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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 6:32am On Jul 22

JobAndVacancies:
get away with your opinion.
You are actually useless to us staying with our parents.
Who cares or gives a damn about what you think?

Omo.. over 98% guys and girls on nl are all still living with their parents. Damn!

From today you people should start avoiding I take God beg una. People who can't feed themselves 3 square meals without their parents are the most loudest on nl. My brother go out there and grab life by the horn

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 6:36am On Jul 22

addexx:
Life never humble this one. Life never humble you. It shows.

Life has humbled everyone. How you react to it is what matters Most. Do you quit or give up when life humbles you? Are afraid of trying again when life humbles you?

You're afraid of life and afraid of pushing forward. With such mindset you might probably never going to leave your parents house. Dude, life has humbled everyone you see on planet earth even if his parents are the richest. U have to go out there and experience life in full by grabbing it by the horn. Leave your comfort zone oga

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 6:38am On Jul 22

BigSaint1914:
All I can say is Thunda fire you

Noticed my moniker? My sure you avoid it whenever you see it on nl. I don't respond or take those people serious who are still living with their parents. They know nothing about life and you just proved it

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Afolue(m): 6:43am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
Which one is daughters sleeping around? Oga a girl can be living with her parents and still be sleeping around back to back? What kind of lame excuses is that?

Haven't you seen girls living with their parents and still be sleeping around with men to found their lifestyles? Was the said acclaim virgin favour living alone? Wasn't she living with her parents? Stop this lame excuses.

Any girl who decides to sleep around intentionally did so. I am telling you that I don't take people who are 25years and above still living with their parents serious!

They should leave their comfort zones, go out there and experience life in full

your ideology is somehow. I won’t say much , simply observe the Islamic community (the Muslims)mainly from the north even their elites how they live. Using their female gender as a case study…! So what are you talking about. Some of us still don’t get. Who go come dey house. If the society see a man marrying more than 2wives, t some kick against. Still part of the reason make members dey house

WHAT MAKES UP A COMMUNITY?

Do have a community that exist yourself? Are the collective members strangers/tenants? How did your own come about? Tell us

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 6:46am On Jul 22

gaddafe:
Who are you to make your opinion count? Your opinion is trash. It does not make sense. Plus you sound like someone raised in poverty and the mindset of poverty still follows him or her around. My father had 3 houses in the same street, each 6 flat. 3 flat upstairs and 3 flat downstairs. I think when I was 25 or 26, I can't remember which. I started staying alone in one of the flats. If I come in with a girl and I don't tell you the house belongs to my dad, you wouldn't even know. My wife met me while I was still there. You assume everyone staying with their dad, stays in the same flat or room. That is poverty mentality that you grow up with and you have decided to judge the world like that. Don't you think you are exposing yourself?

Read my comments before coming out to embarrass yourself. Your Dad is obviously poor compared to my dad. I started living alone since I was 21 despite my dad having a duplex. Man is super rich. I first went to a private uni before switching to federal uni for reasons best known to me. So next time you talk, you reason with your brains.

Living alone was an experience I craved for. Experiencing life in full was what I wanted and that made me to start living alone in 100l. After service I started living instead of going back to my parents duplex! Dude, there are things you will never experience in life if you don't stay alone!

You should be ashamed of bringing a girl to your parents house! However, I'll urge you to delete or edit this comment before others who are still living with their parents will be completely relaxed and not feel motivated.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by A1kennedy(m): 6:50am On Jul 22

Now. Here they are talking Rich people stuff. Must everyone get there own house?

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Afolue(m): 6:56am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
Point of correction, na SW and notherners dey experience insecurity pass while traveling during festival periods.

Secondly, those categories of people you just mentioned are the ones that insult and are quick to call and label people broke online. Why should I respect such people? I don't understand? People who have never paid a single bill in their lives people? Nor feed themselves without their parents? No pay house rent? Which respect are you talking about?

I only take seriously those who can do the above mentioned things because they live alone. They've understood that life itself isn't roses. They've understood the value of money! They've had experiences in life. These categories always have a way of dismantling any doors at obstruct them because they know what life is about. They have experienced life and still experiencing life!

People still living with their parents, what do they know about life? People who are afraid of taking risks? Are afraid of living their parents house to go and start theirs?

I'm not here for emotional discussions. Leave your parents house and experience life in full

I said festive season! The SE face these unforeseen insecurity more because they are all coming from different parts of the country.

I am talking about “a roof over your head, nothing wrong if one should so decide”!

You can explore life the way you want no one stops you!

Do you know how many men who messes up with women making them baby mamas and s*x maniacs all to satisfy urge? Dem born any man well to go turn girl to baby mama for her papa house?.

And will a common sense grown up, not take up bills in the house the moment he is capable to do so.

Bro. Take it or leave it, people still dey build house for their papa compound.

Do not you have community? What makes up a community. I will keep asking you this!

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by TemmyT002(m): 7:02am On Jul 22

Who are you and what is your uselessness to the society?
Why does your opinion matter? Who knows you?

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Afolue(m): 7:12am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
Did you read my post? I never said a teen girl child should leave her family. I said a Girl of 25 or rather a girl of age should go out there and experience life in full. Such experience will make her understand that life isn't roses.

The one still telling you they want a billionaire as husband are those ones still living with their parents. They can't afford 3 square meals without their parents and somehow they expect a rich man to have built houses and bought cars to come for them? Life isn't nollywood sir!

Have you noticed it is those ones still living with their parents that insults and broke shame people online all the time? Girls who lives alone, paying her bills, feeding herself won't do that! I'm sure you already know.

Whoever does prostitution or a guy that goes to crime did such because they want to and that's not my area of concentration. I am only saying an adult who is 25 already should leave his parents house, go out there and experience life in full

you are still insisting on your point.

Dot you have ancestral home? Aren’t you from a clan? If you want marry now, you no fit carry your wife go where your great grand parents hail from? Where are your aunties and uncles? Bro. These are the future generations and the clans you’re talking down on. Come off it.

All your a saying, did any of them tell you they are living in their father’s house?

You said, Commit crime because they choose to. Let them try it from their father’s house.! How many yahoo boy dey their papa house dey f*ck up? Many has been disowned

Observe the Arab communities, they are filthy rich, travel on vacations, school abroad etc. No one stops you! Why dishonor the roof over your head? Bro. You need know many things about family values I am a sociologist

Nothing stops you from exploring.

It controls crime in the society. In fact people live with their doors open sleeping at night.

Nothing you will say about this that goes well

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Juliearth(f): 7:26am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

Your analogy should apply to only the male gender. Northern women in particular are expected to live in their parent's house unless if their place of work/engagement is in another city. Thus whether a lady earns millions in a month, you will find her in her father's house until marriage.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by RillJ(m): 8:14am On Jul 22

The Op no well!

W get wetin dey pursue am but he dey hide generalize stuff!

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.

Your problem o....
I live and work in the same city my father's house is, parents have a 4 bedroom main house, 2 bedroom guest house, only my parents and I live there.
I am not married yet, and you expect me to go and rent a place to stay?
Apart from the master bedroom occupied by my parents, what happens to the 3 bedrooms in the main house and even the other 2 rooms in the guest house.
You must be suffering from a complex.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by RillJ(m): 8:20am On Jul 22

Very myopic conclusion.

There is nothing wrong with staying family house if its convenient and stands to help you save money for other productive end.
Imagine paying N1.5m per year when your parents live alone in same city, in thier house with plenty rooms to spare! Them no pursue you, no inconvenience you but you just wan prove wetin no dey in dispute. Thats madness, original one.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by CreatedtwoRule: 8:22am On Jul 22

The system conditioned you that way, in working countries you start charting your own path in life at 18• Because housing is not affordable here those who own one see themselves as super achievers. I just pray you are not one who want to get rid of your parents for early INHERITANCE. Change your traditional thinking!

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.

Your problem o....
I live and work in the same city my father's house is, parents have a 4 bedroom main house, 2 bedroom guest house, only my parents and I live there.
I am not married yet, and you expect me to go and rent a place to stay?
Apart from the master bedroom occupied by my parents, what happens to the 3 bedrooms in the main house and even the other 2 rooms in the guest house.
You must be suffering from a complex.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Amalekki: 8:32am On Jul 22

My crystal ball says na lie. You no get shishi cool

Goo0dHardDick:
Read my comments before coming out to embarrass yourself. Your Dad is obviously poor compared to my dad. I started living alone since I was 21 despite my dad having a duplex. Man is super rich. I first went to a private uni before switching to federal uni for reasons best known to me. So next time you talk, you reason with your brains.

Living alone was an experience I craved for. Experiencing life in full was what I wanted and that made me to start living alone in 100l. After service I started living instead of going back to my parents duplex! Dude, there are things you will never experience in life if you don't stay alone!

You should be ashamed of bringing a girl to your parents house! However, I'll urge you to delete or edit this comment before others who are still living with their parents will be completely relaxed and not feel motivated.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Amalekki: 8:39am On Jul 22

The guy's family no get shishi. He migrated to the city as a squatter, which is okay as life is all about personal experiences. He sees life from a narrow perspective cool

RillJ:
Very myopic conclusion.

There is nothing wrong with staying family house if its convenient and stands to help you save money or other productive end.
Imagine paying N1.5m per year when your parents live alone in same city, in thier house with plenty rooms to spare! Them no pursue you, no inconvenience you but you just wan prove wetin no dey in dispute. Thats madness, original one.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Bimboscoo: 8:47am On Jul 22

U DONT TELL THINGS LIKE THIS TO GENZEE'S, THEY WILL ATTACK YOU WITHOUT TAKING TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT.....ONE OF THE KEY REASONS WILL HAVE SO MANY BROKEN MARRIAGES. SO MANY WILL GET MARRIED WITHOUT EXPIRENCING LIFE OUTSIDE THEIR COMFORT ZONE.IT BECOME DIFFICULT/STRANGE WHEN THEY LEAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY THEMSELVES.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by TheOldGods: 9:00am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

very mediocre thinking. Michael Jackson lived with his parent untill 30 years of age. With all the money he had. He was just not ready. So someone who is not yet ready to move out is not serious with his life. The person might even be more hardworking, making more money than you.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by mikeapollo: 9:21am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
My father owned a duplex with rooms inside. I left when I entered school. I saw no reason to go back there despite it's a duplex.

Dude, you need to leave your comfort zone if you ever desire to experience life in full

When you are fortunate to have a financially buoyant family that could support and assist you or you have a good job at early youth, then you can talk anyhow like this.
You will be humble if/when you experience multiple ASUU strike actions and you graduate at the age of 27, and finish your NYSC at 28years r more

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by AbosedeFalade(f): 9:22am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
A full grown woman like you is still living with her parents? And somehow I believe you're praying and hoping for a rich man to locate and marry you? Meanwhile you don't even know how much a self con cost, let alone paying bills and feeding yourself?

It is your kinds that broke shame men meanwhile you can't even afford 3 square meals without your parents! Shame! A big shame on u!!!

Leave your parents house, go out there and experience life in full. Go and make money and live alone there so you can see what life is

LOL. Once again, wonders shall never end since someone like you with only a pair of torn boxers as the only acquisition in your name thinks that you can throw a jab at me, an American, an ER expert to be precise.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:46am On Jul 22

mikeapollo:
When you are fortunate to have a financially buoyant family that could support and assist you or you have a good job at early youth, then you can talk anyhow like this.
You will be humble if/when you experience multiple ASUU strike actions and you graduate at the age of 27, and finish your NYSC at 28years r more

I'm not bragging sir. My parents supported me with my schooling and that's valid na.

I'm saying staying living with your parents at 25, let alone when you're done with school. How can you still be living with your parents at such age? Which one is finishing NYSC? Are you trying to tell me you depends on your certificate to give you Job?

Wow..no wonder you guys are all living with your parents here on nairaland. So you don't have any skills at all? No hustling spirit? So you are not street smart in the market? Lol. U people still have a long way to go oooo

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:48am On Jul 22

TheOldGods:
very mediocre thinking. Michael Jackson lived with his parent untill 30 years of age. With all the money he had. He was just not ready. So someone who is not yet ready to move out is not serious with his life. The person might even be more hardworking, making more money than you.

Y'all will always have excuses to justify the reasons you are still living with your parents? Are you making money like Micheal Jackson? Are you famous or rich like him? Lol. Oga stop consoling yourself with such mindset and go out there and experience life in full

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:48am On Jul 22

Amalekki:
My crystal ball says na lie. You no get shishi

Whatever makes you feel better

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:52am On Jul 22

Juliearth:
8

Your analogy should apply to only the male gender. Northern women in particular are expected to live in their parent's house unless if their place of work/engagement is in another city. Thus whether a lady earns millions in a month, you will find her in her father's house until marriage.

A girl who's 25years and above still living with her parents must never be taken seriously in life. I understand you're still living with your parents Hence your comment.

If you don't live alone and pay your own bills, house rent, feeding etc, you'll never know the value of money. Lemme put this way, na your kinds dey broke shame men online for not building a house and buying a car before coming to talk to you meaning you're squatting with your parents while they're feeding you. This means you cannot afford 3 square meals without your parents! How then does your type have the audacity to broke shame men? It's weird.

My dear, leave your parents house go out there and experience life in full, there are things you'll learn and experience in life if you're living alone and doing certain things yourself

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by Emeka71(m): 9:54am On Jul 22

DMCA:
imagine as my papa get big house with plenty empty rooms then i go go rent house stay when i never marry.
OP u dey ment.

Your problem o....
I live and work in the same city my father's house is, parents have a 4 bedroom main house, 2 bedroom guest house, only my parents and I live there.
I am not married yet, and you expect me to go and rent a place to stay?
Apart from the master bedroom occupied by my parents, what happens to the 3 bedrooms in the main house and even the other 2 rooms in the guest house.
You must be suffering from a complex.

On point.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by TheOldGods: 10:44am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
Y'all will always have excuses to justify the reasons you are still living with your parents? Are you making money like Micheal Jackson? Are you famous or rich like him? Lol. Oga stop consoling yourself with such mindset and go out there and experience life in full

who be this one. lol. I moved out at 28. Before then I have already bought two cars. Go and check my posts as far back as 2020.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by DMCA: 10:45am On Jul 22

RillJ:
The Op no well!

W get wetin dey pursue am but he dey hide generalize stuff!

d first thing wey pursue am na freedom wey him want wey him no fit see for him papa house.
2nd, lack of privacy again fit contribute.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by DMCA: 10:59am On Jul 22

CreatedtwoRule:
The system conditioned you that way, in working countries you start charting your own path in life at 18• Because housing is not affordable here those who own one see themselves as super achievers. I just pray you are not one who want to get rid of your parents for early INHERITANCE. Change your traditional thinking!

So sad of you to think this way.
So you mean as long as you live in a house that is not yours you can't progress?
So also, if your parents have something that you can benefit from and make your life easier while one chase their personal goals they should reject it instead of building on it? cool

Your mind conditioning is pathetic.
Oya ask Otedola.
Otedola even after being capable to live on his own at 25 still lived with his parents and only moved out at 29 when he got married.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by henrybomb(m): 10:59am On Jul 22

Goo0dHardDick:
I know people living with their parents will be mad at my post. Whatever rocks your boat. Try as much as to get money and live alone so you can experience life in full

You can tagged it as “mad at your post” but don’t tell people what to do or assume that they are not doing enough for themselves.

Life is not fair to everyone so if you respect or don’t respect them it is your business.

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Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by DMCA: 11:00am On Jul 22

Olufemiolaolu:
it will make you too relaxed to launch out in life. Beware

Only when u have no ambition cool

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by CreatedtwoRule: 11:03am On Jul 22

I put a context to it, (Nigeria system). Well whatever works for you!

DMCA:
So sad of you to think this way.
So you mean as long as you live in a house that is not yours you can't progress?
So also, if your parents have something that you can benefit from and make your life easier while one chase their personal goals they should reject it instead of building on it?
Your mind conditioning is pathetic.
Oya ask Otedola.
Otedola even after being capable to live on his own at 25 still lived with his parents and only moved out at 29 when he got married.

Re: Why I Won't Take You Serious If You're Still Living In Your Parents House At 25! by DMCA: 11:24am On Jul 22

CreatedtwoRule:
I put a context to it, (Nigeria system). Well whatever works for you!

Don't limit the way you think to a system.

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