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Diamond098454:
That boy love is suffocating that girl hmmm 🤔I can imagine what she's passing through

Lol,, why are you so bitter?

Saturnalia:
Peller na small boy. He doesn’t know how the World works. He lacks frontal cortex and it’s not his fault. It’s not yet developed at his age.

This im wife wey still dey shack am go born pikins for Politicians and Industry Celebrity Vampires.

E go clear for im eyes after 2 years.

That's why he decide she converts to Islam because Islam teaches women to be humble and always obey their husband ahead of their parents. You will take permission from your husband for everything you do even if you want to do contribution with your own money

But in Christianity the wife can even go to the pastor how and spend the night or become olosho, Islam does not tolerate nonsense

Congratulations

Yinmu! We dey here dey wait una. Marriage that is very obvious that it won't last.

brain54:
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From javis to Jamilah.


xxxxxxx


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Am watching with one eyes close

Diamond098454:
That boy love is suffocating that girl hmmm 🤔I can imagine what she's passing through

You see gun pointed at her head? ehn, dodoyo

When we say Nigeria girls will do anything for money you think say na joke abi.

The poor girl graduated from a princess of God to slave of Allah.

I pray this marriage go last past first semester...

Is it not just to hit her head on the floor and raise her nyash several times a day?
She is a natural.

Was she ever a Christian before? Heading into destruction all because of what?

Saturnalia:
Peller na small boy. He doesn’t know how the World works. He lacks frontal cortex and it’s not his fault. It’s not yet developed at his age.

This im wife wey still dey shack am go born pikins for Politicians and Industry Celebrity Vampires.

E go clear for im eyes after 2 years.

baba a chilled bottle of Heineken for you....u see am well

MissOpe:
Sincerely, I laughed out loud when I saw this.
Don't worry. Peller's children, grandchildren, and future generations, along with those who believe in Islamic and Christian marriage rites, will watch their elders practise these traditions. By then, they'll likely see them as part of their own culture.
But I have a genuine question for you. Why are you so rigid and fixated on preserving the original culture exactly as it was? It seems you're not open to change or evolution. You appear to believe that our culture should remain exactly as our ancestors practised it.
Our ancestors lived in their own time, under their own realities. We, however, live in a different world with different experiences and challenges. Does honouring our heritage mean we must reject every form of change? What happened to learning, growing, and even unlearning ideas that no longer serve us?
Culture has never been completely static. It has always evolved from one generation to the next.
If Peller and Jarvis freely agreed to do things their own way, how does that negatively affect you or society? Why should their personal choice become a problem for everyone else?

Again you miss the point of my message here. I said I am not interested in them as persons but you take me back to the original post you quoted. It's not about being rigid or static. If it were by that, we will wait for Peller to sleep with his wife to test his virility and her virginity. If you don't know what you are doing, you are lost. You don't have an identity and you pick up on what is not your own. You will make mistakes. I asked you about the girl's protection in this scenario, that's what culture does. Have you heard when they say someone is uncultured? E get why. That's because the person has not lived by rules and customs. In Islam, she does not need to kneel down to anyone, put on white or some unnecessary things but you call it change. What if she is on her period? Do you know what the Islamic culture says for that? If anything happens to her in this new culture, what do you do? You find out on the internet abi? Her guardian is not there, we don't see his family, it looks like children being fed to wolves. You just want to make up rules as you go and you say it is change and culture is rigid etc. Do whatever you want o in the name of change, na you go find out yourself why some things de...

An uncultured person is someone who lacks education, refinement, or good taste, particularly regarding fine arts like literature, music, and painting. They may also display coarse manners or an unfamiliarity with social norms.

SixSeven:
Again you miss the point of my message here. I said I am not interested in them as persons but you take me back to the original post you quoted. It's not about being rigid or static. If it were by that, we will wait for Peller to sleep with his wife to test his virility and her virginity. If you don't know what you are doing, you are lost. You don't have an identity and you pick up on what is not your own. You will make mistakes. I asked you about the girl's protection in this scenario, that's what culture does. Have you heard when they say someone is uncultured? E get why. That's because the person has not lived by rules and customs. In Islam, she does not need to kneel down to anyone, put on white or some unnecessary things but you call it change. What if she is on her period? Do you know what the Islamic culture says for that? If anything happens to her in this new culture, what do you do? You find out on the internet abi? Her guardian is not there, we don't see his family, it looks like children being fed to wolves. You just want to make up rules as you go and you say it is change and culture is rigid etc. Do whatever you want o in the name of change, na you go find out yourself why some things de...

Of course Peller broke the rules, norms expected of him by the society and that's Why he is Peller today....
There's nothing in life without its own share of merits or demerits or better put consequences (good/bad)..
Even if they try to play it safe by embracing your own idea of how things should be done culturally, consequences go still dey.....
By the way, who your culture don help??

Culture that was made by Patriachal men to subdue women, to ensure the women dont have a voice, women have never been protected by these nonsense culture (in my opinion) you keep screaming, if after a while Jarvis feels she can't continue with Peller,she can by all means part ways with him..

Life is not a do or die affair...

Saturnalia:
Peller na small boy. He doesn’t know how the World works. He lacks frontal cortex and it’s not his fault. It’s not yet developed at his age.

This im wife wey still dey shack am go born pikins for Politicians and Industry Celebrity Vampires.

E go clear for im eyes after 2 years.

No be lie..

MissOpe:
Of course Peller broke the rules, norms expected of him by the society and that's Why he is Peller today....
There's nothing in life without its own share of merits or demerits or better put consequences (good/bad)..
Even if they try to play it safe by embracing your own idea of how things should be done culturally, consequences go still dey.....
By the way, who your culture don help??

Culture that was made by Patriachal men to subdue women, to ensure the women dont have a voice, women have never been protected by these nonsense culture (in my opinion) you keep screaming, if after a while Jarvis feels she can't continue with Peller,she can by all means part ways with him..

Life is not a do or die affair...

Hahaha. The bolded is what I suspected all along. The same culture that let a woman leave a marriage if she doesn't like it until una religion come talk say divorce is a sin? Okay, live your life by your own rules. Imagine a society without rules or changing rules all the time... that's chaos but let's blame patriarchy. Good luck to everyone of us

SixSeven:
Hahaha. The bolded is what I suspected all along. The same culture that let a woman leave a marriage if she doesn't like it until una religion come talk say divorce is a sin? Okay, live your life by your own rules. Imagine a society without rules or changing rules all the time... that's chaos but let's blame patriarchy. Good luck to everyone of us

My bro, I dont even support religion....
So don't think im in support of this, I said it somewhere in my previous reply...
And I'm also not saying society shouldn't have rules, the only rules that should guide the society is "THE HUMANITY RULES".

Dont do to me what you wouldn't like to be done to you ..

Live your life in a way that respects the dignity, freedom, and well being of others while taking responsibility for the consequences of your own actions...

SHIKENA......

BrighterSyde:
But now that she’s a Muslim she is no longer free to practise any religion of her choice or else she should be killed according to the Sunnah

She is in Southern Nigeria, such an archaic law doesn't hold in that part of the world

All these people that come online to condemn the two as if their own life is perfect. Mr and Mrs God everywhere. You guys praying for bad things to happen to them just because they are not your religion. Shame on you

MissOpe:
My bro, I dont even support religion....
So don't think im in support of this, I said it somewhere in my previous reply...
And I'm also not saying society shouldn't have rules, the only rules that should guide the society is "THE HUMANITY RULES".

Dont do to me what you wouldn't like to be done to you ..

Live your life in a way that respects the dignity, freedom, and well being of others while taking responsibility for the consequences of your own actions...

SHIKENA......

My sister, this is ideal in theory but not the reality unfortunately. I also believe in live and let live and humanity but unfortunately, human beings are selfish and mischievous. We are still animals at the base and everyone is looking at for him or herself. That's why we need order. You are able to come to this conclusion of humanity lives due to your education and exposure but it's not everyone who has the same like you so you can wrongly assume that people will come to a rational conclusion like you. I was just going to ask, a Yoruba culture that says a woman cannot live with a man until he has paid for her rites is protecting who? Men or women? It's humanity that should protect both men and women, that's why those customs are there. Those who have made mistakes before, we have seen them. We only live life forward and have wisdom from those who came before us. SHIKENA

Late1tterl:
ONE GONE!



Chai....... no body shld tell me to calm down.

They will come back....Darkness was. Light is !!!!!

Hussein035:
That's why he decide she converts to Islam because Islam teaches women to be humble and always obey their husband ahead of their parents. You will take permission from your husband for everything you do even if you want to do contribution with your own money

But in Christianity the wife can even go to the pastor how and spend the night or become olosho, Islam does not tolerate nonsense

It is called live and let live...love
If something loves you, let it go it will come back if it is truly yours.
My love my wife and sometimes as a fleshy human feel she aint enough and i end up telling her she can go .....but the love still has her here....we move.
Forcing it with a religion that it's grand patron...we know hin way as par wetin we read for hin history......?!
We move

worlexy:
She is in Southern Nigeria, such an archaic law doesn't hold in that part of the world

Seems you don’t know anything about Islam. That is Sunnah and it cannot be archaic or are the words and teachings and life of Muhammed not an example for all of mankind as he is the most perfect human of all? What are you saying brother? Sharia law is not outdated and Muslims are bound by it for life whether south or north

BrighterSyde:
Seems you don’t know anything about Islam. That is Sunnah and it cannot be archaic or are the words and teachings and life of Muhammed not an example for all of mankind as he is the most perfect human of all? What are you saying brother? Sharia law is not outdated and Muslims are bound by it for life whether south or north

Do you know the number of Muslims who have converted to Christianity in Southern Nigeria? How many of them have been killed for doing so?

SixSeven:
My sister, this is ideal in theory but not the reality unfortunately. I also believe in live and let live and humanity but unfortunately, human beings are selfish and mischievous. We are still animals at the base and everyone is looking at for him or herself. That's why we need order. You are able to come to this conclusion of humanity lives due to your education and exposure but it's not everyone who has the same like you so you can wrongly assume that people will come to a rational conclusion like you. I was just going to ask, a Yoruba culture that says a woman cannot live with a man until he has paid for her rites is protecting who? Men or women? It's humanity that should protect both men and women, that's why those customs are there. Those who have made mistakes before, we have seen them. We only live life forward and have wisdom from those who came before us. SHIKENA

It doesn't necessarily protect the woman, the rites are not paid to the woman but the woman's family who get to enjoy the ;Ddidun obe that comes with the rites....
And once the rites sre paid, the family of the man now sees the woman as their properties, where she has to respect everyone in the family, submit to the man, abide by the rules and regulations of the family....which to me is outright nonsense if it is not mutual, one of the nonsense that irks me the most is that a woman would be calling children old enough to be her child aunty just because they didn't give birth to such child in her presence....

In my honest opinion, man and woman should just agree as partners in business to come together for marriage, no rites must be paid to Nobody, every party should bring 50/50 to the table, both contribute their quota to ensuring the relationship thrives, not one person seeing the other as glorified slave abd servant just because they paid bride price and rites ......

MissOpe:
It doesn't necessarily protect the woman, the rites are not paid to the woman but the woman's family who get to enjoy the ;Ddidun obe that comes with the rites....
And once the rites sre paid, the family of the man now sees the woman as their properties, where she has to respect everyone in the family, submit to the man, abide by the rules and regulations of the family....which to me is outright nonsense if it is not mutual, one of the nonsense that irks me the most is that a woman would be calling children old enough to be her child aunty just because they didn't give birth to such child in her presence....

In my honest opinion, man and woman should just agree as partners in business to come together for marriage, no rites must be paid to Nobody, every party should bring 50/50 to the table, both contribute their quota to ensuring the relationship thrives, not one person seeing the other as glorified slave abd servant just because they paid bride price and rites ......

rites are not paid to the woman but the woman's family who get to enjoy the

Now I know you are whining me because she is not property. Again you are proving my points for me. We cannot take the bad cases and use it to judge. At a point in time, fathers stopped collecting what they should collect because they claim they are not selling their daughters. But the bride price was for both families to be accountable for protecting and preserving the marriage. This is culture again. It wasn't the items, but the symbolism of it. This is why we need to understand culture. What is it trying to do? Why is it there? Abuse is inevitable if you don't know why we did things the way we did/do. The bride price is even a collateral for the woman that in case. Even the laws the British left us to be using for marriage were from our culture. However, the British did not simply adopt all traditional customs as law. They modified, restricted, or rejected customs they viewed as incompatible with colonial policy or English legal principles. And that is why we have confusion today. On a more serious note MissOpe, every system will be abused, even the best of them but culture is who you are. It carries your history, values, traditions, language, and the ways you understand and connect with the world.

If I support men today, women will think this one is part of them. If I support women tomorrow, the men will call me simp. Truth hurts when you call out the manipulation of each gender but if you think culture doesn't matter, you will eventually get into issues and realize that it's lack of culture that did not make you understand why people behaved in some way.

I don't believe a man should do 50/50. I've written about that before. It doesn't help men.

SixSeven:
Repost👇

I made a post about their women too. You are just a tool to give them babies and provide for them. The same reason some women want to have babies, a getaway card from life responsibilities. Dem no de tell person when life show you shege



As if what I wrote here wasn't enough, I just read this study that reveals what women would do if they won a $1m vs what a man will do but look at this one where women marry and divorce men, what do they say? It's hard for them to be alone when there's no provider

“I’ve divorced four times and each time I’ve had a party.”

In Mauritania it’s thought half of all women get divorced at least once with some remarrying multiple times. Many choose to celebrate their divorces but for the poorest there are serious consequences. pic.twitter.com/TC7il1ottH

— Unreported World (@UnreportedWorld) May 10, 2024

A man will provide without conditions most of the time but that very same thing is very hard for women to do unconditionally, another reason why they become bitter.

I am reminded of this movie 👇

While he was struggling financially he found out is wife had $280,000 in her bank account pic.twitter.com/CVdqSdxrwm

— Abdulkabir (@olawale__01) May 14, 2026

Men, know this and know peace, WOMEN ARE NOT BUILT TO BE PROVIDERS. The moment you know that, you would have figured out a lot of things you need to know as a man.

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amaka4runsocial:
Peller took Jarvis to Lagos central mosque to take her “sha’adah” and convert her to Muslim ahead of their wedding, the Islamic cleric that led the program has now changed her name from Jarvis to Jamilah, the Muslim association of Nigeria (MAN) welcomes her to the board,
Congratulations to the young couple

Peller took Jarvis to Lagos central mosque to take her “sha’adah” and convert her to Muslim ahead of their wedding, the Islamic cleric that led the program has now changed her name from Jarvis to Jamilah, the Muslim association of Nigeria (MAN) welcomes her to the board,… pic.twitter.com/yYhXB342uf

— Mardiyyah ❤️💐 (@iam_Mardiyyah) July 27, 2026

Usman danfodio really conquer this people mentally.

OSPRO:
if Jamilah decides in future to leave Islam, Islamic religion said they should kii her.

Surah An-Nisa (4:89): Says to seize and kill those who "turn away"

God ordered that there is no force, compulsion in Islam.
Don't be like Boko Haram and the other demonic satanic groups who always quote old verses to validate their evil.
In the Bible,God also ordered for people to be killed because they didn't follow His path.

SixSeven:
rites are not paid to the woman but the woman's family who get to enjoy the

Now I know you are whining me because she is not property. Again you are proving my points for me. We cannot take the bad cases and use it to judge. At a point in time, fathers stopped collecting what they should collect because they claim they are not selling their daughters. But the bride price was for both families to be accountable for protecting and preserving the marriage. This is culture again. It wasn't the items, but the symbolism of it. This is why we need to understand culture. What is it trying to do? Why is it there? Abuse is inevitable if you don't know why we did things the way we did/do. The bride price is even a collateral for the woman that in case. Even the laws the British left us to be using for marriage were from our culture. However, the British did not simply adopt all traditional customs as law. They modified, restricted, or rejected customs they viewed as incompatible with colonial policy or English legal principles. And that is why we have confusion today. On a more serious note MissOpe, every system will be abused, even the best of them but culture is who you are. It carries your history, values, traditions, language, and the ways you understand and connect with the world.

If I support men today, women will think this one is part of them. If I support women tomorrow, the men will call me simp. Truth hurts when you call out the manipulation of each gender but if you think culture doesn't matter, you will eventually get into issues and realize that it's lack of culture that did not make you understand why people behaved in some way.

I don't believe a man should do 50/50. I've written about that before. It doesn't help men.

Six seven, chai your wahala too much ooooo.

Leave me oooo.

You wahala too much o jare...

Sha let women breath...cos I know it's us against the world of men.....

MissOpe:
Six seven, chai your wahala too much ooooo.

Leave me oooo.

You wahala too much o jare...

Sha let women breath...cos I know it's us against the world of men.....

Let men breathe too Obìnrin!

SixSeven:
Let men breathe too Obìnrin!

Without us e o ni wa ni ile aye now......
You wont be alive...

We have the ability to kill and make alive....
When i found out that I was carrying the pregnancies of male children, I aborted them danu danu and I forsee a world where women will come together and birth only female children, without the help of men....
Then we will enjoy the Matriachal system as opposed to these patriach's world ...

MissOpe:
Without us e o ni wa ni ile aye now......
You wont be alive...

We have the ability to kill and make alive....
When i found out that I was carrying the pregnancies of male children, I aborted them danu danu and I forsee a world where women will come together and birth only female children, without the help of men....
Then we will enjoy the Matriachal system as opposed to these patriach's world ...

Ah. Èwọ̀

You terminated the next generation. No wonder. It's those boys that are disturbing you now. Dem no go let you rest

You ladies cannot do without us too. Have you heard of invisible woman syndrome?

Invisible woman syndrome describes a social phenomenon where women over 50 feel overlooked, irrelevant, or unseen by society. Around 70% of women report experiencing this shift, which stems from intersecting ageism and sexism in a youth-obsessed culture

The same men they despised so much, they now want their attention again. Na still man wahala. Women. I no de follow dem argue. What they say and what they do, na only una understand yoursleves. That's why you need men

Boys to the world 😎