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The Danger Of Using Sex As A Weapon In Marriage.. by giftson102(op): 12:46pm On Jun 29
As a woman, one of the biggest mistakes you can make in your marriage is turning intimacy into a tool for punishment.
Anytime you have issues with your husband, you withdraw...
You deny him access...
You use what was meant to unite both of you as a weapon to fight him.
Listen carefully
This may feel like power in the moment... but it is actually creating silent damage in your home.
A man may not always talk... but he feels rejection deeply.
When you constantly shut him out, you are not just expressing anger you are planting seeds of distance, frustration, and emotional disconnection.
Marriage is not a battlefield where you win by starving each other of love.
Marriage is a union where both partners should feel safe, wanted, and respected
Yes, disagreements will come...
Yes, misunderstandings will happen...
But using intimacy as punishment will only make things worse, not better.
A wise woman knows how to communicate her hurt without destroying the bond that holds her marriage together.
Re: The Danger Of Using Sex As A Weapon In Marriage.. by Cum4me(m): 7:33pm On Jul 03
As for me I don't think a woman I married will use sex against me. Because sex is too cheap outside I'm not even sure of getting married to one woman. I'm gonna marry 3 women if my skin full. Food and sex is extremely cheap for me honestly. I can cook very well I love eating my own prepared meal. Sex is as cheap as ice fish outside just guide as a man woman no really get levels for this present generation them no too dey important if you dey get am clear.
Re: The Danger Of Using Sex As A Weapon In Marriage.. by Eba50: 9:20pm On Jul 03
giftson102:
As a woman, one of the biggest mistakes you can make in your marriage is turning intimacy into a tool for punishment.
Anytime you have issues with your husband, you withdraw...
You deny him access...
You use what was meant to unite both of you as a weapon to fight him.
Listen carefully
This may feel like power in the moment... but it is actually creating silent damage in your home.
A man may not always talk... but he feels rejection deeply.
When you constantly shut him out, you are not just expressing anger you are planting seeds of distance, frustration, and emotional disconnection.
Marriage is not a battlefield where you win by starving each other of love.
Marriage is a union where both partners should feel safe, wanted, and respected
Yes, disagreements will come...
Yes, misunderstandings will happen...
But using intimacy as punishment will only make things worse, not better.
A wise woman knows how to communicate her hurt without destroying the bond that holds her marriage together.
pussy isnt a man's problem, whether married or not. know this and know peace. pussy wey them dey carry dey come around like pure water. men self prefere the free ones outside. better for them
Re: The Danger Of Using Sex As A Weapon In Marriage.. by Kingrshd3: 12:25am On Jul 05
Pssy is not an issue in marriage bro 📌
Finance is d Koko.

Many married men are sex starved due to d economy so I no where u Tak get this Ur own analogy..


How many men dey ask pussy from wife now self mtheew no time for that shit
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