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Tenses:
Nothing wrong with content creation as a career. Her parent failed her by not educating her to never trust a stranger no matter how genuine he or she may sound.

I have a 6 months old daughter and I am already preparing her for the world 🌎 she's already in.

As for my girl, I'll raise her to think that she breathe fire 🔥.. quote by Jessica Kirkland

involved God too.

VonScott:
Stories here & there. You needed money, some guy invited you to Abuja
You have parents, you're a virgin...such & such

She 'even thought he was going to give her N50k...' & that's where he fked up.
If this Guy had attended to her financial problem in the first place, there wouldn't have been any problem.
She feels cheated & used, taken advantage of, U gave a suffering girl ONLY 8k all the way from Warri!

Bros, you should have settled that lady amicably.

Had it been the guy gave her that 50k plus 8k extra for tp, we wouldn't have heard anything of this magnitude today, suicide.

The matter for dai naturally inside that hotel room, in fact the girl for still open leg for am instantly without complains.

He was a stingy greedy guy....

The girl na warri girl ,she for collect the 50k with smiles on her face even.

The guy jonsed

please send to Jail.. Life in prison..

yeye man..

kpetus that is every where begging guys nai u dey go life in prison for..

i dislike low thinking men.

Is it possible that this is a business transaction gone wrong?

1. She travelled to meet him, and went into the hotel room with him, sat on the bed
2. Allowed him to UnCloth her
3. Allowed him to try putting it in... When it didn't enter, she said "allow me go". She then turned to her side to come down from the bed, and he saw an opening
4. He did it... He came on her arse... She cried... She didn't know the deek entered until she saw blood... He bathed her, knelt and begged. She agreed. She hugged him
5. She went back to bed...
6. They talked, he made her laugh. He almost went "round 2". She refused... (Up till this point, nothing to show she was angry and wanted to end it all. That thought came after she left.)
7. He gave only transport, promised to buy a 32k drug that will make her feel like a virgin again. She agreed
8. He didn't send the 32k (50k he wanted to send)


My point... He didn't pay for the sex, he didn't buy the drug to "help make her new again", he didn't give her the help she asked for. I want to think her blocked her, or told her off, or told her to do her worst, or told her the sex was very terrible, or bodyshamed her, or asked her to come for another round before he paid her, etc. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

She felt used and ashamed, and then decided to end it all. But then, she decided she'll bring him down with her. A woman can destroy herself just to destroy a man, so, keeling herself is a very simple decision.


I want to have a divergent view... The sex was consentual, but he didn't pay what was agreed (which is a crime (or wrong) on its own). This led her to take her own life; which is worse, and not commensurate with the offense

Any which way... This guy own don be

Isn't this the second time something like this would happen? I remember the girl who was lured with a job offer and she was later killed and buried by another psychopath like that.
Girls shouldn't trust strangers so much as to be with them alone anywhere they can't easily get help.
This is another sad reminder that there are some really bad people out there.

Train up your kids properly else they will constantly be taken advantage of by wild animals in human forms. I don't blame her for anything but na how her "sense reach". You want to learn content creating and you travel down to see a man far older than you, a man you do not know anything about and then you went alone? Something she could have learnt by herself for free or at most for a small fee, internet and spare time at her own pace. The animal in question has been doing this to other girls who were okay with the trade or were afraid to speak out. Bad parenting has caused so many unfortunate incidents which would otherwise have been avoided. I hope the guy faces the full penalty for his crimes without mercy, but who done die done die sadly

VonScott:
Stories here & there. You needed money, some guy invited you to Abuja
You have parents, you're a virgin...such & such

She 'even thought he was going to give her N50k...' & that's where he fked up.
If this Guy had attended to her financial problem in the first place, there wouldn't have been any problem.
She feels cheated & used, taken advantage of, U gave a suffering girl ONLY 8k all the way from Warri!

Bros, you should have settled that lady amicably.

Brotherly, thank you. I posted the post above this reply before I saw your post. If he gave her the 50k, or helped her solve her problems, she for no kpai herself

This is sad indeed.

To the young ones on Nairaland, if you have that tendency or you have done this before please stop henceforth. Rape is the absolute worst thing you can do to a fellow human being. You have practically buried someone alive! Don't even try to rationalize or explain it away. It is not worth it as your temporary satisfaction must never come at such a huge price tag!

And he is an Obidient too. May God keep protecting us from evil people.

FX:
I don't know the kind of emotionally weak indomie children we have nowadays. At 21 years you committed suicide because of sex. Instead of you to collect money from him and go report at nearest police station. You killed yourself for something that you will later be giving free of charge to boys. You killed yourself for it at the age of 21. At 21 years, your mates have given birth to 4 children already in north Nigeria. She is a very weak child who has been fed with too much indomie. She is not truly from Warri. Warri girls are smart and strong.

^^^


Your prior posts show you are used car salesman...or you sell cars for one.

Either way, your post on this matter shows your mindset and no doubt, prospective car buyers and potential customers are taking notes.

You will learn.

Englishisamust:
The news have been listening about rape and infedelity makes me fear men in this Nigeria. Especially from age 30 upward, it seem as they are getting older they are losing thier sense of reasoning. To born female kid in this Nigeria Dey fear me . Because we are breading a lot of weak men into this society currently they can not take rejection or take thier l in peace when it comes to relationship. They will always try to do things by force..

We are even breeding more useless women... the onky reason she felt terrible is because the guy no give am money after loosing her virginity to him ... if he sent he 100k... she would have even slept that night and wudnt mind the guy doing it again... they rape u, u come de fight the guy from money ...just imagine...

You focused on the MINOR, which is fine but for the sake of the young ones please try and condemn the MAJOR ====> RAPE!!!!!!!!!!!

FX:
I don't know the kind of emotionally weak indomie children we have nowadays. At 21 years you committed suicide because of sex. Instead of you to collect money from him and go report at nearest police station. You killed yourself for something that you will later be giving free of charge to boys. You killed yourself for it at the age of 21. At 21 years, your mates have given birth to 4 children already in north Nigeria. She is a very weak child who has been fed with too much indomie. She is not truly from Warri. Warri girls are smart and strong.

The Odogwu sef na mumu on his own. Since the babe tell you say she be virgin and you don see say she be virgin. You go calm down follow her matter. Treat her well and nurse her as a guy man wey you be. Keep her for your house for some time and show her some love. She go submit that virginity on her own to you. The man na very stupid man. I think say na better guy man. You wan test virgin and you can't spend common 50k. If he had sent that girl that 50k right there, she wouldn't have killed herself.

Focusmind:
I just could not hold myself after watching the video on Facebook

Parents, please, get closer to your children

Don't be too strict, hard and unapproachable

I had to call my children, to reassure them and told them to feel free to discuss anything with me

Share your worries, concerns and troubles.

Don't be afraid to tell me your pains or what you are going through.

Don't be afraid of me or afraid of my reactions to certain thing, I will not kill you

I will always be there for you

The girl must have been scared to the marrow not to share her full ordeal and received the necessary care and attention from the parents and loved ones.

Sometimes, these Gen Zs could be emotionally weak and unable to decipher what they did or they are about to do

Just keep money...so that ur daughters dont make stupid mistakes ... na because of money she fall victim...

dododawa1:
involved God too.

Bet I will.

Na wa ooo...

Na very small girl sef.

Damn!

wehdone:
Is it possible that this is a business transaction gone wrong?

1. She travelled to meet him, and went into the hotel room with him, sat on the bed
2. Allowed him to UnCloth her
3. Allowed him to try putting it in... When it didn't enter, she said "allow me go". She then turned to her side to come down from the bed, and he saw an opening
4. He did it... He came on her arse... She cried... She didn't know the deek entered until she saw blood... He bathed her, knelt and begged. She agreed. She hugged him
5. She went back to bed...
6. They talked, he made her laugh. He almost went "round 2". She refused... (Up till this point, nothing to show she was angry and wanted to end it all. That thought came after she left.)
7. He gave only transport, promised to buy a 32k drug that will make her feel like a virgin again. She agreed
8. He didn't send the 32k (50k he wanted to send)


My point... He didn't pay for the sex, he didn't buy the drug to "help make her new again", he didn't give her the help she asked for. I want to think her blocked her, or told her off, or told her to do her worst, or told her the sex was very terrible, or bodyshamed her, or asked her to come for another round before he paid her, etc. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

She felt used and ashamed, and then decided to end it all. But then, she decided she'll bring him down with her. A woman can destroy herself just to destroy a man, so, keeling herself is a very simple decision.


I want to have a divergent view... The sex was consentual, but he didn't pay what was agreed (which is a crime (or wrong) on its own). This led her to take her own life; which is worse, and not commensurate with the offense

Any which way... This guy own don be

Even though life isn't all black and white I refuse to agree with this. If she's selling her body for a fee trust me no amount of body shaming or anything that will make her go suicidal. Any girl when done agree to dey into runz dey get strong mind because they see a lot from the different types of men they transact with. My only real confusion is at her age (20) she believed she was going to meet with a man in a private place just to learn a skill for free? I really can't figure that part though but some girls can be so naive, even some older girls act naive too though 80% of the time it's a game to make you feel they are ignorant, like a girl saying she wants to go visit her ex for wtv reasons, or visit a guy and spend time but when you try to stop them from making those fuulsh mistakes they call you all sort of names from insecure to controlling. I believe someone close to her would have warned her against embarking on such an unholy journey but she would have shrugged it off and called them something else. All the same aia no believe say she dey hustle at all. She was just a naive young girl who met an animal that took advantage of her naivety

Too bad she took her life. Nigerians would have raised money for her.

Zonefree:
What was the guy expecting after forcing himself on the girl? That the innocent girl would come back for more content creation lessons?

Make them just shoot this guy. That's the only judgement that will make sense to me.

They cannot shoot this kind of person, naa....it is the person who went to collect parcel without knowing it was a pistol that they can rush and shoot, even when he begged them to investigate.

The wisdom of the elderly is not outdated. How I pray that the young take heed.

Jd10k:
Unfortunately this Rapist idiot will get life in prison instead of Death by hanging from his 2 scrotum.
May the souls of the young Lady find peace

U all should stop saying trash...death by hanging for what... some of u men have started acting like women by not being able to control ur emotions ... he dint kill her ... she said she follows him and watches his contents...but dint see where he said no woman will escape his " D" if that woman enters his house ... why did she go there ?? And then started asking for the money he promised after he " rapd" her ... if he gave her 100k, she for happy and this wudnt b news ... she felt used ...thats why she commited suicide...

cr7lomo:
We are even breeding more useless women... the onky reason she felt terrible is because the guy no give am money after loosing her virginity to him ... if he sent he 100k... she would have even slept that night and wudnt mind the guy doing it again... they rape u, u come de fight the guy from money ...just imagine...

Wow. I skip the video, make i go watch am to understand the full story

datola:
The man should be charged for rape and manslaughter!

He cant b charged for manslaughter cos he dint kill her or tell her to commit suicide

In as much as I condemn dis senseless act of dis man, she shouldn't have committed suicide now....haba!...there's more to life than dis

The video the poor girl made before ending it is called 'Dying Declaration', an acceptable legal evidence even when the maker is absent in court (nemo moriturus praesumitur mentire).

To ensure the bastard have no way out, the police should be diligent in her investigation.
Medical examination should help determine a number of things.
- Examine the clothes she worn on the day of event (i believe she may not have summoned the courage to wash them) and get his finger prints all over them.
- If she poisoned herself immediately after the barbaric act (without taking a bath) his DNA/semen will be recovered from her body.
- Quiz the hotel staff on the event of that day. Review the hotel CCTV footage (Hotels are required to have CCTV installed) to re/establish that that poor lady was there on the day and with him.

Then bring the full weight of the law on the bastard who certainly has no business with freedom!


NB: Rapists are the worst scums of the earth.

May her soul find rest.

Kemical23:
He was having fun just like the few useless men who was not properly raised...

Many men/women always misbehave whenever they begin to make small cash, they just believe they will go scot free with whatever action they take....

It lack of proper home training and lack of common sense....

Na why it's not good for a male child to be raised without his dad or father figure.
Man was born out of wedlock and raised by a single mum

Parents, 21 year old kids should not be talking about family problems; please, do not bring kids you cannot raise to this world!
Men, most of these girls are just hungry, do not confuse it with love. Please help them if you can without seeking sexual gratification.
Young men, understand that 18-24 year olds may be called adults, but most of them are still kids in adult bodies, please handle them with care.
Finally, do not have access to a woman's body by force; even when she says yes to it, ask yourself a 100 times, is it really a "yes"!

40 years old man…. No shame, no dignity, no honor, no humanity

I’ once created a thread regarding people who use their positions to harass women for sex and I call them rap*ts

It’s not until you force a woman , but taking advantage of a vulnerable woman who’s desperately in need of financial favor or other form of assistance to sleep with her is still Rappeee

Mehn… so low! So low!

I don’t know what would make me in this life to hustle sex from a woman… like what on hell… like why??
If I want to help a lady, I do it without any consideration to pressure her for sexual rewards
I have rendered some help to some ladies and they wanted to thank me using sex… I literally told them it’s against my philosophy… if you want us to have sex, let’s do it on clean minds…
And that’s why I prefer to bang feminists and independent ladies… they are my most preferred sexual preferences… it tastes good banging a woman who feels she’s independent and need no man…

gassbee:
You have d money and u have access to babes , since u r so crazy about sex just pick one babe marry her and start banging your wife every day if u so wish, now you going to be cooling your head in kirikiri

Variety is the spice of life

My thought as well

Don't forget she put her chat with him on disappearing mood. This don't happen accidentally, it is done on purpose.

wehdone:
Is it possible that this is a business transaction gone wrong?

1. She travelled to meet him, and went into the hotel room with him, sat on the bed
2. Allowed him to UnCloth her
3. Allowed him to try putting it in... When it didn't enter, she said "allow me go". She then turned to her side to come down from the bed, and he saw an opening
4. He did it... He came on her arse... She cried... She didn't know the deek entered until she saw blood... He bathed her, knelt and begged. She agreed. She hugged him
5. She went back to bed...
6. They talked, he made her laugh. He almost went "round 2". She refused... (Up till this point, nothing to show she was angry and wanted to end it all. That thought came after she left.)
7. He gave only transport, promised to buy a 32k drug that will make her feel like a virgin again. She agreed
8. He didn't send the 32k (50k he wanted to send)


My point... He didn't pay for the sex, he didn't buy the drug to "help make her new again", he didn't give her the help she asked for. I want to think her blocked her, or told her off, or told her to do her worst, or told her the sex was very terrible, or bodyshamed her, or asked her to come for another round before he paid her, etc. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

She felt used and ashamed, and then decided to end it all. But then, she decided she'll bring him down with her. A woman can destroy herself just to destroy a man, so, keeling herself is a very simple decision.


I want to have a divergent view... The sex was consentual, but he didn't pay what was agreed (which is a crime (or wrong) on its own). This led her to take her own life; which is worse, and not commensurate with the offense

Any which way... This guy own don be

algomachine:
If he’s guilty, let him be hanged asap, I don’t understand why she went alone to see a man though.

“IF HE US GUILTY” kwa?

“I don’t understand why she went alone to see a man”

In an ideal and normal situation, Why should a young girl feel unsafe going to see a man alone? Why can’t men control themselves? Why can’t a man gets full consent from a lady before trying to do anything? Even if she visits you and sleeps over, why should sex be on the table at all if it was not pre-discussed and agreed on? The purpose of the girl coming over was so she can be helped. If the help was to come with the condition of sex, why didn’t he spell it out from the beginning so she make an informed decision before leaving her house?
Now, all these were not bargained and concluded and you can’t hold yourself and feel you must have sex wih her, why not take your time to convince her and probably woo her over to get her consent and approval before doing anything?

This is all shades of wrong. I don’t know why but unfortunately, this is how the majority of Nigerian men reason. I have had lot of persons seeing me and telling me I am a fool and a weakling simply cos a lady will sleep over in my place either due to one thing or the other and I didn’t touch her… or that a lady in need of accommodation will stay temporarily at my place u til she is able to sort out her accommodation and I didn’t touch her…. And am like, “am I suppose to touch her?” Is that not even taking advantage of a vulnerable person? Even if she is “catching feelings”, must I act on it while she is under my roof and suppose to be under my protection? Isn’t that being an Okonkwo to Ikemefuna?

we just do not raise our boy child well and that, has being a menance to the girl child. We have made the girl child appear to be an endangered specie ——- and the crazy part is, “we sabi protect our own sisters die” but another person sister, we wan chop by thunder by force

LordIsaac:
Parents, 21 year old kids should not be talking about family problems; please, do not bring kids you cannot raise to this world!
Men, most of these girls are just hungry, do not confuse it with love. Please help them if you can without seeking sexual gratification.
Young men, understand that 18-24 year olds may be called adults, but most of them are still kids in adult bodies, please handle them with care.
Finally, do not have access to a woman's body by force; even when she says yes to it, ask yourself a 100 times, is it really a "yes"!

You have said it all my brother

It’s just so sad

With that said, they should please release this criminal for us to do him what he deserves…
What a life

Chai!!!