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What was the mental state of the girl before this incident?

Was she depressed or going through depression, l don't know what else to say, but this is a sad incident, she talked about receiving Money from another guy in ABUJA, but she was still too young to be involved with different questionable men and collecting money from them

SixSeven:
E get why our mothers de always warn girls on top man matter. I think this set of parents especially those born in the 1970s upwards have abandoned everything in the name of woke. Of course not everything their parents did was right but as parent, you sef go see why una parent try their best for school of parenting dem no attend. Never meet a man alone if you love yourself, don't meet him in his place.

"Never go to a man's house alone."


"No follow man go where eye no dey." (Do not follow a man to a place where there are no witnesses.)


"Keep the door wide open if you are in a room with a man."

"Never leave your drink unattended."

"If a man really loves you, he will wait."

"If man love you, make him show him face for your family house." (A serious man must respect you enough to meet your parents openly.)

"Men will tell you anything just to get what they want."

"Your reputation is like glass; once it breaks, it cannot be fixed."

"Man wey beat him sister go beat you tomorrow." (Watch how he treats the women in his own family before you trust him.)

"A man will run from the trouble, but you will face the consequences alone."

"If he does not respect your 'no' now, he never will."

You addressed the women and girls but what about fathers? Do fathers warn boys on matters?
“Don't force yourself on a woman because it will cause her trauma.”
“Committing rape will land you in jail and ruin your victim’s life.”
“No means no.”

Biodun1929:
Why are you contradicting yourself...at one point you agreed that the guy begged her after having sex with her (which means you agree that the sex was forced), at another point, you're saying you believe the sex was consensual.

The girl was just naive, that's it.. sad ending to her life.

I only extracted excerpts from her video, and presented them.

Live story... I have done sheet with someone before (consensually), and she immediately regretted it and started "crying", saying that she never wanted to cheat on her bf, and regrets it. I had to pet her and tell her sorry... well... We did it again, severally. My point? Telling her sorry doesn't necessarily mean you're wrong. You just want peace to reign, and secure another visa to visit the straight of Hormuz, again.

If there truly was rape and wanted to end it, why did she wait till like 2 weeks (from her story) before kpaing herself? Could it be that she waited for his funds which never came; and when she discovered she had been played, decided to end it all? I feel sorry for the girl and her family...

But again... I want to believe it wasn't rape. I think she felt used and cheated; and being immature/weak, decided to kpai herself.

wehdone:
I only extracted excerpts from her video, and presented them.

Live story... I have done sheet with someone before (consensually), and she immediately regretted it and started "crying", saying that she never wanted to cheat on her bf, and regrets it. I had to pet her and tell her sorry... well... We did it again, severally. My point? Telling her sorry doesn't necessarily mean you're wrong. You just want peace to reign, and secure another visa to visit the straight of Hormuz, again.

If there truly was rape, why did she wait till like 2 weeks (from her story) before kpaing herself? Could it be that she waited for his funds which never came; and when she discovered she had been played, decided to end it all? I feel sorry for the girl and her family...

But again... I want to believe it wasn't rape. I think she felt used and cheated; and being immature/weak, decided to kpai herself.

Hian, you pet another person girlfriend, you told her sorry, and you still continue to eat her garden of Eden, like seriously, l will ask DSS to detain you ooooooooo mucheche 😂

EhisChelsea1:
I agree with you to a large extent. Nigeria today is a dangerous place…. And it ought not to be so.

I think the reason she was so comfortable in going to such lonely places with him was because he was popular, a celebrity who have much to loss and as such, would naturally behave.

So, I can’t blame ber entirely. Even me as a man in his late 30’s, feel somehow SAFER and more comfortable when dealing with a man that has much to loss. I by default, assume, they won’t act funny because, they have a name to protect. So, I could understand why the lady will feel comfortable to a large extent in being alone with him….

Again, this brings light to the ongoing debate — who are our celebrities? Who are we elevating in the social strata? People with no values, no fear and no conscience. It is bad. It is sad

Have you see the Epstein file and how elites of the elites raped and killed underage girls ?
Have you read about the island?

Human trafficking is a very big problem in the world including america where teenage girls can go missing and trafficked..

Go and check the record for sexual offenders in america, it’s a public information… the largest number of pedophiles are white men!

So it’s not a Nigerian thing, it’s a world thing… the world is not safe out there ..
A woman / man / teenager / child should be security aware and very careful

Security is everybody’s business


I can’t go around walking in the middle of a dangerous street… holding expensive phones and watches and be saying … I have the freedom to walk around, why can’t the criminals stay away from me…

Rape, and no crime is justifiable… unfortunately, the world is filled with evil souls and we all have to safeguard ourselves first

I heard he told her he had never slept with a virgin before and wanted to know what it felt like sleeping with one. After using her, he sent her a paltry sum after she told him she was sick.

The truth is, if he had compensated her with a reasonable amount, I don't think the girl could have cried out on SM. But his greed and wickedness blinded him.

Now he wants to settle out of court and willing to pay ten times what he could have given the poor girl to stay silent and alive. Talk about being penny wise and pound foolish! Let him rot in jail because this is clearly not his first time of taking advantage of poor and vulnerable women.

AngelicBeing:
Hian, you pet another person girlfriend, you told her sorry, and you still continue to eat her garden of Eden, like seriously, l will ask DSS to detain you ooooooooo mucheche 😂

Calm down... We were students, na who them catch be thief. Probably, when she went back and her bf didn't notice her hormuz was visited, she agreed again for me to visit it again and again... For several months (maybe over a year. I don't remember)

We4all:
I heard he told her he had never slept with a virgin before and wanted to know what it felt like sleeping with one. After using her, he sent her a paltry sum after she told him she was sick.

The truth is, if he had compensated her with a reasonable amount, I don't think the girl could have cried out on SM. But his greed and wickedness blinded him.

Now he wants to settle out of court and willing to pay ten times what he could have given the poor girl to stay silent and alive. Talk about being penny wise and pound foolish! Let him rot in jail because this is clearly not his first time of taking advantage of poor and vulnerable women.

Thank you. If he had paid her well (he had enough to pay her at least 100-200k), she wouldn't have talked. Truly, her first time deserved to be something she looked back and and smile. He made it dirty for her

This is so heart breaking. Many are mad but few are roaming.

wehdone:
Calm down... We were students, na who them catch be thief. Probably, when she went back and her bf didn't notice her hormuz was visited, she agreed again for me to visit it again and again... For several months (maybe over a year. I don't remember)

Like seriously, you are still repeating the same thing, you were eating her garden of Eden for over a year, let me send your name, bvn , house address, NIN NUMBER to DSS ooooooooo mucheche 😂

AngelicBeing:
Like seriously, you are still repeating the same thing, you were eating her garden of Eden for over a year, let me send your name, bvn , house address, NIN NUMBER to DSS ooooooooo mucheche 😂

No vex. We were young and didn't know better, but horn.y... Na both of us commit fornication. No report me to dss. Them go look for her to collect their own share🤣🤣🤣

wehdone:
No vex. We were young and didn't know better, but Hot... Na both of us commit fornication. No report me to dss. Them go look for her to collect their own share🤣🤣🤣

You are forgiven, go and sin no more ooooooooo hahaha 😂

Jd10k:
Some of you read but don't assimilate because the Bitter Bile in you always pushes you to find someone to insult. Your Rapist Brother already accepted on camera that he Rape the girl and have started begging the family for forgiveness.
Mr Emotionless Man if you can't digest what I wrote let me break it down for you. The guy cannot be charged for murder but manslaughter which carries a sentence of Life in prison if his lawyer fails in arguing for a lesser sentence.

Where in this world do they sentence a person that commits manslaughter with life in prison...most of una school na waste ....

LadyLegalEagle:
You addressed the women and girls but what about fathers? Do fathers warn boys on matters?
“Don't force yourself on a woman because it will cause her trauma.”
“Committing rape will land you in jail and ruin your victim’s life.”
“No means no.”

You are correct but I will advise the girls to protect themsleves first. I am not putting my girls at the risk of another man who may not have been properly trained, you get my drift?

Though anything can happen but women around the world are often endangered species, it's not just Nigeria alone

AngelicBeing:
You are forgiven, go and sin no more ooooooooo hahaha 😂

Abeg arrest me. Sin no more? Kuku arrest me abeg

Dreal1247:
The young girl could not manage the emotional and psychological trauma that followed the sexual abuse. Odogwu Asaba is now a murderer. If human beings can begin to operate with empathy towards each other, criminality will be reduced to the barest minimal. Imagine if the young girl is to be his child and another person is now the suspect, he will likely employ every available security personnel who will give them maximum retaliation. This promising young life has been cut short because of selfish sexual gratification.

he's a rapist not a murderer oga

Zonefree:
What was the guy expecting after forcing himself on the girl? That the innocent girl would come back for more content creation lessons?

Make them just shoot this guy. That's the only judgement that will make sense to me.

how is that judgement
Abi they should be raping him every day till for his jail term

MIKOLOWISKA:
he's a rapist not a murderer oga

Do you agree that his actions led to her death?

Kemical23:
He was having fun just like the few useless men who was not properly raised...

Many men/women always misbehave whenever they begin to make small cash, they just believe they will go scot free with whatever action they take....

It lack of proper home training and lack of common sense....

what is the home training for rape?

Did your father teach you

Focusmind:
I just could not hold myself after watching the video on Facebook

Parents, please, get closer to your children

Don't be too strict, hard and unapproachable

I had to call my children, to reassure them and told them to feel free to discuss anything with me

Share your worries, concerns and troubles.

Don't be afraid to tell me your pains or what you are going through.

Don't be afraid of me or afraid of my reactions to certain thing, I will not kill you

I will always be there for you

The girl must have been scared to the marrow not to share her full ordeal and received the necessary care and attention from the parents and loved ones.

Sometimes, these Gen Zs could be emotionally weak and unable to decipher what they did or they are about to do

Gen Z's are emotionally weak, they act all toughen but deep down.....

Something happened recently that made me realize this and I feel pity for those without parental guidance.

wehdone:
Abeg arrest me. Sin no more? Kuku arrest me abeg

I changed my mind, and I have withdrawn my petition to DSS , go and sin no more ooooooooo mucheche 😂

Olatara:

Gen Z's are emotionally weak, they act all toughen but deep down.....

Something happened recently that made me realize this and I feel pity for those without parental guidance.

Where is the weakness coming from? Parental abandonment of their duty? Share your thoughts

Unfortunately there are still many type of this useless odogwu guy out there.....

May they become unfortunate one after the other. Abeg, make the guy rot in jail for life.....

Goo0dHardDick:
But she's not alive to answer some questions.

I don't take women serious when they set up cameras and start crying. Feels fake!

Anyways, the foolish he-goat should be dealt with if found guilty. This evidence is strong

You know she committed suicide after the "feel fake" video, right? How many people you know did that in the past?

ppogba:
Train a child the way he should go and when he is old will not depart from it..........The holy creed.
What manner of training did this unfortunate lady had?
Where did she get the liver to embark upon such journey alone?
Are the parents aware?
At 20, is content creation all she wanted to do with her life?
What is even her level of education?
So many questions.....

You have all these questions for the dead victim and her parents, really? But you seemed to have forgotten the ones you had for the suspect and his parents, why? Why focusing on the victim instead of the alleged criminal? Don't be guilty of blaming the victim so you yourself don't end up looking like a potential criminal

EmekaBlue:
I thought women enjoy sex.

When you clearly read that she was raped! Is something wrong with the way some of you were raised?

Why take your life because u were drilled!

How old are you? How were you raised? I do hope you will understand it this way when your daughter becomes a victim of rape too in the future

May God forgive you for such drastic action. Abi she be all those over churchy girl

The same God that watched her till she fell into the predator's trap?

Help our young people; I mean

Watching the video, I just had some things running on my mind:

One, the girl made a huge mistake by spilling her secrets to a total stranger, irrespective of familiarity or popularity.

Second, a man asking a lady to see him at a hotel should ring a bell.

Third, the man should have stuck to the plan by seeing her devoid of any hidden agenda, and not having any sensual dealings with her first. That is too rude. Humans should have dignity.

Fourth, any transaction with a person if the opposite gender in a hotel has a high probability of not always end well. One person must be cheated.

From my deductions, my recommendations/conclusions are this:

1, I don't really know Odogwu Asaba but I have heard chatter that he sleeps with various young ladies, as he is a popular SM creator in Asaba.

2, the law enforcement agencies should check if the Facebook account that posted the content creation "class" truly belongs to him.

3, even if he posted about holding a SM class on content creation, he should have put details strong enough to convince people that the class is genuine.

4, asking a female stranger to visit you as a man in this insecurity period is the height of recklessness. Not that it is for a business trip. What if something bad happened? How would he explain himself?

5, the law enforcement should watch the video get more facts, then run an autopsy and DNA scan on her clothes. Also, gps and SM investigation should be conducted. It is possible to retrieve texts even if it is auto-deleted.

6, investigation should be done on his previous "victims" to get a clear picture of whom Odogwu Asaba truly is.

I pray justice is delivered. RIP to the lady.

This guy should be deal with, he's just and animal and wicked one indeed, someone who needs financial assistance travel all the way to come see you and after everything he did, he still have the guts to pay the girl 8k for transport. He deserves hell.