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Theflint1:
Paul Okoye first wife na Ijaw.

Whatever other issues the family might have had with LoIa, I'm sure that 9 year age difference was number one redflag.

Ijaw and Igbo na 5 and 6

We didn't start marrying today, it's been nearly 200 years, can't say the same for Igbo and Yoruba

raumdeuter:
What he has chopped while he was governor and sent to his company and Pandora are enough for a lifetime

You're not being sincere to yourself and it's doing you a lot of injustice.

You support a known drug lord and thief. I have no issues with that especially if your personal moral standards are depraved - it's your problem.

But if you now use the same low moral standards to criticise another person, especially when that person has a clean record then vou're not just being hypocritical but wicked.

Ebukacute:
To defend Tinubu, you MUST embrace lies and pretence and then,make truth and facts your enemy. Unfortunately, you see learned people you look up to,embarrassing themselves trying to defend a government that has nothing good to write home about

It's a shame really.

Mature men destroying their own reputation because of someone that neither knows them nor cares about them

Even if he is abroad, he should at least be concerned for the sake of a few loved ones living in Nigeria,

rabazamba:
He chose peace just like you did when that old woman gave you a heavy knock on the Bus back then

U win

Theflint1:
You create a government that values sycophancy over everything else, this is the sort of mess you get.

In any other country, the EFCC chairman should be tendring his resignation, or the president/EFCC chairman answering the house of assembly for this mess.

The mess is just too much. Even the white washed investigation done by the ICPC to absolve him and his errands boy Femi of corruption was itself a poor job. I wonder how some people still have sympathy for such a terrible leadership.

It's that sycophancy that led to the mistake with the Bishops. No one tells him the truth and so he is living is that little bubble bunker where he is alienated from even his countrymen.

This mistake of a human must not repeat next year

Ibime:
Ijaw and Igbo na 5 and 6

We didn't start marrying today, it's been nearly 200 years, can't say the same for Igbo and Yoruba

Peter and Lola's union didn't happen 200 years ago when marriage between Igbos and Yoruba's was outlawed.

And do you think the tribal difference was a bigger red flag than the 9 year age gap between Peter and Lola?

izzou:
But Lola was not new to the family. They knew her. She, at some point, has been of assistance to them

How can the 9 year gap be the issue, to the point of hostility?

Na only Lola fit talk wetin her eye see sha

She was more a big aunty to them if we're being real... she's senior to Jude with 2 years.

They knew Lola as a big Aunty that was helping their craft, at some point Peter begin chop her work and the brothers probably knew, but taking it to the point of wanting to marry her would have been another thing altogether, regardless of how long they'd known her.

KingTom:
Lets be real! You know that if Tonye Rhodes-Vivour contests an election in Lagos there will much less uproar than if Chinedu did and you also know that if Biriye Dokubo Chukwu contests in Anambra, there will be much less uproar than if Tunde did

Paul said tribe was never the issue.

Peter is not the only person from the Okoye family that married outside their tribe.

Peter in all his narration has not mentioned tribe as the reason why the family opposed their union.

The mum later welcomed Lola into the fold, and if you watched their elder brothers interview, he mentioned being present during "his inlaws" burial (Lola's father's).

Peter said Paul doesn't have any personal issues with Lola. The only person he's mentioned with an unending grudge for Lola is Jude, who also happens to be Peter's number 1 hater.

You've chosen to ignore the more obvious red flag being the 9 year age difference between both parties.

There's still no fact based evidence for tribe being the reason the family opposed their union...if you have any of such evidence it'd fare better.

Ibime:
Ijaw and Igbo na 5 and 6

We didn't start marrying today, it's been nearly 200 years, can't say the same for Igbo and Yoruba

Ijaw do not have problem with any tribe until you are Urhobo.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DbyMLSxiOwX/?img_index=2&igsh=MWJrOG5sMG53Ynpvcw==

Theflint1:
Paul said tribe was never the issue.

Peter is not the only person from the Okoye family that married outside their tribe.

Peter in all his narration has not mentioned tribe as the reason why the family opposed their union.

The mum later welcomed Lola into the fold, and if you watched their elder brothers interview, he mentioned being present during "his inlaws" burial (Lola's father's).

Peter said Paul doesn't have any personal issues with Lola. The only person he's mentioned with an unending grudge for Lola is Jude, who also happens to be Peter's number 1 hater.

You've chosen to ignore the more obvious red flag being the 9 year age difference between both parties.

There's still no fact based evidence for tribe being the reason the family opposed their union...if you have any of such evidence it'd fare better.

Is that why he wore bathroom slippers to their wedding?

Lmao

Jamiuokolaa:
Is that why he wore bathroom slippers to their wedding?

Lmao

That's what Peter said in one of his videos. And there's a reason I said personal issues...he likely would have inherited Jude's hatred for Peter and his spouse (just not at Jude's level).

Peter has a soft spot for Paul, that's why he's always eager to excuse his misbehaviors.

Lagos restaurants should fear God nau! Wetin be this 😲

Theflint1:
She was more a big aunty to them if we're being real... she's senior to Jude with 2 years.

They knew Lola as a big Aunty that was helping their craft, at some point Peter begin chop her work and the brothers probably knew, but taking it to the point of wanting to marry her would have been another thing altogether, regardless of how long they'd known her.

The common issues stemming from higher age differences for women is usually about fertility and respect.

So far, Lola has never had any drama. Lola sef born for am....

You can sell me the World Trade Centre for 2,000 naira if I believe the fight was just about age. Nigerian families have more issues with tribe than age...

Well, only Lola fit tell us the truth. Fortunately, she has shown a lot of maturity over the years.

PDPGuy:
Lagos restaurants should fear God nau! Wetin be this 😲

Those kind of restaurants might be for laundering.

Something to cook the books.

At the end of the day, you will see that they made $15,000 in sales

One of the uses of Social Media is to gaslight and manipulate people.

A lady (Real Warri Pikin) organized a show, and the address on the billboard was Warri. The indigenes told her to put the correct address, and even wrote to the Event centre to correct it, or risk a lawsuit

Madam cancelled her show and started making videos of how we are disunited, blah blah blah



People are really funny

What's the original address

izzou:
One of the uses of Social Media is to gaslight and manipulate people.

A lady (Real Warri Pikin) organized a show, and the address on the billboard was Warri. The indigenes told her to put the correct address, and even wrote to the Event centre to correct it, or risk a lawsuit

Madam cancelled her show and started making videos of how we are disunited, blah blah blah



People are really funny

? ??

rabazamba:
He chose peace just like you did when that old woman gave you a heavy knock on the Bus back then

izzou:
Those kind of restaurants might be for laundering.

Something to cook the books.

At the end of the day, you will see that they made $15,000 in sales

That’s the only explanation, as there is no way the likes of Davido, Dangote, Wizkid, Adenuga, Otedola etc dine in there every day

izzou:
The common issues stemming from higher age differences for women is usually about fertility and respect.

So far, Lola has never had any drama. Lola sef born for am....

You can sell me the World Trade Centre for 2,000 naira if I believe the fight was just about age. Nigerian families have more issues with tribe than age...

Well, only Lola fit tell us the truth. Fortunately, she has shown a lot of maturity over the years.

How many men are bringing women 9 years older than them as who they've chosen to settle down with?

When no be say e dey marry for paper, or for money.

Your son at the prime of his life brings home a woman 9 years his senior as who he wants to marry... father fit no too talk, but I don't see any mother that would agree to such without first putting up a fight.

KingTom:
What's the original address

She put Effurun, Warri.

They told her it is Effurun, Uvwie. Effurun is not under Warri Local government.

Na wetin cause wahala be that.

Theflint1:
How many men are bringing women 9 years older than them as who they've chosen to settle down with?

When no be say e dey marry for paper, or for money.

Your son at the prime of his life brings home a woman 9 years his senior as who he wants to marry... father fit no too talk, but I don't see any mother that would agree to such without first putting up a fight.

So who calls the child of a 9 year old older wife a "Basterrrd"?

I am not trying to force tribalism on the Okoyes', but these things exist. It is a big issue amongst tribal marriages, and even. States.

Recently, Lagos State Domestic Agency arrested a father in-law for throwing the widow of his son out of their house and claimed all the properties....Yoruba to Yoruba oh.

It is a struggle to bring a different tribe to your family for marriage. Most Nigerian families struggle to entertain such proposals

Why is oshimen always aggressive and want to fight..

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Peter okoye called Igbo a useless language,he saw he was getting backlashed his next mobe was to bring back his family feud on net .

Personally I do give two bleeps about their issues,but seeing how Nigerians moved on from that statement he made ,me shake my head.

Our people are always looking for the trending to put their useless opinion instead of sticking to one agenda.

2027 is few months away , elections are coming, nobody is raising awareness the dangers of of electing tinubu again , everybody is looking for what is trending.

Then when election day reaches,they expect God to perform miracle overnight.

Ballzproblemm:
Peter okoye called Igbo a useless language,he saw he was getting backlashed his next mobe was to bring back his family feud on net .

Personally I do give two bleeps about their issues,but seeing how Nigerians moved on from that statement he made ,me shake my head.

Our people are always looking for the trending to put their useless opinion instead of sticking to one agenda.

2027 is few months away , elections are coming, nobody is raising awareness the dangers of of electing tinubu again , everybody is looking for what is trending.

Then when election day reaches,they expect God to perform miracle overnight.

The reason he brought his family feud up was his brother saw people piling on him, and he saw it as opportunity to sneak diss.

izzou:
So who calls the child of a 9 year old older wife a "Basterrrd"?

I am not trying to force tribalism on the Okoyes', but these things exist. It is a big issue amongst tribal marriages, and even. States.

Recently, Lagos State Domestic Agency arrested a father in-law for throwing the widow of his son out of their house and claimed all the properties....Yoruba to Yoruba oh.

It is a struggle to bring a different tribe to your family for marriage. Most Nigerian families struggle to entertain such proposals

Is tribalism the only reason you'd call a child "basterrd"?

I'm not saying tribe might not have factored in everything that played out, but there was a bigger red flag, being the almost predatory age gap between Peter and Lola for tribal difference to become the primary reason they'd be opposed to their union.

Very few Nigerian families would take sitting the thought of their son that's at the prime of his life settling for a Nigerian woman that's 9 years older than him.

It's like a bring a cripple/mute from a different tribe home, and my family opposes the wedding and you're saying their primary reason for opposing it was the tribal difference.

Theflint1:
Is tribalism the only reason you'd call a child "basterrd"?

I'm not saying tribe might not have factored in everything that played out, but there was a bigger red flag, being the almost predatory age gap between Peter and Lola for tribal difference to become the primary reason they'd be opposed to their union.

Very few Nigerian families would take sitting the thought of their son that's at the prime of his life settling for a Nigerian woman that's 9 years older than him.

It's like a bring a cripple/mute from a different tribe home, and my family opposes the wedding and you're saying their primary reason for opposing it was the tribal difference.

You point falls apart when you realize they dated for nearly 8 years before getting married. It's not like Peter just woke up one day and decided to settle with an older woman. They had a child in 2008, 5 years before tieing the knot. So he married the mother of his child and a long time partner that the family knows very well.

So why she come dey do videos everywhere rather than take correction, I thought it was tribalists trying to start another Owambe Owanbe issue na wa to am o

izzou:
She put Effurun, Warri.

They told her it is Effurun, Uvwie. Effurun is not under Warri Local government.

Na wetin cause wahala be that.

I lean towards the tribe difference too except they are other parts of the video I haven't yet seen. We Nigerians are very tribalistic.

World Trade Center for 2000? Izzou na fool

Amigoos1:
You point falls apart when you realize they dated for nearly 8 years before getting married. It's not like Peter just woke up one day and decided to settle with an older woman. They had a child in 2008, 5 years before tieing the knot. So he married the mother of his child and a long time partner that the family knows very well.

My point being?

Going by your time stamps, the incidences Peter referenced would have happened 3/4 years into knowing her.

She was known to the family as a madam/destiny helper, and not someone Peter was having a relationship with to end in marriage.

This is Peter narrating how his relationship with Lola Okoye started.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fuK0A-VIB-Q?si=4uSkauwun6zK_DKV

You'd see how he keeps referring to her as "that woman", showing the relationship dynamics as at when they first knew her.

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Theflint1:
Is tribalism the only reason you'd call a child "basterrd"?

I'm not saying tribe might not have factored in everything that played out, but there was a bigger red flag, being the almost predatory age gap between Peter and Lola for tribal difference to become the primary reason they'd be opposed to their union.

Very few Nigerian families would take sitting the thought of their son that's at the prime of his life settling for a Nigerian woman that's 9 years older than him.

It's like a bring a cripple/mute from a different tribe home, and my family opposes the wedding and you're saying their primary reason for opposing it was the tribal difference.

Did he meet her overnight?

You're talking as if he just showed up one morning with Lola.

Between age and tribe, you think age is a bigger red flag in a Nigerian marriage? Age?

Ordinary different communities in the same state na potential red flag, talk more of a different tribe.

Well, let's agree to disagree. Lola might have saved her marriage with her silence, and I admire her for that