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Exceed15:
Marriage is a choice not a need. It is full of pains. The girl you are planning to marry now will show u pepper. I warned u.

Words on Marble

omooba969:
Y'all are the same, materialistic, uncooperative and unsupportive.

Y'all are the same as well, Narcissistic, ego - centric and mad control freaks..

Egbewa gbon

Kobojunkie:
1. When you both married, did you have an agreement that required the woman to contribute to the financial burden in the marriage?

2. In the case that the marriage contract between the man and woman was entered into in the typical woman-submits-to-man, aka traditional marriage model, then it is technically unmanly or wrong for the man to require the same woman now to turn around and take over part of his manly role of being the sole provider in the marriage. 😒😒

3. You never asked her before, probably because the agreement between you two was that you would be the sole financial provider in the marriage? If that is the case, then you may want to consider renegotiating your marriage contract or something, meaning you will need to take on some of her roles in the marriage as well. 😒😒

You are saying he married a stupid woman, who cannot see the situation on ground and adjust accordingly. May God not allow us to marry a stupid woman.

MissOpe:
Y'all are the same as well, Narcissistic, ego - centric and mad control freaks..

Egbewa gbon

Lol 😆, try dey calm down ok, no be fight.

tnerro1:
➜You are saying he married a stupid woman, who cannot see the situation on ground and adjust accordingly.
➜ May God not allow us to marry a stupid woman.

1. Wrong! Nothing stewpid about a woman honoring the letter of the agreement she made in marriage with her man. 😒😒

2. Instead, ask this deity of yours to help you not take lightly the importance of the agreement that is your marriage contract. 😒😒

Hian! You have 4 kids in this economy and even chose to have them with an irresponsible woman! Una go dey alright! All those yeye man solely responsible for financial care na wash.

Just move out of the house and let her be pursuing you for your contribution. After that, una go discuss how dey go go dey go.

omooba969:
Lol 😆, try dey calm down ok, no be fight.

Ohhh Oh, I don calmmmm

But Na Aura for Aura era I dey like this ...what you give is what you get ..

Kobojunkie:
1. When you both married, did you have an agreement that required the woman to contribute to the financial burden in the marriage?

2. In the case that the marriage contract between the man and woman was entered into in the typical woman-submits-to-man, aka traditional marriage model, then it is technically unmanly or wrong for the man to require the same woman now to turn around and take over part of his manly role of being the sole provider in the marriage. 😒😒

3. You never asked her before, probably because the agreement between you two was that you would be the sole financial provider in the marriage? If that is the case, then you may want to consider renegotiating your marriage contract or something, meaning you will need to take on some of her roles in the marriage as well. 😒😒

FshBRAYN

Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! Nothing stewpid about a woman honoring the letter of the agreement she made in marriage with her man. 😒😒

2. Instead, ask this deity of yours to help you not take lightly the importance of the agreement that is your marriage contract. 😒😒

If a woman cannot tell when her man is struggling and can’t step into help but is sending money back home instead, then may we never come across such woman. When the man dies from high BP, she will move herself and her children to another man to finish off.

tnerro1:
➜If a woman cannot tell when her man is struggling and can’t step into help but is sending money back home instead, then may we never come across such woman.
➜ When the man dies from high BP, she will move herself and her children to another man to finish off.

1. Here's a simple question. If the woman is in a master-subordinate marriage with the man -- traditional marriage formulae-- what incentive exists for her to do so? If she helped, would he pay her back for her contributions? Will he take over some of her responsibilities during that time? I saw, on another thread, folks railing against a woman for demanding her husband pay her back the cost of restocking the house which she did while he was struggling. Is that what she is to expect?😒😒

2. When women die, isn't it culturally acceptable for the man to move on almost immediately to his next mate, many a time abandoning the children to relatives? Why have a problem when a woman does pretty much the same?😒😒

Kobojunkie:
1. When you both married, did you have an agreement that required the woman to contribute to the financial burden in the marriage?

2. In the case that the marriage contract between the man and woman was entered into in the typical woman-submits-to-man, aka traditional marriage model, then it is technically unmanly or wrong for the man to require the same woman now to turn around and take over part of his manly role of being the sole provider in the marriage. 😒😒

3. You never asked her before, probably because the agreement between you two was that you would be the sole financial provider in the marriage? If that is the case, then you may want to consider renegotiating your marriage contract or something, meaning you will need to take on some of her roles in the marriage as well. 😒😒

Anytime I see comments from this username, it is always trash.

MissOpe:
Ohhh Oh, I don calmmmm

But Na Aura for Aura era I dey like this ...what you give is what you get ..

Really , when I don dey plan our wedding, na now I know say na fighter I wan marry.

I no want aura for aura under my roof, abeg.

nickxtra:
Some women are terribly greedy and selfish

How can a husband asks his wife show concern and drop something to support atleast a part of one of the children's school fees/text books and she is resisting?

The husband has been repsonsible for the school fees and wellbeing of the 4 kids, but in this first term, the school fees have increased and the need to get a little support from a wife is creating discord.

The Federal government job the wife is doing was offered to her through the husband(originally meant for him), while the husband rather opted to be in the street hustling and in school too.

To cushion the effect of transportation, the husband had years sold his Bolt business car to buy a tokunbo car for her, as means of getting to and from work. Now the woman is working and at the same time running a side business, using the car as a support.

Anytime issue of supporting the family comes up, she flares up, whereas she sends money to family back home often (which am not critical of).

Out of the 4 kids, the husband has told her to take up a partial responsibility for one of them who is in JSS 3, because the fee is high.

Is it unmanly or wrong for a husband to call a wife to show support for children's school fees(at most partial support for one out of 4 kids)?

Or is she resisting this because she is used to not supporting before now, as i have never called for her support in any way before now?

Her money is her money geng

lookinggood:
When they married was there agreement the husband would help her with a job and also sell his car to support her?

Hehehe. See where you hang ball.

NotOfThisWorld:
Your wife is supposed to be helping you take care of your kids financially, especially since she makes more money. What is she working and making money for if she cannot support you in taking care of the kids financially?

Probably building a mansion she’ll move to in the village when the man becomes too old to provide for the family, she’ll just relocate to her personal mansion as the lastest landlady in town

aycorporat:
Anytime I see comments from this username, it is always trash.

I always skip his comments and he seem to have a lot of energy to argue if you try to correct him

pigmania:
Women of these days are not fit for marriage. They lie, cheat, act very selfish and greedy. Any man wey carry karashika put for house, na him sabi, most of them are ungrateful. My girlfriend asked me last Friday evening what she was gaining from the relationship, but I sent her money that same day in the morning to purchase her cosmetics. If men go fit conquer konji, it is good for a man not to marry oo.

You have no business marrying a woman who can't by herself cosmetics, you are not supposed to be in charge of that, that's how they started

sisisioge:
Hian! You have 4 kids in this economy and even chose to have them with an irresponsible woman! Una go dey alright! All those yeye man solely responsible for financial care na wash.

Just move out of the house and let her be pursuing you for your contribution. After that, una go discuss how dey go go dey go.

I swear to God, sometimes I wonder what's wrong with our men...do your best and leave the rest...If I die today because I want take care of children, who will later take care of them if am gone

nickxtra:
Some women are terribly greedy and selfish

How can a husband asks his wife show concern and drop something to support atleast a part of one of the children's school fees/text books and she is resisting?

The husband has been repsonsible for the school fees and wellbeing of the 4 kids, but in this first term, the school fees have increased and the need to get a little support from a wife is creating discord.

The Federal government job the wife is doing was offered to her through the husband(originally meant for him), while the husband rather opted to be in the street hustling and in school too.

To cushion the effect of transportation, the husband had years sold his Bolt business car to buy a tokunbo car for her, as means of getting to and from work. Now the woman is working and at the same time running a side business, using the car as a support.

Anytime issue of supporting the family comes up, she flares up, whereas she sends money to family back home often (which am not critical of).

Out of the 4 kids, the husband has told her to take up a partial responsibility for one of them who is in JSS 3, because the fee is high.

Is it unmanly or wrong for a husband to call a wife to show support for children's school fees(at most partial support for one out of 4 kids)?

Or is she resisting this because she is used to not supporting before now, as i have never called for her support in any way before now?

Carry your cross ooo. All of us get our cross make i mind my own.

omooba969:
Really , when I don dey plan our wedding, na now I know say na fighter I wan marry.

I no want aura for aura under my roof, abeg.

I understand say na didinrin you want..
Abeg waka go front, pick me women plenty for there😂

Na the mumu man wey go put the hin wife first, now everywhere done dey blurry.

Work that is meant for you, you gave it to your wife.

Dump ass.

Omo 4kids plenty o

puremaker7:
You have no business marrying a woman who can't by herself cosmetics, you are not supposed to be in charge of that, that's how they started

She still lives with her parents o, 22 years old, I give her money to make her hair too. But she gives me access to her body and it's the tightest I've ever had. Wetin man go do?

I wasn't talking to you. Good luck with your type of mindset

MissOpe:
Hahahahhahaahaa, take charge of her finances wey na she do the work...

Even a didinrin won't allow that, she will rather leave your sorry as

wazklin:
I wasn't talking to you. Good luck with your type of mindset

This is a public forum, if you wan talk to person personally, enter their D.M

Advocate awon didinrin association
Control sadistic freak...

Why working if you can't use some of the money you are making to support your family?
Na this kind people go dey build house outside and the husband no go know.

nickxtra:
Some women are terribly greedy and selfish

How can a husband asks his wife show concern and drop something to support atleast a part of one of the children's school fees/text books and she is resisting?

The husband has been repsonsible for the school fees and wellbeing of the 4 kids, but in this first term, the school fees have increased and the need to get a little support from a wife is creating discord.

The Federal government job the wife is doing was offered to her through the husband(originally meant for him), while the husband rather opted to be in the street hustling and in school too.

To cushion the effect of transportation, the husband had years sold his Bolt business car to buy a tokunbo car for her, as means of getting to and from work. Now the woman is working and at the same time running a side business, using the car as a support.

Anytime issue of supporting the family comes up, she flares up, whereas she sends money to family back home often (which am not critical of).

Out of the 4 kids, the husband has told her to take up a partial responsibility for one of them who is in JSS 3, because the fee is high.

Is it unmanly or wrong for a husband to call a wife to show support for children's school fees(at most partial support for one out of 4 kids)?

Or is she resisting this because she is used to not supporting before now, as i have never called for her support in any way before now?

There’s nothing wrong with helping your husband, they are your children too. Anyway, let’s hear from the woman’s side