₦airaland Forum

Is it to marry a fair lady with no eduaction or skill.
That evil lady will borrow money without any one knowlege.
The family will spend the rest of their life paying for debt incur by her because of an evil woman .
The children will suffer from childhood trauma because of one person.
That money that would have been used to better the life of the family will be used to pay debt. .
Women should only give birth and should leave that family after giving birth.
They should not come close to their kids.

Stability is the one thing most men enjoy when they marry a good woman.

Currently,using myself as an example,my wife is the stability I have had in the last ten years plus of our marriage...she has not hesitated one bit.

2 heads are still better than one, particularly for those who cannot go it alone in this life. Marriage is good for those who need it. However, it is not for everyone.😒

Sirchiboy:
Is it to marry a fair lady with no eduaction or skill.
That evil lady will borrow money without any one knowlege.
The family will spend the rest of their life paying for debt incur by her because of an evil woman .
The children will suffer from childhood trauma because of one person.
That money that would have been used to better the life of the family will be used to pay debt. .
Women should only give birth and should leave that family after giving birth.
They should not come close to their kids.

Where is your biological mother now?

Companionship

Mindlog:
Where is your biological mother now?

We are not talking again.

Sirchiboy:
We are not talking again.

"The connection between unresolved childhood conflict with a mother (often called the "mother wound" and the development of misogyny or resentment toward women stems from a deep psychological blueprint. When a primary caregiver is critical, rejecting, or emotionally unavailable, a child's developing mind struggles to form a secure attachment. For boys and men, the unresolved frustration, pain, and unmet need for maternal approval can later externalize as generalized anger, distrust, or contempt for women as a group".

Sirchiboy:
Is it to marry a fair lady with no eduaction or skill.
That evil lady will borrow money without any one knowlege.
The family will spend the rest of their life paying for debt incur by her because of an evil woman .
The children will suffer from childhood trauma because of one person.
That money that would have been used to better the life of the family will be used to pay debt. .
Women should only give birth and should leave that family after giving birth.
They should not come close to their kids.

Oga, you have refused to get help for your childhood trauma. You need to find all ways possible to heal so that you can forge on with life. See you see 60 ooo.

When you finally clock 60 with no wife nor kids, na that time your body go tell you.

Keep deceiving yourself.


Continue on this path if you know that you will never desire marriage or go into one. After all, not everyone must marry but if you somehow are unsure, better give yourself brain and do better now cos your eyes go soon clear.

Having children.

My brother just marry the exact opposite of your mother and life will be beautiful for you and your immediate family.

Early death

It is easier to be wealthy when married, than as a single man. If you are blessed with a good partner, then life becomes enjoyable, purposeful and fulfilling.

If I want to have a restaurant for example, it’s easier for me and my wife do it together, than employing a total stranger than won’t have the best interest of the business at heart.

Me and my wife can easily manage my one room self contain, and share the rent, compare to only me paying it being single. Same with cooking together, doing laundry, building a house, planning life, etc.

People will also trust you when doing business with you, because marriage is not an institution for irresponsible people. I once gave someone a car to hustle uber, and how he ran his family was the sole reason why I gave it to him.

When he made statement like “let me discuss this with my wife, and seeing how he treats his family, and how his wife respected him, I knew he is a sure banker.

All these attack on marriage is unwarranted. Marriage is good if you marry a good person. It’s like having someone behind you, pushing you to go farther, how can that not be good ?

pansophist:
It is easier to be wealthy when married, than as a single man. If you are blessed with a good partner, then life becomes enjoyable, purposeful and fulfilling.

If I want to have a restaurant for example, it’s easier for me and my wife do it together, than employing a total stranger than won’t have the best interest of the business at heart.

Me and my wife can easily manage my one room self contain, and share the rent, compare to only me paying it being single. Same with cooking together, doing laundry, building a house, planning life, etc.

People will also trust you when doing business with you, because marriage is not an institution for irresponsible people. I once gave someone a car to hustle uber, and how he ran his family was the sole reason why I gave it to him.

When he made statement like “let me discuss this with my wife, and seeing how he treats his family, and how his wife respected him, I knew he is a sure banker.

All these attack on marriage is unwarranted. Marriage is good if you marry a good person. It’s like having someone behind you, pushing you to go farther, how can that not be good ?

Marriage is expensive now, especially when children come into the mix, marriage these 21st century can't be compared to marriage during the years before things have changed, economy has worsened, women are more liberal and promiscuous than ever

Stop rationalizing falsehood