Hey Nairalanders, i got this problem. There is this girl i have, she is from Delta state, we have been dating for a year now, i like her quite right but she got disvirgined when i went to school early last year, i forgave her but i dont want her again and whenever she comes to my place, she demands for sex all the time even if its daily! i one told her i am noy sex freak but she wouldnt listen, now, i want her out, is it right to let her know why i want her out?

i think you are saying that you do not want her because she is no longer a virgin i do not want to be rude so

yes tell her you dont her and keep it moving, its better than just stringing her along

all this virgin palava sef!

i don't really get d reason y u don't want her is it because she is no longer a virgin or because she is axing for 2 much sex cos i just can't figre

not because she is no more a virgin but she has this kind of eyes that can attract guyz and she likes sex so much, she can fall for guys easily and i dont want girls like that

didn't u know dat before u started going out with her and if u didn't ywhen u found out y didn't u let her go then y now y this particular moment i feel there is a lot more to d story that u don't want to tell spill it hun

No Kiki, there is nothin more to it. There r gurls who controls thierseves even when they are guys' most wanted girl and remaiin faithful to their guy, dats what i thot she ll be but alas! i was wrong.

so dat is d reason u want to let her go hmmmmmm or maybe u had sex with her and it wasn't dat good enough and u want to try something new cos dats wat i feel rite now

Well, maybe, maybe not. She is not the girl i use to know, she seem to have lost her vigour, i mean the shape but she is not ready to go, she knows when i am back 4rm school and wil come to my house, drag me to my friend's place and would want sex but now i dont give her that again, this is new year!

If you want to dump her because you feel like she's just not going to be faithful to you (or is not being faithful to you) than you can go ahead. But if that's not your reason then I'm a little confused why, you talk about how she's no longer a virgin, and yet that's not why you want to break up with her? And then you say that she asks for sex too much, but that's not why you want to break up with her either? If those two are not why you want to break up with her, then please just don't mention it. Because you are just going to confuse her and make her mad at you for giving some bogus excuse.

Just say that you don't want to continue the relationship because you're beginning to question her faithfulness. Since she cheated on you and had sex with someone else when you were away at school and you feel like she has a wandering eye. You really should tell her why you want to break up with her, because I think everyone deserves to know the true reason as to why they are being dumped.

your so funny

dont dump her, switch over to just friend, don't look into her eye to long when you talkin to her,avoid skin contacts and when your with her make sure their is a sertain amount of space between both of you.