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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by muyico(m): 10:05pm On Jul 22

But wait??
How he take jamb Messi??
Wey him dey bath am

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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 10:36pm On Jul 22

Entanglement:
at least you dey see steady constant preek

While most single mothers dey carry powerbank up and down to charge their vibrator

who prick epp huh

I dey fork for the sake of rent he paid but no joy in doing the forking forkings

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Entanglement: 10:39pm On Jul 22

dollytino4real:
who prick epp I dey fork for the sake of rent he paid but no joy in doing the forking forkings

if no joy, then enter the street! undecided

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 10:43pm On Jul 22

Entanglement:
if no joy, then enter the street!

ur name says it all we are entangled because of children

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by SixSeven: 10:43pm On Jul 22

SixSeven:
.. Thank you, I repost my previous comment.

The bad rap single women have on this forum is for me a disgrace to men because that baby mama and baby daddy nonsense is a sign of failed family upbringing. While people can lose their loved ones or divorce due to irreconcilable differences, men who leave their wives or did not consult the elders before marrying into a family are a big disgrace to men. Give me a man that has 3 wives above useless sissies who are comfortable with their women mothering their kids alone abandoned.

You people copied the thing the government used against the Blacks in US and left your culture. Now you are telling us about single moms 🤡 Nonsense

In some cultures, the brother married off his late bro's wife because women were never treated like Street Vendors and abandoned. I blame women too because western influence has deceived them with one yeye independence and fake patriarchy that we are having more kids without dads because of some strong head women.

Where is the honor our women once had?

Who are the men getting them pregnant and leaving them?

Who are the families allowing their daughters wore about?

You can't just blame the women. Men are the biggest culprits because let's assume women are moomoo as many of you claim, who are the moomoo men planting their seeds in her 🤡 Weak men. Clowns.... It was a ticking time bomb, Nigerians copied street lifestyle of America and the 'independent' life of Europe, then abandoned their own traditions and culture about marriage, family and childbirth, here is the result....

For women, at what age will you wake up

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231?

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Goo0dHardDick: 10:56pm On Jul 22

dollytino4real:
Some of us married women dat are living with their husbands are single mothers in disguise because some husband's leave their responsibilities to their wives to do!!! So help me GOD to do the right

You're not married. Stop the lies here favour

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by EmekaBlue(m): 11:06pm On Jul 22

Where is his Dad now?

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Samueltemi337(m): 11:55pm On Jul 22

Caaz:
Single and deadbiits fathers ate going to avoid this thread.

Mama wey suffer na she dey enjoy the fruits of her labour even nature seconds it

This one rush to comment when she doesn't even know what's going on

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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by tonididdy(m): 12:21am On Jul 23

I hope my neighbor doesn't see this but she's the worst of worst

This woman left her marriage to end up on the street, first thing she did was to wear waist beads and start hanging out in bars and forming clique with other single mothers, they go for inter state escorts, she can be away for days or weeks even just hoping from one man to the next.

The worst of it all is her 17yr old daughter ( who I think is 20 ish), her boyfriend lives in same compound he's 17... These kids sleep together, do all manner of adult relationship in the open and when the girl's mom is away, the bf moves in for the time.

Her mom.... Totally ok with it!... She can defend her daughter but she will dance half naked and receive men in her daughters present and expect she's still a saint.

I know we all played at that young age but we did it in secret even at 17.

Anyway what do I know? I told myself already if I see her near my daughter, na slap first! No questions asked

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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by bewla(m): 5:59am On Jul 23

Obaofaba:
Unless the father is dead, if you can't take care of your child as a single mother, kindly return the child to the father.

A woman rarely raise a responsible child on her own without a father figure.

No sugar coating can change that.

Tupac / slim shady

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by fcbelle72(f): 6:58am On Jul 23

Godspowerpro:
The Inspiring Lamine Yamal Story- Bold Oracle House

Psalm 150:6 KJV‬
[6] Let every thing that hath breath Praise the LORD. Praise ye the LORD

The little boy in these photos was raised by a single mother who refused to give up, even when life gave her every reason to.

Meet Sheila Ebana, the incredible woman behind football sensation Lamine Yamal.

Originally from Equatorial Guinea, Sheila immigrated to Spain in search of a better life. She became a young mother when Lamine was born in 2007.

After separating from his father when Lamine was about three years old, she took on the responsibility of raising him largely on her own, working modest jobs to put food on the table and support her son’s dream.

Money was scarce. Life was difficult. But she never allowed hardship to become an excuse to stop believing in her son. She encouraged him, supported him, and ensured he kept chasing his passion for football.

Today, that little boy has become a FIFA World Cup champion and one of the brightest young talents the game has ever seen. At just 19 years old, many already believe he has the potential to become one of football’s all-time greats.

So to every single mother out there: your current struggles do not define your child’s future. Keep loving them. Keep believing in them. Keep praying for them. Your greatest achievement may not be the life you’re building for yourself, but the life you’re making possible for your child.

The world celebrates Lamine Yamal today… but behind every applause is a mother whose sacrifices made the impossible possible. ❤️🙌🏽⚽

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Dez3YVmuM/

Yamal mama no suffer naw... It Messi bath him as a baby, Messi has been providing for him even as a baby

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by boomcity009(m): 7:18am On Jul 23

Truly Inspiratonal...

Godspowerpro:
The Inspiring Lamine Yamal Story- Bold Oracle House

Psalm 150:6 KJV‬
[6] Let every thing that hath breath Praise the LORD. Praise ye the LORD

The little boy in these photos was raised by a single mother who refused to give up, even when life gave her every reason to.

Meet Sheila Ebana, the incredible woman behind football sensation Lamine Yamal.

Originally from Equatorial Guinea, Sheila immigrated to Spain in search of a better life. She became a young mother when Lamine was born in 2007.

After separating from his father when Lamine was about three years old, she took on the responsibility of raising him largely on her own, working modest jobs to put food on the table and support her son’s dream.

Money was scarce. Life was difficult. But she never allowed hardship to become an excuse to stop believing in her son. She encouraged him, supported him, and ensured he kept chasing his passion for football.

Today, that little boy has become a FIFA World Cup champion and one of the brightest young talents the game has ever seen. At just 19 years old, many already believe he has the potential to become one of football’s all-time greats.

So to every single mother out there: your current struggles do not define your child’s future. Keep loving them. Keep believing in them. Keep praying for them. Your greatest achievement may not be the life you’re building for yourself, but the life you’re making possible for your child.

The world celebrates Lamine Yamal today… but behind every applause is a mother whose sacrifices made the impossible possible. ❤️🙌🏽⚽

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Dez3YVmuM/

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by IamAsiri: 7:20am On Jul 23

Arostar2023:
Did his father abandon him?

My advice to our young ladies, don’t get pregnant out of wedlock and if you’re married, don’t walk away from your marriage, if you can. There’s not inspiring about voluntary single motherhood. . Prevention is better than cure.

What if it was the man that did the walking?
And what if she had no choice but to walk if she still wanted to be alive?

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by RillJ(m): 8:13am On Jul 23

Anyone who fails to provide for their own family "hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel!

There are lots of inner joy one derives from being able to meet the family needs.

dollytino4real:
Some of us married women dat are living with their husbands are single mothers in disguise because some husband's leave their responsibilities to their wives to do!!! So help me GOD to do the right

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Saladdin: 9:33am On Jul 23

Godspowerpro:
The Inspiring Lamine Yamal Story- Bold Oracle House

Psalm 150:6 KJV‬
[6] Let every thing that hath breath Praise the LORD. Praise ye the LORD

The little boy in these photos was raised by a single mother who refused to give up, even when life gave her every reason to.

Meet Sheila Ebana, the incredible woman behind football sensation Lamine Yamal.

Originally from Equatorial Guinea, Sheila immigrated to Spain in search of a better life. She became a young mother when Lamine was born in 2007.

After separating from his father when Lamine was about three years old, she took on the responsibility of raising him largely on her own, working modest jobs to put food on the table and support her son’s dream.

Money was scarce. Life was difficult. But she never allowed hardship to become an excuse to stop believing in her son. She encouraged him, supported him, and ensured he kept chasing his passion for football.

Today, that little boy has become a FIFA World Cup champion and one of the brightest young talents the game has ever seen. At just 19 years old, many already believe he has the potential to become one of football’s all-time greats.

So to every single mother out there: your current struggles do not define your child’s future. Keep loving them. Keep believing in them. Keep praying for them. Your greatest achievement may not be the life you’re building for yourself, but the life you’re making possible for your child.

The world celebrates Lamine Yamal today… but behind every applause is a mother whose sacrifices made the impossible possible. ❤️🙌🏽⚽

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Dez3YVmuM/

OP, your intention may be to encourage and give hope to people, but your Facebook source is filled with lots of pseudo truths. Even quoting Bible verses?? shocked

Yes, his parents were separated, but his father and grandparents played very important role. His father alongside those youth coaches were practically his first manager. The man did as much as possible to ensure he was focused. As a matter of fact, his paternal grandmother, father owes most credit to his professional success than his mother. Old lady drives him tirelessly and regularly to his football field, even his dad had to go nights at old jobs. So her as the main pillar behind his success is a huge distortion.

This is not to support separation, in fact, I despise it except as a last resort. So for every successful child with separated parents, there are millions with failed successes and sadly never see the light of the day. His case is a very tiny exception which is not the norm.

Though this not to dismiss the vital role played by his mum, but records need to be set straight.

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Northsouth(m): 10:40am On Jul 23

No be lie
Yes you should never give up on your child/children
Whether single parent or parents.

You never can tell how big and great the child can grow to become.

Na person born everybody.
They can become president, celebrities and all

So keep faith and keep working for them to reach that height.

One more thing which is very important
Allow your children to pursue their dreams and support them, you don't even have to have idea about the dream or like their Choice of talent
But since it's not armed robbery and na lawful dreams, please support them.
Don't force them to go and read medicine or become a lawyer and all
Let them choose, just take them up through the basic and necessary education

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:58am On Jul 23

As I saw equatorial guinea, I remember baltazza egonga

grin

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 11:22am On Jul 23

RillJ:
Anyone who fails to provide for their own family "hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel!

There are lots of inner joy one derives from being able to meet the family needs.

yes o

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 11:26am On Jul 23

Goo0dHardDick:
You're not married. Stop the lies here favour

married with 3 children it is real wonder

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by LordLicifer(m): 12:16pm On Jul 23

Maybe the father couldn't stand the behaviour of his mother. Parents don't have to live together to raise a future footballer, doctor, surgeon, swimmer athlete or a scientist, his father has always been around him.

Serena Williams and her sister the two tennis champions plays tennis today because their FATHER managed and trained them for years,

Lewis Halmilton the car racing champion was managed and trained by his FATHER for years, his parents are divorced at the time but guess who he recognises more today, his mother!

Meghan Markle the princess lived with her father years and inspired by him.

There many many successesful people inspired by their fathers. Just that fathers don't make noise.

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:32pm On Jul 23

Dem don straff Dem don straff
Ode console yasef

Caaz:
Single and deadbiits fathers ate going to avoid this thread.

Mama wey suffer na she dey enjoy the fruits of her labour even nature seconds it

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Goo0dHardDick: 1:25pm On Jul 23

dollytino4real:
married with 3 children it is real wonder

Favour you're not married. Stop the lies here

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Arostar2023: 2:37pm On Jul 23

IamAsiri:
What if it was the man that did the walking?
And what if she had no choice but to walk if she still wanted to be alive?

I was careful with my words up there. I said she shouldn’t walk away from her marriage, if she could. I understand that there may be situations that may not be under the control of the woman, in that case she should do the right thing.

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Dearlord(m): 3:13pm On Jul 23

This Topic is discouraging, just because of a tiny example out in a billion.

It's better you let go whatever that will weigh you down

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Moneyyman: 4:50pm On Jul 23

You're arguing with someone that came with an agenda. Hehe

apelikirk:
does that mean he was a deadbeat?

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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 5:56pm On Jul 23

Goo0dHardDick:
Favour you're not married. Stop the lies here

who is favour? Well u are not d only one here so i rest my case

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Omoawoke(m): 6:50pm On Jul 23

dollytino4real:
ur name says it all we are entangled because of children

Life is all about sacrifice and being entangled because of kids is 100% a valid reason

Except your life is in danger… don’t leave kids to the fate of single parenting.. single parents are raising kids that are becoming menace to the society… pls don’t add to the number, carry your cross and go submit to your husband!

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Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by dollytino4real(f): 8:27pm On Jul 23

Omoawoke:
Life is all about sacrifice and being entangled because of kids is 100% a valid reason

Except your life is in danger… don’t leave kids to the fate of single parenting.. single parents are raising kids that are becoming menace to the society… pls don’t add to the number, carry your cross and go submit to your husband!

the submission nur work again

Re: Dear Single Mothers… Pls Don’t Give Up On Your Child by Omoawoke(m): 12:30pm On Jul 24

dollytino4real:
the submission nur work again

Aunty, abeg go divorce…

It’s your life …

We hope to hear back from you in few years time… you will learn the very hard way

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