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FULL INTERVIEW: “This Whole Thing Started With Infidelity On Her Own Part. But I Felt That When We Leave Nigeria To Canada, Things Would Be Better. I Even Paid Two Years Rent In Advance In Canada, But I Didn’t Know She Was Planning To Take My Children Away From Me. I’m Still… https://t.co/zeVDy3N694 pic.twitter.com/LvMyqZQC1d

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) October 4, 2026

muhmeen:
➜Ushie shared his story in a video, explaining how his wife and kids moved to Canada on permanent residency while he stayed behind for a bank audit. She then cut off contact, kept their address secret, and stopped the children from reaching him, turning him homeless after city demolitions. He remains open to reconciliation and may contact Canadian authorities. The clip has prompted shared views on trust, marriage strains, and immigration risks.

galantjoe:
You sent your unfaithful wife with her children to Canada and paid for 2years rent.

Your simping has no remedy

Oga no need for reconciliation. Move on, rebuild your life, your only hope is your children to look for you when they're of age.

Also know one one door is closed another door opens and beautiful one has not yet born

Don't let this affect your sense of reasoning or psyche. Be focus and your skill to start life again.

Caaz:
Let's hear her own side of the story....no curry pity to give.
The 3 sides to every story.
The truth
The lies
The people involved.


Baba said he's opened to RECONCILIATION.

You want to reconcile with someone that has moved on and checked out years ago.



Uwa diegwu

dominique:
You see that 2 years rent part, that's just one of the many lies he told in his sob story. Rent is paid monthly in Canada and average rent for a very modest apartment in Canada is $1000cad. The way their rent structure is, you can pay your rent for a few months upfront but a whole 2 years? I don't think any agency will accept that from anybody.

If he can be lying about 2 years rent, I wonder what else hesying about

dominique:
You see that 2 years rent part, that's just one of the many lies he told in his sob story. Rent is paid monthly in Canada and average rent for a very modest apartment in Canada is $1000cad. The way their rent structure is, you can pay your rent for a few months upfront but a whole 2 years? I don't think any agency will accept that from anybody.

If he can be lying about 2 years rent, I wonder what else hesying about

kimjessey2019:
I got married with the hope to relocate with my wife to Canada but I did not tell her. When we were planning our traditional marriage she betrayed me that even till date I don't trust her again. Her people gave me a crazy marriage list and I had plenty fall out with them which I later discover that it was her who was telling them how to extort me and etc. How did I found out? Her phone would auto record every call and one day she went to salon and left her phone at home so I used it to make call and I wanted to delete the record and that's how I listen some of her calls with her mother. Long and short of this gist is I knew that even though she is calm, respectful and supportive but having a woman who listen to her people and tell them everything in her home will be a disaster if you take her abroad. Till date she still do not know why I left her in Nigeria. My point is the sign will always be there but some men will just hope there own will be different.

kimjessey2019:
I got married with the hope to relocate with my wife to Canada but I did not tell her. When we were planning our traditional marriage she betrayed me that even till date I don't trust her again. Her people gave me a crazy marriage list and I had plenty fall out with them which I later discover that it was her who was telling them how to extort me and etc. How did I found out? Her phone would auto record every call and one day she went to salon and left her phone at home so I used it to make call and I wanted to delete the record and that's how I listen some of her calls with her mother. Long and short of this gist is I knew that even though she is calm, respectful and supportive but having a woman who listen to her people and tell them everything in her home will be a disaster if you take her abroad. Till date she still do not know why I left her in Nigeria. My point is the sign will always be there but some men will just hope there own will be different.

Eba50:
My former landlord, a man in mid fifties, say e no dey hear pim from woman, but can tolerate nonsense from mam cos all his money, na fellow mam give am and if he dies premature death, his wife will only pretend to cry. After a week, wailing go stop. All his 2 duplexes, 2 upstairs, and his 4 extra booming fillonh stations will be taken and bank account, by his wife to flex and she becomes Kong of his empire he built when she never see am.he don divorce 2 women. He's with his 3rd one. A young baba of 27. I no blame am

nairalanda1:
That your landlord has poor taste in women.

Also, problems are going to start when he gets old.

chinchum:
Story is not adding up; sadly

nairalanda1:
You married a woman that betrayed you?

Okay.

Some of you never hear the proverb better a broken relationship than a broken marriage?

kimjessey2019:
Lol. You must be a kid or unmarried.