the wisest.

spiceadole:
If as a single lady, you are allowing a man who is not your husband to sleep with you, you will bear the consequences of all your waywardness alone.
The smart ones will insist on condoms.
The ones with little sense left will end the relationship after one abortion.
But fools will stay back and continue getting pregnant and aborting until nothing is left in their self esteem.
Of course, the guy man will dump them.

When some of us frown at premarital sex,they will say we are pretenders,we are old school..we don't have sex skills,we are not testing sexual compatibility,etc
All are lies that people manufacture just to justify immorality.
Men will mess you up wetin no good if you don't learn to close your legs and stop rubbishing yourself.

At 25 years, she should have been old enough to know that a guy who's not ready to father a child should take precautions if he must have sex.

Also, at 25 years, she should have taken precautions since she wasn't ready to have a child. Was she in love, naive or just plain stvpid 🤔🤔


Besides, the way most of you put all the blame on one gender is surprising.

There are ladies who can't stay without or accept celibacy or abstinence before marriage. This is not a gender thing.

frankson1:
At 25 years, she should have been old enough to know that a guy who's not ready to father a child should take precautions if he must have sex.

Also, at 25 years, she should have taken precautions since she wasn't ready to have a child. Was she in love, naive or just plain stvpid 🤔🤔


Besides, the way most of you put all the blame on one gender is surprising.

There are ladies who can't stay without or accept celibacy or abstinence before marriage. This is not a gender thing.

How is the blame on one gender? Women have the responsibility of protecting themselves against things like this.
Let them continue sleeping around and without protection,for that matter since sex is food and oxygen.
We are seeing the result in some of them.Who bears the consequences?
Nothing concern man than to cum and face front.

A guy who talks you into aborting a foetus can never marry you so after that first evacuation why couldn't you leave him?and even if you must still continue dating him to the extent of having intercourse let him take you to his parents and see yours too always insist on condoms and you also should use contraceptives when you want to have fun!

Omo see finishing,
Brutality aka Fatality
Women wicked ooo

AbosedeFalade:
Sincerely, these younger women should take advice like this coming from someone like you who has been there, done that, and finally realized that waywardness does not pay and retire on your own accord. I thank God for your transformation. I don't care whether your choice to retire from waywardness is because of lack of patronage from men due to old age or not, as many people would argue.

To the dead woman, my thoughts and prayers are with her loved ones.

The bastard will be searching for an untainted woman for marriage even after destroying another person's daughter's life.
He will reap what he sowed. Karma won't forget.

spiceadole:
How is the blame on one gender? Women have the responsibility of protecting themselves against things like this.
Let them continue sleeping around and without protection,for that matter since sex is food and oxygen.
We are seeing the result in some of them.Who bears the consequences?
Nothing concern man than to cum and face front.

You're making sex a male thing and I'm letting you know that it's not only a male thing. There are ladies who wouldn't want to abstain.

Most ladies would say that they must be sure the guy is very good on bed and also to know he's not a small sized person, the reason they would have premarital sex.

The bottom line is, both partners can be all fullish. One has to be reasonable and responsible enough to take precautions if they're both or neither are ready to raise a child.

You ended your life because of a man? you should be ashamed in the grave.

Fekumzi123:
You're absolutely right.
As a man, if a girl is denying me sx I will not be happy with her but I don't want to have a daughter that opens her leg to any man anyhow or before marriage.
In fact I don't even want my son to have sex until he has his own business and house.
There's little fun and enjoyment in it but in reality it is slowing you down. Your energy and resources you could have channel towards a more productive life.
And I strongly support those girls who says no sx for broke men because they're actually trying to help them.

what tf is this comment

Fiscus105:
At your bolded, anybody surrender his or life as a ball, people will turn his life to football pitch and play ball on it carelessly.

Two of you engaging and enjoying sex romp, but the consequences would be solely on you alone, if you don't play your card well, only you will bear the consequences.

You had pregnancy for a guy, he asked you to terminate, the second time, you should endeavor to tell him to marry you if he wants to continue unprotected romp with you, or he must agree with condom, if she is not ready. If he can't agree with the 2 conditions above. You much on with your life away from a destroyer of life, calling himself boyfriend.

....but how can you advise idiot girl, that she is the one running after unserious jobless tall and six-pack guy.

These types of girls usually learn their lesson in the grave or at e evening.

I have searched, I can't see a lie from your comment....

Marc3500:
what tf is this comment

When you get there you'll understand better.
Broke men should avoid sex. Yes.
And nobody should bring children they can't take care of into this world. That's why we have bandits, cultists, kidnappers, arm robbers and the likes everywhere.
Children from failed parenting.

Bet are you people always showing us police Dem face when una dey talk about crime.

Una go show terrorist face when Dem misbehave. But crime, una go dey show police Dem useless face.

You even show 2 officers.

It doesn't really have to get to this stage. Even when you are married, you don't have to kill yourself because of your partner. Life is beautiful.