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Some people's mentality and way of reasoning is trash. I've been reading a lot of comments in this forum and I pity people that just want to do rubbish with ladies and put that as their goal.

That's why so many men end up with women they don't really love and have broken homes and children with broken spirits.

It starts with focusing on what is under a woman's skirt instead of finding a good partner.

Remember you have sisters and you'll give birth to daughters too. Be very careful because what goes around comes back many folds. Your sisters will be used and dumped and your daughters will be betrayed.

Most men are so focused on the short term that all they think about is laying with a woman.

I have seen men that hate their wives but are stuck because they now have a child with the woman

Please, before you lay with a woman, think about the implications.

I know what you're thinking - I'll be very careful, nothing will happen.

Sharp Guy. Think about the spiritual implications. You've been begging God to help you all your life but you choose to fool yourself with different women all in the name of counting scores.

That's foolishness, grow up.
Don't waste your youthful years being a fool. Build something tangible that you'll be proud of down the line

Look around you, many of the old men around you that have amounted to nothing even when they had good jobs when they were young did the same thing.

Even if you escape getting her pregnant or getting a deadly disease. Think about the spiritual implication.

Many of you are not moving forward in life because you can't keep your third leg in one place.

Stop all those rubbish, change and build a life your children will be proud of.

Peace

Fact. Someone can also get infection that might last A lifetime or becomes hard to treat. A word is enough for the wise.

J0HNNY:
Fact. Someone can also get infection that might last A lifetime or becomes hard to treat. A word is enough for the wise.

Exactly, that's why we need to keep creating awareness because most people are so focused on the wrong things until it's too late

Ade bo wa le. The very name that has a rhythm..

You see this life...

We are nothing,but biro in the hand of the creator



Daddy Showky coma gain..


Na that spiritual implementation make me leave big yash.

Big yansh dey get spiritual implications well well..

Thank you Mr Ade for the message of peace

Yes bro you're right. We are all in God's hands.
I'm very glad to hear that you've left it alone.
May God be with you and continue to help you. IJN

Life itself is centred on epicureanism. That is why a lot of good things that make life better and enjoyable are being discovered on daily basis.

From time immemorial, women have been sources of happiness, pleasure and companion of men. Sexx has been one aspect of man and woman companionship that ultimate all man's enjoyment on this world.

Every man works to build future with his woman while woman also get her body and manner in order to attract men to her. That is sole aim of creating male and female sexes - if not for fucckery; God won't man and woman separately and give them pleasure parts.

Why do you have eye, it is for sight. Will you have eye and deliberately decide to be blind, no. Likewise why man has pricck and woman has pussy. They re for pleasure. So therefore man and woman should fucck themselves as far as they desire, want or need it. The issue of moderation is applicable in every human endeavor, activity and action. Without moderation, such individual is mad.

Therefore dishing out this advice is like you re questioning God for creating man and woman and giving them pleasure parts. God does not make mistake.

Ade1bowale:
Some people's mentality and way of reasoning is trash. I've been reading a lot of comments in this forum and I pity people that just want to do rubbish with ladies and put that as their goal.

That's why so many men end up with women they don't really love and have broken homes and children with broken spirits.

It starts with focusing on what is under a woman's skirt instead of finding a good partner.

Remember you have sisters and you'll give birth to daughters too. Be very careful because what goes around comes back many folds. Your sisters will be used and dumped and your daughters will be betrayed.

Most men are so focused on the short term that all they think about is laying with a woman.

I have seen men that hate their wives but are stuck because they now have a child with the woman

Please, before you lay with a woman, think about the implications.

I know what you're thinking - I'll be very careful, nothing will happen.

Sharp Guy. Think about the spiritual implications. You've been begging God to help you all your life but you choose to fool yourself with different women all in the name of counting scores.

That's foolishness, grow up.
Don't waste your youthful years being a fool. Build something tangible that you'll be proud of down the line

Look around you, many of the old men around you that have amounted to nothing even when they had good jobs when they were young did the same thing.

Even if you escape getting her pregnant or getting a deadly disease. Think about the spiritual implication.

Many of you are not moving forward in life because you can't keep your third leg in one place.

Stop all those rubbish, change and build a life your children will be proud of.

Peace

this applies to women too
Let us learn to be responsible human beings

galantjoe:
Life itself is centred on epicureanism. That is why a lot of good things that make life better and enjoyable are being discovered on daily basis.

From time immemorial, women have been sources of happiness, pleasure and companion of men. Sexx has been one aspect of man and woman companionship that ultimate all man's enjoyment on this world.

Every man works to build future with his woman while woman also get her body and manner in order to attract men to her. That is sole aim of creating male and female sexes - if not for fucckery; God won't man and woman separately and give them pleasure parts.

Why do you have eye, it is for sight. Will you have eye and deliberately decide to be blind, no. Likewise why man has pricck and woman has pussy. They re for pleasure. So therefore man and woman should fucck themselves as far as they desire, want or need it. The issue of moderation is applicable in every human endeavor, activity and action. Without moderation, such individual is mad.

Therefore dishing out this advice is like you re questioning God for creating man and woman and giving them pleasure parts. God does not make mistake.

Your words reveal who you are. Just read your own post slowly and listen to yourself.

Can you tell your children or your younger ones this same thing?
Can you stand in from of your family and say this?
Or is it because we are on nairaland and you think no one can see your face?

You are contradicting yourself. You don't even know how to take a stand. You started with trash then you mentioned moderation and then you ended the whole thing with trash again.

Please before you comment, understand what is being said first. Don't just jump in and start commenting without reading to understand.

And remember, it's your life, do whatever you want to do with it. If you ruin it, it's not my business. Leave my advice to those who understand what I'm saying.

Chibuezem:
this applies to women too
Let us learn to be responsible human beings

Yes. It does.

If you're a woman reading this it applies to you too. Be very careful with your life.
Build up yourself and live a life you'll be proud of.

Don't let men use you like a toy. Be independent because most men rearly dump independent women.

Don't allow quick 20k or 30k ruin your life. Work hard to safeguard or future.

Just one mistake can give you a deadly disease that you'll battle with all your life or unwanted pregnancy that will lead to a child that you must take care of (distracting you from your own potential) or abortion that might take your life or leave you barren for the rest of your life.

Be wise, work hard, stick to one man and build together with him.

Peace

Sex wahala too much. Okay stay without woman soapy no go allow you rest.

Sex sex sex

You’re right. If a man can overcome infidelity, he will go far in life.

Sex looks fun, the whole attraction vibes and feeling desired feels funky, but its consequences comes later, and very destructive.

Next time when you have time, stroll to the hospital and see beautiful girls and guys with hiv, crying like kids, all because of reckless sex.

Some waste away their income due to sexual addictions, some even borrow to go fork, and pay up when salary enter. How are you different from a slave?

You might unknowingly go sleep with someone’s serious babe or wife (because she lied she is single), and pay with your life. Shit happens a lot man.

Young people always think life in their 20’s or 30’s is how life is going to be in their 40’s, 50’s and beyond. As time goes on, especially in your mid thirties upwards, life gradually becomes very lonely.

Your main man will ignore you if you live recklessly. The consequences of your past actions will begin to surface. You will see your spec that you know deep down you could have secured but now you can’t because you didn’t build yourself up.

That shit is painful. Pray you don’t experience it. Even the kind of girls that will reject you, will make you hate yourself. This life is bigger than women.

Watching Nigerian music will make you wonder if life is all about the 20’s, as if older people don’t exist anymore. Everything is woman. Sex, party etc. Allow wizkid and Davido make their money, it’s their job.

But if you allow that deceive you, and get carried away with their worldly sexually music, you go cry.

Nigerians brandish sex with all innuendos, yet they've it a lot. Part of the reasoning behind the surge in pant stealing and belief that women's body parts will generate wealth.

Sex is largely biological and rather than condemn it in its entirety, we should preach safe and consensual sex. Na una type dey make married woman deny her husband sex and when he complains, he's told to endure it or he secretly engages in soapy.

What is even interesting is that many have had enormous degree of sex during their times, but believe they are saints because they grew older. The generation who criticised their parents' own will be worse than their parents.