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Willie2015:
Nothing wrong with it.
I have a deal with my elder brother
He supplied the capital.. I run the business in Naija
We shared profit 50 - 50
He is the owner of the capital ....
D only difference is that there is no written agreement....
Cos we are close...
8 yrs running with no issues....

There's a difference, yours is partnership and the fake story is employee-employer relationship.

Itiswell234:
I would also do same. Some people would only make u buy things like that or invest in a business they know it's not going far. The younger brother did well.

That's why you can never travel abroad

DAramis:
He went too far. When it comes to family members (especially immediate ones), it is disgusting to monitize the help. It is either you are helping with no strings attached or you are not.

You are not serious if you are not ready to help your family members grow responsibly.😒😒

You don’t need him to remit anything to you as your blood brother, but like someone said, when you help, keep plenty receipts o, cause one day , a satiation may arise when you will need them.

motymop:
not bad, dont be entitled to people money

na the brother say make em born 5 kids wey he no fit take care of

he should not give the brother any money

a brand new keke cost around 3.9m naira that is about (2,172.83 pounds) that is a huge chuck of money especially savings)

most family members are entitled and wont follow through with the agreement

Be calming down and read story well before dishing out unnecessary essay

It's not an entitlement mentality because it was the said UK guy that offer to help him as a elder brother in the family, and I fail to see where help is in the whole story!!!

Helping your own brother is not supposed to be conditional Sir unless you’ve helped him many times before and he squandered the money..
in this case,use ur brain and see his 2 kids through school atleast to university level,gift him the keke as well if you are capable & hands off.
It would have been different if you are importing stuffs from the UK and he is the salesman.

I believe he wants the brother to be responsible and the money is the brother will be sending is still for him

That's no longer "help" ,they are in business.

Is he mad? Wtf to be remitting 100k weekly, naso dey are making money in Keke riding?. The brother seems derange..

Abeg abeg, 100k a week is too much. He should have asked questions before he decided to buy the said keke.

Is it the fuel wahala that nigeria is facing now or is it the agberos that have turned keke riders to oil industry.

Wait, police and their wahala nko? Abeg, I forget, abi na the state governors way dey look for the slightest reason to ban the total operations of keke riders all in the bid to introduce a mega city?

All these and you want a family man with 5 kids to survive remitting 100k a week. Kuku kee am now. AND YOU SAY HE IS YOUR BROTHER.

SHIOOOOOR!!!!

If I say that my something hurts, they will ban me. Isssorite

Sirchiboy:
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Cjay

are you guys disappointed ?

at least let him remite 30k weekly to your account. Pls never you give him the Keke for free, e get why. You can only understand why I said so if you're 35yrs up. Free hands never make a man

Slimplush:
Be calming down and read story well before dishing out unnecessary essay

It's not an entitlement mentality because it was the said UK guy that offer to help him as a elder brother in the family, and I fail to see where help is in the whole story!!!

so you think the uk just offered if they didnt ask him

if the brother was in nigeria, will they ask him??

lightwind:
Which Keke is 3.9 million ?

In Warri Delta State here brand new Keke is 5.5 million naira as of today... I don't know about other part's of Nigeria

that is 3,065.45 pounds, that is someone salary and savings in the uk

likely the usual click chasing

that said my opinion on this likely made up story -

I guess the man knows his brother is lazy and if no condition is attached to the keke he will wind up squandering the opportunity

and rest assured any money earned in obodo oyibo as a professional - you WORKED FOR IT and you don't want it wasted by those you send it to.i doubt the 100k remittance means anything when converted

Most of you know nothing about life.

If e reach your turn, fling away all legal proceedings because you want to help your brother.

If the brother is not ready to sign the documents, he should forget.

See, when helping people especially your immediate families/relatives, you have to employ all strategies to make them committed to helping themselves.

If you do not do this, they'll waywardly spend the money and still blame you for their predicament. They'll say you want to give them compromised money(ndị ọgwụ ego) to start a business.

You never see anything.

This is the reason why people refuse helping others.

Which kind useless help be that

At least as a brother he should make it flexible even if he wants a payback, he should consider his brothers family n responsibility too

20k per week is cool

I will NEVER do this to my blood.

It is right for slave to escape, it is also right for slave owner for find the run away slave. either way you're right to spend your money the way it pleases you. However turn it around what do you think thean in question will do if tables around. Satisfy your conscience and ignore others dogma. Bye

Bunky:
at least let him remite 30k weekly to your account. Pls never you give him the Keke for free, e get why. You can only understand why I said so if you're 35yrs up. Free hands never make a man

30k weekly is too small. 50-70k is fair and just.

Why was his brother having 5 kids, he clearly cannot financiallly cater for..........

If you buy the keke, just write the total cost off..... You might only receive your payout for only a few months........ 😂😜

The question now is remit 100K weekly for how long?
Is it on a hire purchase agreement or just rentage?

This story is not complete

On a norms if he buy that Keke for his elder brother for free without asking anything in return. The brother may not handle it well or serious with the business. But the weekly pay demanded by the UK brother is much.
If the standard weekly payment outside is #100k, give it to your brother for #50k. With that he'll be serious knowing he'll be remitting something back and also know that you have helped him by using the other half of the payment to take care of his family.
Let's not forget the elder brother will still be maintaining the Keke.
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Then on another thought, if the UK brother really want to help his elder brother. Why not buy the Keke for him for free with a written agreement that he'll never bother him for financial assistance in the near future. Except it concerns their parents if they're still alive.

He should help his brother if he wants to help. He should buy the Keke and gift it out to his brother but with the clause that the brother should not bring any money matter to him any longer.

DAramis:
He went too far. When it comes to family members (especially immediate ones), it is disgusting to monitize the help.

It is either you are helping with no strings attached or you are not.

it gonna be hard to get rich with this mind set. He should give him the Keke free without accountability, abi ? So the same brother will come back few years with another story of can you borrow me

100k weekly that's SLAVERY.The UK man is a THIEF

gracias124:
if getting 2300 pounds in the UK is hard as getting 4million in Nigeria then I will never japa

Don't mind him.
The UK guy is just stingy.
I bought a mini bus for my uncle due to my mum's pressure to help him.
He has 6 children, no reasonable job or source of income.
I didn't ask him to give me a dime or remit anything to me.
My uncle couldn't manage the bus.
He ended up selling it at a loss.
Since then, I became vindicated and he no longer bothers me for money.

Tell yo guy to kip his money there..If he can't help his own BLOOD,he should FREE his bro

Sirchiboy:
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Cjay

are you guys disappointed ?

Bunky:
it gonna be hard to get rich with this mind set. He should give him the Keke free without accountability, abi ? So the same brother will come back few years with another story of can you borrow me

it is u who don't understand how money works


If he buys for his brother n collects 100k weekly, in the long run it will cause feud within the family if the brother defaults for long.

On the other hand, if he doesn't buy it n his brother or his brothers children needs an emergency he will still be d one to foot d bills.

If I were to b d UK guy, I will tell my brother I took a loan for him to buy d Keke n it will take me 3 years to pay back the loan.

Then I will give it to him for free with agreement from every member of the family that I won't collect a dime back from him n he shouldn't bother me with anything again.

On that note u have killed 2 birds with one stone, empower the brother n also save yourself from constant calling for billing

Which kain younger brother be this ?

Bunky:
it gonna be hard to get rich with this mind set. He should give him the Keke free without accountability, abi ? So the same brother will come back few years with another story of can you borrow me

That is your problem because you assume everyone out there is interested in being rich. Have it for once cross your mind that, there are lots of Nigerians whose aspirations is just to be comfortable? (lower/ higher middle class).

If you can cover the 3 basic needs of man, plus ability to have little mobility for movement around especially in emergency situations, it is more than enough.

amancalledgodd:
Tag me anywhere this kind story dey always annoy me.

Very annoying