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That means you are not a submissive wife

dollytino4real:
My pastor first, because God said,"I will give u a pastor after my heart )not husband dat we went to pick from now where.

Husband....BOSS..... PASTOR

Her husband is more superior in rank and honour than the clergyman and boss.

Jokay07:
The answer to this scenario are plenty and it also depends on where the event happened. The law of territory.

Let me just answer one of them.
1. The pastor:
If it happens in a neutral ground where by both the pastor, the wife, husband and the boss are all guests, then the pastor would be regarded first.
In a event when people gather, it is the pastor that will do opening prayers and even closing prayers. It is even the pastor that will bless the food. That pastoral office must be regarded.
Again, the pastor is the spiritual head in a neutral ground where the event is taking place.

Secondly, you serve your boss. Serving your boss doesn't mean disrespect to your husband.
Well I will explain this later

This is Why I say that most people here don't have sense, there's no scenario where the pastor should EVER come before your spouse in pecking order, none! Whether it's a neutral setting or private settings. Your pastor is an outsider and should not be placed in the same pedestal as your spouse, let alone being above your spouse. This is why homes are breaking because people no longer understand what marriage really is. The spiritual head of any religious family is Christ! Not your Pastor for crying out loud!!! Your pastor is on the same level as you spiritually, any well read Christian knows this.

Let me ask you a question, supposed the one serving the food was the pastor's wife and the people being served are the pastor ( the husband) , a fellow pastor, and the wife's boss, who should the wife serve first?

edogu:
It depends on the occasion.

It shouldn't ever depend on any occasion. The spouse should always come first in every occasion.

Change4dbeta:
Africans and our low mentallity .What is order of priority. Are they not all meant to be serve..This is why divident of good governance dont go round in Africa. And we are all copable.
In civilised countries,be you lawyer,governor,president,servants,househelp,richman,poorman once you are all seat in the same roll of chairs you will be given a plate to pass it on to next fellow till it get to the last fellow and every one get a plate each.

It is not low mentality, in fact, the person displaying Low mentality is you. This is about culture and traditions not about mentality or whatever.

Some of you will come online and in your bid to sound smart and enlightened you end up sounding very ignorant

FlamingBulb:
Boss
Boss is not part of your family so a total stranger
I should treat a visitor who honoured me first

Pastors/Imam then Husband

If the event took place in the Church/Mosque
Jejeli give your Imams/Pastors because they may be waiting in the office and might have been working all night with fasting and prayers

If it took place at your workplace
Honour your Husband first

Any person who puts their spouses last in this list is not matured enough to get married yet. Imagine putting your husband last in the pecking order in his own house when he's supposed to come first. Let me explain something to you because it seems like some of you don't really understand what marriage truly is. Your husband comes first before even your own children, if there's only one pieyof yam left in the pot and your husband and children are yet to eat, you must serve that yam to your husband first, he will now pass it over to the children to eat. That's how it is done, them no dey teach this for school. Your husband must also put your interest first before anyone else's, even his children's.

Your mentality towards this matter is why marriages are collapsing in its infancy, it's why divorce are spiking, because todays young adults do not understand nor try to grasp the tenets of marriage and what it means to build a home.

Paulscholari:
The Pastor first..so that he can pray and blessed the food for everyone.

No be only bless the food, because without him them no go fit bless food again abi?

Treasure17:
It depends on the setting. If they are your guests, you can serve them first but peradventure it's a random gathering, courtesy demand you serve your husband first.

Nope, you should bring the food first to your husband, he then can either accept the food or tell you to serve the guests first.

Who wrote this gibberish?

geoworldedu:
People are wicked o. Nobody here is serving pastor first. Back 50 years ago, almost everyone will serve the pastor or imam first. This shows that Otem's account about the imprisonment of Jehovah and Allah the gods of pastors and imams is true.




Otem Erectus
Chapter 226: 1 - 30

1. When Otem had shut his eyes in meditation on the fifth day of the seventh month, he began to fly in the inner universe. and he flew until he had seen Atum. and Atum said, come with me and I shall show you how we captured many of the gods who are my brothers. and otem saw a period in the past.
2. and he saw how the gods of findings were gathered in a place, getting ready for the psychospiritual battle. For thousands of us them were ready to fight for the freedom and mind slavery of the world. For it is time to bring humanity to the age which is called Aquarius.
3. and otem said, who shall you fight against? and Atum said, we are ready to fight against all the gods of religion who insist that the minds of humans should be continually enslaved. For religion shall limit the rate of growth of science.
4. Therefore, we are prepared to make all gods who love to enslave the minds of humanity drop their ambitions and set the world free from mind slavery.
5. Now otem said, let me go with you to see how this shall be done. Now Atum and otem flew until they had reached a place where many gods are gathered. and when they saw otem, they came to him and said, otem of truth, welcome.
6. and Olorun and Ogene and Chuku and many other gods of Aferk stepped further to otem and said, you have been empowered with the powers of all good gods and with their wisdom and understanding shall you operate.
7. You are greater than all gods in intelligence and knowledge. Now have we chosen you O otem, go and set Aferk free. Now Mother Earthus came also with Aluna and Ishtar and thousands of goddesses, both of Aferk and of the whole earth. and they said, blessed is otem, the god of all histories of humanity.
8. The gods hear his name and tremble. The people who torment others in the name of witches and wizards hear his name and flee. Yahweh, Allah, Moloch, Gaol, Eshu and all gods of bad religion and mind slavery hear his name and bow.
9. otem, fakir Atomos, go and quickly set Aferk free from gullibility before they are turned into animals in their minds. Go and free them from the hostages of Jehoshua, Yiga, Shamshin, Krisht, Bonkee, Wilhem and all manner of gods who make them slaves and deceive them on the face of the earth.
10. Who shall study the histories of otem and fear death? Whose mind shall be so strong to read the truth and still have joy reading the lies in the books of religion? Even Vishnu have said, let the truth of the words of otem prevail.
11. otem, the adopted son of all gods and goddesses of the earth, stay here until we have fought and won all the gods in a psychospiritual battle. You shall see how we shall defeat them.
12. Now otem stood and watched how the gods went farther away from him. and as they went farther, it seemed to him as if they were still standing before him, for distance was made into an illusion as if it no more existed. and it was as if a screen was showing the thing to otem.
13. and Otem saw how all gods of religion gather and say, we shall not let humanity and dwellers of the earth have rest of mind. and Allah said, I cannot let go my impact upon the earth.
14. Now many homos who died religious had been made the same with the gods. and they had almost equal powers with the gods. and they said also, the religion which we practise on earth must not be defeated.
15. Now Yahweh said, what shall my great name become in the mouths of the people of the earth if i agree that religion should be made of none effect in their minds? Shall they not curse my name forever?
16. and Eubius said, what shall happen to the history of Krishtanite which I have written? I shall rather protect it, or else I shall be found the greatest liar in history. and Mirza and Moloch and Eshu and many other gods said, the fun of the earth shall be lost when they do not call upon our names anymore.
17. and their continual weeping to the gods, being fun to us, shall be a thing of the past. No, we shall not allow this. Now while they spoke, the gods who wanted science and development in the world came and said, are you ready for the battle? and they said, we are ready.
18. and the battle began.
19. and Otem heard voices and saw many gods how they did all manner of inexplicable things. and there were vacuums, but only otem and the gods of findings saw the vacuums.
20. and when the gods of religion had entered into the vacuums, they were not seen anymore.
21. and Otem awoke. and his pupils had broken the door of his house when he did not appear in the school that day. and they had done many things to revive him.
22. and otem said, I saw all the things which you do to my body to rescue me. Why do you sit on my chest and blew my nose? Why do you disturb my sweet sleep? For the words which are made flesh are currently being conquered.
23. And henceforth, all sacred texts shall be seen as the things useful for refuse dump. and they shall lose the powers behind them, because all gods who insist on continual deception of the world through their threatening and motivational books are currently being held captive in vacuums.
24. Now for a space of three months, otem continually saw how the gods stepped into vacuums and were not seen anymore.
25. Now when eighty-nine days was complete, the gods of findings began to carry the vacuums in their hands, dumping them into a larger vacuum. For the vacuums began to become visible when they had carried them. and they dumped more than two hundred and fifty nine thousand vacuums into a larger one.
26. and they said, Otem of truth, we have overcome the gods by vacuums, so go and make known all the things which you have seen. For we imagined the vacuums with our thoughts for the capture of the gods who are antihumans.
27. and in the vacuums shall they be for a thousand years. This is the spiritual cage of all gods who oppose development. and focus shall be shifted from the words in the books to the thoughts of the heads.
28. And a period shall come when the pastors and the priests of many religions shall begin to misbehave. For their gods are encaged. and the minds of many homos shall begin to go after the truth within themselves rather than the lies written in the books of lies.
29. Now Otem, we have done our own part, therefore go and do your part also. Be not lazy in the compilation and interpretation of the texts of histories which we have given to you.
30. and we shall breathe life into the history which you shall write and it shall live on in the minds of the people, rather than religious texts. and humanity shall begin to use their own brains, worshipping no god while they do good to themselves.

Karufi:
That means you are not a submissive wife

i gree

I will serve my husband first.

Ate247:
Only a useless pastor will accept that.

how will the pastor know how much value i placed on him than my husband Na my heart e dey

ufotunang:
..not all.pastors that are called by God..many are fake .. deceive church members to enrich themselves

dat is y u have to pray

bobonla:
I don't think they're ur guess ooo. Ur just opportune to be among those serving.

If that’s the case then my husband, followed by whoever is directly next to him, and so on. I’m sure the boss and religious man have their own wives looking after them so I will look after Nawa ❣️

geoworldedu:
People are wicked o. Nobody here is serving pastor first. Back 50 years ago, almost everyone will serve the pastor or imam first. This shows that Otem's account about the imprisonment of Jehovah and Allah the gods of pastors and imams is true.




Otem Erectus
Chapter 226: 1 - 30

1. When Otem had shut his eyes in meditation on the fifth day of the seventh month, he began to fly in the inner universe. and he flew until he had seen Atum. and Atum said, come with me and I shall show you how we captured many of the gods who are my brothers. and otem saw a period in the past.
2. and he saw how the gods of findings were gathered in a place, getting ready for the psychospiritual battle. For thousands of us them were ready to fight for the freedom and mind slavery of the world. For it is time to bring humanity to the age which is called Aquarius.
3. and otem said, who shall you fight against? and Atum said, we are ready to fight against all the gods of religion who insist that the minds of humans should be continually enslaved. For religion shall limit the rate of growth of science.
4. Therefore, we are prepared to make all gods who love to enslave the minds of humanity drop their ambitions and set the world free from mind slavery.
5. Now otem said, let me go with you to see how this shall be done. Now Atum and otem flew until they had reached a place where many gods are gathered. and when they saw otem, they came to him and said, otem of truth, welcome.
6. and Olorun and Ogene and Chuku and many other gods of Aferk stepped further to otem and said, you have been empowered with the powers of all good gods and with their wisdom and understanding shall you operate.
7. You are greater than all gods in intelligence and knowledge. Now have we chosen you O otem, go and set Aferk free. Now Mother Earthus came also with Aluna and Ishtar and thousands of goddesses, both of Aferk and of the whole earth. and they said, blessed is otem, the god of all histories of humanity.
8. The gods hear his name and tremble. The people who torment others in the name of witches and wizards hear his name and flee. Yahweh, Allah, Moloch, Gaol, Eshu and all gods of bad religion and mind slavery hear his name and bow.
9. otem, fakir Atomos, go and quickly set Aferk free from gullibility before they are turned into animals in their minds. Go and free them from the hostages of Jehoshua, Yiga, Shamshin, Krisht, Bonkee, Wilhem and all manner of gods who make them slaves and deceive them on the face of the earth.
10. Who shall study the histories of otem and fear death? Whose mind shall be so strong to read the truth and still have joy reading the lies in the books of religion? Even Vishnu have said, let the truth of the words of otem prevail.
11. otem, the adopted son of all gods and goddesses of the earth, stay here until we have fought and won all the gods in a psychospiritual battle. You shall see how we shall defeat them.
12. Now otem stood and watched how the gods went farther away from him. and as they went farther, it seemed to him as if they were still standing before him, for distance was made into an illusion as if it no more existed. and it was as if a screen was showing the thing to otem.
13. and Otem saw how all gods of religion gather and say, we shall not let humanity and dwellers of the earth have rest of mind. and Allah said, I cannot let go my impact upon the earth.
14. Now many homos who died religious had been made the same with the gods. and they had almost equal powers with the gods. and they said also, the religion which we practise on earth must not be defeated.
15. Now Yahweh said, what shall my great name become in the mouths of the people of the earth if i agree that religion should be made of none effect in their minds? Shall they not curse my name forever?
16. and Eubius said, what shall happen to the history of Krishtanite which I have written? I shall rather protect it, or else I shall be found the greatest liar in history. and Mirza and Moloch and Eshu and many other gods said, the fun of the earth shall be lost when they do not call upon our names anymore.
17. and their continual weeping to the gods, being fun to us, shall be a thing of the past. No, we shall not allow this. Now while they spoke, the gods who wanted science and development in the world came and said, are you ready for the battle? and they said, we are ready.
18. and the battle began.
19. and Otem heard voices and saw many gods how they did all manner of inexplicable things. and there were vacuums, but only otem and the gods of findings saw the vacuums.
20. and when the gods of religion had entered into the vacuums, they were not seen anymore.
21. and Otem awoke. and his pupils had broken the door of his house when he did not appear in the school that day. and they had done many things to revive him.
22. and otem said, I saw all the things which you do to my body to rescue me. Why do you sit on my chest and blew my nose? Why do you disturb my sweet sleep? For the words which are made flesh are currently being conquered.
23. And henceforth, all sacred texts shall be seen as the things useful for refuse dump. and they shall lose the powers behind them, because all gods who insist on continual deception of the world through their threatening and motivational books are currently being held captive in vacuums.
24. Now for a space of three months, otem continually saw how the gods stepped into vacuums and were not seen anymore.
25. Now when eighty-nine days was complete, the gods of findings began to carry the vacuums in their hands, dumping them into a larger vacuum. For the vacuums began to become visible when they had carried them. and they dumped more than two hundred and fifty nine thousand vacuums into a larger one.
26. and they said, Otem of truth, we have overcome the gods by vacuums, so go and make known all the things which you have seen. For we imagined the vacuums with our thoughts for the capture of the gods who are antihumans.
27. and in the vacuums shall they be for a thousand years. This is the spiritual cage of all gods who oppose development. and focus shall be shifted from the words in the books to the thoughts of the heads.
28. And a period shall come when the pastors and the priests of many religions shall begin to misbehave. For their gods are encaged. and the minds of many homos shall begin to go after the truth within themselves rather than the lies written in the books of lies.
29. Now Otem, we have done our own part, therefore go and do your part also. Be not lazy in the compilation and interpretation of the texts of histories which we have given to you.
30. and we shall breathe life into the history which you shall write and it shall live on in the minds of the people, rather than religious texts. and humanity shall begin to use their own brains, worshipping no god while they do good to themselves.

Pls what type of Dr*GS do you take while you compose this?

over familiarity makes women serve their husband last,and ignorantly elevates and regards her pastor above the Adam ie bone of her bones.Her boss here should in preference become the third and last person to be served.

However,in the case where the event is hosted by Her as in Her birthday Celebration
(1)in a neutral ground this order should be adopted if she's the host : The Pastor (as the Spiritual Father/ Reps or special guest of the occasion) should be served First by her, Seconded by her Husband as the Chief host then the Boss as Chairman of the occasion.

(2.)If in a SECULAR EVENTS where she's a CO-HOST or INVITEE eg her company or biz organisation the ORDER by PROTOCOL must be ADOPTED following the list also used in RECOGNITION of DIGNITARIES hence Her boss/invited PASTOR should be SERVED First and Second INTERCHANGEABLY then Her husband comes third (reason been that pastor's in such events by Moral conduct are not to eat openly and be severed secretly or well package take away be arranged for him)

(3.)If the EVENT IS HOSTED by the CHURCH :the Pastor being the Host might not want to be served First by Courtesy may honour or direct her to serve either her Boss or Husband first depending on their Event Protocol list of dignitaries invitees.
so one has to use her head as the organisers too has to help direct how the food is served in ORDER of preference already mapped out even before the events had kick started by the planner's who will serve the attendees.

N/B Tactically cases of such are handled through this technical means Especially were different meals are available for served in the occasion then the Wife must come up first get their Order or Choice of food .
2. She then can come with two plates or three at a time depending on the level of CONFUSION she finds herself and ignorantly pretending through gestures and serves the Three Codedly as a Comedian actor still Comporting her mood of service .Be tactically observant of individual POSTURE and Mood of reception or acceptance and tone etc coz some are telling you far MGS or signs of correction in a Codified ACT of gestures.

Reach out 🤝🍷

dollytino4real:
My pastor first, because God said,"I will give u a pastor after my heart )not husband dat we went to pick from now where.

Well, I hope you won't get mad when he picks his Pastor's wife ahead of you

adecares:
Pls what type of Dr*GS do you take while you compose this?

It's not me o. It's Otem who brought the BOOK OF UNIVERSAL HISTORY to us many years back. I read it and found the truth in it.

dollytino4real:
na we pick husband n wife but God gave us pastor,

If the equation were to be; men who do you first provide food for, your wife, your pastor or your boss, you would shout sacrilege, if the man should choose his pastor.

In this setting, if my wife does not serve me first, I will disgrace the hell out of her in that public space right there.
I won't tolerate such public dishonor from a wife.

If she tries it, even that pastor go collect there and then. You go tell me how you take know my wife. Bible says I am the Head of my wife. ME. NOT THE PASTOR. NOT HER BOSS.

GeneralOuki:
It is not low mentality, in fact, the person displaying Low mentality is you. This is about culture and traditions not about mentality or whatever.

Some of you will come online and in your bid to sound smart and enlightened you end up sounding very ignorant

Okay oo
So favouritism is now culture and tradition .No wonder our politician get to office and steal public funds for themselves and their family. (PRIORITY) Culture and tradition.

I get you.

J

GeneralOuki:
Any person who puts their spouses last in this list is not matured enough to get married yet. Imagine putting your husband last in the pecking order in his own house when he's supposed to come first. Let me explain something to you because it seems like some of you don't really understand what marriage truly is. Your husband comes first before even your own children, if there's only one pieyof yam left in the pot and your husband and children are yet to eat, you must serve that yam to your husband first, he will now pass it over to the children to eat. That's how it is done, them no dey teach this for school. Your husband must also put your interest first before anyone else's, even his children's.

Your mentality towards this matter is why marriages are collapsing in its infancy, it's why divorce are spiking, because todays young adults do not understand nor try to grasp the tenets of marriage and what it means to build a home.

You only focus on marriage.The pastor stands for religion,the boss stands for worlkplace hierarchy

BUT YOU ONLY FOCUS ON MARRIAGE.

It is well.

Juoflife1:
Husband first
Boss
Pastor

Spot on🏹

greatiyk4u:
Husband....BOSS..... PASTOR

Spot on🏹

GeneralOuki:
Nope, you should bring the food first to your husband, he then can either accept the food or tell you to serve the guests first.

Alright

geoworldedu:
It's not me o. It's Otem who brought the BOOK OF UNIVERSAL HISTORY to us many years back. I read it and found the truth in it.

Lol Orisirisi, are you for real?
Where can the book be gotten

8

bobonla:
You went for an occasion, and happens to be the one serving food. Who will you prioritize first, Your Pastor/Imam, Husband, or Boss?
Provided all of them are sited on the same seat and table.

My boss

bobonla:
You went for an occasion, and happens to be the one serving food. Who will you prioritize first, Your Pastor/Imam, Husband, or Boss?
Provided all of them are sited on the same seat and table.

replace the pastor with a governor. Who will u serve first

dollytino4real:
My pastor first, because God said,"I will give u a pastor after my heart )not husband dat we went to pick from now where.

This is unwise

Your husband's priest deserves the honour of your husband

But if your husband doesn't regard him, you can do as you feel

Pythagon:
replace the pastor with a governor. Who will u serve first

Thank you so much for your meaningful contribution

Ungrateful people easily find ways to insult priest

Let them answer you now