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Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Atlantis585: 8:16pm On Jul 05
Muslim and Fulani families are not for me.

Sorry!
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 8:18pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
Yep, my name is Xenophobia, middle name is Hateful, and surname is Afrophobia... cool cool cool
I’m proud you own it with your full chest. Now leave our Nigerian forum and go beck to your Xenophobic forum. grin grin grin
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Afolue(m): 8:20pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
At the end of the day, I am still a patriotic South African and I'll defend my country's honour like any other patriot... I'm sure you'll also do the same with your country.
patriotism has nothing to do with soaking one’s hands in bloodshed. Killing your own race. That’s cannibalism
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 8:25pm On Jul 05
That time there are also some diabolical people from within his religious denomination as well.

In fact, diabolical people can be found in all religious denominations, but that doesn't mean we must now generalise by dehumanizing them all... The good always outweighs the bad.
Elzazzi:
That’s what years of brainwashing has done to them. Lol
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 8:30pm On Jul 05
You're also massacring your own people in your country, but you don't see me busy poking you guys over it...🤷🤷🤷

The only difference is that your country doesn't conduct nationwide crime statistics while we're transparent with ours.
Afolue:
patriotism has nothing to do with soaking one’s hands in bloodshed. Killing your own race. That’s cannibalism
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 8:32pm On Jul 05
I'm waiting for you guys to stage a nairaland shut down against all the South Africans who are on this forum, then I'll pack my bags and leave.
Elzazzi:
I’m proud you own it with your full chest. Now leave our Nigerian forum and go beck to your Xenophobic forum. grin grin grin
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by BigTimeSenator: 8:50pm On Jul 05
Sirseedorf:
Single mother raised family
Mother abusing father family
Mother selling ogogoro family
Gbam!
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Dshocker(m): 9:06pm On Jul 05
Freeyourminds:
Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.
I dey shame for you.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:18pm On Jul 05
Freeyourminds:
You're 100% right. These things are real. Infact they have the power to grant you your wishes on earth. The danger is at death. When you die it will be you versus Jesus.

If you don't have Him you'll never get another chance. It will be eternally too late and I don't think I'll deny that I'm trying to scare you. You should be genuinely scared. This is not a joke. You know the Bible already.
Why una dey always like to do this? She politely told you to respect her belief, why are you still insisting? Nawa for una o
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by doncartel: 9:29pm On Jul 05
Elzazzi:
Nawa. grin grin grin grin

What if na rich APC family? grin
I fit scam the father run
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Afolue(m): 9:58pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
You're also massacring your own people in your country, but you don't see me busy poking you guys over it...🤷🤷🤷

The only difference is that your country doesn't conduct nationwide crime statistics while we're transparent with ours.
if you guys are killing one another, how has that got to do with me too as well? Your defensive talk is defenseless.

Between i and you it is like a drum of war. That’s the huge difference. Get that! And mind you, not all wars, has got anything to do with live missiles
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by omooba969(m): 10:08pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
At the end of the day, I am still a patriotic South African and I'll defend my country's honour like any other patriot... I'm sure you'll also do the same with your country.
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Zeal without knowledge and insight leads to self destruction.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Samantha125(f): 10:20pm On Jul 05
Story story, doesn't change the fact that you're still massacring your fellow Africans in cold blood...🥱🥱🥱... Now shift abeg.
Afolue:
if you guys are killing one another, how has that got to do with me too as well? Your defensive talk is defenseless.

Between i and you it is like a drum of war. That’s the huge difference. Get that! And mind you, not all wars, has got anything to do with live missiles
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Afolue(m): 10:45pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
Story story, doesn't change the fact that you're still massacring your fellow Africans in cold blood...🥱🥱🥱... Now shift abeg.
u don dey hear our pidgin ba? We can see you are becoming more Nigerian than South African

I sorry for who no sorry for una
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Afolue(m): 10:45pm On Jul 05
Samantha125:
Story story, doesn't change the fact that you're still massacring your fellow Africans in cold blood...🥱🥱🥱... Now shift abeg.
u don dey hear our pidgin ba? We can see you are becoming more Nigerian than South African

I sorry for who no sorry for una

I pity who no pity una
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 12:02am On Jul 06
Samantha125:
I'm waiting for you guys to stage a nairaland shut down against all the South Africans who are on this forum, then I'll pack my bags and leave.
Lol. I’m just kidding anyway. We aren’t that petty!
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by QuinQQ: 12:02am On Jul 06
Elzazzi:
that lady is from South Africa. Xenophobic people. grin grin grin
It is a faceless forum. My other moniker I'm also a lady - a lady from Ghana!grin
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 12:13am On Jul 06
Mrexcell:
Traditional beliefs no matter how pure still has it's own limitations unlike Christianity that makes u completely whole and free.
How you people just talk down on other people beliefs is nauseating
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by HacheNoire: 12:14am On Jul 06
Polygamous home!

Run from such family! They carry a very bad mentality.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by tonididdy(m): 12:22am On Jul 06
Ralp226:
Nonsense people … oga marry any woman that is good and love you and leave those nonsense mentality you have
Hand go quick meet u be that!
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 12:27am On Jul 06
Freeyourminds:
Respect to you for genuinely asking.

That's the first sign that you can follow Jesus eventually. The gospel is meant only for the Meek.
James 1:21 Receive with MEEKNESS the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.
Isaiah 61:1 The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the MEEK.

Now to answer your question;

As far as we know, the bible said in 1 Peter 4:6 that for for this cause was the gospel preached also to them that are dead, that they might be judged according to men in the flesh, but live according to God in the spirit.

So the answer to your question is that Jesus went to Hell and preached to them and those that repented followed him to Heaven.

As for those who died after Jesus came, they are all in hell as far as we know. You cannot enter heaven without Jesus.
You’re giving a wrong interpretation to that Bible passage and it doesn’t even make sense to what you’re saying!
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi:
QuinQQ:
Thanks for your answer. How about the oft repeated "there is no repentance after dearh", also the rich man and Lazarus? Can you please teach where in the Bible it says Christ preached to the dead and some repented
What he’s saying makes zero sense. Lol

The Hell he’s talking about will be empty if such happened.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 12:32am On Jul 06
victorazyvictor:
...but 90% of rich families are spoiled, rude, promiscuous and don't regard their husbands because their fallback is comfortable.
Where did you get the 90% statistics from? Lol
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by QuinQQ: 12:35am On Jul 06
Elzazzi:
What he’s saying makes zero sense. Lol

The Hell he’s talking about will he empty if such happened.
Freeyourminds he has a point. Why would dead people choose to stay in hell, knowing full well Christ is leading people to heaven?
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Elzazzi: 12:36am On Jul 06
Mrexcell:
Salvation is actually a divine calling it can't be forced on anyone no matter the efforts u put in to save that person only God really knows who will be saved or not even before they were born on earth.
So God knows everyone that will be saved or not according to you. So why then does he still judge people since he knows the outcome. It means there is no free will you guys normally talk about! Just educate us pls
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by yemmit90: 5:50am On Jul 06
saintopus:
Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience
What if you are comfortable but also from poor background and every woman is avoiding you too, would you remain single for life?

Marrying from a poor family is not an issue at all, the only problem is if she is uneducated with no skills and totally depends on you. There are many women from very poor homes who are the bread winners of both their family and husband family today. If you marry an industrious woman from the said poor family, your experience might have been different.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by ezugegere(m): 7:24am On Jul 06
Single mother family.
Policeman's daughter.
Ocultic family.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by aswani(m): 7:35am On Jul 06
I am mindful of a family of all female children as they wíll close ranks and not think straight or logical when push comes to shove.

Also mindful of a family of 1 female and multiple male, especially if the female is last born.

Most of all though, a family where anyone is an Obidient. Bright Red shiny flag.
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by Greb(f): 7:53am On Jul 06
I don't want to marry into a family that is manipulative, disrespectful, entitled and never know where to draw the line and respect boundaries
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by macjurek(m): 8:00am On Jul 06
Traditionalist and cultural addicts,no no no
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by AbujaLagos: 8:01am On Jul 06
Products raised by divorced single mother or father. Mba! tufiakwa
Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by joshkke(m): 8:24am On Jul 06
Samantha125:
Trying to use fear to impose your colonial belief on me won't work... What you're doing is no different from what those your Boko Haram and Fulani brothers of yours are doing to you guys in Northern Nigeria.

I was once a full blown Christian and the more I got involved in the church, the more I started seeing things for what they really were... I saw hell on earth, if members didn't do enough evangelism throughout the month, they'd get whipped with a belt by our senior pastor, we'd each be allocated the amount of offering that we're expected to give as members depending on our family backgrounds, and almost everyone was fornicating in that church because apparently "the founding pastor didn't mind"... So I did give Christianity a chance, but I unfortunately ended up in deep depression and became suicidal, it took the work of a therapist to get me back into my senses... And this is one of the biggest churches in Africa.
I'm sorry and shocked about your experience. That Church did not represent JESUS CHRIST well. Recall HE drove those same kind of people from the temple. That's why the Bible says: looking into JESUS, the Author and Finisher of our faith. Unfortunately , no Church should be our model of who or what a Christian is, and you must never make any man that either. If GOD puts it in your heart, you could start a new relationship with HIM, just by reading the Bible and praying privately until you find a real community of believers that live according to the Word. GOD bless you.
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