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Epurogonogono:
Okay,

As long as it's your opinion, it's okay.

If you are 25 and above and you are still living with your parents, it's okay as long as you are working hard and smart with your life.

Don't let unnecessary expectations, pressure you into leaving your parents house, especially if you have not yet found your feet in life. Don't try to compete with anyone, everyone has his or her time.

You're just consoling yourself with all those motivational quotes.

Do you know it is those who are still living with their parents that usually broke shame people alot on the Internet?

The day I realized this that was the day I stopped taking people serious on social media esp on nl

My brother go out there and grab life by the horn. Go out there and experience life in full

geoworldedu:
The op seemed to be one hell of comedian. He shouldn't be taken serious at all.

Seems you're still living with your parents? Go out there and experience life dude.

AbosedeFalade:
So says a boy with one pair of torn boxers as the only acquisition in his name.

Wonders shall never end.

A full grown woman like you is still living with her parents? And somehow I believe you're praying and hoping for a rich man to locate and marry you? Meanwhile you don't even know how much a self con cost, let alone paying bills and feeding yourself?

It is your kinds that broke shame men meanwhile you can't even afford 3 square meals without your parents! Shame! A big shame on u!!!

Leave your parents house, go out there and experience life in full. Go and make money and live alone there so you can see what life is

Afolue:
your words speak an outright lack of family value. Every woman has a right to go for what she wants. Yes, it comes in disguise but greed and youthful exuberance makes many loose it.

Mind you, Our society is getting more corrupt by the day.

Prostitution is the order of the day, including crime and vice. This is as a result of those who choose to leave alone.

Can a girl go prostitute from her father’s house? or a guy go commit crime from his father’s house?

Did you read my post? I never said a teen girl child should leave her family. I said a Girl of 25 or rather a girl of age should go out there and experience life in full. Such experience will make her understand that life isn't roses.

The one still telling you they want a billionaire as husband are those ones still living with their parents. They can't afford 3 square meals without their parents and somehow they expect a rich man to have built houses and bought cars to come for them? Life isn't nollywood sir!

Have you noticed it is those ones still living with their parents that insults and broke shame people online all the time? Girls who lives alone, paying her bills, feeding herself won't do that! I'm sure you already know.

Whoever does prostitution or a guy that goes to crime did such because they want to and that's not my area of concentration. I am only saying an adult who is 25 already should leave his parents house, go out there and experience life in full

geoworldedu:
I'm a married man and I'm not living in my parents' house but it doesn't make sense to think that those still in their parent's house at 25 are not serious or are lazy.

You're not a married man and you're still living with your parents. You have been wailing since on this post and I understand your wailing.

Guys who still live with their parents get angry at post like this. No married man will get angry because he is married and already living with his own family. Na boys wey still dey live with their parents dey vex for this thread.

Dude, leave your parents house, go out there and experience life in full, e get why!

geoworldedu:
I'm a married man and I'm not living in my parents' house but it doesn't make sense to think that those still in their parent's house at 25 are not serious or are lazy.

So where in the post did I say they're lazy? Abi u dey find words for my mouth?

Oga leave your parents house, leave your comfort zone. Go out there and experience life in full

Goo0dHardDick:
Read my post for proper understanding

You said parents right. In the scenario I shared, the cousin was the daughter of the man that trained my colleague as he was an orphan. It's still synonymous to staying with his parents in my opinion.

DMCA:
Your problem o....
I live and work in the same city my father's house is, parents have a 4 bedroom main house, 2 bedroom guest house, only my parents and I live there.
I am not married yet, and you expect me to go and rent a place to stay?
Apart from the master bedroom occupied by my parents, what happens to the 3 bedrooms in the main house and even the other 2 rooms in the guest house.
You must be suffering from a complex.

All these things you mentioned isn't a receipt for you to still be living with your parents at 25!

I just told you my parents owned a duplex which has more rooms than this thing you mentioned. I told you I left for school and saw no reason to go back there. Ordinary im supposed to be there bouncing around and all that but no man! You need to experience life in full. If your parents are still feeding you till now, lol. It's best u don't mention me anymore on NL.

Leave your comfort zone go out there and experience life in full

Esthered:
You said parents right. In the scenario I shared, the cousin was the daughter of the man that trained my colleague as he was an orphan. It's still synonymous to staying with his parents in my opinion.

Your opinion Esther!

Afolue:
you are dragging family values Bro. It’s forbidden in the Africa culture! No one does that! The south eastern part of Nigeria is almost like your opinion, but check it out during festive season, na dem full road pass, na them dey face dangers pass , like insecurity on high ways.

If everyone begins to leave independently, all men and women will begin to leave on their own in the near future. People coming together selling off their ancestral properties which is forbidden in many African tribes.

So ask yourself who retains ancestral home? Is it an intentions to erase family names?

Your father’s house and your mother’s house is your root.

In fact, respect those categories of people you are condemning, they are the ones born with family values, and will inculcate it into their new family. It’s a shameful thought to think and do otherwise …

Is a first born son not supposed to live in his father’s house and get married to raise more offspring? Or who else then should stay there? Make dem put the place on rent ?

How about daughters? Is it for them to be sleeping around with random men just to fund and sustain fake lifestyles?

Think deeply

Point of correction, na SW and notherners dey experience insecurity pass while traveling during festival periods.

Secondly, those categories of people you just mentioned are the ones that insult and are quick to call and label people broke online. Why should I respect such people? I don't understand? People who have never paid a single bill in their lives people? Nor feed themselves without their parents? No pay house rent? Which respect are you talking about?

I only take seriously those who can do the above mentioned things because they live alone. They've understood that life itself isn't roses. They've understood the value of money! They've had experiences in life. These categories always have a way of dismantling any doors at obstruct them because they know what life is about. They have experienced life and still experiencing life!

People still living with their parents, what do they know about life? People who are afraid of taking risks? Are afraid of living their parents house to go and start theirs?

I'm not here for emotional discussions. Leave your parents house and experience life in full

Goo0dHardDick:
All these things you mentioned isn't a receipt for you to still be living with your parents at 25!

I just told you my parents owned a duplex which has more rooms than this thing you mentioned. I told you I left for school and saw no reason to go back there. Ordinary im supposed to be there bouncing around and all that but no man! You need to experience life in full. If your parents are still feeding you till now, lol. It's best u don't mention me anymore on NL.

Leave your comfort zone go out there and experience life in full

no d force people with ur own opinion
rest abeg...
as u dey live alone how e take help u?
tell us wetin u don achieve for ur whole life as a result of that.

Afolue:
you are dragging family values Bro. It’s forbidden in the Africa culture! No one does that! The south eastern part of Nigeria is almost like your opinion, but check it out during festive season, na dem full road pass, na them dey face dangers pass , like insecurity on high ways.

If everyone begins to leave independently, all men and women will begin to leave on their own in the near future. People coming together selling off their ancestral properties which is forbidden in many African tribes.

So ask yourself who retains ancestral home? Is it an intentions to erase family names?

Your father’s house and your mother’s house is your root.

In fact, respect those categories of people you are condemning, they are the ones born with family values, and will inculcate it into their new family. It’s a shameful thought to think and do otherwise …

Is a first born son not supposed to live in his father’s house and get married to raise more offspring? Or who else then should stay there? Make dem put the place on rent ?

How about daughters? Is it for them to be sleeping around with random men just to fund and sustain fake lifestyles?

Think deeply

Which one is daughters sleeping around? Oga a girl can be living with her parents and still be sleeping around back to back? What kind of lame excuses is that?

Haven't you seen girls living with their parents and still be sleeping around with men to found their lifestyles? Was the said acclaim virgin favour living alone? Wasn't she living with her parents? Stop this lame excuses.

Any girl who decides to sleep around intentionally did so. I am telling you that I don't take people who are 25years and above still living with their parents serious!

They should leave their comfort zones, go out there and experience life in full

DMCA:
no d force people with ur own opinion
rest abeg...
as u dey live alone how e take help u?
tell us wetin u don achieve for ur whole life as a result of that.

Check my Post.

I already told you I have 4 workers.

I'm not bragging dude. I'm telling you so you can feel motivated. Leave your comfort zone. Go out there and grab life by the Horn.

U can not be living at your parents house and expect life to somehow suddenly work or bring success to you. No sir! Life doesn't work that way

Goo0dHardDick:
Check my Post.

I already told you I have 4 workers.

I'm not bragging dude. I'm telling you so you can feel motivated. Leave your comfort zone. Go out there and grab life by the Horn.

U can not be living at your parents house and expect life to somehow suddenly work or bring success to you. No sir! Life doesn't work that way

As if I suddenly stop being able to earn a living and also running my businesses.
It's just how your own brain is wired.
Not everyone is like you.

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DMCA:
As if I suddenly stop being able to earn a living and also running my businesses.
It's just how your own brain is wired.
Not everyone is like you.

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Leave your comfort zone go out there and experience life in full. Leave your parents house. I can't believe it is kids that their parents are still feeding that is usually quote me on nl.

Na challenge abi na insult❓😡😡
@op

Goo0dHardDick:
Leave your comfort zone go out there and experience life in full. Leave your parents house. I can believe it is kids that their parents are still feeding that is usually quote me on nl.

Sleep, na past 12AM
u don carry another leg come..
so if i live in d same house as my parents na dem must dey feed me?
e for different if to say I live for another city den carry my parents make dem go live with me?
u know say majority of people for this thread take u as delulu with ur dogmatic opinion

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

Who are you to make your opinion count? Your opinion is trash. It does not make sense. Plus you sound like someone raised in poverty and the mindset of poverty still follows him or her around. My father had 3 houses in the same street, each 6 flat. 3 flat upstairs and 3 flat downstairs. I think when I was 25 or 26, I can't remember which. I started staying alone in one of the flats. If I come in with a girl and I don't tell you the house belongs to my dad, you wouldn't even know. My wife met me while I was still there. You assume everyone staying with their dad, stays in the same flat or room. That is poverty mentality that you grow up with and you have decided to judge the world like that. Don't you think you are exposing yourself?

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

Life never humble this one. Life never humble you. It shows.

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.



Your problem o....
I live and work in the same city my father's house is, parents have a 4 bedroom main house, 2 bedroom guest house, only my parents and I live there.
I am not married yet, and you expect me to go and rent a place to stay?
Apart from the master bedroom occupied by my parents, what happens to the 3 bedrooms in the main house and even the other 2 rooms in the guest house.
You must be suffering from a complex.

it will make you too relaxed to launch out in life. Beware

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

All I can say is Thunda fire you

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

get away with your opinion.
You are actually useless to us staying with our parents.
Who cares or gives a damn about what you think?

People who babble endlessly about this seem jealous that others have the option, or they're mad that people living with their parents don't give a crap about appearances.

Live with your parents and save for your home, start a business, or go to grad/med/law school. Also, jump on opportunities, switch companies, and etc. since you don't have to consider other things. That can change the trajectory of your career and finances. People running their mouth aren't paying your bills.

Goo0dHardDick:
Maybe not me.

I have been living alone since I was in 100l tilo I graduated, went for service and currently running my business. Maybe you meant the Twitter girl

Your case is unfortunate. You lack parental care when you needed them most.

Your moniker says it all

People like Michael Jackson may also not take someone serious at 10 years still living with his parents because Mike had become a successful musician from like 6 years old. So 25 for op and 10 for Mike, it’s all personal opinion.

Goo0dHardDick:
People still living with their parents are highly immature and your comment just proved it. Hustle hard so you can live alone my brother. That's when you can experience life in full

For you to even create a thread about taking someone serious based on where they are living goes to show how pompous and myopic you really are

Is that what the so called "hustling hard" has done to your psyche?

That's quite disgusting, if you ask me

When e reach your turn, pursue your 25 year child comot for house when e reach that age.

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Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living [b][/b]with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

Shiooor

bluefilm:
For you to even create a thread about taking someone serious based on where they are living goes to show how pompous and myopic you really are

Is that what the so called "hustling hard" has done to your psyche?

That's quite disgusting, if you ask me

I was expecting the bolded. Only people who are still living with their parents says such because they feel intimidated whenever they see someone living alone.

Which one is pompous again? Oga leave your comfort zone go out there and experience life in full. What is pompous about that? U well so?

People who pay bills and house rent and feed themselves, how would you compare them with those who doesn't, whose parents are still feeding? They both do not have the same experience about life.

I am motivating and encouraging you instead you felt intimated, angry and pained. More reason why I don't take people living with their parents serious because they still kids still acting out of emotions

femi4:
Your case is unfortunate. You lack parental care when you needed them most.

Your moniker says it all

Living alone in 21 and my parents were the ones paying my school fees. That I decided not to go and live with them after school meant I lack parental care. Omo

Na so una mumu for nairaland? Like dude, I made my personal decision not to go back but to live alone and experience. And you said it's lack of parental care? Damn!

Those of you still living with your parents will look for anything to say to justify while you're still living with your parents at 25. So as you're still living with your parents now at your age, it means you have parental care?

From today, avoid me on NL. I should have known that there are lots of kids and immature kids here who can't even feed themselves 3 square meals without their parents. Oga avoid or you go out there and experience life in full by leaving your comfort zone