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Sonnobax15:

Avoid women like a plague.

It took me two years to balance a higher purchase Keke which I could have balanced within a period of 14 months simply because I placed a woman above my personal growth

I'm talking about 2022-2023 . But thank God I didn't lose my life ,if not, I'd have been in hell by now crying Had-i-know

Stanna2025:
Stay away from any sports gaming and gambling, no one ever gets rich from it. The mental trauma is not worth the risk

Antoeni:
If You Are Married, Don't Bother Getting Married, Creat One Single Mother And Leave,

Guys After Years of Her Sleeping With Multiple Men ,She is Now Look For a Nice Guy, A Nice Guy Who Can Ignore Her Past And Treat Her Like a Princess, Please Brother For Own Mental Health Do Not Be That Nice She is Looking For, You Do Not Deserve That .

Kotec123:
Never engage in anything gambling,gamble ruined my 20s,say no to get rich quick,Richie's will come as a result of consistent hard work and smart work.

Fiscus105:
In ur 17 - 25, both boys and girls. Make sure you lay your hands in whatever that would be bringing income to you legitimately.

Before you reach 35, "if God his in your side", many customers would have identified you with such job/business and the income from that business/job, would have grown up to a level,in which, it would be able to carry you, wife and expected kids going forward.

Unfortunately, this is stage in which, they normally leave larger than life, "believing future is very beautiful and great", even when it's opposite.
When they finally out from that stage of life, to start becomes difficult, to go forward not possible, hence stagnancy for the rest of life.

Check around today, many are unable to put wife at home, and for women who thought, one day, men will start carrying their burdens for them, they are lamenting in that men's houses, because, nobody can take care of yourself like you and only you.

AlabiKILLER2023:
Mrbanks

Is an example

chudez0147:
Travel out of the country as soon as you can.

Rapmoney:
Mine:

1. Never allow anybody use you to provide subsidy for their business. Payment of salaries is part of the operational cost of a business. If you are not sharing in their profits, do not share in their losses. The expression, 'I am spending a lot to run this business' by your employer should not be your concern. If the reward is not commensurate with the work, leave. Nor let anybody whine you.

2. Never you feel ashamed of that hustle that puts money in your account. The same people you are trying to impress will mock you when you go broke and not able to fend for yourself.

3. Having children from different women is a recipe for premium regrets later in life. The possibility of being abandoned in old age is great. Use your brain and not your penis.

4. Do not allow people to use the expression 'You are stingy' to scare you. Check well, most of the people saying such have never contributed anything meaningful to your life before.

5. Young man, 95% of your time in the university should be focused on your studies and future prospects. Check well, there are more male students having multiple carry-overs, extra years, poor CGPA than the females. It's not as if the females are more intelligent, but they are more tricky and manipulative.

6. Never you bring in any girl to live with you when she is not married to you. You are just feeding and grooming another man's wife.

7. No matter how lucrative your business is, never sponsor any girl in school if she is not your wife. You go cry nwii for Nnewi.

8. Oftentimes, respect your mother's advice when it comes to marriage. She is a woman and sees your partner deeper than you do. You might be blinded by love, but she is not.

9. Avoid excessive intake of processed foods, too much alcohol, and drugs. Your internal body organs will suffer for it.

10. If you are not from a financially stable background, please avoid early marriage. You may never recover from it till you hit the grave.

Rubyjade:
I agree with some of these points, but I think a few of them are presented too absolutely. Life, relationships, business and family don't always work in black and white.

1. Don't allow anyone to exploit you financially, but don't confuse employment with profit-sharing.
An employee doesn't necessarily have to share in a company's profits to deserve fair pay. At the same time, employers are allowed to struggle, make losses and control their costs. The real issue is whether the agreed salary is fair for the work being done. If it isn't, negotiate or leave.

2. There is absolutely no shame in honest work.
If a legitimate hustle feeds you, pays your bills and keeps you independent, do it with your chest. But don't romanticise struggling either. The goal should be to earn honestly while continuously improving your financial position.

3. Having children with multiple women can create serious complications, but the problem isn't simply the number of women.
The real issue is responsibility. A man who has children must be emotionally, financially and physically present in their lives. Whether he has one partner or more, irresponsible parenting can produce regret and broken relationships.

4. Being financially responsible isn't the same thing as being stingy.
However, don't use "people are just calling me stingy" as an excuse to become selfish. Learn the difference between generosity, financial discipline and unnecessary spending. You can have a good heart and still have boundaries.

5. University should be taken seriously, but let's stop turning academic success into a gender competition.
Some students, male and female, are focused; others aren't. Some are brilliant, some struggle, and some discover their strengths outside the classroom. Encourage young men to study, build skills, network and prepare for life—but don't teach them that women are the competition.

6. Living with someone you're not married to isn't automatically a mistake.
People have different circumstances. What matters is whether both adults understand the arrangement, contribute fairly, respect each other and have clearly defined boundaries. Marriage isn't the only thing that makes two adults capable of living responsibly together.

7. Supporting someone else's education doesn't automatically mean you're sponsoring another man's wife.
You can support a sibling, friend, relative, mentee or even someone you simply believe deserves an opportunity. The key is to give without creating an unhealthy sense of ownership or expecting romantic/sexual returns.

8. Respect your mother's advice, but don't outsource your marriage to your mother.
She may have valuable experience and genuinely want the best for you. But ultimately, you're the one who will live with your spouse. Listen carefully, investigate concerns objectively, pray/reflect if that's important to you, and make your own informed decision.

9. This one deserves emphasis.
Excessive alcohol, drug use and poor nutrition can have serious consequences. Take care of your body while you're young. You don't want to spend your later years trying to repair damage that could have been prevented.

10. Financial stability matters in marriage, but don't make the mistake of believing you must become rich before you can marry.
Marriage requires maturity, responsibility, communication and a realistic financial plan. There are people who married young and built together successfully, just as there are financially comfortable people whose marriages collapsed.

The bigger lesson for young men is this:

Don't live your life based on pressure, ego, lust, comparison or the need to impress people. Build yourself. Protect your finances. Choose your friends and partners carefully. Take responsibility for your decisions. And most importantly, learn to think for yourself.

Not every piece of advice needs to be accepted wholesale simply because it came from someone older or more experienced. Take the wisdom, question the assumptions, and apply what actually makes sense to your life.

Qloud69:
Find love in your broke era. If you don't, never settle for a poor woman.

AlabiKILLER2023:
Mrbanks

Is an example

Jmichael1:
I made my 1st 2miter through mrbanks predictions

CorrectionFLuid:
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Are you a man?