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Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by sweetkev(m): 10:05pm On Jul 17
enemyofprogress:
Very good. I love the decision that you tooked. Some Nigerian men are goal diggers. I'm here single and searching. I promise to be faithful, loyal and honest to you my wife in advance. kiss kiss kiss kiss
Your English is on suicide mission grin
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by BigYash: 10:06pm On Jul 17
Oxb90:
Tomorrow someone will tell me ladies are easily deceived. Give woman power na their you go know say saying love you na scam.
Women only love their children. Men are just to package their life style. And na just toto be men problem for life. They want to make money to impress toto. And toto dey use their hard earn money package life style.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Tisham20(m): 10:08pm On Jul 17
There wahala
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by drololaaof: 10:09pm On Jul 17
Makavelli001:
Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M



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Your is not bad but his family are vulture, if you transfer your wealth to him he will turn you into pauper his family will fast on you .
However it is your own story you have told we told,we did not hear his own story.I will not advice you not divorce yet .
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by 3kay945(m): 10:10pm On Jul 17
That man isn't man enough.

He failed in effectively managing the situation.

Now, according to the story, he is begging.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by otherway: 10:11pm On Jul 17
Just about 20k pounds.. Smh!

That money will finish and she will be back begging.

I don't support giving the whole money to the man but leaving her marriage was too extreme.

The best she can do is to jappa
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by peleson1: 10:12pm On Jul 17
timay1:
Yea. He had a good case when the woman went all selfish and didn't include the husband with her plans.

But the foolish man threw all that away the moment he demanded that she transfer the whole money to his care, and threatened her with infidelity and divorce. That was a major and unnecessary escalation. What a useless man.
Exactly

I wonder why people here couldn't read before judging
Noth of them are just somehow people sef.

35m is not too big a money but big enough to get you standing on good grounds if properly managed .
Buying land is ok but it means tying down the money .
If buying land and car is only what she knows what to do with 35m then she is just a passive thinker
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by zoedew: 10:12pm On Jul 17
Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers
Wrong! Whose money is it? The money belongs to her. She is perfectly at liberty to do with it as she pleases. You want to tell Modupe Alakija to hand over her money to her husband just because she is a woman and a wife! C'mon, she should be in control of her financial empire running her things as she sees fit. When she gets home she steps into her role as a wife, mum and lover to her husband and life goes on. A man should respect himself and just live his life within his means. If she gives him something he should be grateful and be loving more than ever. But if she chooses not to the man should just live his life. Did marry her for money!
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by YourNextLevel(m): 10:19pm On Jul 17
He was paying rent and feeding while you buy properties. Selfish woman


Your all the same now i know
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by bentenny(m): 10:19pm On Jul 17
To be honest,if I were the husband I won't even take a dime if she gave me.
Why would I want to be a partaker of another man's sweat?
That guy messed up big time.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Yalwayzme: 10:22pm On Jul 17
This woman was already planning with someone else outside her marriage before the money arrived
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Berankis: 10:25pm On Jul 17
The issue is not the 35m. They never really had a marriage.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by richforever123: 10:29pm On Jul 17
AndroBlaze:
The man should not have threatened the woman or begged her, he should have allowed her to do what she wanted to do with the money.

He would have been patient, wait for 2-3 years for the money to finish and then hit her with the marrying the other wife and the other repercussions of her selfishness.

You can't teach someone how to love or share, but you can always make a selfish person regret their actions when their eyes are clear.
The man and his family is asking her to transfer the whole 35m ti his account, does that sound reasonable to you, most of the things in the house she is the one that bought it
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by ipobarecriminals: 10:33pm On Jul 17
grin grin A THIEF IS A THIEF ANY DAY. THANK GOD U NOR GREE RETURN BACK TO DO LOVE WAN TIN TIN B4 HE KPAI U grin



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Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by LordLicifer(m): 10:52pm On Jul 17
So i am supposed to believe this nonsense?
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by streetsoldier1(m): 11:00pm On Jul 17
so na cos of ₦35M make you lose ur marriage, now u go use the ₦35M rent playboy to dey service you


the money na just to buy one lexus rx350 2015 ooo, na wa for women and poor mentality sha
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by alizma: 11:03pm On Jul 17
Dreal1247:
This is a business oriented woman while the man and his family are corporate gold diggers. She should run very far. The man won't mind getting her murdered and convert her properties to his family property.
Corporate gold digger right, now that she has money, the man has suddenly turned gold digger. She said everything by herself and any sane individual will notice her selfishness. Constantly using the word I, made the whole plan exclusively for herself as if she is a single woman but this is the same person who probably had depended on the man 90% until the money came in.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by AndroBlaze: 11:19pm On Jul 17
richforever123:
The man and his family is asking her to transfer the whole 35m ti his account, does that sound reasonable to you, most of the things in the house she is the one that bought it
I have already said he should not have asked her to transfer the money....but that buying the things in the house ehhhh...what if he was the one paying all the school fees and rent? Already, he seems to be the only that has a car and gasing it up to take his family out, what if he was also the one providing all the feeding money?

Just pray you marry a woman who is indeed a partner and won't be counting all the things she has done or competing with you as some women tend to do.

I am not supporting the man, but the woman doesn't seem to be mentally ok either.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Change4dbeta:
The husband caused the marriage to colapse.His greed and lost for wealth chased the wife out of the home. He is the type that can kill because of property and wealth. How can you be fighting for something that is systematically yours.A wife cannot buy a car that the husband will not drive. He will even drive it more than the wife When a wife build a house all the family will reside in the house.Moreover their children will inherit the property.Forcing a wife to handover her inhertance to him is pure greed.
The woman is at fault for taking the whole property in the house simply because it was all bought thru her company coopearative. There is no way the husband had not contributed larger part of the money .They bought thru company cooperative due to price reduction and installmental payment.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Leepeak(m): 11:19pm On Jul 17
grin
Don't bring your wife abroad ooo grin
I nor talk anything ooo
I was talking to a lady today about it
80% of women divorce their husbands if Dem get money I nor need to hear the man part
Forget
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by wallrichy: 11:27pm On Jul 17
Why blaming her? She took a good decision here. The husband is a very useless man and infact, a gold digger. How can you expect her to include a stupid greedy man like that in her plans for her inheritance.

You guys are very narrow minded in your judgement. First, let's leave the inheritance behind. She was the one that practically bought everything in the house including the bed and the settee despite the fact that the husband is earning more than her. That's a red flag already.

Now, just because she suddenly fell into a fortune which ain't much anyway, the husband now became intoxicated to share or even collect all her inheritance. It's a big shame for such a man talk less of his stupid gold digging family .

What has the guy been doing with his salary for years? You should have seen that he didn't even buy his wife a car talkless of having an asset worthy enough to be called a property.

I guess the wife was managing him since until she acquired her inheritance.

She's a smart woman and I pray she progresses more in her business but for that stupid mummy's boy....he's a threat to a good woman. Such don't deserve to be married. He's like a gigolo boy, only to sleep with women that has money to give him but hate responsibility.....

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Iseddy: 11:30pm On Jul 17
If her narration is true then she did the right thing. As a man why will you put eyes for your wife money. After some men will say women are gold diggers,
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Iseddy: 11:31pm On Jul 17
wallrichy:
Why blaming her? She took a good decision here. The husband is a very useless man and infact, a gold digger. How can you expect her to include a stupid greedy man like that in her plans for her inheritance.

You guys are very narrow minded in your judgement. First, let's leave the inheritance behind. She was the one that practically bought everything in the house including the bed and the settee despite the fact that the husband is earning more than her. That's a red flag already.

Now, just because she suddenly fell into a fortune which ain't much anyway, the husband now became intoxicated to share or even collect all her inheritance. It's a big shame for such a man talk less of his stupid gold digging family .

What has the guy been doing with his salary for years? You should have seen that he didn't even buy his wife a car talkless of having an asset worthy enough to be called a property.

I guess the wife was managing him since until she acquired her inheritance.

She's a smart woman and I pray she progresses more in her business but for that stupid mummy's boy....he's a threat to a good woman. Such don't deserve to be married. He's like a gigolo boy, only to sleep with women that has money to give him but hate responsibility.....
You are very correct 💯
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Oba1ni(m): 11:43pm On Jul 17
I need a laughing emoji😂
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by Adeoye11(m): 12:11am On Jul 18
Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers
I even had to double read the money to be sure it's not 350 million , so it's 35 million tat hell let loose like that?
Anyways we all know what we are doing sha.
Both are wrong in my opinion.

But men let's be wise and also stop being stubborn.
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by sharone21(f): 12:59am On Jul 18
Some men will say a woman is another man's child, so why do you want her father's money?

I still believe if the husband had been a bigger person the marriage wouldn't have crashed afterall, she would have still spent for their child and even bought properties in the child's name( if not now, LATER).

The man is simply a simp
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by enemyofprogress: 1:20am On Jul 18
sweetkev:
Your English is on suicide mission grin
how do you mean?
Re: Wife Abandoned Husband After Cashing Out 35M by nattyGENT: 1:31am On Jul 18
This can only be done by a woman. Give a.woman money and see her true colour.
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