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JazakumuLlohu Khoyron for this beautiful write up

Rashduct4luv:
Bismillah!

All Praise be to Allah!

Marriage in Islam is a sacred bond, a source of tranquility, love, and mercy between spouses. The Qur’an and Sunnah provide timeless guidance to nurture a happy and successful marriage. Here are practical tips to help couples build a strong, loving relationship.

1. Make Marriage a Means to Seek Allah’s Pleasure
Marriage is not just a social contract but a spiritual journey. The ultimate goal is to please Allah and earn His reward.

“And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)

Reflection: Seek to build love and mercy as a reflection of Allah’s mercy. Make your marriage a path to Jannah.

2. Communicate with Kindness and Respect
Good communication is the foundation of a happy marriage. Speak kindly and avoid harsh words.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi)
Practical Tip: Use gentle words, listen actively, and resolve conflicts calmly.

3. Practice Patience and Forgiveness
No marriage is without challenges. Patience and forgiveness help overcome difficulties.

“And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Qur’an 24:22)

The Prophet ﷺ forgave his wives and encouraged mercy.
Advice: Forgive mistakes quickly and avoid holding grudges.

4. Fulfill Each Other’s Rights
Islam emphasizes mutual rights and responsibilities in marriage.

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.” (Qur’an 2:187)
Explanation: Just as clothing protects and beautifies, spouses should protect and honor each other.
Practical Tip: Share household duties, provide emotional support, and maintain physical and emotional intimacy.

5. Pray for Each Other
Supplication strengthens the bond and invites Allah’s blessings.

The Prophet ﷺ taught: “The best of you are those who pray for their wives.”
Action: Regularly make dua for your spouse’s well-being, guidance, and happiness.

6. Maintain Trust and Honesty
Trust is essential for marital harmony.

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones...” (Qur’an 66:6)
Protect your family by being honest and trustworthy.

Tip: Be transparent, avoid secrets except when/where necessary, and keep promises.

7. Show Appreciation and Gratitude
Expressing gratitude nurtures love and positivity.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah.” (Tirmidhi)
Practice: Regularly thank your spouse for their efforts and kindness.

8. Share Quality Time and Affection
Spending time together strengthens emotional bonds.

The Prophet ﷺ was affectionate and playful with his wives.
Advice: Engage in activities together, listen, and show affection daily.

9. Seek Knowledge Together
Learning about Islam and marriage helps couples grow spiritually and emotionally.

“And say, ‘My Lord, increase me in knowledge.’” (Qur’an 20:114)
Tip: Attend Islamic marriage workshops, read books, and discuss faith together.

10. Resolve Conflicts with Wisdom
Disagreements are natural but should be handled wisely.

“And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people.” (Qur’an 4:35)
Advice: Use calm dialogue, mediation, and avoid anger.

A happy marriage in Islam is built on love, mercy, patience, and mutual respect, all rooted in obedience to Allah and His Messenger ﷺ. By following these tips, Nigerian couples can nurture strong, blessed relationships that bring peace in this life and reward in the Hereafter.

May Allah bless all marriages with love, mercy, and happiness. Ameen.

So Seun and co as remove the swearing before comment they put on Islamic topics? Wow!
Been they think that NL will soon become a sharia law site

ISLAMIC tips on how to stop terrorism and bandits by Muslims

AntiisIam1:
Marriage of 53 and daughter of 6 was a good marriage nah

Do you read the bible at all? How old was Joseph and Mary when they married and how old was Rebecca when she married?

Fiscus105:
Happy marriage when you force her to become masquerade.

Happy marriage when you bring in co-wife in name of religion.

Happy marriage when Quran gives you express permission to beat her.

Below is the same man that allowed polygamy, but banned his son in-law to marry second wife.
"If indeed, he knew polygamy would bring happiness for women, why did he stop his son in-law to marry another woman join his daughter?

Ignorance is indeed a disease. The women the prophet's daughter wanted to marry was a disbeliever. A Muslim doesn't marry a disbeliever. That is why. If you don't know ask. It's more honourable than this

yommen:
What happens to Quran 4:34? Doesn't it actually allow you to beat your wife if you FEEL they being disobedient?

If you don't know about something. Ask. Strike there means beat with things like the your palm, clothes and other things that will make her know that what she did this time is bad. Gentle beating unlike UFC that you people do out there

davillian:
ISLAMIC tips on how to stop terrorism and bandits by Muslims

You are deluded. Where does Islam preach terrorism and banditry?

Baarakallahu feekum
Wa jazaakumullahu khairan

jokerphilics:
If you don't know about something. Ask. Strike there means beat with things like the your palm, clothes and other things that will make her know that what she did this time is bad. Gentle beating unlike UFC that you people do out there

Meself sabi English small na. See synonyms for strike! You are not talking to a kid. Show me definition of strike that sounds like your description. Why should the word 'strike' even be used at all? Na wa o!

thorpido:
OIf you beat her,it will correct her and the house will be happy at the end.

may God beat you in return. Allah is a joke

Rashduct4luv:
Bismillah!

All Praise be to Allah!

Marriage in Islam is a sacred bond, a source of tranquility, love, and mercy between spouses. The Qur’an and Sunnah provide timeless guidance to nurture a happy and successful marriage. Here are practical tips to help couples build a strong, loving relationship.

1. Make Marriage a Means to Seek Allah’s Pleasure
Marriage is not just a social contract but a spiritual journey. The ultimate goal is to please Allah and earn His reward.

“And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)

Reflection: Seek to build love and mercy as a reflection of Allah’s mercy. Make your marriage a path to Jannah.

2. Communicate with Kindness and Respect
Good communication is the foundation of a happy marriage. Speak kindly and avoid harsh words.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi)
Practical Tip: Use gentle words, listen actively, and resolve conflicts calmly.

3. Practice Patience and Forgiveness
No marriage is without challenges. Patience and forgiveness help overcome difficulties.

“And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Qur’an 24:22)

The Prophet ﷺ forgave his wives and encouraged mercy.
Advice: Forgive mistakes quickly and avoid holding grudges.

4. Fulfill Each Other’s Rights
Islam emphasizes mutual rights and responsibilities in marriage.

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.” (Qur’an 2:187)
Explanation: Just as clothing protects and beautifies, spouses should protect and honor each other.
Practical Tip: Share household duties, provide emotional support, and maintain physical and emotional intimacy.

5. Pray for Each Other
Supplication strengthens the bond and invites Allah’s blessings.

The Prophet ﷺ taught: “The best of you are those who pray for their wives.”
Action: Regularly make dua for your spouse’s well-being, guidance, and happiness.

6. Maintain Trust and Honesty
Trust is essential for marital harmony.

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones...” (Qur’an 66:6)
Protect your family by being honest and trustworthy.

Tip: Be transparent, avoid secrets except when/where necessary, and keep promises.

7. Show Appreciation and Gratitude
Expressing gratitude nurtures love and positivity.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah.” (Tirmidhi)
Practice: Regularly thank your spouse for their efforts and kindness.

8. Share Quality Time and Affection
Spending time together strengthens emotional bonds.

The Prophet ﷺ was affectionate and playful with his wives.
Advice: Engage in activities together, listen, and show affection daily.

9. Seek Knowledge Together
Learning about Islam and marriage helps couples grow spiritually and emotionally.

“And say, ‘My Lord, increase me in knowledge.’” (Qur’an 20:114)
Tip: Attend Islamic marriage workshops, read books, and discuss faith together.

10. Resolve Conflicts with Wisdom
Disagreements are natural but should be handled wisely.

“And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people.” (Qur’an 4:35)
Advice: Use calm dialogue, mediation, and avoid anger.

A happy marriage in Islam is built on love, mercy, patience, and mutual respect, all rooted in obedience to Allah and His Messenger ﷺ. By following these tips, Nigerian couples can nurture strong, blessed relationships that bring peace in this life and reward in the Hereafter.

May Allah bless all marriages with love, mercy, and happiness. Ameen.

Nice post . Jazakallah khairan . 👍✌🏼

yommen:
What happens to Quran 4:34? Doesn't it actually allow you to beat your wife if you FEEL they being disobedient?

Na the simping wey una dey copy west do dey make una wife disrespect una, so tey dey carry man come house wey u use your money build be that

jokerphilics:
You are deluded. Where does Islam preach terrorism and banditry?

Ask your brothers killing people with Quran on their hand while they scream allah is great

Rashduct4luv:
Bismillah!

All Praise be to Allah!

Marriage in Islam is a sacred bond, a source of tranquility, love, and mercy between spouses. The Qur’an and Sunnah provide timeless guidance to nurture a happy and successful marriage. Here are practical tips to help couples build a strong, loving relationship.

1. Make Marriage a Means to Seek Allah’s Pleasure
Marriage is not just a social contract but a spiritual journey. The ultimate goal is to please Allah and earn His reward.

“And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)

Reflection: Seek to build love and mercy as a reflection of Allah’s mercy. Make your marriage a path to Jannah.

2. Communicate with Kindness and Respect
Good communication is the foundation of a happy marriage. Speak kindly and avoid harsh words.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi)
Practical Tip: Use gentle words, listen actively, and resolve conflicts calmly.

3. Practice Patience and Forgiveness
No marriage is without challenges. Patience and forgiveness help overcome difficulties.

“And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Qur’an 24:22)

The Prophet ﷺ forgave his wives and encouraged mercy.
Advice: Forgive mistakes quickly and avoid holding grudges.

4. Fulfill Each Other’s Rights
Islam emphasizes mutual rights and responsibilities in marriage.

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.” (Qur’an 2:187)
Explanation: Just as clothing protects and beautifies, spouses should protect and honor each other.
Practical Tip: Share household duties, provide emotional support, and maintain physical and emotional intimacy.

5. Pray for Each Other
Supplication strengthens the bond and invites Allah’s blessings.

The Prophet ﷺ taught: “The best of you are those who pray for their wives.”
Action: Regularly make dua for your spouse’s well-being, guidance, and happiness.

6. Maintain Trust and Honesty
Trust is essential for marital harmony.

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones...” (Qur’an 66:6)
Protect your family by being honest and trustworthy.

Tip: Be transparent, avoid secrets except when/where necessary, and keep promises.

7. Show Appreciation and Gratitude
Expressing gratitude nurtures love and positivity.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah.” (Tirmidhi)
Practice: Regularly thank your spouse for their efforts and kindness.

8. Share Quality Time and Affection
Spending time together strengthens emotional bonds.

The Prophet ﷺ was affectionate and playful with his wives.
Advice: Engage in activities together, listen, and show affection daily.

9. Seek Knowledge Together
Learning about Islam and marriage helps couples grow spiritually and emotionally.

“And say, ‘My Lord, increase me in knowledge.’” (Qur’an 20:114)
Tip: Attend Islamic marriage workshops, read books, and discuss faith together.

10. Resolve Conflicts with Wisdom
Disagreements are natural but should be handled wisely.

“And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people.” (Qur’an 4:35)
Advice: Use calm dialogue, mediation, and avoid anger.

A happy marriage in Islam is built on love, mercy, patience, and mutual respect, all rooted in obedience to Allah and His Messenger ﷺ. By following these tips, Nigerian couples can nurture strong, blessed relationships that bring peace in this life and reward in the Hereafter.

May Allah bless all marriages with love, mercy, and happiness. Ameen.

Masha Allah! May Allah Baraka be sufficient on our marriages.

jokerphilics:
Ignorance is indeed a disease. The women the prophet's daughter wanted to marry was a disbeliever. A Muslim doesn't marry a disbeliever. That is why. If you don't know ask. It's more honourable than this

sometimes I dey wonder d kind of god Muslim worship so because she’s not a believer of d religion they have to beat her to correct her 🤔 I no understand

Emeskhalifa:
Na the simping wey una dey copy west do dey make una wife disrespect una, so tey dey carry man come house wey u use your money build be that

I talk ham say una no know wenti una dey worship as what d Quran says woman like can’t do d same thing or u telling me that woman like that can’t cheat

Goddyrichie:
I talk ham say una no know wenti una dey worship as what d Quran says woman like can’t do d same thing or u telling me that woman like that can’t cheat

Read my first line and stop being a simp.
Be in charge of your house mr SIMPson

Emeskhalifa:
Read my first line and stop being a simp.
Be in charge of your house mr SIMPson

u no know wenti u wan talk again 😂 una dey defend nonsense

Why are they not asking people to swear oath before commenting?

Goddyrichie:
sometimes I dey wonder d kind of god Muslim worship so because she’s not a believer of d religion they have to beat her to correct her 🤔 I no understand

Don't misunderstand me. The person the husband of the prophet's daughter wants to marry is a disbeliever, that is, an idol worshipper. We as muslims are not allowed to marry an Idol worshipper. But do you know that we are allowed to marry a Christian or a Jew?

There was a mistake in the write-up

davillian:
Ask your brothers killing people with Quran on their hand while they scream allah is great

They are not muslims. The same way KKK claims to be christians and killed. Does that mean they are christians?

yommen:
Meself sabi English small na. See synonyms for strike! You are not talking to a kid. Show me definition of strike that sounds like your description. Why should the word 'strike' even be used at all? Na wa o!

Knock, slap and tap nko? Compare it to hit, bang and others