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QuinQQ:
Here's my full post below:

It's a simple matter of economics 101 and biology.

ECONOMICS:
Supply and demand: almost all men in the world want to have sex with a childbearing age woman all the time. Number of such women is limited. When you minus those on period or nursing or pregnant... Why do you think it is men that have always paid for sex?

BIOLOGY: We are hardwired to want our genes to survive. We are not conscious of this wiring but it drives so much we do. Best way for a man is to impregnate as many women as possible. A woman can only have very limited number of children so best way for her is to find a man that will STAY and help her raise and protect her few offsprings to adulthood (MARRIAGE!)

Also, ONE man can impregnate countless number of women, while a woman can only have few children, making men much more disposable and women needing to be protected - if we want our species to survive!

Despite the privilege men have to engage As many women as they like it is not a licensed for men to underrate the women or write out their value just because of a limited period of time they have.

Lovelink1991:
Despite the privilege men have to engage As many women as they like it is not a licensed for men to underrate the women or write out their value just because of a limited period of time they have.

Men don't have any such privilege. Nothing is more satisfying to a man than sex with a NEW woman that he desires (as long as it is not prostitution). Yet that is denied most men either due to unwillingness of the women or due to marriage - marriage is approximately like putting a lion in a cage and feeding it meat when it is hungry! Hence lots of men are incels (involuntarily celibate) and bitter about it!

QuinQQ:
Men don't have any such privilege. Nothing is more satisfying to a man than sex with a NEW woman that he desires (as long as it is not prostitution). Yet that is denied most men either due to unwillingness of the women or due to marriage - marriage is approximately like putting a lion in a cage and feeding it meat when it is hungry! Hence lots of men are incels (involuntarily celibate) and bitter about it!

Is there ever a time that the desire of a man is satisfied?
No matter how many women you allocate to one man his desire will never be satisfied that is why they are riding on the privilege that women must be the one hurting for them for marriage due to the fact that they have a longer term compare to women.

Lovelink1991:
Is there ever a time that the desire of a man is satisfied?
No matter how many women you allocate to one man his desire will never be satisfied that is why they are riding on the privilege that women must be the one hurting for them for marriage due to the fact that they have a longer term compare to women.

Well, men did not create themselves that way. They did not put in themselves that strong instinct. Even if a man has 20 women, that one woman he desires but hasn't had will have 10 times more SEXUAL (not love) attraction for him than those women. I think it boils down to the instinct of having your genes survive by "impregnating" as many women as possible. Once you've slept with a woman a few times you have "impregnated" her and your sexual attraction for her goes down , so on to hunting the next woman to "impregnate". .
That's the nature given to a man, to be honest.
Hence marriage is for benefit of women!

If only mem can use their brain to override that instinct and remind themselves all these holes are the same and that they don't need to itheir genes survive!