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raumdeuter:
E be like say na Ikemefuna Okeke aka Von Batten dey whine you these days

Yes. E dey give your principal woto woto

raumdeuter:
Election time don reach

Obi don head over to church for campaign as usual

We declare Obi’s church campaign open in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Ghost. pic.twitter.com/6ypkatIAp9

— Pastor Who (@PastorMarvy) August 30, 2026

Well, if any church gives him their platform he will campaign on it.

My fear is that Tinubu will want to fake his own...

Spy360:
Well, if any church gives him their platform he will campaign on it.

My fear is that Tinubu will want to fake his own...

Why was he not visiting churches before election time, Now election don reach time to dey visit churches and eat from all almajiri places

airmark:
I saw your last post wishing me bad because of political differences and I wasn’t surprised as I knew since that you are an idiot and a wicked soul like most Obidients are. I ignored you as you are ignorant of my status and yiu acted true to type.

I can’t join you, listening and agreeing with senseless stuff from your mentor, associates and other mumu members.

Dont put my moniker in your post again. You mofo.

😂

Airmark, if Nigeria is OK, you wouldn't be a slaving in another man's land.

I am wishing you well bro.

My fight is to give you a sense of worth, so that even if you are outside, you will not feel inferior because your nation is a mess.

You cannot be slaving away to foreigners and still being supporting the same bad governance that took you there in the first place.

Spy360:
Yes. E dey give your principal woto woto

He don find mugu like you to believe am

raumdeuter:
Why was he not visiting churches before election time, Now election don reach time to dey visit churches and eat from all almajiri places

You're ignorant.

Obi visits churches regularly.

Even if he doesn't, there's nothing wrong taking his message to a gathering.

You didn't complain when 50 shieks endorsed Tinubu.

raumdeuter:
He don find mugu like you to believe am

So Tinubu is lying that releasing his files will cause him irreparable harm...

Spy360:
😂

Airmark, if Nigeria is OK, you wouldn't be a slaving in another man's land.

I am wishing you well bro.

My fight is to give you a sense of worth, so that even if you are outside, you will not feel inferior because your nation is a mess.

You cannot be slaving away to foreigners and still being supporting the same bad governance that took you there in the first place.

Like most Obidients, you are not just smart.

To you everyone abroad, even with 2nd passport is slaving. This must be one of those nonsense talks from your mentor and you must swallow it hook, line and sinker.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

https://www.nairaland.com/8739665/dowry-not-consent-sex-without

If they wanna bring this oyinbo nonsense here they better outlaw the payment of bride price and marriage list.
It's called bride "price" for a reason.

cr7lomo:
Nonsense talk....always wanna act like the white man...but white man no de pay bride price ....they should also say that wives have no right to spend the mans money without his permission or drive his carm..it should be treated as theft

madridguy:
Lagos will soon turn to UK or USA with useless laws.
This is part of laws that discourage marriage in western countries and turn men to gay since they're avoiding government wahala.

shortgun:
The man is just contradicting himself up and down.

"Responding to a question on whether a married woman can sue her husband for rape for having sex with her without consent, Martins explained that while Nigerian law does not recognise marital rape as rape in such circumstances, the Lagos State Criminal Law provides for the offence of sexual assault by penetration, which carries a maximum sentence of life imprisonment."

Any law enacted by a State which is inconsistent with, repugnant to or otherwise in conflict with any provision of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria shall, to the extent of such inconsistency, be void and of no legal effect. The Constitution remains the supreme law of the land and shall prevail over every conflicting State law including this one

Well said. 🤝🏼

Spy360:
You're ignorant.

Obi visits churches regularly.

Even if he doesn't, there's nothing wrong taking his message to a gathering.

You didn't complain when 50 shieks endorsed Tinubu.

When did you see Tinubu mount the pulpit of a church or mosque last?

Na Obi be the desperado wey declare religious war

Spy360:
So Tinubu is lying that releasing his files will cause him irreparable harm...

Lying. Tell the FBI or US court or Mr Ikemefuna Okeke to brng his evidence and get a conviction

TemporaryHansel:
Well said. 🤝🏼

Why will anyone want to have sex with a person who doesnt consent. If you believe the money spent means consent and he/she says No, then collect your mony back

airmark:
Like most Obidients, you are not just smart.

To you everyone abroad, even with 2nd passport is slaving. This must be one of those nonsense talks from your mentor and you must swallow it hook, line and sinker.

If you're not slaving then why were you crying because I wished you would be deported?

Would someone like Peter Obi cry about being deported?

Bros you're slaving ...

raumdeuter:
When did you see Tinubu mount the pulpit of a church or mosque last?

Na Obi be the desperado wey declare religious war

At least Obi use him leg go church for campaign. The bishop is well known.

Tinubu does not go to churches so he creates the bishops himself 😂 CRIMINAL

https://independent.ng/2023-tinubus-campaign-team-speaks-on-hiring-fake-bishops/

TemporaryHansel:
https://www.nairaland.com/8739665/dowry-not-consent-sex-without

If they wanna bring this oyinbo nonsense here they better outlaw the payment of bride price and marriage list.
It's called bride "price" for a reason.

So bride price means you can rape your wife? I guess it also means you can beat her as well after all you paid bride price. She's now your property and has no independence.

raumdeuter:
Why will anyone want to have sex with a person who doesnt consent. If you believe the money spent means consent and he/she says No, then collect your mony back

I thought I was weird as I was reading the comments there.

Your spouse said No (whether husband or wife), and you are willing to force them to knack....

No be animaa behavior be this?

Spy360:
If you're not slaving then why were you crying because I wished you would be deported?

Would someone like Peter Obi cry about being deported?

Bros you're slaving ...

You want him to be like Obi how?

Spy360:
At least Obi use him leg go church for campaign. The bishop is well known.

Tinubu does not go to churches so he creates the bishops himself 😂 CRIMINAL

https://independent.ng/2023-tinubus-campaign-team-speaks-on-hiring-fake-bishops/

Tinubu does not need to be going to church to instigate a religious war like Obi

Obi went from church to churc, ate with almajiris and still lost the election

izzou:
I thought I was weird as I was reading the comments there.

Your spouse said No (whether husband or wife), and you are willing to force them to knack....

No be animaa behavior be this?

They call it maintenance sex (in marriage). So it is not seen as force or rape.

Still very cringeworthy and strange to me no matter how it is explained.

raumdeuter:
Why will anyone want to have sex with a person who doesnt consent. If you believe the money spent means consent and he/she says No, then collect your mony back

I co-ask o.

I always wonder how do rapists even get erection in the first place? How do you they manage to have an erection and keep it when their victim obviously doesn't want them nor consent to the sexual intercourse?

You want to have sexxx with a lady and she obviously doesn't want to.....how do u even manage to keep erection and force urself on such lady be it Ur spouse or some random lady?

I feel people who have non-conensual sex are definitely 4cked up in the head Sha

which one be maintenance sex again...


God ahbeg

pocohantas:
They call it maintenance sex (in marriage). So it is not seen as force or rape.

Still very cringeworthy and strange to me no matter how it is explained.

reccy:
which one be maintenance sex again...


God ahbeg

maintenance sex probably means the man/woman was not thinking about having sex but when the other partner asked, he/she agreed probably grudgingly but not forced

Just like girls that get paid for sex, its not that they wanted to have sex but just doing it as a job out of obligation

raumdeuter:
What about Nigerians in Nigeria. What is their disposition to all of these cos na dem matter pass in all of these

Make dem change their mentality sha

raumdeuter:
maintenance sex probably means the man/woman was not thinking about having sex but when the other partner asked, he/she agreed probably grudgingly but not forced

Just like girls that get paid for sex, its not that they wanted to have sex but just doing it as a job out of obligation

😂😂😂😂😂😂

raumdeuter:
maintenance sex probably means the man/woman was not thinking about having sex but when the other partner asked, he/she agreed probably grudgingly but not forced

Just like girls that get paid for sex, its not that they wanted to have sex but just doing it as a job out of obligation

When they say "just lie down let your husband do". The difference is like 6 and half dozen. I cannot wrap my head around how any man finds that pleasurable or normal.

PDPGuy:
Make dem change their mentality sha

What about Nigerians in Nigeria mentality should they change?

pocohantas:
When they say "just lie down let your husband do". The difference is like 6 and half dozen. I cannot wrap my head around how any man finds that pleasurable or normal.

Hope say this conversation wont go beyond PG level

There are some partners who have a higher libido an want this frequently while some do not. In the days of old, polygamy solved some of this but these days when polygamy is not common (Though I am still trying to get gloriousgbola and iamoyindamola to change mind)

Then it might be an issue

There was a guy, Churchy person who started having issues with his wife and talking seriously about divorce, I was like egbon how now. Na you we dey use as example pf good family

When he started talking about the things he don see especially sexually, say in a year na by luck dem dey nack 4 time. Sometimes the wife will be like buy this and this for me to get lucky, take me to this and that vacation. After dem reach or he does, she will say "She is not ready yet"

Sometimes the wife go tell am to go soapy or get a shower, or even blatantly say go help yourself outside

This guy no be like izzou wey get plenty GF and fit call anyone of them up

When the guy talk finish me sef wan begin vex, Later the wife come dey call am say make he just come collect "maintenance sex" and he say he no do again

pocohantas:
When they say "just lie down let your husband do". The difference is like 6 and half dozen. I cannot wrap my head around how any man finds that pleasurable or normal.

In a marriage, what are the options. Collect/Give that maintenance, Go without or go find someone that will be willing. If the husband is a good man, There might be others out there who might be willing to put out more

Its a running joke in the west that married people get less sex than single. Even comedians say it that the fastest way to get less sex is to be married. When you go out with some of your American colleagues guys on happy hour when they are tipsy, they say all sort of stuff from how sexless the marriage is, how they only get certain type of sex on their birthdays or when they do certain things.

Many of these guys might have been safe options whom the women were not really attracted to physically but they check a lot of boxes, they have stable careers, financially stable, they are not so flirtatious. Even in Naija we had effiko mates, the moment they got the oil company job, they went for the baddie that were out of their leagues in school

raumdeuter:
Hope say this conversation wont go beyond PG level

There are some partners who have a higher libido an want this frequently while some do not. In the days of old, polygamy solved some of this but these days when polygamy is not common (Though I am still trying to get gloriousgbola and iamoyindamola to change mind)

Then it might be an issue

There was a guy, Churchy person who started having issues with his wife and talking seriously about divorce, I was like egbon how now. Na you we dey use as example pf good family

When he started talking about the things he don see especially sexually, say in a year na by luck dem dey nack 4 time. Sometimes the wife will be like buy this and this for me to get lucky, take me to this and that vacation. After dem reach or he does, she will say "She is not there yet"

Sometimes the wife go tell am to go soapy or get a shower, or even blatantly say go help yourself outside

This guy no be like izzou wey get plenty GF and fit call anyone of them up

When the guy talk finish me sef wan begin vex, Later the wife come dey call am say make he just come collect "maintenance sex" and he say he no do again

I know many people like this egbon that haven't gotten sex from their wives in over five years.
There was even one that said his wife hasn't serviced him for over a decade. And they are in the same house oh not like they separated.

raumdeuter:
Hope say this conversation wont go beyond PG level

There are some partners who have a higher libido an want this frequently while some do not. In the days of old, polygamy solved some of this but these days when polygamy is not common (Though I am still trying to get glorious.gbola and iamoyin.damola to change mind)

Then it might be an issue

There was a guy, Churchy person who started having issues with his wife and talking seriously about divorce, I was like egbon how now. Na you we dey use as example pf good family

When he started talking about the things he don see especially sexually, say in a year na by luck dem dey nack 4 time. Sometimes the wife will be like buy this and this for me to get lucky, take me to this and that vacation. After dem reach or he does, she will say "She is not there yet"

Sometimes the wife go tell am to go soapy or get a shower, or even blatantly say go help yourself outside

This guy no be like izzou wey get plenty GF and fit call anyone of them up

When the guy talk finish me sef wan begin vex, Later the wife come dey call am say make he just come collect "maintenance sex" and he say he no do again

If he chooses to get an assistant for his wife. That is his/their choice. A lot of Nigerian women are sexually rigid or just not attracted to their husbands enough to desire him on a steady basis. I have seen some claim they haven't had sex in their marriages for 6months to 1year and they (including their darling husbands) are fine. They said "we singles" would understandd when we marry. I sha know they are lying to themselves. Anything to avoid the elephant in the room. That is how Naija couples act until divorce comes out of nowhere.

My own is women with low libido, non-performing or busy husbands should get same grace. As long as it is a level playing field, I am in. Na that kind settings I dey like sef.