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pocohantas:
This their work doesn't stop them from having time to cheat, watching football or drinking beer. The only time it is a hindrance is being present parents or guardians to the minors in their household.

So you mean husbands should be monitoring the mothers of their children to know if they are abusing them?
Nice logic

spiceadole:
I believe he was very much aware .. but as usual, turned blind eyes as they also do when their wives physically abuse/assault underaged house helps.

They use "going out early for business and returning home late" as excuse as not to know what's going on in their homes, as if they are the only people who leave home early and return late.

Husband and wife were together in this as they expected to make money from it..
The extent these guys can go for money.

Underrate them at your peril

It seems you know more than the wife who claimed it was AI instead of confessing that her husband is part of it
In sure if it was the man doing this none of the hypocrites will say the wife was aware
You'll even paint the wife as a victim
Go and watch the video and stopping using your gender bias to judge the man. Even the wife confessed that he didn't know about her evil acts

Parachoko:
After his friend told him what his wife was doing, why didn't he talk to the children about the issue or take them for checkup?

He only confronted his wife, after she told him is not true, he just lockup like that

Chai!!

You're right on that
He made a mistake there but it doesn't make him an accomplice
We're talking about the mother of the children here
If children are no longer safe with their mothers who can they be safe with pls?

Kukutente23:
You're right on that
He made a mistake there but it doesn't make him an accomplice
We're talking about the mother of the children here
If children are no longer safe with their mothers who can they be safe with pls?

Yes

He's not an accomplice but if nah person like me, I no go fit sleep till I take the kids for a checkup

A virginity test will show if the girl was penetrated or not

Parachoko:
Yes

He's not an accomplice but if nah person like me, I no go fit sleep till I take the kids for a checkup

A virginity test will show if the girl was penetrated or not

You seem to have trust issues even in personal relationships
It's amazing though that you don't seem to have such issues when it comes to your support for selfish politicians
If you watched the video you'll know that it was in less than 24hrs of the matter coming to his knowledge that the police arrested his wife
So in what time frame could he have had to take the kids for a virginity test

Kukutente23:
So you mean husbands should be monitoring the mothers of their children to know if they are abusing them?
Nice logic

Post: The same way you create time for extracurricular activities and women, create time for your home/kids.

Nairaland male: You mean the man should be monitoring the kids to know if their mother is abusing them?

This kinda thinking is not random and I am quire curious at how involved some of your fathers were, even though the questions answers itself.

pocohantas:
Post: The same way you create time for extracurricular activities and women, create time for your home/kids.

Nairaland male: You mean the man should be monitoring the kids to know if their mother is abusing them?

This kinda thinking is not random and I am quire curious at how involved some of your fathers were, even though the questions answers itself.

It's a simple question. Don't deflect

Are you saying men should no longer trust their kids with their mothers?

Because there's no nexus between a man's relationship with his kids and how the mother chooses to treat/maltreat her own children

Kukutente23:
It's a simple question. Don't deflect

Are you saying men should no longer trust their kids with their mothers?

Because there's no nexus between a man's relationship with his kids and how the mother chooses to treat/maltreat her own children

There is nothing simple about the question as no part of my post inferred such.

Like I said, the question answers itself.

greatermax77:
They can't know all that's happening in their homes unless they person becomes suspicious and install CCTV.
Many women are weapons fashioned against their husbands. Pray never to marry a Jezebel, She will always conduct herself in lovely manners when the husband is around but turns to demon immediately the man leaves

Facts

pocohantas:
There is nothing simple about the question as no part of my post inferred such.

Like I said, the question answers itself.

The question is why you choose to be diversionary

No reasonable human being can hold a father responsible for a mother's action on her children

No one can claim a more natural connection to any child than the mother. She carried the child in her body for 9 months. If she can't value what came of her own body enough to not do her harm, no one should be held responsible for such madness than her very self

Beatdown abuse dey o
I no a big woman then
Who will just sit down on her son chest all in d name of discipline 😭
Me go run away
Come dey feel for d boy

Parent need to check on their children

Kukutente23:
The question is why you choose to be diversionary

No reasonable human being can hold a father responsible for a mother's action on her children

No one can claim a more natural connection to any child than the mother. She carried the child in her body for 9 months. If she can't value what came of her own body enough to not do her harm, no one should be held responsible for such madness than her very self

I didn't read all that. If and when you have kids, please do whatever you wish. Bye.

pocohantas:
I didn't read all that. If and when you have kids, please do whatever you wish. Bye.

Women need to start to learn to take responsibility for some things

You can't accuse a man of not providing for his family and still accuse him of trusting his wife too much with her kids

Men are not robots. Don't put the blame on us

cr7lomo:
U are the one saying nonsense... I'm sure u aren't married and never hv been

Very funny.

12345baba:
it's u that's not making sense Mr Daddy's day out. U have the orientation to that do u think that's everybody that has that. U feel ur wise and everybody should adopt ur style even if it's the best. Basically when u leave home , it's expected ur kids with there mum is the best possible place they can be until proven otherwise. U can even ask and they tell u fine because the mum must have threatened them. U think life straight like that
Mr ITK

I doubt you are married. Because from my experience what we are discussing is not knew to me. Certain things my wife tried to hide I latter found out from the children and I challenged her over it. When you have your children bond with them. This is not a rocket science. Except you are a visiting fatherr who had failed to bond with his children

stormborn28:
I doubt you are married. Because from my experience what we are discussing is not knew to me. Certain things my wife tried to hide I latter found out from the children and I challenged her over it. When you have your children bond with them. This is not a rocket science. Except you are a visiting fatherr who had failed to bond with his children

look at what ur saying, what if by the time u found out it's too late, something might have gone wrong besides that am trying u to make u understand that the way u bond with ur kids because of ur orientation and probably level of education is not the same u expect an average or secondary school drop out that is into one business to also know how to bond and be friendly with his kids, the societal orientation are different. Everybody grew in a diff background. The man in question might be an illiterate that knows next to nothing about raising kids all he might know and understand is putting food on the table and go off to his business. U b island?

That one with its twenty accounts will come to rope the man into the matter. If people followed its logic, whole villages would be sent to prison due to one person’s crime.

stormborn28:
I doubt you are married. Because from my experience what we are discussing is not knew to me. Certain things my wife tried to hide I latter found out from the children and I challenged her over it. When you have your children bond with them. This is not a rocket science. Except you are a visiting fatherr who had failed to bond with his children

there are non chalant men and women everywhere.

I read the comments from 1st page , and it's appalling some people were blaming the man, Smh . Hustles are different , and if you look at it well , it seems this hippo is a full housewife . Firstly , most kids are so attached to their mothers , and anything the woman tells them , that's final which brings in brainwashing and threat . Secondly , this is the first time in my life I'm seeing something like this . It might be happening , but I have never seen or heard it . We do hear husbands abusing daughters but not wives , so it was unheard of the man questioning their daughters if they were abused or not while he was away . The only fault of the man was that when his friend showed him the video , AI or not , his wife teeth suppose reach like 4 for ground .. crazy things are happening 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

BeardedMeat:
He never let the matter slide. He was still processing the incident when police showed up.

My brother, there are things you'd see and be stunned and confused and weak at the time that you won't even know what to do. Your vision will first become blurry.

People are wired differently. While some men's first reaction would be to immediately beat the woman to death, some would react by isolating themselves to process what they just witnessed.

For a woman that can do this, you must know she's a jezebel, an unrepentant witch who probably is the master of the house.

Errh. If it was a video of 3 men knacking her in their matrimonial bed will he believe it's AI. The way he will behave and the action he will take will be far different from what he said here.

women doing wonders everyday. fear;

ibtommy:
He might not know o. My biggest fear is the long-lasting effects of these demonic abuses on this innocent souls. She has groomed them for a very dark future. May those children find authentic healing.

They should check that woman if she is mentally stable. How would one go to that extent? She is a demon! What hss the world turned into? She has poisoned millions of innocent souls who before now, didn't even have the slightest idea if those demonic gadgets ever existed, let alone trying them on minors for that matter!
May she rot in hell!

That woman has wrecked that young girl, except the Dad steps in properly to take charge.