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1) Deuteronomy 21:13
And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

2) 1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.

3) Exodus 22:16
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.

4) Exodus 21:8/10 (Betrothal is marriage)

8 If she please not her master, who hath betrothed her to himself, then shall he let her be redeemed: to sell her unto a strange nation he shall have no power, seeing he hath dealt deceitfully with her.

9 And if he have betrothed her unto his son, he shall deal with her after the manner of daughters.

10 If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

5) Deuteronomy 22:13 -21 (high points)
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;

17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity

18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;

19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days...

6) Deuteronomy 22:28/29
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

With these, one can see the numberses of husbandses and wifeses that people have in the name of having forn and living the life!

Dtruthspeaker:
With these, one can see the numberses of husbandses and wifeses that people have in the name of having fun and living the life!

Yes, very true. Thanks for sharing.
The most shocking Thread about Oral between Husband and Wife:https://www.nairaland.com/5652053/cunnilingus-husband-wife-sin

And this 2nd Thread about Boyfriend and Girlfriend: https://www.nairaland.com/5570394/having-boyfriend-girlfriend-not-just#84722366

I was excited to see the direct passage that says what you're saying.
I was disappointed!

Why are you guys obsessed with sexxx?

If wife can accept this, perhaps marriage would be less toxic as we are experiencing now, many of them are the reason why "some" husband going outside, though, man too get their own oo.


.......I'm your wife
...... Im not a prostitute
.......sex is not food.
.......after all, we are looking for kids again.


To make the matter worse, the same wife complaining endlessly about sex, would go and and having reckless sex with concubines.

Op just exhibited ignorance.
So if you as a man have sex with your fellow man too, it is marriage?
Don't abuse substance when reading the bible.

jmoore:
Op just exhibited ignorance.

So if you as a man have sex with your fellow man too, it is marriage?

Don't abuse substance when reading the bible.

Is "man to man" or "woman to woman" use to have sex or they are deceiving themselves?

Even if they do have, you are the one that is ignorant here and not Op, you only want to proof "use lez" point for relevancy.

Op is talking about man and woman in marriage, having intimate relationship, you came here gragra to argue and lament as usual. If you people doesn't oppose every post on forum, your body will never calm down.

Humm, Let me started counting my wives. I have tried oooo. The problem is that the past wives including one night wives are still coming again and again to chop what they have chopped before. One of them said once debe is always debe.

Dtruthspeaker:
1) Deuteronomy 21:13
And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

2) 1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.

3) Exodus 22:16
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.

4) Exodus 21:8/10 (Betrothal is marriage)

8 If she please not her master, who hath betrothed her to himself, then shall he let her be redeemed: to sell her unto a strange nation he shall have no power, seeing he hath dealt deceitfully with her.

9 And if he have betrothed her unto his son, he shall deal with her after the manner of daughters.

10 If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

5) Deuteronomy 22:13 -21 (high points)
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;

17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity

18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;

19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days...

6) Deuteronomy 22:28/29
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

Did I read sell her off to another nations and captivity? So God allow some of his children to sell their kind and even capture some into captivity? Hmm what a god.

So why are you mofos condemning bokos for keeping the tradition of kidnapping women during raid and marrying them.

This guy is confused. Don't pick a verse and start publishing what you don't know. A pure ignorant man.

The 50 sketel of silver, given to the maids father, is what caught my attention. Today, it is about 1.5 million naira. Yet, when many Nigerians see the marriage list of some of our tribes, they go into tirades and start complaining.

Aside, the cooking aspect in marriages, that gulps money, the items itself aren't what many people should be complaining about.

Then if na so, Solomon dey learn work for my side be dat o.

Blakjewelry:
Did I read sell her off to another nations and captivity? So God allow some of his children to sell their kind and even capture some into captivity? Hmm what a god.

It appears you haven't really followed the Bible. The bible is a very blood thirsty and violent book. A book that encourages abortions and infanticide not to mention genocide and slavery.

But yeah, some land grabbing slap sticks in the middle east claim it is the word of god and use it to justify their claims that they are a chosen nation. Yet they've gone on to be worse than the Nazis.

Dogalmighty17:
It appears you haven't really followed the Bible. The bible is a very blood thirsty and violent book. A book that encourages abortions and infanticide not to mention genocide and slavery.

Lol I am well versed in the Bible and it history, my comment were purely rhetorical.

Dtruthspeaker:
1) Deuteronomy 21:13
And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

2) 1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.

3) Exodus 22:16
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.

4) Exodus 21:8/10 (Betrothal is marriage)

8 If she please not her master, who hath betrothed her to himself, then shall he let her be redeemed: to sell her unto a strange nation he shall have no power, seeing he hath dealt deceitfully with her.

9 And if he have betrothed her unto his son, he shall deal with her after the manner of daughters.

10 If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

5) Deuteronomy 22:13 -21 (high points)
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;

17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity

18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;

19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days...

6) Deuteronomy 22:28/29
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

Okay , but don’t forget to add this as well :


But if this charge is true (that she wasn’t a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found, they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father’s house. Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst. (Deuteronomy 22:20-21 NAB)


Justice for non virgin bride ✌🏼

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Nigerian Christians are practicing doctrine of their churches, like what the pastor says or the church says. They will still want to argue with what the Bible says which is the basis of the religion, it’s even allowed to marry two wives in the Bible and you name your pikin Solomon but Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines . Na so some people dey use Islam upside down , as for Nigerian Christians they are escapist , looking for what will justify their nonsense and running from the truth . hypocrites! Just that they are not violent

joseph1832:
The 50 sketel of silver, given to the maids father, is what caught my attention. Today, it is about 1.5 million naira. Yet, when many Nigerians see the marriage list of some of our tribes, they go into tirades and start complaining.

Aside, the cooking aspect in marriages, that gulps money, the items itself aren't what many people should be complaining about.

The fifty shekels of silver was a punishment for the man who raped the girl. The money compensated her family while the mandatory marriage compensates the girl.

Blakjewelry:
Did I read sell her off to another nations and captivity? So God allow some of his children to sell their kind and even capture some into captivity? Hmm what a god.

So why are you mofos condemning bokos for keeping the tradition of kidnapping women during raid and marrying them.

He said you shall not sell her. What's happening with some of you?

Dtruthspeaker:
1) Deuteronomy 21:13
And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

2) 1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.

3) Exodus 22:16
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.

4) Exodus 21:8/10 (Betrothal is marriage)

8 If she please not her master, who hath betrothed her to himself, then shall he let her be redeemed: to sell her unto a strange nation he shall have no power, seeing he hath dealt deceitfully with her.

9 And if he have betrothed her unto his son, he shall deal with her after the manner of daughters.

10 If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish.

5) Deuteronomy 22:13 -21 (high points)
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;

17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity

18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;

19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days...

6) Deuteronomy 22:28/29
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

Can you also show us the part that asks us to stone the bride, if on the night of her wedding it was discovered that she is not a virgin?

Woww this one sweet my Belle 😁😁😁

FxMasterz:
The fifty shekels of silver was a punishment for the man who raped the girl. The money compensated her family while the mandatory marriage compensates the girl.

Imagine marrying your rapist. What a trauma. Cant even wish that on my worst enemy. Thunda fire you and your god.

I see the reason why Christians are against practicing the law of Islam bcs they themselves don't practice what the Bible says

These are clear rules and guidance for Christians but their pastors would not teach them

This is clear Sharia written in Bibles for followers of Christ but they would tell you Islam is evil bcs they practice the law of Quran

Clearly there is a punishment for anyone who commit any of the sins mention above but who will implement them?

It's well

dettolgel:
Can you also show us the part that asks us to stone the bride, if on the night of her wedding it was discovered that she is not a virgin?

That one is out of the topic plus, it is not compulsory as it is clear that if the man acquiesces to it because he knew then, as people know and even expect today, then there is no problem.

The problem is when the woman deceives him that she is a virgin like this guy complained of
https://www.nairaland.com/8716479/ex-wife-lied-being-virgin-before

dofman:
Okay , but don’t forget to add this as well :


But if this charge is true (that she wasn’t a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found, they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father’s house. Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst. (Deuteronomy 22:20-21 NAB)


Justice for non virgin bride ✌🏼

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Normal.
Even this guy did it

https://www.nairaland.com/8716479/ex-wife-lied-being-virgin-before

Babastrong:
Humm, Let me started counting my wives. I have tried oooo. The problem is that the past wives including one night wives are still coming again and again to chop what they have chopped before. One of them said once debe is always debe.

Choi! E go don reach 100 so.

Ahayalift:
Yes, very true. Thanks for sharing.

🙏🏾

Leave me with una 20 karata na

BlackLaw:
I was excited to see the direct passage that says what you're saying.
I was disappointed!

If it was not direct enough you would have pointed it out.

Old old testament. E no dey work again. I only live my life with the new testament. Old testament for me is just reading for knowledge.

omooba969:
Why are you guys obsessed with sexxx?

Do you not see all the problems and troubles it has caused and it causes? We don't like having troubles

joseph1832:
The 50 sketel of silver, given to the maids father, is what caught my attention. Today, it is about 1.5 million naira. Yet, when many Nigerians see the marriage list of some of our tribes, they go into tirades and start complaining.

Aside, the cooking aspect in marriages, that gulps money, the items itself aren't what many people should be complaining about.

50 shekel of silver is equivalent of 507 grams of silver and at current price of about $1.87 per gram of silver, that is worth $948.09 USD which is about N1.3 million naira. The value could drop soon as price of silver metal drops.

Shekel used here is a weigh measure, not a currency .

So should bride price drop or increase cyclically like stock market prices because you are confusing a time when commodity pricing is not based on capitalism to a time commodity is traded for their utility value.

12345baba:
Old old testament. E no dey work again. I only live my life with the new testament. Old testament for me is just reading for knowledge.

What you call new testament still catches you saying

1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

1 Corinthians 10:8:
"Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand."