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BrickandLace:
Someone gave me a challenge on Sunday.

She said , as your falling asleep I mean your eyes are about to close from your exhausting day, say

Dear universe,
"Show me how wealthy, rich and lucky I can get."

Do this for the next 5 nights.

MONEY247:
What do you need to upgrade your current status....


My advice...
Forgive yourself
Forgive everyone who has hurt you... even if it pains you alot...
Embarce a new identity....Read the bible,... Read an inspiring book ...

Try to remove your mind from your flaws and focus on your best areas...

Lastly go to youtube, or facebook create a channel and start posting videos you video yourself talking it would ease whatever pressure you are going through for now..

Remember jesus christ loves you

He needs real life solutions and not fairy tales.

Mattswaggz:
He needs real life solutions and not fairy tales.

Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Sirchiboy:
You see poor married people blaming God or devil for their problem.
They are the cause of their poverty.
I know a man that started working at the age of 25.
He worked for 12 years before he married.
He had only NCE.
Instead of him to upgrade to degree for better opportunity.

He remain in that position.
That 12 years working as a single man.
He didnt buy any single assest to his name.
I dont blame him because he is from a polygamous family.
Instead of him to marry someone much better than him.
He still went to marry a 21 or 23 years old girl from the same polygamous with no job or handwork.
or education ....

SeeWahala:
So you want him to be only DREAMING of being rich?

Some Nigerians can be unknowingly wicked with their advices sha

MONEY247:
So what I wrote is fairy tales...

Ok suggest a solution

Sonnobax15:

Bro sirchiboy,tho you're way older than me cuz I'm just in my early 30's but the only thing I've got to say to you is that--"Please don't give up"

Back in 2018,there was this man who was in his early 40's then that was working with us in the bakery I used to work at back then. This dude happened t be a graduate and everytime he spoke up, y'all need to see how he was disrespected by the other workers. Some were even mocking him or wasting away his time going to school. Personally,I never joined them but I was always around him to console him and gave him reasonyto believe all hope was not lost.

Last time I saw him was last year,the dude was already looking okay as he was lucky to find his feet and was working with MTN already. We spoke for few minutes and reminisced on the old times we spent together.

So,my brother sirchiboy,no give up.

Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.

CapitalLens:
You attract unavailable men or men who are already committed. Seems you copied and pasted without editing or you be Gabriel?

Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.