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Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M

I received an inheritance of almost ₦35 million in cash from my late father. My husband knew about the entire process, so when the money came, he sat me down and asked what I planned to do with it.

I told him I wanted to buy land, buy a car, register for my master's degree, and invest the rest in my business.

He became offended and asked, "So where do I come in as your husband? What do I get?"

I was genuinely confused, so I told him I didn't understand. He said I should forget about it. I continued making plans for the land and the car.

He stayed quiet and simply watched me. Then one day, he woke me up and said he didn't know I was this stupid. He said I had a husband and such a huge amount of money, yet I couldn't entrust it to him. He asked what impression I was trying to give people.

I was shocked. I asked him a simple question: "You expect me to hand over the money my father worked so hard for and left for me just because you are my husband?"

He flared up. The àŕgum£nt became so h£àted that he almost b£àt me. He told me to prepare myself for whatever happened next because he couldn't stay married to a woman who was not submissive. He said he would bring another woman into the house—one who would listen to him and respect him.

A few days later, his parents showed up at our home without informing me. In fact, I had just returned from work when I saw them waiting.

They spent hours preaching to me, insisting that I should transfer the entire inheritance to my husband. They said their family would never forgive me for such disobedience. My mother-in-law added that she had been b£!ng her son not to marry another woman because she believed I would eventually listen to her.

I felt extremely ùncomfortàble because it felt like an àmbùsh. I agreed with them and promised that I would transfer the money the following morning.

That evening, I carried my baby downstairs, pŕ£tend!ng I wanted to buy something. Instead, I left for a friend's house and switched off my phone.

Two days later, my mother came to my friend's house and stayed to help care for my son while I returned to work.

About a month later, I found a suitable apartment and paid for it.

I went back to my husband's house while he was at work and packed my belongings and my son's belongings. I also took every single item I had bought with my own money. That was when I realized I had purchased almost everything in the house, including our bed, kitchen appliances, television, and many other household items.

Ironically, my husband earned far more than I did, yet I was the one who spent the most. Looking back, I realized he had been freeloading off me.

I settled into my new home over the weekend. On Tuesday, while I was at work, the police came to arŕ£st me.

My boss accompanied me to the police station. My husband claimed that everything I had taken belonged to him and demanded that I prove ownership. However, he couldn't provide any evidence that the items were his.

One of my colleagues went to my office and brought my cooperative savings scheme records. Every item I bought had been purchased through my office cooperative, with every single payment deducted directly from my salary.

The following week, I served him with divorce papers.

That was when he started sending me endless messages, saying he couldn't live without me and that he had only thŕ£atened me because he wanted me to become more submissive.

We're now in court.

I'm done.

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Tomorrow someone will tell me ladies are easily deceived. Give woman power na their you go know say saying love you na scam.

I'm not surprised though... its left for the Simps to either learn or not na dem sabi

This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

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Most Women are selfish. It's no longer news na.


If it was the man that made that kind of money there is no way he wouldn't have included her in his plans... no matter how remotely.


I have a female platonic friend that recently got a better paying job and doubling her earnings. So many red flags I have noticed about her and even down to what she started posting on her status recently.


Women are wired differently from men.


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IamAtAnger:
I'm not surprised though... its left for the Simps to either learn or not na dem sabi

At least gehgeh don leave clue for us.

Thank Hod for gehgeh

woman brain small well well. who know know her go think say she know wetin she dey do

He told me to prepare myself for whatever happened next because he couldn't stay married to a woman who was not submissive.

What a conniving manipulating weak husband!

timay1:
Yea. He had a good case when the woman went all selfish and didn't include the husband with her plans.

But the foolish man threw all that away the moment he demanded that she transfer the whole money to his care, and threatened her with infidelity and divorce. That was a major and unnecessary escalation. What a useless man.

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Some men are disadvantaged when expressing their emotions.


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I have seen a similar case however, it was the husband that got his inheritance and the wife wanted a share and he refused… na so marriage take scatter.

I wonder why spouses feel entitled to each other’s inheritance. If you must get a share, it should be given to you willingly. It should not be by force.

If it’s not greed and longer throat, why would the man and his family want the lady to transfer the entire inheritance to him, na their papa kpai?

If she had transferred the money to him, he would've used it to popori his side-chic, or married a second wife.
She knows the kind of man she's married to.

Fake story collection

The husband shud have keep quiet and watch hw she will spend the money, since she refused to include him in the sharing plan.

The money belongs to the woman and she has a right to decide what she wants to do with it.
I however feel in marriage,you need to discuss and see how both of you can plan with such inheritance.

The Man is wrong for demanding ALL the money. But the woman for involve her husband in the planning of how to manage the money. Afterall, marriage na for better for worse. If it happened that she fell seriously sick, will the man abandon her?

If your papa leave money for you, at least let the breeze reach oga side na

Chai ! Na wa o. Things Dey occur. That husband is a ****

She should have given her husband 5M and there son 1M,
Transfer your son 1M to your husband account. Just act as if you don't know what you are doing. Hence you are married whatever that comes into the family is for both of you.


That man should learn how to manage his emotions

Love don't cost a thing isn't it?

But you was a submissive wife before the 35m!??..Well,I know say this story still get comma..To be honest,your husband has no right to claim the whole money.But,you should have at least carry him along..

She has made a right decision

If her story is true, I support her

The problems happened when the woman got alot of money....

But the 30mil..go finish na. Everywhere go blur.

Oxb90:
Tomorrow someone will tell me ladies are easily deceived. Give woman power na their you go no saying love you na scam

Babe tell me I love you recently, if you see the way I take off
Immediately block her number
E just be me like say na I hate you she talk but I'm very sure na I love you I hear

E good as she dumped him. Ole okunrin

Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.

but if it was the man that got something, the woman will get out of it,
some men will build a house for the wife ,
she's just selfish,
and I don't believe all the trash she's saying,
if the husband was rich and dies, who takes over his inheritance

Very good. I love the decision that you tooked. Some Nigerian men are goal diggers. I'm here single and searching. I promise to be faithful, loyal and honest to you my wife in advance.

If only Nairaland were like reddit so I would not have to see these naija gender war slop.

My feed would be curated.

My fault for clicking on this rubbish.