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So says a boy with one pair of torn boxers as the only acquisition in his name.

Wonders shall never end.

SMH,

I was still living with my parents even after I had started earning 7 figures at 27.

inyass2580:
Ur kids too will live in ur parents ous abi

Hustle and gt urs no b only papa or mama born alaye

na me be only pikin and d house na 4 bedroom
not to talk more of d guest house wey na 2 rooms

As if your taking me seriously will pay my bills

If their parents are not complaining,i think your respect and opinions doesn't matter..

In the Bible, Isaac and Jacob were still living with their parents even at 40.
Ladies, ordinarily, should leave home when they marry, NOT before. Most guys are just finishing NYSC at 25. So they should move out of their parent's house without job or sufficient income?

Yes. You are right. It really affect me in my life. Until I move out before I begin to progress
It’s always not a good thing but nowadays most ladies and guys are comfortable due to laziness and fear of uncertainties. It’s a curse living in parent house. At that age and above
I concur with the writer

Kingson28:
In the Bible, Isaac and Jacob were still living with their parents even at 40.
Ladies, ordinarily, should leave home when they marry, NOT before. Most guys are just finishing NYSC at 25. So they should move out of their parent's house without job or sufficient income?

yes by all means. They should just find means. It’s a bad thing returning to parent house after nysc. During Mine. After concluding my NYSC I vow not to stay in my Parent house. Tho it’s high risk decision. I travelled outside my parents region to find a living in a far place. I survived. I bought car within 7 months and achieved a whole lot of things. I married quick and have my children Which I wouldn’t have chai ever if I had settled in my parent house. Sometimes it’s good to live ur comfort zone and pray for God protection and mercies. Without that. Laziness ans comfort will set in Don’t just look at the risk. Look more of the advantages
Today have build my own house and have build additional house for my parent to use it as rentage. I achieved all these cos I refuse to put up with them and become lazy. I lost myself so I can be found. Most lazy guys cannot do this. Cos they are scared of facing realities

[quote author=saweide post=140102837]yes by all means. They should just find means. It’s a bad thing returning to parent house after nysc. During Mine. After concluding my NYSC I vow not to stay in my Parent house. Tho it’s high risk decision. I travelled outside my parents region to find a living in a far place. I survived. I bought car within 7 months. Which I wouldn’t have chai ever if I had settled in my parent house. Sometimes it’s good to live ur comfort zone and pray for God protection and mercies. Without that. Laziness ans comfort will set in Don’t just look at the risk. Look more of the advantages
Today have build my own house and have build additional house for my parent to use it as rentage. I achieved all these cos I refuse to put up with them and become lazy. I lost myself so I can be found. Most lazy guys cannot do this. Cos they are scared of realities


[And how many who left like you did bought car 7 months later? Don't use your own experience to judge others.]

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.

Not to mention just because OP thinks so o

The op is talking nonsense ..I move out of my mom house as an undergraduate and never return after graduation

My younger brother still stay with my mom even as a PhD holder with kids and he is doing well for himself because he have a tutorial that he later upgraded to be a school because he was able to save up aggressively because of limited bills and house rent

rapcy:
Not to mention just because OP thinks so o

leave am make him continue dey ment.

saweide:
yes by all means. They should just find means. It’s a bad thing returning to parent house after nysc. During Mine. After concluding my NYSC I vow not to stay in my Parent house. Tho it’s high risk decision. I travelled outside my parents region to find a living in a far place. I survived. I bought car within 7 months and achieved a whole lot of things. I married quick and have my children Which I wouldn’t have chai ever if I had settled in my parent house. Sometimes it’s good to live ur comfort zone and pray for God protection and mercies. Without that. Laziness ans comfort will set in Don’t just look at the risk. Look more of the advantages
Today have build my own house and have build additional house for my parent to use it as rentage. I achieved all these cos I refuse to put up with them and become lazy. I lost myself so I can be found. Most lazy guys cannot do this. Cos they are scared of facing realities

So have you checked and find out if you are earning better or you are faring well right now than somebody who left his parent's house at age 30 to 35 instead of at 25? You need to check first before you jump into conclusion. My landlord's children left their parents home at nothing less than 35 years and they all have houses of their own now. A friend of mine too progressed while in his parents home and after. Got married with kids

saweide:
yes by all means. They should just find means. It’s a bad thing returning to parent house after nysc. During Mine. After concluding my NYSC I vow not to stay in my Parent house. Tho it’s high risk decision. I travelled outside my parents region to find a living in a far place. I survived. I bought car within 7 months and achieved a whole lot of things. I married quick and have my children Which I wouldn’t have chai ever if I had settled in my parent house. Sometimes it’s good to live ur comfort zone and pray for God protection and mercies. Without that. Laziness ans comfort will set in Don’t just look at the risk. Look more of the advantages
Today have build my own house and have build additional house for my parent to use it as rentage. I achieved all these cos I refuse to put up with them and become lazy. I lost myself so I can be found. Most lazy guys cannot do this. Cos they are scared of facing realities

Did you have a mentor?

In this Nigeria where a cubicle goes as much as a million? This your advice na yeye advice, success come in different ways and time, if you're staying where you're not paying rent, save money and calmly plan your life make person no use cheap and careless advice put you under unnecessary pressure, cuz when you go out and life becomes hard, the online advisors won't be there to save you, but they don use mouth put you under unnecessary pressure already, btw what are they using your respect for? E go add penny to thier azza? Una too think big of unaself.

Anyone can wake to post meaningless messages on Nairaland

You are on your own.

This is laughable

saweide:
Yes. You are right. It really affect me in my life. Until I move out before I begin to progress
It’s always not a good thing but nowadays most ladies and guys are comfortable due to laziness and fear of uncertainties. It’s a curse living in parent house. At that age and above
I concur with the writer

I don't blame anyone staying with their parents.....I just checked the price apartment In the area I used to live in wuse2 and that apartment is going for 400m and that is apartment that cost 50m in 2015 even some apartments in the estate was 20m in 2016,look it is not easy keeping up with bills right now in Nigeria so if anyone lives in his/her parents house for the meantime is better for that person.

I'm 27 years old, I hen almost two million naira a month, I'm happy living with my parents who are still taking care of all my needs while I plan and save towards the future.

So because they want to be serious in life according to the OP, they should pack out and go hunting for accommodation of 1.5m or 2m or more in lagos ?

Is the OP normal

I know a man that moved in to his wife parent house sef... when accommodation cost wan kpai them.

Na room and parlour you once stay with your parents? If you're comfortable in your parents house why go out to rent.

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

Only poor people reason this way... the ones from rich homes dont see it that way cos they live in big houses with many rooms

Amalekki:
Well that may depend on many things.

Parents' home are not equal. Some parents live in just 3 bedroom houses while some live in mini estates with lots of quarters. Also, location matters. House in Surulere or Ikeja is different from house in Okokomaiko. Why rent at 30 if you can live for free and focus on building more capital.

ask d delulu OP oh
e fit be say him dey related to QuinQQ

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.

Even if you don marry and you happen to stay for same town with your parents, omor I go still live for same compound for another flat than paying 500k for rent

If you like let any faceless t.wa.t put you under pressure.

Drsnives:
Even if you don marry and you happen to stay for same town with your parents, omor I go still live for same compound for another flat than paying 500k for rent

Yes of course.

A perfect example of Peer pressure

Who make the LAW for someone to leave his/her parents house at 25.









Destiny is differ and God time is d best.

Op receive sense

I dey my papa house save money commot the country. Jus dey look people less less till you go here say that your guy wey dey live with him papa just move to the house wey he just build finish 😂

You only point like this now, nah say them dey lodge their women abi? You wey come dey camp your own nah you get sense pass abi? No worry you go cry 😂😂😂

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

3kay945:
So because they want to be serious in life according to the OP, they should pack out and go hunting for accommodation of 1.5m or 2m or more in lagos ?

Is the OP normal

I know a man that moved in to his wife parent house sef... when accommodation cost wan kpai them.

bestman09:
I concur. It still beats my imagination how a man of over 25 years old will be comfortable living with his parents permanently

That's for those who grew up in an environment of "scarcity"...