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Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by engagingworld: 1:58pm On Jun 26
CaptainJune:
The same way men are designed to put food on the table. Why then cry about hardship?
So you know, and you still crying for equality. Na wa for you!
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by engagingworld: 2:02pm On Jun 26
cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver
This response is epic. I love it.

Women and exaggerated importance.
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 6:58pm On Jun 26
Counterigbolies:
shut up n get d f outta here

Na u go first give birth abi wetin b your problem?

Abeg go rest, nobody force u get Belle
Shut up
You have a nasty attitude
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 7:12pm On Jun 26
cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver
#olodouprising
‘Even animals birth’ such a shame comparing your mum to an animal
How can you compare the birth process of animals to that of human ( women). Are you normal?
Since you are comparing yourself to animals, hope you eat off the floor, hope you have a leash and an owner, or wait you live in the bush/forest?
You poop on the floor ?
And yes women will cry over everything, because we experience pain, unfortunately the society didn’t condition us to ‘ man up’ and not cry, so yes if it hurts, if it is painful we are going to cry!!!!!!!, we will cry because pain is subjective oga.
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 7:16pm On Jun 26
Tickles001:
Keep emotions aside. Point out one lie in what I said.

Childbirth may not be the most pleasant experience, but women exaggerate the whole thing to score cheap points.

In the past, people literally gave birth in farms and walk home with the child in her hands. It's not that complicated, except the woman herself is inadequate.
How can you be so inconsiderate and say child birth/ labour is an exaggeration? Cheap points? ….. for same process that leads to depression, blindness, paralysis, Bell’s palsy, gestational diabetes, etc
Not that complicated? I pity your wife
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 7:17pm On Jun 26
engagingworld:
This response is epic. I love it.

Women and exaggerated importance.
What is epic about the response?
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by cr7lomo: 7:48pm On Jun 26
ukaface:
#olodouprising
‘Even animals birth’ such a shame comparing your mum to an animal
How can you compare the birth process of animals to that of human ( women). Are you normal?
Since you are comparing yourself to animals, hope you eat off the floor, hope you have a leash and an owner, or wait you live in the bush/forest?
You poop on the floor ?
And yes women will cry over everything, because we experience pain, unfortunately the society didn’t condition us to ‘ man up’ and not cry, so yes if it hurts, if it is painful we are going to cry!!!!!!!, we will cry because pain is subjective oga.
Always forming victim... living with victim mentality all ur lives ...and yes , we are all animals ...we breathe oxygen, eat food, poo, pea , have sex or mate , communicate, get emotional, run blood in our veins ... so u are also an animal ... abi u think animals dont go thru pains of birthing... u think the world revolves around women... I only blame modern men...cos if it were up to men of past generations...una for don get sense .. Adults that think they are babies
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by Tickles001(m): 8:32pm On Jun 26
ukaface:
How can you be so inconsiderate and say child birth/ labour is an exaggeration? Cheap points? ….. for same process that leads to depression, blindness, paralysis, Bell’s palsy, gestational diabetes, etc
Not that complicated? I pity your wife
The bolded is part of the lies that women cook up to amplify their whining.
A woman's body is designed to handle childbirth without complications. It signals inadequacy if anyone develops other health issues from the process.
It doesn't mean the process is any more dangerous, it only women are getting weaker and disfunctional.

If our foremothers gave birth effortlessly multiple times, women of today shouldn't have problems doing the same with all the safe birth practices we have developed that wasn't in the past.
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 8:38pm On Jun 26
cr7lomo:
Always forming victim... living with victim mentality all ur lives ...and yes , we are all animals ...we breathe oxygen, eat food, poo, pea , have sex or mate , communicate, get emotional, run blood in our veins ... so u are also an animal ... abi u think animals dont go thru pains of birthing... u think the world revolves around women... I only blame modern men...cos if it were up to men of past generations...una for don get sense .. Adults that think they are babies
My intelligence will reduce further if I reply this gibberish
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by cr7lomo: 8:55pm On Jun 26
ukaface:
My intelligence will reduce further if I reply this gibberish
Who dash this one intelligence
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by ukaface(f): 9:00pm On Jun 26
Tickles001:
The bolded is part of the lies that women cook up to amplify their whining.
A woman's body is designed to handle childbirth without complications. It signals inadequacy if anyone develops other health issues from the process.
It doesn't mean the process is any more dangerous, it only women are getting weaker and disfunctional.

If our foremothers gave birth effortlessly multiple times, women of today shouldn't have problems doing the same with all the safe birth practices we have developed that wasn't in the past.
Lies? Women cook up pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, postpartum blindness and Bell’s palsy? Come on… these are recognised medical diagnoses, not stories women invented.

Your reasoning is incredibly myopic.

So if a woman develops complications following childbirth, she’s simply “inadequate”? That’s your conclusion? Weaker and dysfunctional? God… who be this one?

And how exactly do you know your foremothers gave birth effortlessly? Were you there? Or have you conveniently ignored the increased maternal mortality of the past? Many women died during childbirth, many babies died, and countless women lived with obstetric fistulas( ever heard of vvf?), chronic pain, uterine prolapse and lifelong complications. Survivorship bias, mixed with misogyny, makes you remember only the women who survived, while conveniently forgetting those who didn’t.

If childbirth was truly effortless for our foremothers, why did virtually every society have traditional birth attendants, midwives, childbirth rituals, and such high maternal mortality?

By your logic, because the heart is designed to pump blood, anyone who develops heart failure has an “inadequate” heart. Because the kidneys are designed to filter blood, anyone with kidney failure has “inadequate” kidneys. That’s not how biology works. The body is designed to function, but disease and complications are an inherent part of human physiology including childbirth.

Childbirth is a natural process. Complications are also a recognised part of that process. That’s exactly why obstetrics exists. And no, women don’t lie about these things. Reason better abeg
Re: The “Afterpain” Everyone Forgets After Child Birth by Tickles001(m): 9:39pm On Jun 26
So if a woman develops complications following childbirth, she’s simply “inadequate”? That’s your conclusion? Weaker and dysfunctional? God… who be this one?
Yes.

And how exactly do you know your foremothers gave birth effortlessly? Were you there?
I know because there were evidence of that. Most people born in the 80s and 90s grew up to realise their parents came from a large family of 9 kids on the average. All came from one woman that's still strong, kicking and healthy.

Or have you conveniently ignored the increased maternal mortality of the past? Many women died during childbirth, many babies died, and countless women lived with obstetric fistulas( ever heard of vvf?), chronic pain, uterine prolapse and lifelong complications.
How do you know this? Where you there?

Survivorship bias, mixed with misogyny, makes you remember only the women who survived, while conveniently forgetting those who didn’t.
No. It's the other way around. Gynocentrism is what makes the society and people like you to amplifier one in million complicated childbirth against the millions of safe births we witness everyday. Did I hear you say "survivor"? Like it's an apocalypse grade ordeal?

If childbirth was truly effortless for our foremothers, why did virtually every society have traditional birth attendants, midwives, childbirth rituals, and such high maternal mortality?
Just the same way we have town cryers. It doesn't make broadcasting any more dangerous. It's just people leading in what they know how to do.
And there's no such thing as heightened maternal mortality in the past. It's just part of the psyop.

By your logic, because the heart is designed to pump blood, anyone who develops heart failure has an “inadequate” heart. Because the kidneys are designed to filter blood, anyone with kidney failure has “inadequate” kidneys.
Yes. You just nailed it. If any designed system fails to perform according to design, it means it's defective and/or inadequate.

That’s not how biology works. The body is designed to function, but disease and complications are an inherent part of human physiology including childbirth.
We are saying the same thing here. Disease can make a system not to perform its functions, meaning it has been rendered inadequate.
In the absence of such diseases, a woman has no excuse.
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